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Now that chick, she's another nutter. From lying on DXP about being on Lindaland. To being in her 40s, but saying she was younger on DXP. From having a kid passing away, and getting pregnant in the same week. To having a husband, but not having one. I mean, JFC.

Did she use her real photos? I had no idea at all she was lying about so much at the time.
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Those are her real pictures... They are just like 10 years old. lol
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I’m really a 40 year old man named Pasquale. My two kids are actually my two hamsters named Pickles and Peanuts. I enjoy long walks along the highway eating slim Jim’s and whistling at homeless animals.

I’ll do better next time.



Sorry, for the inconvenience.

Still more believable than @LadyNeptune not having a Bumble account.
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Didn't you read, she said she has an iphone. She's just posting other person's screenshot, for who knows why.
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Now that chick, she's another nutter. From lying on DXP about being on Lindaland. To being in her 40s, but saying she was younger on DXP. From having a kid passing away, and getting pregnant in the same week. To having a husband, but not having one. I mean, JFC.

Did she use her real photos? I had no idea at all she was lying about so much at the time.

I don’t even remember her but I remember people talking about her stories lol

She had a lot of names and deleted alot. BlueFroggy, InstantKarma, Squishy. I can't remember what else. Her dating stories were pretty wild, lol
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They were all wild, because she read them in smut novels where the billionaire impregnates his secretary and he fired her because he thought he was sterile.
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Now that chick, she's another nutter. From lying on DXP about being on Lindaland. To being in her 40s, but saying she was younger on DXP. From having a kid passing away, and getting pregnant in the same week. To having a husband, but not having one. I mean, JFC.

Did she use her real photos? I had no idea at all she was lying about so much at the time.

I don’t even remember her but I remember people talking about her stories lol

She had a lot of names and deleted alot. BlueFroggy, InstantKarma, Squishy. I can't remember what else. Her dating stories were pretty wild, lol

They were all wild, because she read them in smut novels where the billionaire impregnates his secretary and he fired her because he thought he was sterile.

Omg, lmao 😅
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I may, or may not have read a few of those myself and written some. LMAO
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Posted by WhorpioHi Dazed, I was wondering how this alleged lie has impacted your life.

Thanks in advance!

Join our next Zoom meeting and I'll explain it to you.

A Zoom meeting not many people will be going to. This thread will get more views than the zoom meeting will. So who’s really operating in the shadows?

First night was 2 people..

Second night was 5 people..

That's a 150% increase in one day. That's exponential growth.

Wait a fckin min...

Y’all did this for two nights and didn’t tag me?

🤨
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I'm not the host.
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Posted by WhorpioHi Dazed, I was wondering how this alleged lie has impacted your life.

Thanks in advance!

Join our next Zoom meeting and I'll explain it to you.

A Zoom meeting not many people will be going to. This thread will get more views than the zoom meeting will. So who’s really operating in the shadows?

First night was 2 people..

Second night was 5 people..

That's a 150% increase in one day. That's exponential growth.

Wait a fckin min...

Y’all did this for two nights and didn’t tag me?

🤨

I'm not the host.

It don’t matter. I got some carne asada to pick with you.
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My meat is on hiatus.
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Posted by WhorpioHi Dazed, I was wondering how this alleged lie has impacted your life.

Thanks in advance!

Join our next Zoom meeting and I'll explain it to you.

A Zoom meeting not many people will be going to. This thread will get more views than the zoom meeting will. So who’s really operating in the shadows?

First night was 2 people..

Second night was 5 people..

That's a 150% increase in one day. That's exponential growth.

Wait a fckin min...

Y’all did this for two nights and didn’t tag me?

🤨

I'm not the host.

It don’t matter. I got some carne asada to pick with you.

My meat is on hiatus.

I’ll be the judge of that.
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Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.

Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.


It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.
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This. All of it.
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Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.


It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.

This. All of it.

We’ve all been hung by the dxp jury at some point.

I remember ppl couldn’t believe I went to uni or travelled or was capable of getting a full time job, because I admitted to dancing when I was 18. Even tho I was mainly on dxp from age 27 and up, and in a foreign country.

My volunteering days are over tho. I want money.

I think I gave you a hard time at one point. I was an asshole . Sorry dude.
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Where is my apology?
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Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.


It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.

This. All of it.

We’ve all been hung by the dxp jury at some point.

I remember ppl couldn’t believe I went to uni or travelled or was capable of getting a full time job, because I admitted to dancing when I was 18. Even tho I was mainly on dxp from age 27 and up, and in a foreign country.

My volunteering days are over tho. I want money.
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Well at least you weren't accused of being a paedo/rapist/molester of some sort.

I'm just waiting for the stories about me to get more interesting and ludicrous.

At the end of the day, I think some people think if they don't exaggerate their own lives, other people on dxp will do it for them.
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.


It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.

This. All of it.

We’ve all been hung by the dxp jury at some point.

I remember ppl couldn’t believe I went to uni or travelled or was capable of getting a full time job, because I admitted to dancing when I was 18. Even tho I was mainly on dxp from age 27 and up, and in a foreign country.

My volunteering days are over tho. I want money.

Well at least you weren't accused of being a paedo/rapist/molester of some sort.I'm just waiting for the stories about me to get more interesting and ludicrous.

At the end of the day, I think some people think if they don't exaggerate their own lives, other people on dxp will do it for them.

How about this?.........

You killed Jeffery Epstein.
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.


It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.

This. All of it.

We’ve all been hung by the dxp jury at some point.

I remember ppl couldn’t believe I went to uni or travelled or was capable of getting a full time job, because I admitted to dancing when I was 18. Even tho I was mainly on dxp from age 27 and up, and in a foreign country.

My volunteering days are over tho. I want money.

Well at least you weren't accused of being a paedo/rapist/molester of some sort.

I'm just waiting for the stories about me to get more interesting and ludicrous.

At the end of the day, I think some people think if they don't exaggerate their own lives, other people on dxp will do it for them.

your file landed on the desk of DXP’s SVU too?

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Are you surprised? lol
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Lord, you just gotta poke @_Dazed. lol

And no, this thread isn't about ONE person, contrary to one assuming they are the sole focus. Also bringing up one's sobriety as a means to be derogatory, is for the birds.

But yes, you are one of the many examples on DXP and in real life that can be used.

What is the purpose of posting a picture of a company credit card and its limit?

What is the purpose of posting pictures of a series of pictures taken on the same day, weeks apart?

And while doing this, specifically omitting certain facts about it, until Dazed has poked you enough to get you to respond to him. You aren't a liar, per se, you just omit certain facts and it gives off an air of trying to have a more lavish life style , than you may really have. At least, that is what it comes off as.

The same can be said about DJ. Who is an exaggerator extraordinaire in his made up bullshit. From his janitor dad, being rich. To opening up a business in the US, while being a Canadian citizen. His lies were just grandiose, and nutty.

Then there is BHC, whose made comments anywhere from her being an AOC Counsellor, to being a "nurse" that helps drug addicts handing out class A drugs, when all the evidence she provides says otherwise.

And then you got the other random users, that will lie about their age, and other small shit as well. But can't even remember the lies they tell, and end up saying another story that contradicts a story they may have told months ago. And that can be about traumas all the way down to something miniscule, that seems to be done just to "fit in".

This shit doesn't just happen on DXP, but in real life. My ex-roommate had the same issue, as well as @_Dazed's ex-roommate. This topic came up, when we were discussing our ex-roommates and their capacity to lie about all kinds of stuff. Her social media was like a billboard of how "great" her life was, but in real life she was broke, jobless, and nothing as shiny as she showed online. Repo, bankruptcy, collectors from rent a center showing up at the door for her.

I like how you want to talk about me but don't tag me. I am not your roommate.

What other people think of me is none of my business, thats on them.

I don't have to tag you, you know I was talking to you and you were already in this thread. That point is moot, when I already know you are all up in this thread, thinking it's about YOU, and only YOU.

This thread isn't about YOU, it is about a general consensus of people who exhibit the traits, with Dazed directly poking at you, and others, as per his examples. You just happen to be apart of a wide group that does this shit.

You just make yourself an easier target by always thinking shit is just about you, and dazed loves to get your reaction.
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Just my opinion, so anyone is free to criticize.

There is no point, in fact a waste of precious time, in explaining a situation to people who can't see the forest for its trees.
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Posted by WhorpioHi Dazed, I was wondering how this alleged lie has impacted your life.

Thanks in advance!

Join our next Zoom meeting and I'll explain it to you.

A Zoom meeting not many people will be going to. This thread will get more views than the zoom meeting will. So who’s really operating in the shadows?

First night was 2 people..

Second night was 5 people..

That's a 150% increase in one day. That's exponential growth.

Wait a fckin min...

Y’all did this for two nights and didn’t tag me?

🤨

I'm not the host.

Is it the same gang that had the chat screenshots in the comments here? Like a year ago?
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Huh?
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Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

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😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Something pisses them off and they make assumptions and tell others and then they tell others etc.
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I wonder how many people remember this movie. How a rumour can change as it changes hands.

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I remember when, whats her nuts, posted that thread about being physically abused by her boyfriend or something, and it ended up that she tripped and face planted into the ground.

You mean the girl who, at age 18, ran over and killed a mother and child while under the influence of alcohol?
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I remember that kooky sag lady D: What was her moon?

From a very young age I been exposed to social media (MySpace during 6th grade) and always having coming across random people on the internet in some form, I just never took what people said online at face value unless in the rare event I met them in person or saw obvious signs that spoke for themselves. Everyone displays a form of facade online and in real life. I think people who push to prove a certain image online are the most shady ones because I don’t know why one would need to feel the need to prove themselves with so much effort to faceless internet people. It usually comes from huge insecurity and desperate urge to seek validation from anywhere. For some at least someone is always out on the interweb to listen and react. It can even be a source of cheap therapy for some.
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Instantkarma knew a lot of astro, but she went from having a taurus moon to having a scorpio moon which she could never explain to me...

She has neither. She's a leo moon

Wtf. How do you know?
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Her posts on lindaland. She tells everyone all of her details, as well as her husbands.

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Instantkarma knew a lot of astro, but she went from having a taurus moon to having a scorpio moon which she could never explain to me...

She has neither. She's a leo moon

Wtf. How do you know?

Her posts on lindaland. She tells everyone all of her details, as well as her husbands.

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Jeez...
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Like I said, she's a nutter. Everything she said on DXP is the polar opposite of her years of posting on lindaland. lol
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This shit doesn't just happen on DXP, but in real life. My ex-roommate had the same issue, as well as @_Dazed's ex-roommate. This topic came up, when we were discussing our ex-roommates and their capacity to lie about all kinds of stuff. Her social media was like a billboard of how "great" her life was, but in real life she was broke, jobless, and nothing as shiny as she showed online. Repo, bankruptcy, collectors from rent a center showing up at the door for her.

Showboating on Facebook is met with judgments like “you’re pretentious” or “I raised you to be humble”, and it leads people you haven’t seen in years to message you asking for money 🤦🏻‍♀️Plus I get annoyed with people who constantly post about their day-to-day lives; if it’s a normal day for you why do you have to update us throughout it? I have that same mentality when it comes to my own posting: it’s a normal day, so why would my FB friends care? They probably don’t care to know where I’m traveling to now or what my nails look like this month. But you know who does care? My Snapchat friends.

Snapchat is where I show off a lot about my life style , but it’s moreso when I’m enjoying myself. It’s a good place to catalog memories.

And then obviously showing bits and pieces on here but that’s my inner need to showboat. Prolly is for validation, but at least I’m not seeking it 100% of the time I’m on dxp 🤷‍♀️

And then I flex on my parents IRL, but that’s mostly to annoy them because they hate the idea of raising a pretentious child (though I think deep down they know they’re the reason I’m rotten 🤷‍♀️).

I do believe I spend too much time trying to prove myself on here. I’m not necessarily doing it for my own honor. I see people “Like” dazed posts calling me a liar, accusing me of saying this or that, and I just want those people to have the full story before they stand completely behind his accusations. Part of me feels like I’m exposing him as a sociopath, but another part of me feels like I’m just looking like a circus clown.
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Her posts on lindaland. She tells everyone all of her details, as well as her husbands.

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But if she lied so much here how do you know what she said there wasn’t also false?
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She could have been lying over there as well, for all I know. But she listed place of birth, date of birth, and time of birth. And seemingly spoke very openly about a lot of things over there in regards to her our chart. She also posted a TON of unfiltered pictures too, not the stuff she posted here. Her personality is vastly different, but there is an off chance she could be lying there too. But after scoring through hundreds of posts that spanned 3+ years, she was consistent in her placements. Not like she was on DXP.
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This shit doesn't just happen on DXP, but in real life. My ex-roommate had the same issue, as well as @_Dazed's ex-roommate. This topic came up, when we were discussing our ex-roommates and their capacity to lie about all kinds of stuff. Her social media was like a billboard of how "great" her life was, but in real life she was broke, jobless, and nothing as shiny as she showed online. Repo, bankruptcy, collectors from rent a center showing up at the door for her.

Showboating on Facebook is met with judgments like “you’re pretentious” or “I raised you to be humble”, and it leads people you haven’t seen in years to message you asking for money 🤦🏻‍♀️Plus I get annoyed with people who constantly post about their day-to-day lives; if it’s a normal day for you why do you have to update us throughout it? I have that same mentality when it comes to my own posting: it’s a normal day, so why would my FB friends care? They probably don’t care to know where I’m traveling to now or what my nails look like this month. But you know who does care? My Snapchat friends.

Snapchat is where I show off a lot about my life style , but it’s moreso when I’m enjoying myself. It’s a good place to catalog memories.

And then obviously showing bits and pieces on here but that’s my inner need to showboat. Prolly is for validation, but at least I’m not seeking it 100% of the time I’m on dxp 🤷‍♀️

And then I flex on my parents IRL, but that’s mostly to annoy them because they hate the idea of raising a pretentious child (though I think deep down they know they’re the reason I’m rotten 🤷‍♀️).

I do believe I spend too much time trying to prove myself on here. I’m not necessarily doing it for my own honor. I see people “Like” dazed posts calling me a liar, accusing me of saying this or that, and I just want those people to have the full story before they stand completely behind his accusations. Part of me feels like I’m exposing him as a sociopath, but another part of me feels like I’m just looking like a circus clown.
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Did your parents buy you your car?
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This shit doesn't just happen on DXP, but in real life. My ex-roommate had the same issue, as well as @_Dazed's ex-roommate. This topic came up, when we were discussing our ex-roommates and their capacity to lie about all kinds of stuff. Her social media was like a billboard of how "great" her life was, but in real life she was broke, jobless, and nothing as shiny as she showed online. Repo, bankruptcy, collectors from rent a center showing up at the door for her.

Showboating on Facebook is met with judgments like “you’re pretentious” or “I raised you to be humble”, and it leads people you haven’t seen in years to message you asking for money 🤦🏻‍♀️Plus I get annoyed with people who constantly post about their day-to-day lives; if it’s a normal day for you why do you have to update us throughout it? I have that same mentality when it comes to my own posting: it’s a normal day, so why would my FB friends care? They probably don’t care to know where I’m traveling to now or what my nails look like this month. But you know who does care? My Snapchat friends.

Snapchat is where I show off a lot about my life style , but it’s moreso when I’m enjoying myself. It’s a good place to catalog memories.

And then obviously showing bits and pieces on here but that’s my inner need to showboat. Prolly is for validation, but at least I’m not seeking it 100% of the time I’m on dxp 🤷‍♀️

And then I flex on my parents IRL, but that’s mostly to annoy them because they hate the idea of raising a pretentious child (though I think deep down they know they’re the reason I’m rotten 🤷‍♀️).

I do believe I spend too much time trying to prove myself on here. I’m not necessarily doing it for my own honor. I see people “Like” dazed posts calling me a liar, accusing me of saying this or that, and I just want those people to have the full story before they stand completely behind his accusations. Part of me feels like I’m exposing him as a sociopath, but another part of me feels like I’m just looking like a circus clown.
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The difference though, is I have a feeling you don't necessarily lie about your life style . Ya know?

So take my ex-roommate for an example. She posts new games she got for her switch. Or when they went to disney world, their bracelets or whatever those things are for the passes and crap. I don't go, but I assume you know what I am talking about. Whatever new purchase she got.

In the meantime, she is shekelbaiting her own friends and family to pay for that stuff because she is really just jobless and lazy. lol She legit used her dying cat, to get one friend to pay $ 350 for it to be put down and cremated, and then got an additional $ 350 from other friends. This is just one of the many shekelbaiting incidents. lol
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Her posts on lindaland. She tells everyone all of her details, as well as her husbands.

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But if she lied so much here how do you know what she said there wasn’t also false?

She could have been lying over there as well, for all I know. But she listed place of birth, date of birth, and time of birth. And seemingly spoke very openly about a lot of things over there in regards to her our chart. She also posted a TON of unfiltered pictures too, not the stuff she posted here. Her personality is vastly different, but there is an off chance she could be lying there too. But after scoring through hundreds of posts that spanned 3+ years, she was consistent in her placements. Not like she was on DXP.

Could it possibly have been original real person on Lindaland but then whoever posted here was impersonating her and editing her photos to make them different?
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Nah. Cause the newer pictures she filtered to the point she had no skin texture or nose, were all new but the same person in the older ones from 10 years ago.
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The difference though, is I have a feeling you don't necessarily lie about your life style . Ya know?

So take my ex-roommate for an example. She posts new games she got for her switch. Or when they went to disney world, their bracelets or whatever those things are for the passes and crap. I don't go, but I assume you know what I am talking about. Whatever new purchase she got.

In the meantime, she is shekelbaiting her own friends and family to pay for that stuff because she is really just jobless and lazy. lol She legit used her dying cat, to get one friend to pay $ 350 for it to be put down and cremated, and then got an additional $ 350 from other friends. This is just one of the many shekelbaiting incidents. lol

At first I was smirking at the first part of your message because I was thinking of people who post pictures of their hospital bracelets (even tho it’s unrelated), then I saw the part about the cat and my jaw dropped. I feel like she must not have cared about her cat that much if she milked it’s death like that. Like it’s one thing to rely on friends for emotional support, but to manipulate them with something everyone has a soft spot for is horrible. It’s like people who fake cancer for money.
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I can understand lying about certain things to protect your identity if you want to remain anonymous. I think it’s when you hurt people based on your lies or cause others to hurt people based on your lies that it becomes a problem.

I’ve absolutely done wrong based off of that.

It’s much better to go to the person directly if you have issues or get told something and then back out of the convo from whoever started it and move on.

But targeting people and spreading lies specifically to destroy them makes me feel like the person is garbage and not worth speaking to ever again.

After I fucked up last time I’m a lot more cautious about people especially those with sob stories that specifically target what you are weak against.

People can be shady and everyone has their own motivations. Not everyone uses this site the same.

But we all know we aren’t here for the astrology. 😂


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Small fibs, aren't really a huge thing.

But I would be lying if I didn't say I often target the folks here that say the most obscure shit, that sounds like crazy ass lies, while either giving advice based on the facade they created and have no real authority to advise about, or the one's that seemingly will add a "trauma" to victimize themselves with an ulterior motive behind it.
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Posted by _Dazed Did your parents buy you your car?

Lmao they’d never buy me a sports car. They value practicality & efficiency over something sexy.

Next he’s going to ask if they bought you a car and then you traded it in 😋
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Nah because the title would still be in their names
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Nah. Cause the newer pictures she filtered to the point she had no skin texture or nose, were all new but the same person in the older ones from 10 years ago.

Lmfaoooo her pictures were so filtered I thought they were taken on an android 🤣🤣 I was like “Damn I guess Sri Lanka is really behind on technology” 🤦🏻‍♀️
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The difference though, is I have a feeling you don't necessarily lie about your life style . Ya know?

So take my ex-roommate for an example. She posts new games she got for her switch. Or when they went to disney world, their bracelets or whatever those things are for the passes and crap. I don't go, but I assume you know what I am talking about. Whatever new purchase she got.

In the meantime, she is shekelbaiting her own friends and family to pay for that stuff because she is really just jobless and lazy. lol She legit used her dying cat, to get one friend to pay $ 350 for it to be put down and cremated, and then got an additional $ 350 from other friends. This is just one of the many shekelbaiting incidents. lol

At first I was smirking at the first part of your message because I was thinking of people who post pictures of their hospital bracelets (even tho it’s unrelated), then I saw the part about the cat and my jaw dropped. I feel like she must not have cared about her cat that much if she milked it’s death like that. Like it’s one thing to rely on friends for emotional support, but to manipulate them with something everyone has a soft spot for is horrible. It’s like people who fake cancer for money.
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She literally milked EVERYTHING. Even her own mom's death that happened just a month prior to her cat's death. She used both to get her dad to give her $ 1000 for "car repairs" and ended up buying a mini fridge with it. I shit you not.
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I can understand lying about certain things to protect your identity if you want to remain anonymous. I think it’s when you hurt people based on your lies or cause others to hurt people based on your lies that it becomes a problem.

I’ve absolutely done wrong based off of that.

It’s much better to go to the person directly if you have issues or get told something and then back out of the convo from whoever started it and move on.

But targeting people and spreading lies specifically to destroy them makes me feel like the person is garbage and not worth speaking to ever again.

After I fucked up last time I’m a lot more cautious about people especially those with sob stories that specifically target what you are weak against.

People can be shady and everyone has their own motivations. Not everyone uses this site the same.

But we all know we aren’t here for the astrology. 😂


Me Scorpio.

Me sex god.