Pros and Cons of a libra man ?

- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

what are some of the cons mainly ?

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by saweetz1988
- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

what are some of the cons mainly ?

Really depends on his chart.

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I guess I just wanna know the basic lol. I know they r sweet talkers n romantic. That’s it lol. One used to see me and brought me 1 bottle of wine, 2 cards, chocolate .. on a second date lol. That’s why I never seen another libra man lol

We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

i have a libra girlfriend.

she's seeing an aqua man

and what i remember,

she was super super bossy

so i kind of stayed away.

lol



i also had a libra housemate

she was always super nice- and very easy going- i liked that

she is dating a libra man too- lol

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

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lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈

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HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p— This is interesting and good to know for information lol

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈

HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p— This is interesting and good to know for information lol

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It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a shit bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈

HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p— This is interesting and good to know for information lol

It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a shit bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.

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my scorp venus is the best thing about me. i wouldn't trade it for anything.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈

HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p— This is interesting and good to know for information lol

It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a shit bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.

my scorp venus is the best thing about me. i wouldn't trade it for anything.

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Not saying I hate everything about it. I'm just overwhelmed by it at times.

I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever.

Cons - check Aquas. You are accustomed with them. We have the same negative traits - sneaky, flaky, ghosting tendencies when we don't like someone. We can turn to cold ice in an instant. We can be very mean. And the top of it - we are the masters of the manipulation, but we are immune to it.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librasetting

Posted by Librah

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?

lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.

Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈

HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p— This is interesting and good to know for information lol

It's important to realize too a man or woman of any sign can be a shit bag. Everyone's subject to their own environment and upbringing and other aspects of their chart too. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a scorpio venus and would gladly trade it for a one in libra or cap or something less consuming.

my scorp venus is the best thing about me. i wouldn't trade it for anything.

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Scorp Venus too. It balances my otherwise extremely cold chart. Perfect lover. I'd give you everything you need 🙂

Libra men are too wishy washy, abrupt unexpected, unstable changes like a 360 degree turn out of nowhere for unexplained reasons that can leave one feeling devastated. Too fucking unstable, so unstable it seems abusive. I would never do it. Libra men show you have they feel by being in your physical presence. Don't let them talk on the phone with you or text you too much, they can shift the relationship into a fantasy relationship that exists in their head and then disappear. When I deal with air signs the cell and texting are for two things: confirming where we are meeting. Get them out in the physical world as soon as possible; don't let them settle in their realm of intellect and classify you as a fantasy desire. If you train them in the beginning to see you in person, then the usually lazy Libra will be molded to a physical relationship. I also noticed less wishy washy behavior with women/men Libra visually sees you often. The key is keep the power by not letting them talk to you too frequently on the phone or text. Text to see in person or don't deal with them at all.

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Posted by 2Moon

Posted by Leo188881
It depends on which side the scale is tipped. I must admit, they are hot AF!

The other was the opposite (i lasted 3 weeks then ran). He took me home to meet his parents after 4 days. Wanted me to move in with him and to marry me. Said i love you within the first week and cried during sex. By week 2 he was crying all the fucking time and sobbing that i didn't love him (with actual tears and tissues). He wanted to do everything together. I told him to go out with his friends without me because i can't be bothered and he wouldn't just fucking go.

Lol wtf—!

.. Seems to be a very very emotional Libra..

Yep 30 year old, grown ass man. Once he even said 'don't make me cry, i don't have any tissues'. Maybe I was a cold bitch back then or maybe he was emotionally unstable... 🤷

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M.A.Y.B.E he was emotionally unstable... You think? LOL

Posted by tiziani
I feel the keeping it direct with phones / messages is a good approach in general, for anyone.

Nothing wrong with the fantasy side of relationships but when people get stuck inside their head, they get petty and drowned in their worst thoughts unless they're really just that solid mentally with no insecurities.

You bang all that stuff out in person.

It's not unusual at all for a fire sign to prefer active direct face-to-face interaction. Ruled by mars, Aries is at home with action. However air signs are 'at home' with communication, intellectual stimulation. words, thoughts. Since this can be achieved over the phone, it's easy to get caught up in a fantasy mental relationship where the Libra is the master and usually unemotional.

But face-to-face gets us out of our comfort zone, and forces a visceral experience that humanizes the person.The person becomes an actual human being in our lives as opposed to some heady trip that can be easily dismissed once the fantasy isn't needed anymore.

I could give a ton of pros, but you seem to only want cons.

They can be opinionated and the type to argue. There are many times they can't admit when they are wrong, and think they know everything even if they don't. I will give it to them though they tend to be right more then wrong, it just sucks to watch someone defend something that is purely opinionated or simply wrong.

Lazy. I've seen a few with absolutely no drive or want to become better. If they have the right type of people in their life they are 100% fine with living with hardly anything and letting others carry them through life. It's sad to see because they could have a really outgoing, charming, and pleasant personally, but never strived to go any farther in life then a ride to work with a friend.

Vices that hold them back from their creativity. Libra are extremely creative people, but some fill their lives with meaningless materials or vices that completely block their creativity. I know a few Libra men that could be doing so much with their creative and natural talents, but they rather fill the voids of their life with simpler things that require less effort to find their happiness in. I can't really be upset about that part though, because if it truly makes them happy who am I to judge? I just hate seeing good creativity and talent go to waste.

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Posted by Metaworld

Posted by tiziani
I feel the keeping it direct with phones / messages is a good approach in general, for anyone.

Nothing wrong with the fantasy side of relationships but when people get stuck inside their head, they get petty and drowned in their worst thoughts unless they're really just that solid mentally with no insecurities.

You bang all that stuff out in person.

It's not unusual at all for a fire sign to prefer active direct face-to-face interaction. Ruled by mars, Aries is at home with action. However air signs are 'at home' with communication, intellectual stimulation. words, thoughts. Since this can be achieved over the phone, it's easy to get caught up in a fantasy mental relationship where the Libra is the master and usually unemotional.

Holy shet! Well said sista..

However air signs are 'at home' with communication, intellectual stimulation. words, thoughts. Since this can be achieved over the phone, it's easy to get caught up in a fantasy mental relationship where the Libra is the master and usually unemotional.



....why do you think Libras (men AND some women) are addicted to video games..... LOL!

Video games are perfect for us. 😆 !

They are very stimulating mentally.... I used to play alot... Dammmnn!

Now I'm living in my head, observing and thinking tew much... It is also satisfying and challenging mentally. Great sport! 😄

Almost never get tired of living in my brain...



On another note, you remind me of rockyroadicecream... 😄

(Not a bad or good thing, I feel neutral about her.)

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I am not into video games so I can not relate; I haven't read too many Libras state they like video games. You remind me of Gemitai. (Not a bad or good thing, I feel neutral about her) as well.) 🙂

Posted by Leo188881
It depends on which side the scale is tipped. I must admit, they are hot AF!

I dated one that was a commitment phobe. 3 years of on and off. I would always be the one to leave and he would come back but he didn't want a serious relationship. It's been about 6 years since the last time and he contacted me again in july. I refused to meet him.

The other was the opposite (i lasted 3 weeks then ran). He took me home to meet his parents after 4 days. Wanted me to move in with him and to marry me. Said i love you within the first week and cried during sex. By week 2 he was crying all the fucking time and sobbing that i didn't love him (with actual tears and tissues). He wanted to do everything together. I told him to go out with his friends without me because i can't be bothered and he wouldn't just fucking go.

I'm sorry but your description was hilarious. What were his other placements FFS ...

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Posted by 2Moon

Posted by Metaworld

Posted by tiziani
I feel the keeping it direct with phones / messages is a good approach in general, for anyone.

Nothing wrong with the fantasy side of relationships but when people get stuck inside their head, they get petty and drowned in their worst thoughts unless they're really just that solid mentally with no insecurities.

You bang all that stuff out in person.

It's not unusual at all for a fire sign to prefer active direct face-to-face interaction. Ruled by mars, Aries is at home with action. However air signs are 'at home' with communication, intellectual stimulation. words, thoughts. Since this can be achieved over the phone, it's easy to get caught up in a fantasy mental relationship where the Libra is the master and usually unemotional.

Holy shet! Well said sista..

However air signs are 'at home' with communication, intellectual stimulation. words, thoughts. Since this can be achieved over the phone, it's easy to get caught up in a fantasy mental relationship where the Libra is the master and usually unemotional.



....why do you think Libras (men AND some women) are addicted to video games..... LOL!

Video games are perfect for us. 😆 !

They are very stimulating mentally.... I used to play alot... Dammmnn!

Now I'm living in my head, observing and thinking tew much... It is also satisfying and challenging mentally. Great sport! 😄

Almost never get tired of living in my brain...



On another note, you remind me of rockyroadicecream... 😄

(Not a bad or good thing, I feel neutral about her.)

I am not into video games so I can not relate; I haven't read too many Libras state they like video games. You remind me of Gemitai. (Not a bad or good thing, I feel neutral about her) as well.) 🙂

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lol@ meta and 2moon. Scorpio sun meet scorpio moon.

one reminds them of rocky the other of gemitati. lol ^___^



i actually looked up online what famous gamer's signs are...



https://www.ranker.com/list/celebrities-who-are-gamers/celebrity-lists



Justin Bieber is on that list, and Enimen, both air dominant peeps.

Henry Cavill is a taurus but aqua moon and aqua rising. wow!

Olivia Munn is a double water cancer sun/pisces moon but gemini rising and she loves that stuff.

also megan fox!!! gemini venus.

Warren G, is a Scorpio sun/Aries moon but Libra stellium.



wow alot of the men play Call of Duty.