
Andalusia
@Andalusia
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Posted by Koniuchaa
What! Was it read books together??



Posted by MIIeFiskWell said.Posted by ScorpioBoarI think she's having issue with a dirty hooker in her living space
Is this question really about escorts, or is something else bothering you?
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Posted by QuantumHe's not awkward with women. He has a lot of female friends and has had serious, monogamous relationships before. He is a self confirmed bachelor though and can't go longer than a month without sex before he "starts going crazy", according to him.
I think if he's less than successful with the ladies, maybe the escort is a way to help him cope. If that's the case maybe talk to him about being more discreet and respectful about it.

Posted by AndalusiaYeah. Then gross.Posted by QuantumHe's not awkward with women. He has a lot of female friends and has had serious, monogamous relationships before. He is a self confirmed bachelor though and can't go longer than a month without sex before he "starts going crazy", according to him.
I think if he's less than successful with the ladies, maybe the escort is a way to help him cope. If that's the case maybe talk to him about being more discreet and respectful about it.click to expand

Posted by MIIeFiskHe's older than that. And his Hispanic girlfriend would castrate him if he brought a hooker over.
Are you rooming with Rabbit's dad?



Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.

Posted by MIIeFiskI keep it in the mini fridge in my room.
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?



Posted by AndalusiaNah. It's one thing to buy sex from a dangerous source.Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.click to expand



Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.

Posted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness if he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.click to expand

Posted by NemiliciousI've known him for about 10 years. Met him through my sister, turned out they had a lot of mutual friends.Posted by AndalusiaHow long do you know this guy?Posted by MIIeFiskI keep it in the mini fridge in my room.
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?
Why move in with a 50 year old?
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Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.
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Posted by MIIeFiskNot if we're speaking relatively. 😛Posted by MontgomeryIt was a little crass. But im running on 2 hours of sleep today...Posted by MIIeFiskWell said.Posted by ScorpioBoarI think she's having issue with a dirty hooker in her living space
Is this question really about escorts, or is something else bothering you?
Would it be too much to ask him to rent a room for the extra curricular activities?
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Posted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
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Posted by NemiliciousNo, just a verbal agreement. He doesn't need the extra money, it just helps.Posted by AndalusiaI see. More than meets the eye.Posted by NemiliciousI've known him for about 10 years. Met him through my sister, turned out they had a lot of mutual friends.Posted by AndalusiaHow long do you know this guy?Posted by MIIeFiskI keep it in the mini fridge in my room.
Did they violate your cucumber from the fridge?
Why move in with a 50 year old?
He's let people (other acquaintances or friends) move in before while they were transitioning (going through a break up, divorce, etc). Neither of them ever mentioned anything other than how great he was as a friend and roommate.
If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe start a plan b?
Are you in some legal bind/contract regarding the lease?
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Posted by AndalusiaI just hope there's nothing else to find out.Posted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
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Posted by enfant_terribleOp is the witness...duh keep upPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.
Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't
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Posted by LadyNeptuneNot if he decides she's not lolPosted by enfant_terribleOp is the witness...duh keep upPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.
Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't
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Posted by LadyNeptuneThey meant if he decides op is a riskPosted by enfant_terribleOp is the witness...duh keep upPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.
Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't
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Posted by NemiliciousI know... I didn't want to scare.Posted by VenusAquariusYou bet there is.Posted by AndalusiaI just hope there's nothing else to find out.Posted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
There is more to it than we are reading.
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Posted by NemiliciousGod I hope not. You're right though. I probably will have to move.Posted by VenusAquariusYou bet there is.Posted by AndalusiaI just hope there's nothing else to find out.Posted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
There is more to it than we are reading.
click to expand

Posted by AndalusiaPosted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
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Posted by hydorahGod no.Posted by AndalusiaPosted by VenusAquariusHe talks about sex or looks or attractiveness all the time. Not in a suggestive way. More conversational.. like he sees me as one of the guys.Posted by AndalusiaSo, no formal lease. Hmm, can't tell anyone what to do in their home. So, the choice is yours. If you choose to discuss, it should be that you are leaving.Posted by VenusAquariusHe's a Capricorn. January 17. He has a house, I am renting space in it.
What's his sign?
Are you living there for free?
If you become uncomfortable in a living arrangement this soon, you best believe it's not a good sign of things to come.
Better dip now before things get worse.
I pay a flat, monthly rate of $ 400 for rent and utilities. Not free, but definitely cheaper than anything I could find on my own.
You've had some sort of conversation already about it, to which he described his libido. How did that hsppen?
So you wish that with time, you could turn the buddy friendship into something else like in a hollywood movie?
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Posted by VenusAquariusExactly.
Can't tell nobody what to do in their home... whether it be smoking, drinking, walking around naked, etc.
The answer will most likely be, you can leave.

Posted by MIIeFiskJust furthers my believe that I have piss poor judgment when it comes to guys. Or that I somehow manage to call forth their weird / asshole / or questionable side.
Pretty much... you might want to start looking... again. Sorry, melly. ?

Posted by MontgomeryI know what he means. But come on... with that logic she's gonna need to be sleeping with BOTH eyes open. The escort thing is the least of her issues.Posted by LadyNeptuneThey meant if he decides op is a riskPosted by enfant_terribleOp is the witness...duh keep upPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by AndalusiaActually safer for the escort that your there. There's a witness he decides to do something shady...Posted by fugu2It's not necessarily the escort aspect that bothers me. Paying for sex seems far more honest than faking a relationship in order to get it.
If i were in that situation, I'd prefer a roommate having one escort over regularly rather than him dragging random strangers in from bars all the time.
unless she is a rude guest or steals stuff, I wouldn't worry too much.
The manner of the transaction just seems so... seedy and unsafe.
Idk.. maybe I'm being too uptight or sanctimonious.
Not if he decides there is no witness ,there ain't
and silences her forever.
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Posted by AndalusiaJust tell him, respectfully, that the whole escort arrangement makes you uncomfortable and to give you a heads up so that your not there when its going down.Posted by VenusAquariusExactly.
Can't tell nobody what to do in their home... whether it be smoking, drinking, walking around naked, etc.
The answer will most likely be, you can leave.
I guess I just wish he would have mentioned this up front, before I moved in, so i.wouldn't have to start looking for another place yet again.click to expand

Posted by Cancan26Yes. She was an escort. Or hooked or whatever. Her madam brought her over.
maybe ....he meant in a slang term way ....
"pussy delivered"-a ho that you don't have to put much effort into to have sex... 😢 are you sure that it was a hooker—

Posted by Andalusiaa madam brought her over!!!!! .....yea its time for you to be hitting the ole dusty trail.....Posted by Cancan26Yes. She was an escort. Or hooked or whatever. Her madam brought her over.
maybe ....he meant in a slang term way ....
"pussy delivered"-a ho that you don't have to put much effort into to have sex... 😢 are you sure that it was a hooker—click to expand

Posted by MIIeFiskI agree.
Don't be hard on yourself over this. The rent was cheap and you were in a pinch.

Posted by KoniuchaaFrom my understanding, escort is just a more evolved term for prostitute. It's illegal to pay for sex, so you pay or hire for time and companionship instead.Posted by LeDominoesSo escort is the same as a prostitute?
What the hell else would you use escorts for? Sex? LMFAO, weirdos.click to expand
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I know she was an escort because he told me - or as he phrased it, "pussy delivery".
I consider myself a fairly open minded person, but I'm having trouble with this. It has caused me to see him in a different light and I am tempted to move out. Seeing as how I just moved in though, this might bring about an awkward conversation.
Idk what to do. Pretty much all aspects of my life are very unsettled right now.. I was hoping I'd finally find some stability in at least one area of it, but I guess not 😢