It's not a Libra thing. He's just an idiot

Ok guys. I really don't know how to handle this situation. I have asked that my roommate not bring her brother over anymore.

We had a ONE_NIGHT stand back in February!. That's all it was for me. I have avoided him since. He has continued to message me. Especially when I come in at night. It's like he's waiting for me to come home. His messages are not just conversation. They are constantly asking me to come into his room. He was there last weekend. I had a seizure so naturally I wasn't feeling well at all. No check on me or anything. Not worried about that. I really don't care. What bothers me is that he DID message me once again asking me to come to his room. I finally told him no and TOLD him once again not to bother me anymore. I have literally walked past him as if he doesn't even exist. Not even spoken to him. Suddenly I start getting all of these hateful, nasty messages from him. Why is he doing this?

I'm at the point of feeling uncomfortable in my own house.

I have asked my roomy not to bring him back twice now.

Apparently, she is bringing him over again this weekend. I mean, what do I do? I'm like WTF.

If she continues to bring him over, what do you suggest for me to get him to leave me alone?

oh my god, you're the Capricorn aren't you.

Here we go again. If you don't care why mention he didn't check on you after the seizure? I'm reading this as he's getting mixed signals and the average man, regardless of sign can't read the room. A month ago y'all were just cuddling.

You already said he's pretty small and you're bigger. Just body slam him if he gets handsy 😂

Posted by Findingbalance
Idk about him but it sounds like you have a bigger issue with your roommate. Are you both on the lease? Do you need to continue living there? She seems to be just as problematic.

Sadly, I can't move. I can't afford it alone and she pays her part all of the time, on time. That in itself is hard to find. We just signed a new lease in January before he started coming around

Posted by LuckyLibra7
oh my god, you're the Capricorn aren't you.

Here we go again. If you don't care why mention he didn't check on you after the seizure? I'm reading this as he's getting mixed signals and the average man, regardless of sign can't read the room.

Rejection breeds obsession so he lashes out.

I am a Cap. I never mentioned his not checking up to him. He told his sister that I was just butt hurt over the fact that he didn't check up on me, only asked for a POA. I would have rather him NOT have checked on me nor messaged me to come to his room.

Just completely leave me alone. I've been avoiding him for weeks now. Avoiding messages only to continue getting them as well as his presence. Just go away for GS

I can't just move out of my place. I never asked for him to come over. He was just there one day when I got home from work. No one ever asked if I was ok with it. I have spoken out about it several times now, and it falls on deaf ears. Am I just supposed to be uncomfortable or find a place to go while he's there. C'mon!

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Should have honored the bro code 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Well, considering I'm not a BRO, I have no idea what that is....

Posted by Melantho
Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.

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oh my god, you're the Capricorn aren't you.


Here we go again. If you don't care why mention he didn't check on you after the seizure? I'm reading this as he's getting mixed signals and the average man, regardless of sign can't read the room.


Rejection breeds obsession so he lashes out.

I am a Cap. I never mentioned his not checking up to him. He told his sister that I was just butt hurt over the fact that he didn't check up on me, only asked for a POA. I would have rather him NOT have checked on me nor messaged me to come to his room.

Just completely leave me alone. I've been avoiding him for weeks now. Avoiding messages only to continue getting them as well as his presence. Just go away for GS

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All I'm reading is you avoiding..

Very strange situation for you to directly tell your roommate the issue and she behaves as if she doesn't care. You didn't include her reply..

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Posted by Melantho
Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.

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Good you blocked him. Show those messages to your roomie so she understands how psychotic her brother is acting and why you don't want him around.

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Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.
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It's her brother so he probably will keep on visiting her. He has a problem with you, not with her and you don't have a monopoly on the home. Is he bothering you also IN the home or what's the deal?

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Go read her previous posts.

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Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.

It's her brother so he probably will keep on visiting her. He has a problem with you, not with her and you don't have a monopoly on the home. Is he bothering you also IN the home or what's the deal?

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He is making comments a crap when he knows that I can hear them. It's just uncomfortable. She has asked me not to bring certain people over to the house and I have respected her request. I have also pointed that out. It's no different.

It's the things he says bc I don't respond to his crap. I know that he has a not so nice past with other females, and I have also pointed that out to her. Her problem is, she thinks I'm the best thing that could happen to him bc I have my crap together. She's desperately hoping we will become something. There is no chance. I don't need a project. I have made if very clear to them both way back in March that there is nothing there and it was strictly a ONE_NIGHT stand for me.

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oh my god, you're the Capricorn aren't you.

Here we go again. If you don't care why mention he didn't check on you after the seizure? I'm reading this as he's getting mixed signals and the average man, regardless of sign can't read the room.

Rejection breeds obsession so he lashes out.

I am a Cap. I never mentioned his not checking up to him. He told his sister that I was just butt hurt over the fact that he didn't check up on me, only asked for a POA. I would have rather him NOT have checked on me nor messaged me to come to his room.

Just completely leave me alone. I've been avoiding him for weeks now. Avoiding messages only to continue getting them as well as his presence. Just go away for GS
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All I'm reading is you avoiding..


Very strange situation for you to directly tell your roommate the issue and she behaves as if she doesn't care. You didn't include her reply..

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I have made it clear to them both where I stand. She keeps bringing him over. It's like No one hears me. Her responses are that she understands. SO, STOP bringing him over. He got himself into his own predicament. I'm sorry he gets bored at his parents' house. If he wasn't being a douch and just moving on then we wouldn't be here. He could come over and it wouldn't matter.

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Grow some balls, tell him you’re not interested but out of respect of his sister, your roommate you’re going to be cool.

Seriously, you fucked him and knowing it came with some real consequences then claim victim that your roommate is choosing HER BROTHER over your emotional avoidance and immaturity.

Get some boundaries and learn to use your voice. Non of this would have been an issue had you chosen to behave as an adult.

UUMM, I have told them both. Not once, but several times. I could care less if she chose him over me. FACT is, we live together and she has requested that I not bring certain people to the house. I have respected her wishes. SO, please tell me why mine request isn't important since you know so much.

I have boundaries and have made them clear as well, by ignoring and finally having to block him.

At this point in this situation I am becoming the GD victim. It's been more f'n stress than it's worth.

I have NEVER had a problem standing my ground. That's why my circle stays small.

I have behaved as an adult, he just isn't.

All I want to know is how TF can I possibly get rid of his A $ $ ? This shit is literally what makes people become psycho.

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Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.
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Good you blocked him. Show those messages to your roomie so she understands how psychotic her brother is acting and why you don't want him around.

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I have sent them to her. At this point, rather than losing my mind, I guess I will just find a place to go while he is there. Then he can't be coming and knocking on my door or wall.

All I want is to know what I can possibly do to make him not want to come back over.

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Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.

It's her brother so he probably will keep on visiting her. He has a problem with you, not with her and you don't have a monopoly on the home. Is he bothering you also IN the home or what's the deal?
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He is making comments a crap when he knows that I can hear them. It's just uncomfortable. She has asked me not to bring certain people over to the house and I have respected her request. I have also pointed that out. It's no different.

It's the things he says bc I don't respond to his crap. I know that he has a not so nice past with other females, and I have also pointed that out to her. Her problem is, she thinks I'm the best thing that could happen to him bc I have my crap together. She's desperately hoping we will become something. There is no chance. I don't need a project. I have made if very clear to them both way back in March that there is nothing there and it was strictly a ONE_NIGHT stand for me.
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That's their issue, not yours. They are free to talk. Just MOVE ON with or without someone. Next time make a "messy list" of not to sleep with people. Like colleagues, family, friend of friends etc.

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I don't care if they talk. They are family and I would never think of coming in between that, but it's my issue when I live in the house and he's knocking on my door and wall when I don't respond to him.

Posted by Saturn_Returns
You were singing a completely different tune a month ago.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-male-and-capricorn-female-15588325/

Also, why the hell would you want to get sexually involved with a recovering addict, especially one that regularly visits your home?

lol. I know what I said in the past.

It happened. We had both agreed that we weren't interested in anything. I didn't want to develop feelings so I cut it off, as I should have. I'm still not looking for anything with anyone. I like my freedom.

No one is perfect.

It's not fair to ask your roommate to not invite her brother over to visit her. He's a close relative so perhaps she could inform you he will be coming over before his visit so you can arrange to be away from home at that time. This is what happens when you have a hook up with the wrong person and put yourself in this position. You know what the say, don't sh-t where you eat. Why were you catching feelings for this guy before and now that you have you don't want him around?

You had sex with a recovering addict plus he's opened up to you so he's probably pretty attached. From my experience addicts also have a poor sense of boundaries. To these kinds of people, no is never a no, it's just Try Harder or Try Again Later. After going so far you did do a 180 to avoiding/ignoring which is confusing especially after he's probs really looking forward to your company and all. Sounds like you're being more avoidant because you don't want to become the bad guy. But to get what you want (which is him to leave you alone and stop coming over) you need to be viciously upfront and present some consequences / consistent boundary / be a total bitch that unfortunately will have to hurt him (emotionally, not physically). You can't do all that and then 180 and expect to still be the good guy.

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Grow some balls, tell him you’re not interested but out of respect of his sister, your roommate you’re going to be cool.



Seriously, you fucked him and knowing it came with some real consequences then claim victim that your roommate is choosing HER BROTHER over your emotional avoidance and immaturity.



Get some boundaries and learn to use your voice. Non of this would have been an issue had you chosen to behave as an adult.

UUMM, I have told them both. Not once, but several times. I could care less if she chose him over me. FACT is, we live together and she has requested that I not bring certain people to the house. I have respected her wishes. SO, please tell me why mine request isn't important since you know so much.

I have boundaries and have made them clear as well, by ignoring and finally having to block him.

At this point in this situation I am becoming the GD victim. It's been more f'n stress than it's worth.

I have NEVER had a problem standing my ground. That's why my circle stays small.

I have behaved as an adult, he just isn't.

All I want to know is how TF can I possibly get rid of his A $ $ ? This shit is literally what makes people become psycho.

I think once you slept with a roomies family member it opened potential for a massive issue.

I’ve dealt with some serious stalking behaviors from men so I get the frustration.

At this point neither one of them are interested in respecting your space. So I would remove myself while he plans to visit.

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He's gone for good now. Apparently he took My son's gun out of our gun cabinet and used it in a pic that he sent to his Ex. He won't be back.

Block him and stop answering his text. Pretty simple.

When he's there, ignore him like usual.

You don't have much right to ask a paying roommate to not have her family over.

You act like he's stalking you but you continue to accept his advances through text.

Put up a sign on your door that says Do not knock or Do not disturb or a viscous dog sign.

It's her brother so she's not going to listen. If you want to be petty about it....invite the people she asked you to not have over anymore to come over and see how she feels about the situation then.

Posted by Saturn_Returns
You were singing a completely different tune a month ago.


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-male-and-capricorn-female-15588325/


Also, why the hell would you want to get sexually involved with a recovering addict, especially one that regularly visits your home?

And since the ons, all the sudden moved in when she was only going over to their house on the weekends as well. Something seems fishy about this story. 🧐

"I am at their house just about every weekend as well."

The balls to be in someone elses house and request that their family doesn't come over is WILD! 😆

Posted by saggurl88
Block him and stop answering his text. Pretty simple.
When he's there, ignore him like usual.
You don't have much right to ask a paying roommate to not have her family over.
You act like he's stalking you but you continue to accept his advances through text.
Put up a sign on your door that says Do not knock or Do not disturb or a viscous dog sign.

If you read the post you would see that I have avoided and ignored him for weeks until I literally answered one message after my seizure and TOLD him to leave me alone, finally blocking him. So no, dealing with this idiot is not easy. He is either stupid of doesn't take the hint.

Posted by Midnite_Riser
You're a Capricorn, you're used to being cold. Continue to give him the cold shoulder, and keep him blocked. He should give up eventually.

He was caught sending a pic of a gun to his ex threatening her. Come to find out, it was my son's gun and it was when he was on a business trip. We don't usually lock the gun cabinet bc we don't usually have people over.

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Go cold turkey. Doesn't sound like a person you can reason with. You still have a good rapport with your roomie?

Yeah, other than her not respecting what I ask her not to do, we are fine. I have gone cold turkey on him. I have now blocked his number after a really hateful message Monday morning. I just want to not want to come over again. I thought ignoring his existence would make him the uncomfortable enough to not want to come back over.
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Good you blocked him. Show those messages to your roomie so she understands how psychotic her brother is acting and why you don't want him around.
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I have sent them to her. At this point, rather than losing my mind, I guess I will just find a place to go while he is there. Then he can't be coming and knocking on my door or wall.

All I want is to know what I can possibly do to make him not want to come back over.

Hire a big mean BF-on-call. Buy him a sandwich when you need him to come and spend time with him in front of the bozo.

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That's hilarious, but I don't want people to be hanging out at my house. That is my safe, peaceful space, and don't want it disturbed.

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You're a Capricorn, you're used to being cold. Continue to give him the cold shoulder, and keep him blocked. He should give up eventually.

He was caught sending a pic of a gun to his ex threatening her. Come to find out, it was my son's gun and it was when he was on a business trip. We don't usually lock the gun cabinet bc we don't usually have people over.

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So whose house is it? You said it was theirs a month ago and you were just visiting— Now you say "we" like they are rummaging through your sons stuff and gun cabinet in your house.

You should move out if you feel threatened. It's only been a month. Find another place to crash. You're 50, you know what you should be doing. You're not a naïve kid.

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You're a Capricorn, you're used to being cold. Continue to give him the cold shoulder, and keep him blocked. He should give up eventually.

He was caught sending a pic of a gun to his ex threatening her. Come to find out, it was my son's gun and it was when he was on a business trip. We don't usually lock the gun cabinet bc we don't usually have people over.

So whose house is it? You said it was theirs a month ago and you were just visiting— Now you say "we" like they are rummaging through your sons stuff and gun cabinet in your house.

You should move out if you feel threatened. It's only been a month. Find another place to crash. You're 50, you know what you should be doing. You're not a naïve kid.

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It is a house that me and my roommate rent together. That statement that I visit their house every weekend should have said that I visit my kids every weekend, and I have change it to say that. No wonder everyone was confused.

I do not go to other people's houses unless it's my kids, nor do I want others at mine. I did not know this was going to be an ongoing thing with her brother, nor did I know that she was hoping he and I would make a go at it until recently.

I can't change this man! I don't want a project.

I don't feel threatened, I'm uncomfortable bc I don't feel like I can be myself in my own house. You know, walk from the bathroom to my room in my robe, go in the kitchen and make something to eat without him making his presence known, he seems to be waiting on me to get home when I'm out at night and he messages me or hits the wall to get my attention.

Believe me, if it were that easy to just up and move I would have back in March when this crap was continuing to go on. There is a huge housing shortage here and I can't afford other places to rent. I have always had my own place until it was destroyed in a storm, now I'm a roommate, bc I can't afford a new place of my own. This place has tripled in cost in just two years, but wages have been stagnet. SO no, it's not that easy to just up and move.

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You're a Capricorn, you're used to being cold. Continue to give him the cold shoulder, and keep him blocked. He should give up eventually.

He was caught sending a pic of a gun to his ex threatening her. Come to find out, it was my son's gun and it was when he was on a business trip. We don't usually lock the gun cabinet bc we don't usually have people over.

So whose house is it? You said it was theirs a month ago and you were just visiting— Now you say "we" like they are rummaging through your sons stuff and gun cabinet in your house.


You should move out if you feel threatened. It's only been a month. Find another place to crash. You're 50, you know what you should be doing. You're not a naïve kid.

It is a house that me and my roommate rent together. That statement that I visit their house every weekend should have said that I visit my kids every weekend, and I have change it to say that. No wonder everyone was confused.
I do not go to other people's houses unless it's my kids, nor do I want others at mine. I did not know this was going to be an ongoing thing with her brother, nor did I know that she was hoping he and I would make a go at it until recently.
I can't change this man! I don't want a project.
I don't feel threatened, I'm uncomfortable bc I don't feel like I can be myself in my own house. You know, walk from the bathroom to my room in my robe, go in the kitchen and make something to eat without him making his presence known, he seems to be waiting on me to get home when I'm out at night and he messages me or hits the wall to get my attention.
Believe me, if it were that easy to just up and move I would have back in March when this crap was continuing to go on. There is a huge housing shortage here and I can't afford other places to rent. I have always had my own place until it was destroyed in a storm, now I'm a roommate, bc I can't afford a new place of my own. This place has tripled in cost in just two years, but wages have been stagnet. SO no, it's not that easy to just up and move.

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Capricorns are known for being harsh, use your words and tell him you're not interested and you don't want it to turn out to be something you regret because of how he is acting.

That you just would like to go back to normal and be cordial. That it was a one time thing and you're done talking or thinking about it. Tell him it's you and not him. You aren't ready and would appreciate some space.

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You're a Capricorn, you're used to being cold. Continue to give him the cold shoulder, and keep him blocked. He should give up eventually.

He was caught sending a pic of a gun to his ex threatening her. Come to find out, it was my son's gun and it was when he was on a business trip. We don't usually lock the gun cabinet bc we don't usually have people over.

So whose house is it? You said it was theirs a month ago and you were just visiting— Now you say "we" like they are rummaging through your sons stuff and gun cabinet in your house.



You should move out if you feel threatened. It's only been a month. Find another place to crash. You're 50, you know what you should be doing. You're not a naïve kid.

It is a house that me and my roommate rent together. That statement that I visit their house every weekend should have said that I visit my kids every weekend, and I have change it to say that. No wonder everyone was confused.

I do not go to other people's houses unless it's my kids, nor do I want others at mine. I did not know this was going to be an ongoing thing with her brother, nor did I know that she was hoping he and I would make a go at it until recently.

I can't change this man! I don't want a project.

I don't feel threatened, I'm uncomfortable bc I don't feel like I can be myself in my own house. You know, walk from the bathroom to my room in my robe, go in the kitchen and make something to eat without him making his presence known, he seems to be waiting on me to get home when I'm out at night and he messages me or hits the wall to get my attention.

Believe me, if it were that easy to just up and move I would have back in March when this crap was continuing to go on. There is a huge housing shortage here and I can't afford other places to rent. I have always had my own place until it was destroyed in a storm, now I'm a roommate, bc I can't afford a new place of my own. This place has tripled in cost in just two years, but wages have been stagnet. SO no, it's not that easy to just up and move.

Capricorns are known for being harsh, use your words and tell him you're not interested and you don't want it to turn out to be something you regret because of how he is acting.
That you just would like to go back to normal and be cordial. That it was a one time thing and you're done talking or thinking about it. Tell him it's you and not him. You aren't ready and would appreciate some space.

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Thank you. I'm hoping that I won't be put into an uncomfortable situation this weekend. I thought I was being cold, and being cold is definitely easy for me, but apparently he is just dense or something. lol

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oh my god, you're the Capricorn aren't you.

Here we go again. If you don't care why mention he didn't check on you after the seizure? I'm reading this as he's getting mixed signals and the average man, regardless of sign can't read the room.

Rejection breeds obsession so he lashes out.

I am a Cap. I never mentioned his not checking up to him. He told his sister that I was just butt hurt over the fact that he didn't check up on me, only asked for a POA. I would have rather him NOT have checked on me nor messaged me to come to his room.

Just completely leave me alone. I've been avoiding him for weeks now. Avoiding messages only to continue getting them as well as his presence. Just go away for GS
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All I'm reading is you avoiding..


Very strange situation for you to directly tell your roommate the issue and she behaves as if she doesn't care. You didn't include her reply..

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Maybe she’s not she slept with her brother

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Grow some balls, tell him you’re not interested but out of respect of his sister, your roommate you’re going to be cool.





Seriously, you fucked him and knowing it came with some real consequences then claim victim that your roommate is choosing HER BROTHER over your emotional avoidance and immaturity.





Get some boundaries and learn to use your voice. Non of this would have been an issue had you chosen to behave as an adult.

UUMM, I have told them both. Not once, but several times. I could care less if she chose him over me. FACT is, we live together and she has requested that I not bring certain people to the house. I have respected her wishes. SO, please tell me why mine request isn't important since you know so much.



I have boundaries and have made them clear as well, by ignoring and finally having to block him.



At this point in this situation I am becoming the GD victim. It's been more f'n stress than it's worth.



I have NEVER had a problem standing my ground. That's why my circle stays small.



I have behaved as an adult, he just isn't.



All I want to know is how TF can I possibly get rid of his A $ $ ? This shit is literally what makes people become psycho.

I think once you slept with a roomies family member it opened potential for a massive issue.



I’ve dealt with some serious stalking behaviors from men so I get the frustration.



At this point neither one of them are interested in respecting your space. So I would remove myself while he plans to visit.

He's gone for good now. Apparently he took My son's gun out of our gun cabinet and used it in a pic that he sent to his Ex. He won't be back.

Thank goodness! I’ve had a shotgun in my face, it’s no joke. I would def start coning up with a plan B for when that lease is up.

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I'm working on it. Trying to get my credit back to par and hoping the market crashes or slows down here. I have never been a roommate until now except my kids. lol. I don't like having people around my house bc it bothers my peace. We have been roomies for the past two years and it wasn't until December that someone outside has been around. I'm disappointed in what is happening. She has requested that I not bring certain visitors over and I have respected that.

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Grow some balls, tell him you’re not interested but out of respect of his sister, your roommate you’re going to be cool.







Seriously, you fucked him and knowing it came with some real consequences then claim victim that your roommate is choosing HER BROTHER over your emotional avoidance and immaturity.







Get some boundaries and learn to use your voice. Non of this would have been an issue had you chosen to behave as an adult.

UUMM, I have told them both. Not once, but several times. I could care less if she chose him over me. FACT is, we live together and she has requested that I not bring certain people to the house. I have respected her wishes. SO, please tell me why mine request isn't important since you know so much.





I have boundaries and have made them clear as well, by ignoring and finally having to block him.





At this point in this situation I am becoming the GD victim. It's been more f'n stress than it's worth.





I have NEVER had a problem standing my ground. That's why my circle stays small.





I have behaved as an adult, he just isn't.





All I want to know is how TF can I possibly get rid of his A $ $ ? This shit is literally what makes people become psycho.

I think once you slept with a roomies family member it opened potential for a massive issue.





I’ve dealt with some serious stalking behaviors from men so I get the frustration.





At this point neither one of them are interested in respecting your space. So I would remove myself while he plans to visit.

He's gone for good now. Apparently he took My son's gun out of our gun cabinet and used it in a pic that he sent to his Ex. He won't be back.

Thank goodness! I’ve had a shotgun in my face, it’s no joke. I would def start coning up with a plan B for when that lease is up.

I'm working on it. Trying to get my credit back to par and hoping the market crashes or slows down here. I have never been a roommate until now except my kids. lol. I don't like having people around my house bc it bothers my peace. We have been roomies for the past two years and it wasn't until December that someone outside has been around. I'm disappointed in what is happening. She has requested that I not bring certain visitors over and I have respected that.

I’ve very nervous of roommate situations. I had a friend, an older woman who allowed a young kid to move in. He was lovely at first…. Let’s summarize by saying a year later she unexpectedly died, he was stalking me and there was an investigation to see if he had murdered her.

After that, terrified of the concept of roommates.

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I'm so sorry that happened to you. I am not happy being in a roommate situation at all. If at all possible I'd be on my own.

k--a--t--i--e--m--a--c--f--a--r--l--a--n--ed--a--n--g--er-f--i--e--l--d on F,b

Fuck around and find out. Getting a simp boyfriend whos bigger and stronger than him to drag into your mess is the only option.

Posted by GeminiJim
Libras ARE idiots so there's your answer
I didn't read the thread tho because it looks boring

LOL, no biggie. It's all good. Have a great weekend! ;-}}

It’s not a Libra thing. A healthy Libra with no substance issues can easily show detachment. This dude’s just a broken person who you chose to get yourself involved with that comes back like a puppy looking for some luv.