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What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄


I dunno, it was a serious question. I'm curious.

Well do you see any 50’s movies calling women bitches? They just didn’t do that.

Most where in the kitchen cooking or standing with the platter serving. Or else Cleaning house with a the duster.


Right, I was curious to know where we get our morals from.

Like I can say back in the day we were slaves, but they let us wear real nice suits when the guests came over to serve them dinner though.

But kids nowadays don't wear suits, what is the world coming to.

Itt'd just be ideal if a person was motivated to respect people of their own will, more than following arbitrary rules of right and wrong.

Well usually parents teach us morals when we are young or they try to. churches, schools etc. Society has changed so that has impacted morals in my view as well as what some might feel is right or wrong, it has never really been up to own free will if you really think about it. My morals aren't going to be the same as yours.. so who is right, who is wrong.

also who sets what a moral even is, and which are good or bad.


I still have that part inside that wants to rebel against the idea i'm working off collective morals lol
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I’ve been called a bitch by guys when I no longer wanted to continue dating them. Just confirms what dickheads they are. Thanks for confirming I’ve made the right decision 💅




One of my favorite scenarios...

Guy: Would you like to dance/talk/hang out/whatever?

Gal: No, thank you.

Guy: Fuck you, bitch! You're ugly anyway.
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Lol yes we’ve all gotten that. Such winners 🙄🙄😂
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Where are you from?


Where you said the term was most used lol. The US


The country where the President uses the word *pussy*

Such a stupid word.

Such a stupid bloke.

🙄


Our president has said worse than that. He’s called men and women, bitch.

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Great role model for the younger generation hey? 🙄
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I’ve been called a bitch by guys when I no longer wanted to continue dating them. Just confirms what dickheads they are. Thanks for confirming I’ve made the right decision 💅




One of my favorite scenarios...

Guy: Would you like to dance/talk/hang out/whatever?

Gal: No, thank you.

Guy: Fuck you, bitch! You're ugly anyway.
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Looser central lol

I wish someone use that with me, I'd love to say "nice try for punching above your weight in ugly"
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It's unacceptable.

Sure we can say women can be bitches and men assholes BUT that doesn't make it okay to say it. We all as people can be intolerable at times but i dont think it's acceptable to go around calling names.

I mean if you're venting to your friends it could be one thing but then it might become a habit and then you'll call this person a name in front of their face. No go.

OP you're a gentleman for thinking the way you do. Similarly a lady doesn't go around calling men assholes. 🙂
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I’ve been called a bitch by guys when I no longer wanted to continue dating them. Just confirms what dickheads they are. Thanks for confirming I’ve made the right decision 💅




One of my favorite scenarios...

Guy: Would you like to dance/talk/hang out/whatever?

Gal: No, thank you.

Guy: Fuck you, bitch! You're ugly anyway.


Looser central lol

I wish someone use that with me, I'd love to say "nice try for punching above your weight in ugly"


I had it said to me once and I saw it said to a friend too. I know it just comes from being hurt by the rejection, and most likely drunk, so I try not to take it personally, but come on, man. Grow up.
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Being drunk/hurt don't give anyone licence to offend someone!

If I punch someone whilst drunk, I will be arrested so I'd not let anyone get away with something like that.
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What made it unacceptable in the old school?


Because it's gendered. Anyone can be an asshole. In the old school, only a woman was a bitch.


I think calling a dude a bitch is super effective. It's way worse than calling a woman an asshole. Your making disparaging remarks at his masculinity... calling him a whiny crybaby who's maybe also on their period? Which is never acceptable for a man to be. Growing up, I always assumed asshole was gendered to men.
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That's the thing, it may be effective, but I refuse to use my gender or stuff linked to it as something derogatory. And no, asshole is neutral.
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.
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I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.
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I’ve been called a bitch by guys when I no longer wanted to continue dating them. Just confirms what dickheads they are. Thanks for confirming I’ve made the right decision 💅




One of my favorite scenarios...

Guy: Would you like to dance/talk/hang out/whatever?

Gal: No, thank you.

Guy: Fuck you, bitch! You're ugly anyway.


Looser central lol

I wish someone use that with me, I'd love to say "nice try for punching above your weight in ugly"


I had it said to me once and I saw it said to a friend too. I know it just comes from being hurt by the rejection, and most likely drunk, so I try not to take it personally, but come on, man. Grow up.


Being drunk/hurt don't give anyone licence to offend someone!

If I punch someone whilst drunk, I will be arrested so I'd not let anyone get away with something like that.


You're right, of course, but I'm a big softy when it comes to people's feelings and rejection.
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Are others as soft when it comes to your feelings? Perhaps not

Its not stooping to their level, it's standing up for yourself. If you wouldn't, no one else will.

So if someone called me names unjustifiably, more than likely, my boxing skills would be put to practice in self defence 😄
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.
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She's 19 he's 22
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Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.


Yup, call me that and dont hold me responsible for using all my boxing skills on you!

PS my emergency numbers are saved on phone, might be needed for bail.
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LMFAO. You a feisty one. I like that. You remind me of a user that use to be here. She was feisty af which I dug. You could teach my sis a thing or two. I'll pay you back the bail money when I get my next paycheck 😂
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.


She's 19 he's 22
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Yep young... what are you gonna do?
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.


She's 19 he's 22


Yep young... what are you gonna do?
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Not really much I can do. Still tryna decide if I'm gonna approach the dude or not. Odds are I will. She'll be pissed, but she'll get over it.
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Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.

That's good.

It is unacceptable in my social circle. Even among friends we don't use the f word also. I have used it here but never uttered it irl.


TBH, I think its kinda acceptabe to women because of all of these reality shows. "Bad Girls Club," Jersey Shore and all that other crap. My sister's think its acceptable. I kinda get it because its the world we live in.


Oh that makes sense. The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol I never made time for tv shows or social media. .

Yeah you are right-- it boils down to the world we live in, esp our immediate circle of influence.

Are you the eldest? I'm the youngest and I know my brother would be disappointed if i were to use a certain language!



"The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol'

^LMFAO 😂. I know what u mean that's why I never stay too long.

I'm the second oldest and much respect for your bro. Sounds like a stand up dude. You live in the US?






Thank you. Right now my brother is in NY and I'm in Bangalore, India.
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Your brother is only about 2 hours from me (depending on where in NY). You ever get to the US?
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Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.


Yup, call me that and dont hold me responsible for using all my boxing skills on you!

PS my emergency numbers are saved on phone, might be needed for bail.


LMFAO. You a feisty one. I like that. You remind me of a user that use to be here. She was feisty af which I dug. You could teach my sis a thing or two. I'll pay you back the bail money when I get my next paycheck 😂
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Lol ! Why every man say that to me that I remind them of someone!

And yeah, send you sis over, I'm a good influence lol
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.


She's 19 he's 22


Yep young... what are you gonna do?


Not really much I can do. Still tryna decide if I'm gonna approach the dude or not. Odds are I will. She'll be pissed, but she'll get over it.
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hmm yeah..does she have any good female role models to talk to?
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It depends on the contex.

Someone could say "And then that crazy bitch started throwing my stuff out the window!" That imo is acceptable. That woman would in fact be a crazy bitch.

But if someone said "Man, I really needs to get out an find me sum bitches." Thats pretty much calling all women bitches, or categorizing them as objects, which is not acceptable.

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They want equality, they'll get equality. If you're being selective about it, might as well axe the whole movement & go back to the "pants are for men, skirts are for women" shtick.

I prefer to treat people on a personal merit basis, in the interest of fairness.

Those who are good to me will receive nothing but courtesy from me. If you wanna give me shit (especially for no reason), you forfeit your right to be treated with courtesy, and you only got yourself to blame for whatever happens next. Life is too short to mince words.

I'm an equal opportunity treater. Gender means nothing to me.

#equality

PS: why is this even up for debate? If whoever has a problem with being called a bitch, maybe she shouldn't act like one in the first place.

These two quotes perfectly sum-up how I feel about the usage of this word.

Anyone who acts in a despicable way to others deserves to be called any name under the sun, regardless of gender...

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Lol don't worry about it. All this thread manages to do is showcase people's double standards, lack of balls and lack of character strength. It also separates the real, genuine people from the plethora of plastic swishswishbishes around here who feign outrage when a guy calls a woman a bitch (deservingly so), but they say nothing when the same woman bullies random people over time, and encourage her with likes and lols.

Mind you, those same plastic swishswishbishes encourage male bullies as well, and go all judgemental when said bullies get bitten back, but that's a topic for another time.

Moral of the story:

If you don't like being called a bitch, you might wanna stop acting like one. And quit poking the bear if you don't like being mauled. It's 2018, playing the victim no longer flies.

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#EqualityIsABitch #DealWithIt
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I’ve been called a bitch by guys when I no longer wanted to continue dating them. Just confirms what dickheads they are. Thanks for confirming I’ve made the right decision 💅




One of my favorite scenarios...

Guy: Would you like to dance/talk/hang out/whatever?

Gal: No, thank you.

Guy: Fuck you, bitch! You're ugly anyway.


Looser central lol

I wish someone use that with me, I'd love to say "nice try for punching above your weight in ugly"


I had it said to me once and I saw it said to a friend too. I know it just comes from being hurt by the rejection, and most likely drunk, so I try not to take it personally, but come on, man. Grow up.


Being drunk/hurt don't give anyone licence to offend someone!

If I punch someone whilst drunk, I will be arrested so I'd not let anyone get away with something like that.


You're right, of course, but I'm a big softy when it comes to people's feelings and rejection.


Are others as soft when it comes to your feelings? Perhaps not

Its not stooping to their level, it's standing up for yourself. If you wouldn't, no one else will.

So if someone called me names unjustifiably, more than likely, my boxing skills would be put to practice in self defence 😄


If you had witnessed some of the interactions I've had with people, you wouldn't worry about me taking up for myself. lol I actually have to work at _not_ popping off. Too many people carry guns these days.
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Well, I don't live in states, praise the Lord almighty lol so I can pick up fights!
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Not in a joking way. Acceptable / Not Acceptable. I'm 36 and kinda old school and raised "old school," so it makes me skeeve when I hear it, but if def seems to be acceptable in some social circles.

That's good.

It is unacceptable in my social circle. Even among friends we don't use the f word also. I have used it here but never uttered it irl.


TBH, I think its kinda acceptabe to women because of all of these reality shows. "Bad Girls Club," Jersey Shore and all that other crap. My sister's think its acceptable. I kinda get it because its the world we live in.


Oh that makes sense. The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol I never made time for tv shows or social media. .

Yeah you are right-- it boils down to the world we live in, esp our immediate circle of influence.

Are you the eldest? I'm the youngest and I know my brother would be disappointed if i were to use a certain language!



"The only negative impact in my life is dxp lol'

^LMFAO 😂. I know what u mean that's why I never stay too long.

I'm the second oldest and much respect for your bro. Sounds like a stand up dude. You live in the US?






Thank you. Right now my brother is in NY and I'm in Bangalore, India.


Your brother is only about 2 hours from me (depending on where in NY). You ever get to the US?


Oh nice!

I was to visit last year but he had other plans( or he thought I would annoy him :/)... And this season we are planning a trip to my home country, Sri Lanka. So really not sure...

Have you been to India?
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As a sister its your job to annoy him 😂. That's cool you going back to your home country. If you do, enjoy! Nah, never been to India, but at least now I have a reason to visit lol
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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.


She's 19 he's 22


Yep young... what are you gonna do?


Not really much I can do. Still tryna decide if I'm gonna approach the dude or not. Odds are I will. She'll be pissed, but she'll get over it.


hmm yeah..does she have any good female role models to talk to?
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I have another sister that's older than her, but she just recently moved out of state. I did talk to her and she said she'd talk to her. They are close and she is a female, so she might be more receptive than some old dude preaching to her. Her friends are not role models. You have siblings?
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I would be offended if someone called me a bitch.

It’s not my personality type. I don’t really want to be called that in the bedroom either.


I don't think being called names during sex is sexy in the least. It would turn me off. I'm kind of surprised at how many women say they like it or are okay with it.


I just don’t care for it. My husband used to want me to talk about how he owned me because he was insecure and in that moment he wanted to feel powerful.

I like sexy talk, but I like positive talk... apparently I get kinda mushy there... i like hearing how you want me, how deep you care for me, how much I turn you on.


I like that kind of talk too. I also like extremely filthy talk, but no name-calling. I don't want to be demeaned or put down even in a role-playing situation.


I guess it’s about respect and trust? I’m trusting you in this situation, please give me some respect.

I’m very open sexually, but not so much emotionally. If we’re having sex, I’m in love. It may change the dynamic of what I’m looking for.
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...and about not feeling as though you're in a tacky porn movie having fake sex



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It triggers rage in me. Do IRL at your own risk.


I respect. Maybe you can talk to my sis


Who calls her that?

I only really get mad when it's used in anger and directed at me or another woman. It I doalso triggers me more to hear it IRL than to see it typed online. I've seen "bitches be this or that" enough that it no longer gets under my skin.


I have 19 year old sister who got into an argument with her dude. He sent her an angry text with included, 'you fuckin' bitch." Shit made her upset, which in turn triggered me. She thinks its the norm and I'm just the old dude.


I think even in today's world of "hey bitcheees" and women calling each other bitch out of affection, what your sister's bf texted her is out of line if she wants to be treated with respect. Regardless of arguments, respect is a boundary that should not be crossed. Calling names is just the start of an abusive relationship. I'd be really weary of what's going on between them. Also how old are they? She might be too young to realize what you're trying to tell her...

but i don't know I just knew from a very young age that respect is just the minimum.


She's 19 he's 22


Yep young... what are you gonna do?


Not really much I can do. Still tryna decide if I'm gonna approach the dude or not. Odds are I will. She'll be pissed, but she'll get over it.
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Well, I don't think you should approach the dude, instead you should talk to your sis, sit her down and say if you would have said that to your SO, what would she, as a woman, have thought of you.

It might just give her something to think for herself and perhaps for other females she knows?
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I would be offended if someone called me a bitch.

It’s not my personality type. I don’t really want to be called that in the bedroom either.


I don't think being called names during sex is sexy in the least. It would turn me off. I'm kind of surprised at how many women say they like it or are okay with it.
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I would get really annoyed and aggressive, I'd want to wrestle him off the bed lol!
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What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄
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Okay, what if a woman doesnt deserve respect? Woman can be b i t ches they got away with bad behavior just because everybody knows that they are emotional.



You re talking about old school chivalry, you re talking about taking the coat etc. am I right?

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Posted by tiziani

What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄


Okay, what if a woman doesnt deserve respect? Woman can be b i t ches they got away with bad behavior just because everybody knows that they are emotional.



You re talking about old school chivalry, you re talking about taking the coat etc. am I right?

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Why wouldn’t her? Guys can be emotional or grumpy or aggressive still you should respect each other. For me is about having manners.

Yes, and just showing off to a woman, taking care of her and helping her as a man. At the same time we should be iquals. It’s always a give and take.
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Posted by tiziani

What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄


Okay, what if a woman doesnt deserve respect? Woman can be b i t ches they got away with bad behavior just because everybody knows that they are emotional.



You re talking about old school chivalry, you re talking about taking the coat etc. am I right?



Why wouldn’t her? Guys can be emotional or grumpy or aggressive still you should respect each other. For me is about having manners.

Yes, and just showing off to a woman, taking care of her and helping her as a man. At the same time we should be iquals. It’s always a give and take.
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Well it depends who wronged whom, so we are not really on the same page here, can we agree to talk about the same scenarios.. I feel Woman especially

Strong woman like aries or scorpio get a free pass for making a scene in public or saying cruel things

just because they are emotional. Why dont they get straightened out and shamed by society? And if they tend have an attitude and if you are quickwitted they

purr like a cat. What do you make of that? Because I would expect that they would have to apologize and

bystanders judge them for their bad behavior. But that just doesnt happen.
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Posted by tiziani

What made it unacceptable in the old school?

Old school knows how to respect a woman 😄


Okay, what if a woman doesnt deserve respect? Woman can be b i t ches they got away with bad behavior just because everybody knows that they are emotional.



You re talking about old school chivalry, you re talking about taking the coat etc. am I right?



Why wouldn’t her? Guys can be emotional or grumpy or aggressive still you should respect each other. For me is about having manners.

Yes, and just showing off to a woman, taking care of her and helping her as a man. At the same time we should be iquals. It’s always a give and take.


Well it depends who wronged whom, so we are not really on the same page here, can we agree to talk about the same scenarios.. I feel Woman especially

Strong woman like aries or scorpio get a free pass for making a scene in public or saying cruel things

just because they are emotional. Why dont they get straightened out and shamed by society? And if they tend have an attitude and if you are quickwitted they

purr like a cat. What do you make of that? Because I would expect that they would have to apologize and

bystanders judge them for their bad behavior. But that just doesnt happen.
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Well I think both man and woman should apologize if they loose it. It doesn’t matter the reason why it happened. It’s just disrespectful to talk like that to anyone. But some people they just don’t know how to behave. It is not about being a man or a woman.
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it the shoe fits


I'd try to kill you if you called me that! 😆 😛


its only if the shoe fits

and theres tons of men that are bhiches too

actually it saddens me when i notice one


lol. It saddens you when you notice weak men 😆

Such a humanitarian! HELP THEM!! 😛

Yes I know there can be men and women who act like this, I just try to avoid them.No need for me to call them names unless they call me names first, then I will be defensive and attack their ass.


wow i like how you know what im talking about

i think letting them know is helping them, not in a confrontational way of course cause then id be the bhich
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🙂

Yes I agree with you. Letting someone know is a great way to keep them humble. Sometimes people need to be told about themselves every once in a while to get a better perspective. I love to be critiqued, I don't see any problem with it.