i need to grow up (Page 2)

Mirroring is not something we do consciously by the way. All of a sudden we realise that we are doing it. Nothing is ever planned with us and that includes that.

thanks,

everyday..i will find one thing that will tell me he loves me and everytime i will get scared...everyday too i'll get more scared.

I don't want this to happen again..why do I fear love, when i also know its a beautiful thing. I want this to work. I know we can work it out and it's going to be great but I am scared...

i know this is a whole new topic- but what do i do? i wanted to fly, but i am scared.

I know. One day at a time...

"i know this is a whole new topic- but what do i do? i wanted to fly, but i am scared."

You have to let go. Back in high school I was taking drama classes and one of the excersizes was to pair up with someone, then one person would walk foreward a couple steps and close their eyes and wrap their arms around their toreso so they were completely vulnerable and fall backwads, the other person had to catch them. That is what you have to do.

Nic - so true. Especially with a Libra. After the whole "I need space, blah blah" conversation we had, my Libra's been closer than ever. I think because I reacted by saying "fine" and went about my business making plans with friends, doing my thing, he realized that I'm comfortable on my own and confident in myself. Seems that's all he needed to know. He's now into scheduling out our time together, planning ahead, etc. and that has never been part of our routine (we're both very "in the moment" people). However, if he will operate better having his time planned out more (more time for his friends, etc.) I'm all for it!

Letting go means taking a big risk with your feelings, and that's when you know you are falling. It's scary as hell, but we all have to take risks. Remember that he is taking his with you as well.....