Libra ex boyfriend threatened to call the police if I send him message again

I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

Posted by Marry
I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

he's not worth all your pain - close the door, pick up what's left, and move on

omg take it easy girl.

He's grown and your not mature enough for him sounds like. Either grow up and then wait for him. Or get somebody your own age. I think either way you killed it though

@sierra

This is exactly the answer for your topic : "Have you ever felt bad for someone but also kinda wanna punch them at the same time?"

Marry, I am really sorry you are hurting so much.... but, you have to let him be

PS. maybe this is a troll post?

Posted by miriyahhh
He's grown and your not mature enough for him sounds like. Either grow up and then wait for him. Or get somebody your own age. I think either way you killed it though

Wait for him? Wtf—

Posted by Marry
I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

First you had a 2 month relationship, not 5.

Secondly you're behaving like a psycho.

Thirdly, this has to be a troll post.

Bloody stalkers.

Posted by Marry
I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

Darling! He has a gf. He told you he needs to leave you.

What can you do except nothing?

Nothing!

I feel your pain. It’s sucks! And there is no one in this world will help you. It’s bad but he is a history!

Company lawyer— What have you done so crazy that he is that harsh with you?

It would really make me so mad to the point I would be repulsed by him! Aren’t you feeling shit on? Find your pride and look at it ‘how dare he’?

Posted by Dianna
What are your placements op?

Please don't say Scorpio. We already have a rep

My vote would be pisces.

Posted by Dianna
Well, he sounds like a great big pussy.

He was going to call the cops because you sent him a text?

He could've simply told you to stop contacting him and then blocked your number. He went from cordial straight to police. Why would you want him anyways?

better read it again

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Posted by Dianna
What are your placements op?

Please don't say Scorpio. We already have a rep

My vote would be pisces.

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my vote

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Posted by Dianna
Well, he sounds like a great big pussy.

He was going to call the cops because you sent him a text?

He could've simply told you to stop contacting him and then blocked your number. He went from cordial straight to police. Why would you want him anyways?

better read it again

I know....she was stalkerish BUT I still think the cop threat was a pussy move. He could've just been more form, said "enough" and blocked her.

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yeah but we only heard one side of the story - who knows what else she may have done that called for that extreme - or he may have been stalked in the past and has an aversion to it

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Posted by Marry
I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

he's not worth all your pain - close the door, pick up what's left, and move on

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He didn't do anything wrong. Didn't even try to sleep with her under false pretences. He said they are friends... if that's what she wants, otherwise the ball is in her cort. She's the one stalking him and sticking her nose where he doesn't want it.

If anything he should cut her off completely bc she's too much work for "friendship".

The OP is bat shit crazy!

From the first 2 sentences she said they were dating for 5 months however 2 months in he told her he wasn’t interested. So for 3 months she has been trying to keep him...it’s no wonder he has threatened her with legal action blocked her and doesn’t want anything to do with her!

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Posted by Dianna
Well, he sounds like a great big pussy.

He was going to call the cops because you sent him a text?

He could've simply told you to stop contacting him and then blocked your number. He went from cordial straight to police. Why would you want him anyways?

better read it again

I know....she was stalkerish BUT I still think the cop threat was a pussy move. He could've just been more form, said "enough" and blocked her.

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im sure he did! the looney was trying to retrieve his number to contact him again after he said quit! smh just wtf... have some self respect.

If this is a legitimate thread.....

You left out the part where you pried the door open, threw a brick through his window, made your way in, pushed him out of the way & snatched the 'girl' up by a ponytail....

He called the cops.



And you ran.

Your cookie-cutter version of the story sounds too sweet for him too threaten to call the cops.

The worst thing you can do is chase a Libra when they don't want you. We hate it, just hate it and will not be nice about telling you to stop.

First off I’m sorry this happen to you . But Honey ......This is just not Sexy at all .. He told you In more way that one to move on nicely . You couldn’t read between the lines. He wasn’t trying to hurt your feeling , you did that your self. By pushing the issue. You were out of pocket. And only way to get to stop was to call the law on you. And in a few month you gonna kicking yourself like what the heck was I thinking. He wasn’t worth my time.

Posted by Marry
I had a relationship with this guy for 5 months now .He's 34 I'm 24.Two months after we started dating he became distant and then one day he said he down at want a relationship right now .I though he used me from the start and I yelled accused him and said many bad things . I know it was bad.But I panicked that I will lose him .We talked as friends for some months then .Well I initiated all the talking not him and recently i asks did he is seeing someone because I saw some signs and uli have a feeling he is seeing .He didn't respond he said it's not my business anymore .On Christmas day I send him wishes and told him to be happy. HE replied that he wishes that too and that I'm still his friend. Thay night i went to his house and I saw him with someone else outside .I don't know if she was girlfriend. I cried all nigh and the next day I send him "i saw you yesterday .are you seeing someone ?please tell me so u can move on finally "he answered "you are disturbing my life right now .I think it's time to call my company lawyer and put you in your place .You crossed your limits already .I said to him to not do this and i will never send him again .Thats what i did.Since 27 December I ddint talk to him and it's been the worst week of my life .He ddint talk to me also .He blocked me ling ago from Facebook . WE talked from Viber all this time but I was really angry and sad that day and I deleted the whole account and now I don't know how to retrieve him .I'm desperate .Please tell me what to do from now on .I'm tired of crying all day .My Christmas was hell.I just can't stop feeling pain all the time .Not emotional .Physical.Like some days I wake up and I can't breathe .Please help me .

I don't know how any of you people that responded are saying the dude is an asshole. So I am going to point out what many others in here have seen, the crazy, for you idiots to see.

You're fucking nuts Marry. Fucking stalker.