
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.



Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.

Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by tizianiPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Because it's gendered. Anyone can be an asshole. In the old school, only a woman was a bitch.
so it's singling her out for being a woman?
It's singling her out for being a woman with an opinion, most often.click to expand

Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.click to expand


Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.

Posted by nanobotPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Because it's gendered. Anyone can be an asshole. In the old school, only a woman was a bitch.
I think calling a dude a bitch is super effective. It's way worse than calling a woman an asshole. Your making disparaging remarks at his masculinity... calling him a whiny crybaby who's maybe also on their period? Which is never acceptable for a man to be. Growing up, I always assumed asshole was gendered to men.click to expand

Posted by nanobotPosted by saggurl88Posted by nanobotPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Because it's gendered. Anyone can be an asshole. In the old school, only a woman was a bitch.
I think calling a dude a bitch is super effective. It's way worse than calling a woman an asshole. Your making disparaging remarks at his masculinity... calling him a whiny crybaby who's maybe also on their period? Which is never acceptable for a man to be. Growing up, I always assumed asshole was gendered to men.
I like the term Poosey lol I think it's the equivalent of bitch for a women lol
Pussy bitch cuck
LOLclick to expand


Posted by tizianiPosted by GemitatiPosted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Why are you asking them if you ARE an old school?
And you forgetting that ‘old school’ as modern society also had upper and lower classes. In lower classes it was very acceptable to humiliate a woman verbally AND physically...
So...your question is kind of like a fart in public place...
Sounds like a contradiction to me.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.
That's different though, that is fantasy.click to expand


Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.
That's different though, that is fantasy.
Well, I have never seen my father say that to my mom either 😄click to expand

Posted by nikkistar
Bitch, cunt, hag, heffer, slut, whore, etc...
All words that are meant to incite a reaction from women, but none of them affect me in the least. I stopped giving words of other people, power over me and my emotions, a long long time ago.


Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.
That's different though, that is fantasy.
Well, I have never seen my father say that to my mom either 😄
Agree....my dad was a gentclick to expand


Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.
That's different though, that is fantasy.
Well, I have never seen my father say that to my mom either 😄
Agree....my dad was a gent
Mine too. I lovely aqua manclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by nikkistar
Bitch, cunt, hag, heffer, slut, whore, etc...
All words that are meant to incite a reaction from women, but none of them affect me in the least. I stopped giving words of other people, power over me and my emotions, a long long time ago.
I just think it's a matter of respect though.
Who is okay with being name called? It's a form of abuseclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
I feel the same way. I just associate it with the lowest of low. When I hear that word, and because of the meaning, I just think of a woman on all fours acting like a wild animal- And not in a good way lol
I hate that word.click to expand

Posted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.

Posted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
That's good.
It is unacceptable in my social circle. Even among friends we don't use the f word also. I have used it here but never uttered it irl.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShine
Not acceptable
To me
Seems to be used a lot in the US, not so much where I am ....


Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄click to expand

Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.click to expand

Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
Well, that's clearly abusive behavior and would be if he'd used another word "you fucking dummy" "you fucking asshole" "you fucking cocksucker". I see why she was upset and you mad. As for "bitch" in particular, I'm old too. lolclick to expand


Posted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by FFSPosted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
That's good.
It is unacceptable in my social circle. Even among friends we don't use the f word also. I have used it here but never uttered it irl.
TBH, I think its kinda acceptabe to women because of all of these reality shows. "Bad Girls Club," Jersey Shore and all that other crap. My sister's think its acceptable. I kinda get it because its the world we live in.
Oh that makes sense. The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol I never made time for tv shows or social media. .
Yeah you are right-- it boils down to the world we live in, esp our immediate circle of influence.
Are you the eldest? I'm the youngest and I know my brother would be disappointed if i were to use a certain language!
"The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol'
^LMFAO 😂. I know what u mean that's why I never stay too long.
I'm the second oldest and much respect for your bro. Sounds like a stand up dude. You live in the US?
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Posted by FFSPosted by saggurl88Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
I feel the same way. I just associate it with the lowest of low. When I hear that word, and because of the meaning, I just think of a woman on all fours acting like a wild animal- And not in a good way lol
I hate that word.
I never liked the word either, but it seems to be acceptable today. My sister's dude called her fuckin' bitch and that shit has me enraged, but "she's in love and he didn't mean it" 🙄click to expand

Posted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.click to expand

Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.click to expand

Posted by FFSPosted by MyStarsShine
Not acceptable
To me
Seems to be used a lot in the US, not so much where I am ....
You mind if I ask in what country you live? It seems that a lot of people on this forum don't experience some of the stuff we do in the USclick to expand


Posted by FFSPosted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.
The validation is much needed, cause I do feel old as fuck preaching to her. Like when did I become my father? Dam, guess I'm not cool anymore 😑. LMAOclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by FFSPosted by saggurl88Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
I feel the same way. I just associate it with the lowest of low. When I hear that word, and because of the meaning, I just think of a woman on all fours acting like a wild animal- And not in a good way lol
I hate that word.
I never liked the word either, but it seems to be acceptable today. My sister's dude called her fuckin' bitch and that shit has me enraged, but "she's in love and he didn't mean it" 🙄
This is the type of language that will get worse with time, not better. I judge a man by how he tallks to women, and this type of demeaning behavior only gets worse, unfortunately.
When I was with my ex, he always called me his wife, while his other friends called their wives bitches. So his friends would say Where's your wife to him, when asking about me but he would ask where's your bitch to them.
Such an odd way to talk -_-click to expand

Posted by FFSPosted by saggurl88Posted by FFSPosted by saggurl88Posted by FFS
Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.
I feel the same way. I just associate it with the lowest of low. When I hear that word, and because of the meaning, I just think of a woman on all fours acting like a wild animal- And not in a good way lol
I hate that word.
I never liked the word either, but it seems to be acceptable today. My sister's dude called her fuckin' bitch and that shit has me enraged, but "she's in love and he didn't mean it" 🙄
This is the type of language that will get worse with time, not better. I judge a man by how he tallks to women, and this type of demeaning behavior only gets worse, unfortunately.
When I was with my ex, he always called me his wife, while his other friends called their wives bitches. So his friends would say Where's your wife to him, when asking about me but he would ask where's your bitch to them.
Such an odd way to talk -_-
I know but, really not much I can do. I just the old brother. There's too many negative influences surrounding her. Facebook, Insta, tv shows, etc. Truth be told, I didn't listen to shit older people told me when I was younger. I shoveling shit against the tide.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by FFSPosted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.
The validation is much needed, cause I do feel old as fuck preaching to her. Like when did I become my father? Dam, guess I'm not cool anymore 😑. LMAO
It's not cool or age related,...it's an uneducated and uninteresting way to address anyone
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Posted by bumboklattPosted by saggurl88Posted by bumboklatt
it the shoe fits
I'd try to kill you if you called me that! 😆 😛
its only if the shoe fits
and theres tons of men that are bhiches too
actually it saddens me when i notice oneclick to expand

Posted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.
The validation is much needed, cause I do feel old as fuck preaching to her. Like when did I become my father? Dam, guess I'm not cool anymore 😑. LMAO
omg don't feel stuffy over that lol please!
i'm annoyed as hell for you..... i dont give a rat's ass whose fault that initial argument was. there is always a way for 2 grown ass ADULTS to discuss an issue before throwing insults or calling names.
he is being abusive and if she doesn't stand up for herself being demeaned that way now, he will do it again. he will do it a thousand times because the longer time passes that he isn't corrected, the more respect he loses. he deserves to get popped in the mouth. disrespectful as hell. shit.click to expand

Posted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.
The validation is much needed, cause I do feel old as fuck preaching to her. Like when did I become my father? Dam, guess I'm not cool anymore 😑. LMAO
omg don't feel stuffy over that lol please!
i'm annoyed as hell for you..... i dont give a rat's ass whose fault that initial argument was. there is always a way for 2 grown ass ADULTS to discuss an issue before throwing insults or calling names.
he is being abusive and if she doesn't stand up for herself being demeaned that way now, he will do it again. he will do it a thousand times because the longer time passes that he isn't corrected, the more respect he loses. he deserves to get popped in the mouth. disrespectful as hell. shit.click to expand

Posted by FFSPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by FFSPosted by caIiberPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRoosterPosted by FFSPosted by FantamRooster
It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.
I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis
Who calls her that?
I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.
I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
nah, that's straightup fuckin bullshit. disrespectful pos. you're right to be mad.
The validation is much needed, cause I do feel old as fuck preaching to her. Like when did I become my father? Dam, guess I'm not cool anymore 😑. LMAO
It's not cool or age related,...it's an uneducated and uninteresting way to address anyone
I also have a brother and man if we ever spoke that way to a girl or disrespected an elder...you know the restclick to expand



Posted by FFSPosted by MyStarsShine
@FFS
Where are you from?
Where you said the term was most used lol. The USclick to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by justagirlPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tizianiPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by tiziani
What made it unacceptable in the old school?
Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.
Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.
Most where in the kitchen cooking or standing with the platter serving. Or else Cleaning house with a the duster.
Right, I was curious to know where we get our morals from.
Like I can say back in the day we were slaves, but they let us wear real nice suits when the guests came over to serve them dinner though.
But kids nowadays don't wear suits, what is the world coming to.
Itt'd just be ideal if a person was motivated to respect people of their own will, more than following arbitrary rules of right and wrong.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by FFSPosted by MyStarsShine
@FFS
Where are you from?
Where you said the term was most used lol. The US
The country where the President uses the word *pussy*
Such a stupid word.
Such a stupid bloke.
🙄click to expand
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