is he into me or not ?

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lilliverpoolsangel
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hi all, just wanted to run this by some of you to get your take on it.

please be kind .. (thanks)

ive been on two dates with a Libra man and both confused me a little, he is extremely reserved and its difficult to pick up how he is feeling by his body language after our first date he texted me telling me he was upset with himself for not kissing me but he also doesn't rush into things like that. he then invited me out to a friends birthday but it got cancelled and I didn't end up going. on our second date he invited his best friend and his best friends fiancé and I felt a bit strange about it since it was only our second date but I ended up enjoying the night despite it. he kissed me goodbye.

all of the above makes it seem like this is just normal courting but he is extremely short over text messages after the second date he texted me to tell him when I got home safely and then thanked me for the lovely evening, he then apologised for inviting his friends but said that he hoped I was okay with them around because they are a big part of his daily life. then he immediately said goodnight.

we hardly text and its difficult for me to decipher whether or not this might lead to something because he is so reserved and closed off all signs look somewhat good just maybe need reassurance and advice ?

much appreciated

an over thinking cancerian woman xx
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lilliverpoolsangel
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Posted by Erinelda
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Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?
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yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon
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Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?

yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon
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Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.

We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.

Keep on going and keep us posted!

Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?

Good luck!
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lilliverpoolsangel
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?

yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon

Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.

We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.

Keep on going and keep us posted!

Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?

Good luck!
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thank you so much !! , will do 🙂
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how long ago was the first date? when was the second date?

first date was last Saturday

second was this Saturday he asked me to do friday but I was busy
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i think it would be hard for a libra to firmly make their mind up in a week.

he might have brought his friends because they wanted to meet you or he might want their input in what he thinks about you.

i would say he is interested but we change our minds and often. i would just concentrate on deciding if you like him or not. you hardly know each other. focus on learning more about him and work out if he is someone you want to see again.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?

yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon

Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.

We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.

Keep on going and keep us posted!

Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?

Good luck!
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**update**

hey guys, for those who are still following the thread there has been progression !!

he has since invited me out to a music competition that his friend was judging so I met more of his friends. one of his other friends also mentioned how they have been pushing him to meet me or to get him to ask me to join them when they are out. he also told him to keep "dragging" me along to thinks to which my Libra man responded "I plan on it" so that felt good. he also finally helped out with the body language thing as he did hold my hand throughout the evening and had his hand on my leg other wise.

there was an issue at the end of the night as he was arguing with his friend and it got tense so I left because I am a crab and I do not know how to handle conflict. I did apologise the next day and told him I would make it up too him for just leaving him alone, he then told me I can make it up to him by letting him cook a meal for me..

honestly feel like things are headed in the right direction now
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Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?

yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon

Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.

We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.

Keep on going and keep us posted!

Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?

Good luck!

**update**

hey guys, for those who are still following the thread there has been progression !!

he has since invited me out to a music competition that his friend was judging so I met more of his friends. one of his other friends also mentioned how they have been pushing him to meet me or to get him to ask me to join them when they are out. he also told him to keep "dragging" me along to thinks to which my Libra man responded "I plan on it" so that felt good. he also finally helped out with the body language thing as he did hold my hand throughout the evening and had his hand on my leg other wise.

there was an issue at the end of the night as he was arguing with his friend and it got tense so I left because I am a crab and I do not know how to handle conflict. I did apologise the next day and told him I would make it up too him for just leaving him alone, he then told me I can make it up to him by letting him cook a meal for me..

honestly feel like things are headed in the right direction now
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He seems like a good man into you...

Keep updating us. Too many bad stories here. Hopefully yours will be a breath of fresh air...💕
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Funny I just had my 2nd date with a Libra too. He’s very slow! Turns out he has a Virgo Venus and I think explains a lot.

Anyway I had never dated a Libra until a year ago and now this is the 4th 😂 they have all been so different! The first 3 had Scorpio placements and I really think it drove them in different ways than I’m used to. But anyway, the 3rd one had me meet him on the first date at his softball game.. with a bunch of his friends there😂 turns out he wanted their opinion of me lol he ended up really liking me, but I didn’t like how he was treating me & he was super clingy & codependent .. so didn’t last long.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda
Posted by lilliverpoolsangel
Posted by Erinelda

I don't see the part that has you confused? How much can he even know after two dates, let alone a bunch of strangers on the internet?

I completely get that.

The progression seems normal if that is what you are asking?

yeah that's what I was wondering just cause in my opinion it hasn't gone as "traditionally" as it would normally. I just was not expecting to meet his closest friends so soon

Gurl!!! It means he finds you good to introduce to your friends.

We are here more used to more sexual quicker but you have a traditional dating.

Keep on going and keep us posted!

Nothing wrong is going on. Keep your eyes open and ears as well. But don’t read too much into nothing. Ok?

Good luck!

**update**

hey guys, for those who are still following the thread there has been progression !!

he has since invited me out to a music competition that his friend was judging so I met more of his friends. one of his other friends also mentioned how they have been pushing him to meet me or to get him to ask me to join them when they are out. he also told him to keep "dragging" me along to thinks to which my Libra man responded "I plan on it" so that felt good. he also finally helped out with the body language thing as he did hold my hand throughout the evening and had his hand on my leg other wise.

there was an issue at the end of the night as he was arguing with his friend and it got tense so I left because I am a crab and I do not know how to handle conflict. I did apologise the next day and told him I would make it up too him for just leaving him alone, he then told me I can make it up to him by letting him cook a meal for me..

honestly feel like things are headed in the right direction now

He seems like a good man into you...

Keep updating us. Too many bad stories here. Hopefully yours will be a breath of fresh air...





Update**

Sorry to disappoint anyone who was rooting for this union but it was too good to be true

He stood me up twice and then kind of brushed it off and half apologised as if it didn’t matter

Walking away now before any of this gets worst literally can not afford to be hurt again
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