Libra women evil or what?

I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Have you ever thought, for just one moment, that her posts and not talking to you, might have had NOTHING to do with you? That for one day, she wanted to be left alone to process life?

yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

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Have you ever thought, for just one moment, that her posts and not talking to you, might have had NOTHING to do with you? That for one day, she wanted to be left alone to process life?

Yeah I’ve tried to think that before but she’s told me in the past a lot of her social media posts like that are basically her lashing out and hoping I see it to basically get upset.

So given the situation and what the pages said it’s kinda hard to just go nah that one defientally doesn’t have anything to do with me

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Aaaaaaaand this is the dynamic of Taurus Men and Libra woman...

You’re saying like tuaurs man of not letting go and libra woman of playing games?

yes, based on your experience with this one person, all women born between 23 september and 22 october are profoundly immoral and wicked.

nailed it.

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Aaaaaaaand this is the dynamic of Taurus Men and Libra woman...

not true.

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Have you ever thought, for just one moment, that her posts and not talking to you, might have had NOTHING to do with you? That for one day, she wanted to be left alone to process life?

Yeah I’ve tried to think that before but she’s told me in the past a lot of her social media posts like that are basically her lashing out and hoping I see it to basically get upset.

So given the situation and what the pages said it’s kinda hard to just go nah that one defientally doesn’t have anything to do with me

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Without the context of what is said in the posts, we don't know wtf is going on.

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Welcome to an ordinary day in the life of 'A guy who loves a Libra girl'.

Do you know or have heard of others with some form of similar situation with a libra girl or something?😂

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Have you ever thought, for just one moment, that her posts and not talking to you, might have had NOTHING to do with you? That for one day, she wanted to be left alone to process life?

Yeah I’ve tried to think that before but she’s told me in the past a lot of her social media posts like that are basically her lashing out and hoping I see it to basically get upset.

So given the situation and what the pages said it’s kinda hard to just go nah that one defientally doesn’t have anything to do with me

Without the context of what is said in the posts, we don't know wtf is going on.

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I’d put the screenshots on but honestly don’t know how to put pics in a reply on this

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

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yep that is how they are sometimes

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Kinda Trash behavior imo.

Evil might not be the right word -to be politically correct abt it. More so, pettiness immaturity and a reluctance towards taking responsibility for anything. Stupid ppl

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You’re right evil probably isn’t the best word to us but you’re right with what you said, she WILL NOT take responsibility for her actions if their seen as negative or deface her image. But if she does something good expects praise for weeks about it.

Idk what to do besides let go and get her out of my life but that’s the absolute last thing I wanna do😔

She wants to store my boat at her house until spring time aswell, I probably should of got it before the snow came..

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Welcome to an ordinary day in the life of 'A guy who loves a Libra girl'.

Do you know or have heard of others with some form of similar situation with a libra girl or something?😂

Read these :

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/still-in-confusion-with-this-libra-woman-6018156/

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-woman-confusing-me-9787722/

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All I can say is, WOW.

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

Taurus are just annoying as hell and always seeing the potential for a relationship. It’s weird because you all really don’t have any interesting qualities TO AN AIR SUN. Get you a water sun and end this mess. Libras don’t want you.

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

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I spent a long time with the Libra bff. I hope she's happy now but I refuse to be friends with her anymore because she was disappointing to me. Now I have a Libra mate. He has some soft similar traits but not to the extreme she was - with her "what seemed like total self absorption" just got real old finally for me.

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

yep that is how they are sometimes

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I honestly don’t get it😔

Like if you ended it(over poor reasoning IMO) like why still reach out and do this shit. She even FaceTimed my dad like a few weeks ago at some bar to show him it?

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

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I’ve been trying to but I love her to death, and every time I’m starting to accept things, something happens again we’re she reaches out and makes it seem like things are gonna turn around

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

I’ve been trying to but I love her to death, and every time I’m starting to accept things, something happens again we’re she reaches out and makes it seem like things are gonna turn around

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And who’s fault is it for believing this every time?

The short answer is yes lol

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

I spent a long time with the Libra bff. I hope she's happy now but I refuse to be friends with her anymore because she was disappointing to me. Now I have a Libra mate. He has some soft similar traits but not to the extreme she was - with her "what seemed like total self absorption" just got real old finally for me.

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That’s what her ex bff told me a few weeks ago, my ex texted her to see if she’d come hang out for some get together with another mutual friend and she straight up told her, you’re a toxic person, you’ve tried to control my life and manipulate me and castrated me when you didn’t get your way. I’m done with it you’re no longer in my life.

I was like damn😳 they were best friends since like kindergarten

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

I’ve been trying to but I love her to death, and every time I’m starting to accept things, something happens again we’re she reaches out and makes it seem like things are gonna turn around

And who’s fault is it for believing this every time?

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Unfortunately mine

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Posted by Taurus_mn

I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

I’ve been trying to but I love her to death, and every time I’m starting to accept things, something happens again we’re she reaches out and makes it seem like things are gonna turn around

And who’s fault is it for believing this every time?

Unfortunately mine

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Get rid of the pathetic “woe is me” attitude then. You’re an adult and can have control over who you choose to keep in your life. Only insecure people keep people that disrespect their time around.

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

I spent a long time with the Libra bff. I hope she's happy now but I refuse to be friends with her anymore because she was disappointing to me. Now I have a Libra mate. He has some soft similar traits but not to the extreme she was - with her "what seemed like total self absorption" just got real old finally for me.

That’s what her ex bff told me a few weeks ago, my ex texted her to see if she’d come hang out for some get together with another mutual friend and she straight up told her, you’re a toxic person, you’ve tried to control my life and manipulate me and castrated me when you didn’t get your way. I’m done with it you’re no longer in my life.

I was like damn😳 they were best friends since like kindergarten

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yes . it happens and it's not just a Libra thing - there are books about long bff female relationships gone bad - and it happens for various reasons - it just happens that we've had some similar situations / experiences with a Libra female

I still am attracted to their energy - just not that particular one lol

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

yep that is how they are sometimes

I honestly don’t get it😔

Like if you ended it(over poor reasoning IMO) like why still reach out and do this shit. She even FaceTimed my dad like a few weeks ago at some bar to show him it?

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there are no answers to some people's madness

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

yep that is how they are sometimes

I honestly don’t get it😔

Like if you ended it(over poor reasoning IMO) like why still reach out and do this shit. She even FaceTimed my dad like a few weeks ago at some bar to show him it?

there are no answers to some people's madness

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I still wonder if she’ll try and come back at some point in time.

She doesn’t like it when I basically go MIA, she’ll end up texting me something to get a reply.

Everyone keeps telling me the more I ignore her the more she’ll probably come back. They say don’t respond to make her realize what she lost.

Idk if I do that, if that’ll happen..

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yes this is what happens when Taurus has too many expectations of Libra - it is what it is and it can be frustrating for some. I think my Cap Moon helps me because I enjoy the space me and my Libra experience

I don’t think it’s expectations of her, it’s more the her reaching out in some way to make it seem like things are turning around or getting better, and than doing something (usually next day) to totally turn everything around and just go cold. Like wtf? Obviously I love her still so it kinda hurts

And I remember you talking about your ex libra best friend and how they were

yep that is how they are sometimes

I honestly don’t get it😔

Like if you ended it(over poor reasoning IMO) like why still reach out and do this shit. She even FaceTimed my dad like a few weeks ago at some bar to show him it?

there are no answers to some people's madness

I still wonder if she’ll try and come back at some point in time.

She doesn’t like it when I basically go MIA, she’ll end up texting me something to get a reply.

Everyone keeps telling me the more I ignore her the more she’ll probably come back. They say don’t respond to make her realize what she lost.

Idk if I do that, if that’ll happen..

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take care of yourself and forget about her - so what if she comes back - people don't change their ways

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Kinda Trash behavior imo.

Evil might not be the right word -to be politically correct abt it. More so, pettiness immaturity and a reluctance towards taking responsibility for anything. Stupid ppl

You’re right evil probably isn’t the best word to us but you’re right with what you said, she WILL NOT take responsibility for her actions if their seen as negative or deface her image. But if she does something good expects praise for weeks about it.

Idk what to do besides let go and get her out of my life but that’s the absolute last thing I wanna do😔

She wants to store my boat at her house until spring time aswell, I probably should of got it before the snow came..

Well she also doesn't sound like the worst person in the world lol. I probably wouldn't be too upset if this type of thing doesn't happen very often and that she's an overall good addition to your life. Look at the positives too !

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No she’s definitely done some really amazing things for me and my family, and when we lived together for instance if I got sick she was all over it and there for me like no other, we reciprocated that kind of love and attention to each other, it was amazing. But at the same time even when we were dating, she’d play these games or set me up(or her friends/family) for failure and use it against us. She’s an amazing person but I’ve kinda come to realize over time she’s more so the type to hold the door open for the praise, not necessarily the good in it.

I always clash with Taurus suns. I wonder why we dont get along? Youd think with Venus being both our rulers we would!

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What I’m saying is

Libra woman tend to attract Taurus men and never seem to be on the same page

This entire post makes no sense

Like all my relationships with Bulls

Taurus is too slow for us. Not mentally just too slow in keeping us interested for long. I find Aries men handle Libra women the best. They make us want them.

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I’ve seen a handful of topics about this before and dealing with my ex I can only think, you’re either really indecisive and change your mind every couple of minutes or you know what your doing and it’s just cruel. Shame on me for being so head over heals for her and answering her every call or text tho.

I was in another state visiting family, polar vortex starts coming in and she calls me, telling me weathers gonna be terrible, can I start your truck for you so there’s no issues for when you get back, if their is give me a call I’ll be there for you, texts me whole time she’s at work asks me to stay up for when she’s off to make sure she gets home safely. FaceTimed me when she’s off. Next day posts two pics of pages in a book she must be reading on her FB and insta about how pain is temporary, don’t social media stalk, don’t call/text and don’t answer them, the pain will go away. Confused, I tried calling her when I had gotten back, never got back to me. Posts all over Facebook right after I called. Day after that walk into the gym she sees me and comes right up to me and gives me a hug and starts joking around like nothing ever happened.

I do not get it

Being indecisive and changing your mind (fickle) are not the same things. Why do you care though? You both aren’t even together any more. Looks like you can’t detach (obviously).

I don’t ship Taurus & Libra at all. Why don’t you leave her alone and go on with your life.

I’ve been trying to but I love her to death, and every time I’m starting to accept things, something happens again we’re she reaches out and makes it seem like things are gonna turn around

I know it's easy for everyone to tell you to just leave her alone (because we're not in your situation). And you have some feelings for her, which of course makes it hard for you. But try to look at the big picture, everything she's done to you, etc. Can you really, honestly, see yourself with her 10 years from now, in a good relationship?

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Honestly I really could. I feel like if she was willing to give it another try and for us to hash things out and let the past be the past and start fresh like how we’d plan every so often(she always brought things back up from the past, clean slate didn’t really work out the few times we tried for the most part) I really do think we could make it

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

What I’m saying is

Libra woman tend to attract Taurus men and never seem to be on the same page

This entire post makes no sense

Like all my relationships with Bulls

Taurus is too slow for us. Not mentally just too slow in keeping us interested for long. I find Aries men handle Libra women the best. They make us want them.

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I’ve heard of this, in what way do you mean they make you want them? Like what is it about them that does that

Libras need to be with Fire signs...period.

Whats 'evil' is your ass thinking your entitled to a response from someone else. And an ex at that! She don't owe you shit. Sit back down.

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You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

He says he 'loves her to death'. Yikes.

Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

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Libras need to be with Fire signs...period.

I actually loved being single. But after a while I met a fire sign guy and it felt like home. For me anyway, Taurus wasn’t great for a relationship.

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Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

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For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

The other thing to remember is this Libra would not hang around waiting on you. Block her and ghost her then you might get her to show some emotion towards you. Shock her.

Regardless of sign, many a man has had their heart ripped by a Libra female before. They can't help it! They just attract a lot of honey, being ruled by Venus and all. Earth signs typically don't do the best with them. Some are really airy and don't like a ton of substance, which is at odds with a semi-heavy, substance-filled but oft-boring Earth sign.

But, you gotta let her go man. Just let her know you care and always will, and leave the door slightly open but go on with your life. This was me last year with a Libra woman I really liked and always will. Trust me, Libras operate on their own internal clock and whim. They're cardinal air. If she's interested she may re-initiate a month later, or maybe even years later. Point is, she may be indecisive but if she decides to see how you're doing, it'll be on her volition, not cause you pushed her.

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Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

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I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

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The other thing to remember is this Libra would not hang around waiting on you. Block her and ghost her then you might get her to show some emotion towards you. Shock her.

That’s what I’m thinking of doing, I saw her on Tuesday and was asking why she was so hot and cold and pulling me and pushing away, she would let me speak much cause she kept interrupting saying “she’s trying to make space, I’m hurt, I’m confused, I don’t have answers” I didn’t get to say much of what I wanted to get out cause she kept insinuating we go play with the dog before she had to go. This is the text I got after I left.

“Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away. ”

I never responded

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Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

I know you love her and that you're hurting and that it must be really difficult to let her go but I do think that's what you have to do in the end. Even if it takes time (since Taurus move slowly) take that time but slowly let her go. I can tell you one thing. People hardly ever change and if they do they have to realize they are doing something wrong and they have to want to change that. She doesn't so it's like the user above said; you're doing the same thing over and over and expecting different outcome. Also the more you push a libra the more you will push them away. You can't change them. They have to want to change themselves. I don't know about other libras but for me once the feelings are lost you can't get it back again. You know how someone cares about you? It's the little things they do. Like the dog incident. She wouldn't have done that to you if she cared about you. Sorry you're going through this, you deserve better. Remember that. 🙂

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This is the text I got after I left her place, I never responded to it

Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away.

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Posted by FknMeow

You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

I know you love her and that you're hurting and that it must be really difficult to let her go but I do think that's what you have to do in the end. Even if it takes time (since Taurus move slowly) take that time but slowly let her go. I can tell you one thing. People hardly ever change and if they do they have to realize they are doing something wrong and they have to want to change that. She doesn't so it's like the user above said; you're doing the same thing over and over and expecting different outcome. Also the more you push a libra the more you will push them away. You can't change them. They have to want to change themselves. I don't know about other libras but for me once the feelings are lost you can't get it back again. You know how someone cares about you? It's the little things they do. Like the dog incident. She wouldn't have done that to you if she cared about you. Sorry you're going through this, you deserve better. Remember that. 🙂

This is the text I got after I left her place, I never responded to it

Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away.

She seems confused. What I'm getting from that text is that she is hanging on to you because you're what she knows and that gives her security but you're not necessarily who she wants. I think you should reply to her and tell her that yes she needs to stop contacting you. It's preventing you from moving on because everytime she does something nice you get your hopes up again.

I know the problem is that you also don't want to let go because you keep hoping she will change her mind but if you want another outcome you need to break the cycle. Only you can make that decision but I don't think you two will have the happy ending you so badly want. Sorry 😢

My bet though is that if you tell her to leave you alone she won't respect that because she is selfish and in that way you can tell if she really cares about you or not. My ex told me not to contact him anymore because it was preventing him from moving on and I respected that even though I missed him. I want him to be happy more than anything. When you care about someone you want that person to be happy. She seems more concerned about what you can do for her than what she can do for you.

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Yeah there’s definitely been times it’s really come across as me needing to tend to her every need and emotion and once it gets to such a petty point and I go “ok seriously?” Then the problems arise. She’d meet my needs but I guess thinking back on it a good portion was probably her doing just enough or something and playing it out longer than it should of been to suit me.

I’ve been contemplating on deleting her on Facebook/instagram/Snapchat and seeing what may come from that. Her bestfriend told me stop answering all her calls and texts and make her realize what she’s losing. Idk if all that will actually happen.

She has to know the shit she’s pulling on me, it seems every time I call her out she has no idea what to do or say until she can hide behind a text.

She’s been all over Facebook today with the relationship and love meme posts, friend of mine tells me she does that cause she knows I’ll see it, who knows though

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You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

I know you love her and that you're hurting and that it must be really difficult to let her go but I do think that's what you have to do in the end. Even if it takes time (since Taurus move slowly) take that time but slowly let her go. I can tell you one thing. People hardly ever change and if they do they have to realize they are doing something wrong and they have to want to change that. She doesn't so it's like the user above said; you're doing the same thing over and over and expecting different outcome. Also the more you push a libra the more you will push them away. You can't change them. They have to want to change themselves. I don't know about other libras but for me once the feelings are lost you can't get it back again. You know how someone cares about you? It's the little things they do. Like the dog incident. She wouldn't have done that to you if she cared about you. Sorry you're going through this, you deserve better. Remember that. 🙂

This is the text I got after I left her place, I never responded to it

Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away.

She seems confused. What I'm getting from that text is that she is hanging on to you because you're what she knows and that gives her security but you're not necessarily who she wants. I think you should reply to her and tell her that yes she needs to stop contacting you. It's preventing you from moving on because everytime she does something nice you get your hopes up again.

I know the problem is that you also don't want to let go because you keep hoping she will change her mind but if you want another outcome you need to break the cycle. Only you can make that decision but I don't think you two will have the happy ending you so badly want. Sorry 😢

My bet though is that if you tell her to leave you alone she won't respect that because she is selfish and in that way you can tell if she really cares about you or not. My ex told me not to contact him anymore because it was preventing him from moving on and I respected that even though I missed him. I want him to be happy more than anything. When you care about someone you want that person to be happy. She seems more concerned about what you can do for her than what she can do for you.

Yeah there’s definitely been times it’s really come across as me needing to tend to her every need and emotion and once it gets to such a petty point and I go “ok seriously?” Then the problems arise. She’d meet my needs but I guess thinking back on it a good portion was probably her doing just enough or something and playing it out longer than it should of been to suit me.

I’ve been contemplating on deleting her on Facebook/instagram/Snapchat and seeing what may come from that. Her bestfriend told me stop answering all her calls and texts and make her realize what she’s losing. Idk if all that will actually happen.

She has to know the shit she’s pulling on me, it seems every time I call her out she has no idea what to do or say until she can hide behind a text.

She’s been all over Facebook today with the relationship and love meme posts, friend of mine tells me she does that cause she knows I’ll see it, who knows though

You're letting her actions determine your actions. Don't do that. That's why I told you to cut the contact because you can't move on if you keep seeing her posts and thinking it's about you. And even if you told her to leave you alone you still have to see her posts and that will just prevent you from moving on.

I told you she is selfish right? Why would she even post those things knowing you can see it when she knows how you feel about her. If she can't give you what you want at least she can do the decent thing and let you try to find happiness with someone else.

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I saw her again yesterday and I was able to talk more, I don’t want to push her to much that she just up and runs. But I told her how I wished she listened to me before things happened and hadn’t ran to everyone else to talk to them and get their input on things to sway her decisions. I was somewhat guilty of the same and told her that.

She told me I really hurt her because I had held resentment against her from the first break up and wanted some form of significant love from her. selfish of me but I put it in my mind that I deserved it for waiting and fighting so long. It caused me to be somewhat distant and not put in my full effort. I had already explained right before the break up I didn’t realize how much I was letting it effect us and how I was going to drop it but that didn’t change anything

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You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

I know you love her and that you're hurting and that it must be really difficult to let her go but I do think that's what you have to do in the end. Even if it takes time (since Taurus move slowly) take that time but slowly let her go. I can tell you one thing. People hardly ever change and if they do they have to realize they are doing something wrong and they have to want to change that. She doesn't so it's like the user above said; you're doing the same thing over and over and expecting different outcome. Also the more you push a libra the more you will push them away. You can't change them. They have to want to change themselves. I don't know about other libras but for me once the feelings are lost you can't get it back again. You know how someone cares about you? It's the little things they do. Like the dog incident. She wouldn't have done that to you if she cared about you. Sorry you're going through this, you deserve better. Remember that. 🙂

This is the text I got after I left her place, I never responded to it

Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away.

She seems confused. What I'm getting from that text is that she is hanging on to you because you're what she knows and that gives her security but you're not necessarily who she wants. I think you should reply to her and tell her that yes she needs to stop contacting you. It's preventing you from moving on because everytime she does something nice you get your hopes up again.

I know the problem is that you also don't want to let go because you keep hoping she will change her mind but if you want another outcome you need to break the cycle. Only you can make that decision but I don't think you two will have the happy ending you so badly want. Sorry 😢

My bet though is that if you tell her to leave you alone she won't respect that because she is selfish and in that way you can tell if she really cares about you or not. My ex told me not to contact him anymore because it was preventing him from moving on and I respected that even though I missed him. I want him to be happy more than anything. When you care about someone you want that person to be happy. She seems more concerned about what you can do for her than what she can do for you.

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She had said at one point that it just feels good to not have to fight to be the best thing in my life and to not have to explain herself all the time. I disagree but didn’t say that. She really did show a lot of love and I feel extremely bad for being so stubborn on the thought I put in my head that she owed me something. I explained that to her and asked that she just think about my words and told her I still loved her. I was expecting a text at some point saying something like it’s all done and we need to move on. I actually just got a text finally today saying she cancelled our Costco membership because her parents need a new pharmacy and she’s getting on a membership with them.

Personally I think she’s done

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You've been making the same thread for a year. So weird. The leeb is going to end up dead isnt she

I’m not even lying, every time I read his stuff I think of that crazy Taurus who killed his wife and kids then said ON CAMERA when he KNEW they were dead that he wanted her to come home and they just had a LITTLE argument. Like seriously dude? That’s nuts. 😳

OP you need to stop. One second she’s horrible, the next she did a lot for you, the next you are getting mad at her for not replying right away. Stoppppppp

Calm tf down, he's probably just looking for feedback. You have no idea how this is actually playing out - Don't understand why weird ass ppl on here always look for opportunities to clown on someone.

For a year or whatever it’s been? With the same girl, same situation, same issues. While he’s getting the same answers, same feedback?

Albert Einstein is widely credited with saying, “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”😂

And you’re right, I don’t. But no one even knows if she is actually the “evil” one. Who knows if this guy is a crazy, controlling, stalker who knows how to play the game of “I’m the good guy.” I know some amazing Taurus men, but I also know some that really know how to play that game! It’s crazy. Have you ever met one? They sound so nice and sweet, so loving, but are really so controlling and do nothing for their partner unless it benefits them. They make it seem like it was all them who made the relationship work. So each next partner is feeling bad for them because of the ex who “messed them up.” When really that ex had a lot of reasons to leave them. I don’t know any other sign of man who can do that like a Taurus man can and have people believe them.

Now all Libra women are “evil” because it didn’t work out? Nah, they are not good together. That’s it. She doesn’t represent all Libras.

I think he has a hard time letting go no matter how cruel she is to him. I remember him saying that she didn't let him see their dog. Maybe it's the Taurus stubbornness and resistance for change. I just remembered vaguely about the things he said about her but she didn't seem like a nice person. Could be his perspective of things ofc but despite the bad things about her he can't let her go.

It's easy to say that libras are evil but in reality it's your own choice to put yourself through that. If someone treats you badly you have the choice to respect yourself more and not allow it. If she isn't nice to you now what makes you think she ever will be? And if she is evil then why on earth are you still pining after her lol.

I really am having a terrible time trying to let her go because I don’t want to lose her for the life of me, but maybe it’s just life and I have to accept it no matter how much I don’t.

Everything I’ve put out on these forums is what has happened plain and simple, I don’t try to play victim I just state what has actually happened. She really does do some sideways shit and I just put up with it.

I saw her on Tuesday, in fact went to her house and hung out with her and our dog helped plow the drive way, I asked her why she’s been so hot and cold and tried to get a little more out there but she kept interrupting with comments like “I’m trying to make space, I’m hurt, I don’t have answers right now, I’m just confused”

After I left I got “answers” from her over a text. I never wanted answers I just wanted to be listened to and I told her that at the time but she just wouldn’t let me really get much out about me and her or how I felt

I know you love her and that you're hurting and that it must be really difficult to let her go but I do think that's what you have to do in the end. Even if it takes time (since Taurus move slowly) take that time but slowly let her go. I can tell you one thing. People hardly ever change and if they do they have to realize they are doing something wrong and they have to want to change that. She doesn't so it's like the user above said; you're doing the same thing over and over and expecting different outcome. Also the more you push a libra the more you will push them away. You can't change them. They have to want to change themselves. I don't know about other libras but for me once the feelings are lost you can't get it back again. You know how someone cares about you? It's the little things they do. Like the dog incident. She wouldn't have done that to you if she cared about you. Sorry you're going through this, you deserve better. Remember that. 🙂

This is the text I got after I left her place, I never responded to it

Ok, I enjoy you, I always have. I lied that it was a guy calling because I don’t see the point of telling you of any man i May have interest or friends. Mainly because I don’t feel it is your business and I am also in a fragile place that I know I am not ready. Not that it matters but all my friends know that. I hate so much and I also find so much security from you. Which is why you get that push and pull. If it feels wrong I can stop and just walk away.

She seems confused. What I'm getting from that text is that she is hanging on to you because you're what she knows and that gives her security but you're not necessarily who she wants. I think you should reply to her and tell her that yes she needs to stop contacting you. It's preventing you from moving on because everytime she does something nice you get your hopes up again.

I know the problem is that you also don't want to let go because you keep hoping she will change her mind but if you want another outcome you need to break the cycle. Only you can make that decision but I don't think you two will have the happy ending you so badly want. Sorry 😢

My bet though is that if you tell her to leave you alone she won't respect that because she is selfish and in that way you can tell if she really cares about you or not. My ex told me not to contact him anymore because it was preventing him from moving on and I respected that even though I missed him. I want him to be happy more than anything. When you care about someone you want that person to be happy. She seems more concerned about what you can do for her than what she can do for you.

She had said at one point that it just feels good to not have to fight to be the best thing in my life and to not have to explain herself all the time. I disagree but didn’t say that. She really did show a lot of love and I feel extremely bad for being so stubborn on the thought I put in my head that she owed me something. I explained that to her and asked that she just think about my words and told her I still loved her. I was expecting a text at some point saying something like it’s all done and we need to move on. I actually just got a text finally today saying she cancelled our Costco membership because her parents need a new pharmacy and she’s getting on a membership with them.

Personally I think she’s done

Yeh it does seems like she is done. Libras are not known to be very direct. She probably doesn't want to hurt you. Her canceling your membership card is showing that she is moving on.

I think you need to give yourself some time and be alone and heal. I know it's hard but don't focus so much on her. Focus on you and other things in your life that bring you joy.

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I feel like she is pretty direct though just knowing her personally, maybe more so depending on her mood I guess?? But normally pretty direct. And who knows maybe they really do want to go to Costco for the pharmacy I know her parents don’t have a membership and her mom often asks her to take her there

Nha. Just helpless Lovers tbh 🙂

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Nha. Just helpless Lovers tbh 🙂

What do you mean lol