I met a Libra man three months ago. We had one date. Made a second date, but he did not show and I did not hear from him for two months. He contacted me out of the blue three weeks, which lead to us seeing each other again. He says he thinks of me very often and he is absolutely crazy about me. Can I take that to the bank?
Can I take that to the bank?
So if he says all he wants is me and nothing else matters, I can believe what he is saying? I don't know if Libra's are honest and truthful all the time and I have been hurt plenty before, so I just need to run this past impartial advice.
I am questioning the character of Libra males. I do not know a lot of Libra males and I wanted to get an opinion and not questions. LOL.

I would be very careful, don't get sucked in, it's like a scam but your emotions are being played.

Posted by MariskaIf I were stood up without any explanation what so ever. You are out the door and don't let it hit you on the way out sorry.
I met a Libra man three months ago. We had one date. Made a second date, but he did not show and I did not hear from him for two months. He contacted me out of the blue three weeks, which lead to us seeing each other again. He says he thinks of me very often and he is absolutely crazy about me. Can I take that to the bank?
BTW - A Libra will charm the pants off of you! Not that it's a bad thing, but a Libra will whisper all those sweet nothings you want to hear and then some. He is the ladies man of men 😄
Always follow your gut instinct is my advise, I am surprised you saw him the second time (assuming no explanation was given to why he stood you up)
This is the advice from a Libra to you, but then I am just telling you want you want to hear right :-)
You are absolutely right. How stupid am I. Sometimes it just helps to hear what other people say and once I read the response and I look at my question again. I think. PHFFFF!!! I am worth more than that.

hmmmm - actions speak much louder than words - and so give him one more chance if you want but that's all girl - go by his actions and do not get played into his sweet words - some men can be just bad but you don't deserve that

Posted by MariskaExactly he fucked up by standing you up. That charm o meter of his will be well in the red.... so much so he will have birds eating out of your hands... puppy dogs licking your feet and the clouds raining rose petals. It's up to you to remove the rose tinted glasses 🙂
You are absolutely right. How stupid am I. Sometimes it just helps to hear what other people say and once I read the response and I look at my question again. I think. PHFFFF!!! I am worth more than that.

As @tcta mentioned, when all else fails go back to the golden rule, actions speak louder than words.
He stood you up? Then his words don't mean shit.
Give it more time. Be very very cautious. Keep a I'll believe when I see it attitude because words are very cheap. And from what I gather, words from Libra men in the early stages of courting are even cheaper than most. No right thinking bank would lay any stock in them.
He stood you up? Then his words don't mean shit.
Give it more time. Be very very cautious. Keep a I'll believe when I see it attitude because words are very cheap. And from what I gather, words from Libra men in the early stages of courting are even cheaper than most. No right thinking bank would lay any stock in them.

Did you ever tell him you're bothered by the fact that he stood u up once and you're having a difficult time trusting him now

Posted by MariskaHe stood you up and you're questioning whether you should take him serously? ? Why is he even allowed a phone call from you? He would have been blocked.
I met a Libra man three months ago. We had one date. Made a second date, but he did not show and I did not hear from him for two months. He contacted me out of the blue three weeks, which lead to us seeing each other again. He says he thinks of me very often and he is absolutely crazy about me. Can I take that to the bank?

He's full of shit. You coming here to confirm this tells me that your gut feeling picked up on this bullshit too.
He's just making up a lot of fairy tale shit because whoever the reason (and yes, "who") was why he stood you up, didn't pan out, and now he's back, settling for you.
If he truly had been thinking about you nonstop, he would have been in touch. Not disappeared for 2 months. He does this shit because it works on other women. Don't let it work on you.
Personally, I wouldn't have given him the time of day when he came sniffing around again.
When guys come sniffing around after such a long no contact period, they want something self serving and it's usually not in YOUR best interest.
He's just making up a lot of fairy tale shit because whoever the reason (and yes, "who") was why he stood you up, didn't pan out, and now he's back, settling for you.
If he truly had been thinking about you nonstop, he would have been in touch. Not disappeared for 2 months. He does this shit because it works on other women. Don't let it work on you.
Personally, I wouldn't have given him the time of day when he came sniffing around again.
When guys come sniffing around after such a long no contact period, they want something self serving and it's usually not in YOUR best interest.

Posted by LibrasettingYou're an immature cunt. Who would want to date someone who played such games?
Lol woman just hate us Libra men...I'm speaking for myself and no other Libra man but I have shit test just like you woman do.sounds like you failed a shit test to me cuz if I stood you up I'm hoping you gonna call and bitch me out ? it shows you care and must really like me. If you pass I'll most definitely make it up to you ?
This isn't women hating "Libra" dudes, it's women hating dudes who do this retarded shit. You don't deserve to be with anyone until you learn this isn't how you treat others, you selfish ass.

Posted by LibrasettingHow would you 'make it up'?
Lol woman just hate us Libra men...I'm speaking for myself and no other Libra man but I have shit test just like you woman do.sounds like you failed a shit test to me cuz if I stood you up I'm hoping you gonna call and bitch me out ? it shows you care and must really like me. If you pass I'll most definitely make it up to you ?

Posted by topesIt's fucking sad that he thinks it's perfectly okay and justified to behave in such a manner. Karma is gonna bite him hard in his tiny peen, that's for sure.
Lol Rocky. Set that c bomb straight..

Posted by MariskaYou'll get questions for alot of your questions around here doll. Theres not much cutting to the chase and being straightforward and theres alot of suspicion. LOL. But to answer your Q i'm not sure i'd take it at face value....I think when a guy is at it astrology goes out the window-theyre one size fits all!
I am questioning the character of Libra males. I do not know a lot of Libra males and I wanted to get an opinion and not questions. LOL.
Although in saying that a Libra I was with when I was younger gave me quite a bit of sweet talk, said he would marry me one day-that went out the window for me when he moved countries to play football and I got on with my life. Then he pops up 5 yrs later to fulfill his prophecy. I was like WTF! It took for me to re engage with him to realise I no longer loved him and it was hopeless.

Posted by Librasetting
No she didn't, she's a mad woman who failed a shit test and she knows it because woman have a million shit test and now she knows how it feels cuz she failed with a Libra man and got hurt. Your stupid mind games just don't work on us so you can't play your stupid little games that woman like you like to play and that seems to piss you off doesn't it..besides I don't date because you just demonstrated why I don't always thinking he's a player or he's cheating on his wife or gf with someone else no thanks I'll pass on that shit and save myself from all the stress and headaches and money but that shit pisses me off cuz you think all Libra men are cheating whores which we're not it's why I stopped dating why continue to ask woman out when woman think like this it's pretty ugly too me...well we are whores but i rather just be one person's whore. You're also the one who's ranting and raving I didn't come here to fight I simply gave my opinion on what it could be she's not his gf it's called dating for a reason so he may very well be seeing someone else I don't know just like you don't know so you shouldn't assume but it seems to you his focus should only be on her but i bet you think it be okay for her to date several men at once tho and think that shit is okay. He's a Libra he could just be recharging his energy or simply trying to decide what he wants!


No dear, but it's clear that you are. ...at least your attitude toward dating and women is. If you're older, then I'm sorry, but you should be embarrassed of yourself. I mean really, this chick gets stood up by a loser who ghosts her and comes back and you see nothing wrong with dude's behavior?
Fuckboy mentality. Women are not commodities/objects to obtain for your piss poor egos. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll really start to understand women and dating.
Until then, you're just a sad fuck who thinks he has it figured out like he's some "alpha" but really is just sad fuck "beta" any self respecting woman wouldn't give the time of day for.
Fuckboy mentality. Women are not commodities/objects to obtain for your piss poor egos. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll really start to understand women and dating.
Until then, you're just a sad fuck who thinks he has it figured out like he's some "alpha" but really is just sad fuck "beta" any self respecting woman wouldn't give the time of day for.

Posted by LibrasettingIf you stood me up I'd do the same. You'll be watching that icecream melt by yourself.Posted by LadyNeptuneBy cooking her a candle light dinner then enjoying some nice warm brownies with a scoop of vanilla ice cream thats slightly melted with chocolate syrup with a cherry on top next to a fire place while my lips explore your body (if I'm permitted) but I'll settle for cuddles too but we both know you can't resist? or its gonna be damn hard for you and that's okay if you do it only makes it better when it does happen ?Posted by LibrasettingHow would you 'make it up'?
Lol woman just hate us Libra men...I'm speaking for myself and no other Libra man but I have shit test just like you woman do.sounds like you failed a shit test to me cuz if I stood you up I'm hoping you gonna call and bitch me out ? it shows you care and must really like me. If you pass I'll most definitely make it up to you ?click to expand
Do better.

Posted by Librasetting...did you NOT read the OP— What the fuck, you moron. Sit the fuck down and stop bothering those of us who actually paid attention to the OP and are giving her legitimate advice.
okay well don't put words in my mouth cuz i didnt even know he ghosted her then came back I thought it was just one date with them seeing each other for a while..damn woman you should know I'm a man I not gonna read everything I don't have the damn time!


Posted by LibrasettingHow does that work. Figuratively like sailor moon powering up? Or do you mean the way he is fucking other women has something to do with being a libra...?
No she didn't, she's a mad woman who failed a shit test and she knows it because woman have a million shit test and now she knows how it feels cuz she failed with a Libra man and got hurt. Your stupid mind games just don't work on us so you can't play your stupid little games that woman like you like to play and that seems to piss you off doesn't it..besides I don't date because you just demonstrated why I don't always thinking he's a player or he's cheating on his wife or gf with someone else no thanks I'll pass on that shit and save myself from all the stress and headaches and money but that shit pisses me off cuz you think all Libra men are cheating whores which we're not it's why I stopped dating why continue to ask woman out when woman think like this it's pretty ugly too me...well we are whores but i rather just be one person's whore. You're also the one who's ranting and raving I didn't come here to fight I simply gave my opinion on what it could be she's not his gf it's called dating for a reason so he may very well be seeing someone else I don't know just like you don't know so you shouldn't assume but it seems to you his focus should only be on her but i bet you think it be okay for her to date several men at once tho and think that shit is okay. He's a Libra he could just be recharging his energy or simply trying to decide what he wants!
Is it indecisiveness in that short term, or never being able to commit to a choice.

Posted by MariskaAside from this very obvious flattery to your ego, has he complimented you with something specific to you? Has he been listening to who you are.
He says he thinks of me very often and he is absolutely crazy about me. Can I take that to the bank?
If it was me as a libra and i was really crazy about you i would never let that second date slip unless i had someone else or it was a matter of life and death... I dislike inconsistency i would want something steady for a start
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