Are we all in the dark in this?

Posted by Antiphates

Myself and art.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Social norms are garbage anyways. Just do what feels right as long as your not hurting anyone else.

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

Posted by MareInfame

I personally feel like as a kid, teenager and in my 20’s I had a sign on my forehead that read “please come to me and share all your wisdom”

Because I was always getting advice from my mother, maternal grandmother, friends of my moms, my dance teachers, my school teachers, my boyfriend’s moms, my co-worker friends and college friends that were 10+ years older than me.

It wasn’t in a degrading or patronizing way, it always in a very loving way. Like they saw potential in me and trusted that I was wise enough to listen to such advice.

I always liked it. I loved talking about relationships, growth, dreams, goals… so I was always all ears and it was a great way to connect, and express ideas.

I didn’t feel I was in the dark, I felt like I had a huge support group.

I also try to help/mentor - but only if asked or I see that they need guidance I’ll open the topic to see if they want to talk about it.

Being a woman - everyone has a different idea based on background, history, their soul purpose. I loved learning such diverse ideas and out of that, creating my version of what it was/is to be a woman.

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Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by Antiphates

Myself and art.

Yes and no. I don't think it wrong for people to exchange their views and ideas on this, but it should understood that THE man and THE woman don't really exist. In terms of traits that is. They are mutable concepts that constantly change.

This is why I think art, or story telling in general, are good way to engage with them.

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Posted by Wizardz

Aju it disappoints me that your HP never increases

Posted by Wizardz

I have no shame or hesitation in asking anyone about anything. I would rather ask people than look it up on google or read a book

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

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Posted by Wizardz

I have no shame or hesitation in asking anyone about anything. I would rather ask people than look it up on google or read a book

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Posted by MyStarsShine

Yes I’ve often talked to other women about being a mum. It’s good to be around like minds especially when kids are small.

I like being a woman so sometimes share those likes with other women and past lovers too....

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Posted by xxAjuxx

Good questions.

Nobody, really. I was in the dark. Still am. lol

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

Nope. I end up googling stuff or watching stuff on YouTube. Strangers can help me out better then friends I know, they won't get offended when I still don't take their advice. 🙂

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Bro i've become like a King Spider.

It's like I'm chillin on my web and just waiting for some idiot to come by like "hello 🙂".

and I quickly wrap them around in web and they're like "HELP!!!...HELP!!!!" but no1's coming.

So I take my right fang, put it through the person's stomach.

Take my left fang and smash it through the person's forehead..skull CRACKs. and the person's like "ee-e-e-e-ehhhhh".

And start inserting my acid/poison into it's brain and stomach.

The person will fight back the best they can - but it's all pointless...they're fked.

all I'll hear is "Meeeeeh....mee-ee-e-e-eh"...in panic while they're trying to flee, which is stupid.

while all others just like sheep look at the victim like "...:O..." and they just look at their fallen comrade and mourn the comrade's fate.

but slowly, it'll shut up...when the poison kicks in..

I do not care about any "men" or "fathers" in general, brother...I am Satan and tbh, Man - if it wasn't for God, I would fking enslave people and just turn this place into the worst hell imaginable.

We would go back to the stone-ages (mentality) real quick.

Anyone who is stupid or weak would automatically be enslaved, because they're stupid or weak = so they're slaves.

And this is the reason God made me King, to ensure none of this would ever happen..

It's like "Congrats - you won the race...."........fuak...

what now. have 400 wifes and buy new cars and just have a good life for the rest of this fking existence?

Nah man, I can't be no fking KIng - fk being a king of anything = I wanna be reckless and do what i want, which I already do.

Nothing's really changed - except now I have an invisible crown and god damn attract females like crazy.

look at me and you bro having a conversation.

i am fking insane.

Nice talk brother

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

Nope. I end up googling stuff or watching stuff on YouTube. Strangers can help me out better then friends I know, they won't get offended when I still don't take their advice. 🙂

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

Nope. I end up googling stuff or watching stuff on YouTube. Strangers can help me out better then friends I know, they won't get offended when I still don't take their advice. 🙂

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

You view humanity because of one experience?

Yes, nothing else - just this experience.

it's like i sit into a taxi and if I don't like the cab - I'm like "That's it = I don't like cars" and I never ever think about it again.

this is why I get on my knees and pray to my washing machine for luck and guidance & free vodka.

It never fails me - That is the only God there is to me.

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

You view humanity because of one experience?

Yes, nothing else - just this experience.

it's like i sit into a taxi and if I don't like the cab - I'm like "That's it = I don't like cars" and I never ever think about it again.

this is why I get on my knees and pray to my washing machine for luck and guidance & free vodka.

It never fails me - That is the only God there is to me.

What about your fridge/freezer or dishwasher?

How stupid are you

None of those you listed is God - do not make me angry with your nonsense

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Posted by Wizardz

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Wizardz

I have no shame or hesitation in asking anyone about anything. I would rather ask people than look it up on google or read a book

Me too

I think maybe people are too proud to ask or reach out which is sad as it keeps us all connected. I’m too curious not to ask questions 😀

It's sad when people would rather try and find info using their phones than ask a person

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

I don't know why I don't get notifications when you reply to me but whatever.

There's way too much to explain but, I'll say it like this: Anything I know = You can know too.

And this is how I did it.

Take a pen and paper, calm your mind, be alone and write down your question and wait for the answer...instantly write down any answer you get, regardless if you think it doesn't make sense...it may be leading up to something.

It doesn't matter how stupid the question is, because - the broader the question = the more it shows that you don't know what you're talking about/i.e. asking...however, here's the good thing:

God/Universe/whatever you wanna call it: Will answer you.

It will answer you in the exact same way that mirrors your question, so if the question is broad, for example: "what is the meaning of life"....you can get an answer "to live"...ok...from that, you ask another question "what do you mean by live"...then you will get another answer...and it's basically throwing the ball back and forth..

It becomes easier as you will gain more knowledge+understanding=Wisdom.

Pretty soon you'll be connected to God 100% and know exactly the questions to ask and in what order to put the words to make the sentence, in order to get a crystal clear answer back.

It may be hard at first but trust me - it's worth it.

Not sure what else to say at this point.

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Posted by Soul

In most cases I speak to myself. I cry to myself, and build myself up, or tear myself down. I'm like the worst pain, or best motivation to my own mental and even physical state. Sometimes I vent to people a bit, but realize the weight I carry is 100% going to burden them in ways. Even if it's subconsciously and they can't tell. Because of that I stay hidden with 90% 9f how I feel or what I'm going through. It is tough to swallow my feelings and pretend I'm better then I actually am, but rather feel that then watch the people at love suffer from my intense internal turmoil. I know I can't fix it, and don't expect others to fix it. Especially if I deeply love and respect them.

Posted by Wizardz

Aju it disappoints me that your HP never increases

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by saggurl88

I do what I want. I don't need permission for anything.

Nope. I end up googling stuff or watching stuff on YouTube. Strangers can help me out better then friends I know, they won't get offended when I still don't take their advice. 🙂

What is this that you're typing on? It almost looks like a video game.

Is it a TTY/TDD Device?

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

You view humanity because of one experience?

Yes, nothing else - just this experience.

it's like i sit into a taxi and if I don't like the cab - I'm like "That's it = I don't like cars" and I never ever think about it again.

this is why I get on my knees and pray to my washing machine for luck and guidance & free vodka.

It never fails me - That is the only God there is to me.

What about your fridge/freezer or dishwasher?

How stupid are you

None of those you listed is God - do not make me angry with your nonsense

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Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by King_Tommy

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by King_Tommy

I don't talk to anyone about being a man, wtf kinda question is that.

about being a father --- who is there to ask about it, because at the end of the day = I am Me.

So even if I had kids, I wouldn't raise them how others would raise them, I'd raise them the way I'd raise them.

To be winners......Are there alot of winners in the world who I could ask? Not really.

Am I a winner and should know the answer to everything that confuses me? Yes.

Is there a contradiction or a problem? No, there never is a problem.

Am I dumb4ss? If I choose to engage with other people = Yes.

So it is what it is

Why does engaging with people make you a dumbass? I think it’s just being human ....

This will take way too long to explain, so I'll use an example, read between the lines if you can.

A while back I was walking around my city and getting drunk..and one candidate for some party, was trying to get elected - so he handed me his flier, with his face on it and his #..like candidate 161 or whatever...

I was a bit drunk, yet I was curious, so I asked him.."what are your visions for change?"..

He started telling me some sh1t about "well, first I'd consult our team and.." .....

I asked him again, "Fk all that - what are your visions..where are you going with this, what are you gonna change"..

The dude got lost and in 2 seconds I hear him say "...I don't understand..well thank you it was a nice meeting you"...

This pretty much sums up how I view humanity now...and this dude was trying to get into parlament.

I don't know why I don't get notifications when you reply to me but whatever.

There's way too much to explain but, I'll say it like this: Anything I know = You can know too.

And this is how I did it.

Take a pen and paper, calm your mind, be alone and write down your question and wait for the answer...instantly write down any answer you get, regardless if you think it doesn't make sense...it may be leading up to something.

It doesn't matter how stupid the question is, because - the broader the question = the more it shows that you don't know what you're talking about/i.e. asking...however, here's the good thing:

God/Universe/whatever you wanna call it: Will answer you.

It will answer you in the exact same way that mirrors your question, so if the question is broad, for example: "what is the meaning of life"....you can get an answer "to live"...ok...from that, you ask another question "what do you mean by live"...then you will get another answer...and it's basically throwing the ball back and forth..

It becomes easier as you will gain more knowledge+understanding=Wisdom.

Pretty soon you'll be connected to God 100% and know exactly the questions to ask and in what order to put the words to make the sentence, in order to get a crystal clear answer back.

It may be hard at first but trust me - it's worth it.

Not sure what else to say at this point.

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Posted by Yurted_

Tribal life would of taken care of this. We no longer have that, so create our own tribe. I consult friends/share experiences. Culturally, we have elders but I woukd never look to them,persinally. We've all been colonised, urbanised and disconnected from our roots.

Maybe some people consult religion, idk.

Posted by Shadeberry

I think meditating every day is important. Not just the feel good / let your mind wander meditation, but the kind that is active and intentional. I will send you a link of a meditation I just discovered. Maybe it’ll be useful 😊

Posted by MareInfame

Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by MareInfame

I personally feel like as a kid, teenager and in my 20’s I had a sign on my forehead that read “please come to me and share all your wisdom”

Because I was always getting advice from my mother, maternal grandmother, friends of my moms, my dance teachers, my school teachers, my boyfriend’s moms, my co-worker friends and college friends that were 10+ years older than me.

It wasn’t in a degrading or patronizing way, it always in a very loving way. Like they saw potential in me and trusted that I was wise enough to listen to such advice.

I always liked it. I loved talking about relationships, growth, dreams, goals… so I was always all ears and it was a great way to connect, and express ideas.

I didn’t feel I was in the dark, I felt like I had a huge support group.

I also try to help/mentor - but only if asked or I see that they need guidance I’ll open the topic to see if they want to talk about it.

Being a woman - everyone has a different idea based on background, history, their soul purpose. I loved learning such diverse ideas and out of that, creating my version of what it was/is to be a woman.

Aju, don’t be so hard on yourself. No, I don’t think there is any shame in searching for guidance. If anything, I find it courageous especially when you say, men tend to have an ego block from daring to ask…. I’m sure some women also have this issue as well. I know a lot of women that don’t like to admit they don’t know something.

I felt a huge darkness after my uncle/godfather past away. Actually, within the last 5 years I have lost people that I was really close to and felt like they guided me. It wasn’t about being a woman but being an adult and the detailed responsibilities that go with it. I felt like I lost a lot of the people I trusted for that. And now I am feeling the pressure to remember all that they taught me.

It feels safe to have older people guide you with their wisdom. I always search for that… wisdom. There comes a time where it’s time for you to be that person, too - step up.

But for you, I see nothing wrong with searching for a mentor. I find it necessary, actually.

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Posted by Soul

In most cases I speak to myself. I cry to myself, and build myself up, or tear myself down. I'm like the worst pain, or best motivation to my own mental and even physical state. Sometimes I vent to people a bit, but realize the weight I carry is 100% going to burden them in ways. Even if it's subconsciously and they can't tell. Because of that I stay hidden with 90% 9f how I feel or what I'm going through. It is tough to swallow my feelings and pretend I'm better then I actually am, but rather feel that then watch the people at love suffer from my intense internal turmoil. I know I can't fix it, and don't expect others to fix it. Especially if I deeply love and respect them.

Posted by Lostthoughts

I'm at the point were I don't need advice most of the time. Rather another perspective to help me sort through my head and make the choices already there.

I would like someone to be 100% with and vis versa. Sometimes. A Rock needs thier own rock.

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Posted by Wizardz

Aju it disappoints me that your HP never increases

Coz maybe he doesnt want things to end.

Once you hit thay 10,000 and 100. That's it, bro.

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Posted by xxAjuxx

Posted by Lostthoughts

I'm at the point were I don't need advice most of the time. Rather another perspective to help me sort through my head and make the choices already there.

I would like someone to be 100% with and vis versa. Sometimes. A Rock needs thier own rock.

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Posted by Soul

In most cases I speak to myself. I cry to myself, and build myself up, or tear myself down. I'm like the worst pain, or best motivation to my own mental and even physical state. Sometimes I vent to people a bit, but realize the weight I carry is 100% going to burden them in ways. Even if it's subconsciously and they can't tell. Because of that I stay hidden with 90% 9f how I feel or what I'm going through. It is tough to swallow my feelings and pretend I'm better then I actually am, but rather feel that then watch the people at love suffer from my intense internal turmoil. I know I can't fix it, and don't expect others to fix it. Especially if I deeply love and respect them.

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