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Posted by CluelessCancer
With how society is going now there's alot more neurological problems. We don't understand the brain or what the stimuli is that affects it. It's easy to say pull up your bootstraps and get on with it, but it's away more complex then that. I know people who are strong, who were hit by a deep bout of depression. I'm talking about trying to jump off a balcony in Las Vegas while we were vacationing.

My friend was basically unable to walk, talk for almost a year. She's well now , her brain had to rest, and her husband was with her through thick and thin as well as her family....but the triggers were there all along. Alot of stress, a miscarriage, too many responsibilities. Your brain can flip on you dude.

So wouldn't that be even more the reason you shouldn't say to go kill yourself to people? Because you don't know how mentally stable an individual is? Its not really phasing me, but some other posters that come here seek answers to real life problems. Why would you want to say that to anyone? If you've dealt with a lot of stress before , you should be able to put yourself in others shoes. And use tact when speaking with people. You even said your siblings were speaking about that with you. So imagine if you lost a close friend, and somebody made very tactless and insensitive remarks.
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Personally, I believe this thread is pointless, except for a place for people to bitch about something they have no intention on rectifying.

I made a thread to point out that a well-liked person has used that phrase ... and nobody cared. I made the thread to get people to look at his posts, to see if he was real, or not.

If you like a person .... they are pardoned.


so, this thread has zero value ... if you don't actually stand for your own principals. And I'm not talking to you, Cap, rather everyone who turns blind eyes to people you like.
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Also ... on the topic of suicide ....


Not everybody views life the same ... some believe that this isn't even life, rather just an extension of life.


Death from this form doesn't really mean much in the scheme of things ... if the persons perception of life is on a grander scale.


Not everyone puts this much stock in this life form experience ... so to kill your body to free your soul could be considered a good thing.


I don't see a problem with suicide and would easily do it, if I was in a mind to leave this plane of existence.

It has nothing to do with other people and in hurting them .... because I don't like for other people, I live for myself.


Suicide can be a good thing, for some people, if that is what they wish to do for themselves .... so, I'm not on this bandwagon of bitching over a phrase of words.
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Posted by P-Angel

Personally, I believe this thread is pointless, except for a place for people to bitch about something they have no intention on rectifying.

I made a thread to point out that a well-liked person has used that phrase ... and nobody cared.

I made the thread to get people to look at his posts, to see if he was real, or not.

If you like a person .... they are pardoned.


so, this thread has zero value ... if you don't actually stand for your own principals. And I'm not talking to you, Cap, rather everyone who turns blind eyes to people you like.




Why not just quote him directly, instead of sending everyone looking for a needle in a haystack.


You're comparing an isolated incident that happened midway thru this thread to a long-standing history; it is more likely that no one knew what you were talking about.


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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by P-Angel

Personally, I believe this thread is pointless, except for a place for people to bitch about something they have no intention on rectifying.

I made a thread to point out that a well-liked person has used that phrase ... and nobody cared.

I made the thread to get people to look at his posts, to see if he was real, or not.

If you like a person .... they are pardoned.


so, this thread has zero value ... if you don't actually stand for your own principals. And I'm not talking to you, Cap, rather everyone who turns blind eyes to people you like.




Why not just quote him directly, instead of sending everyone looking for a needle in a haystack.


You're comparing an isolated incident that happened midway thru this thread to a long-standing history; it is more likely that no one knew what you were talking about.




...and here i thought p-angel liked meeh! *sniffles* 😭

but didn't P tell a 17 year old girl to go kill herself too a few months back? my memory is superb.

or this wasn't the point?
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When I read what she had to say, I knew she was talking bout you and she speaks the truth! I'd say you don't really rate in her book either way!
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I've talked about how when people threaten suicide, that it's a call for attention .. and they don't really want to die.

If a person wants to die, then they kill themselves, they do it ... they don't talk about it, they don't threaten it.


there's a difference between people wanting to die, and people wanting help my means of threatening suicide ... and I've talked about that often, with whomever is participating in the conversation.


Quote it ... my posts are open. The only ones hidden are the ones in where I've totally screwed up with typos
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At any rate, my point remains the same ... if a person is liked, the other cheek is turned.


Look at me, for example .. I've said some nasty shit to people, and I'm still here.


Because people don't really stand for their principals, now do they?


They will bitch, oh yes, all day long when they've got a thorn stuck up their asses .... but, if they like a person, then their principals fly out the window.


Look at this thread, several times cap said it isn't about CC, and has disregarded every suggestion that she is the main culprit .. why, because truecap likes her. So, eventhough CC is indeed the main culprit, truecap turns a blind eye to her ... because she likes her.


It's not rocket science ... it's psychology101
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Posted by P-Angel

At any rate, my point remains the same ... if a person is liked, the other cheek is turned.


Look at me, for example .. I've said some nasty shit to people, and I'm still here.


Because people don't really stand for their principals, now do they?


They will bitch, oh yes, all day long when they've got a thorn stuck up their asses .... but, if they like a person, then their principals fly out the window.


Look at this thread, several times cap said it isn't about CC, and has disregarded every suggestion that she is the main culprit .. why, because truecap likes her. So, eventhough CC is indeed the main culprit, truecap turns a blind eye to her ... because she likes her.


It's not rocket science ... it's psychology101




?? basically ??
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I get why trucap made the thread...
It's one of the main things I loves about all capricorn women ^.^

No matter who likes who here and would over look what they would say...

Doesn't change the fact that what can be said here can be potentially harmful... However, there are not many people so frail in self-esreem.

Will this post change anything? Not really... But thats obvious.
Even if every acting member here were to hold fast to not saying such things they can't be applied to new members not privy to whats been said. I mean really an unmoderated blog whatchu expect? Honestly?

TrueCap your very thoughtful but unless you get Duncan's ears involved in this debate nothing is gonna change... IJS *shrug*
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

I mean really an unmoderated blog whatchu expect? Honestly?







true


I think that a person who comes in here in serious distraught, probably acts like it. If you look around, it's easy to see what people are about.

Most people who come in here pretending to be ready to jump off the roof ... if you read between the lines, it's obvious they are attention whores.

So, to say ... you never know what a person is going through in real life, is kind of being oblivious ... because people actually (react) in accordance to their character.

Actions are contrived
REactions are involuntary
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Posted by P-Angel

I think that a person who comes in here in serious distraught, probably acts like it. If you look around, it's easy to see what people are about.

Most people who come in here pretending to be ready to jump off the roof ... if you read between the lines, it's obvious they are attention whores.

So, to say ... you never know what a person is going through in real life, is kind of being oblivious ... because people actually (react) in accordance to their character.

Actions are contrived
REactions are involuntary





correction: I think that a person who comes in here in serious distraught, probably REacts like it.
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Posted by P-Angel

At any rate, my point remains the same ... if a person is liked, the other cheek is turned.


Look at me, for example .. I've said some nasty shit to people, and I'm still here.


Because people don't really stand for their principals, now do they?


They will bitch, oh yes, all day long when they've got a thorn stuck up their asses .... but, if they like a person, then their principals fly out the window.


Look at this thread, several times cap said it isn't about CC, and has disregarded every suggestion that she is the main culprit .. why, because truecap likes her. So, eventhough CC is indeed the main culprit, truecap turns a blind eye to her ... because she likes her.


It's not rocket science ... it's psychology101



It wasn't only CC who said it. I saw about 4-5 different people say it. Everyone was ganging up on CC. I didn't want this to turn into a CC bashing thread. I wanted to bring attention to the issue and not against individuals. I wanted to address the issue without resorting to personal attacks.
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Well after debating and learning I've changed my view on the topic??_.I think if your advised as a parent that your child is a bully and they do not take steps to remediate their child's behaviour then that has to be an actionable offence whether its civil of criminal??_.

Its the parents responsibility to teach compassion, morals, ethics, empathy and kindness at home so we don't have to deal with these things in the first place??_..And yes I guess if you don't show these traits your upbringing is pretty lacking.

Another thing Ive learnt is not to settle for the mediocre or anything less in society and to more forward as a species. cos how can we possibly go forward if we let ourselves drop in social standard??_..

I think all this reflects bad parenting and a bad government??_.and I don't want to settle for a mediocre government or parents that are not giving their kids the best start in life so yeh!
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Posted by P-Angel

My point remains the same .... this thread is pointless because a person that is liked can "say" virtually anything to anybody .. and the other cheek is turned.

and I'm not talking about you, ands, I'm talking about any person that is liked.

and not just here ... rl too
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I was reading the Woody Allen sex abuse topic and was so angry with him and hollywood covering up a possible sex offender because of his status and how much a kick in the guts it would be for the adopted girl who was in his care to see him win awards and adoration from fans and people??_.

Being biased and turning a blind eye to reality so you can revel in the illusion of what society imposes is becoming the norm for the society and perhaps in here as well??_.

But every time his adopted daughter raises the issue its a reminder to him that he is scum and that he knows what he did is wrong??_..

and thats the same with these topics popping up??_we need to be reminded not to spread hate and choose love.
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Posted by truecap
I'm not naive enough to think this thread is actually going to change anything. I wanted to create awareness of how people's words can be harmful to someone who is fragile.

It's at least been a good discussion and if one person changes the way they represent themselves and/or change the way they present to other people, then my work is done.



+1 lol
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Posted by truecap
I'm not naive enough to think this thread is actually going to change anything. I wanted to create awareness of how people's words can be harmful to someone who is fragile.

It's at least been a good discussion and if one person changes the way they represent themselves and/or change the way they present to other people, then my work is done.



Good point!
Fair enough
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Posted by P-Angel

At any rate, my point remains the same ... if a person is liked, the other cheek is turned.


Look at me, for example .. I've said some nasty shit to people, and I'm still here.


Because people don't really stand for their principals, now do they?


They will bitch, oh yes, all day long when they've got a thorn stuck up their asses .... but, if they like a person, then their principals fly out the window.


Look at this thread, several times cap said it isn't about CC, and has disregarded every suggestion that she is the main culprit .. why, because truecap likes her. So, eventhough CC is indeed the main culprit, truecap turns a blind eye to her ... because she likes her.


It's not rocket science ... it's psychology101



I agree with both the op post and this.

Also, principles exist only to keep humanity "sane". Because very few of us are able to accept the truth. And by truth I mean the real person that lies underneath that shell we call ego.

People not acting on principle, I think it's just natural.
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How many people to we see post, get discouraged by rude behavior and never come back.

We have no idea what happened to them or how their story ended.



^^^^^^^^^^^^^True dat!

bye jenlove, one of the funnier caps, I talked too all the time through p.m. 😢
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grrrrr, you don't know how mad I am about her leaving, with no means to communicate with her. I valued her, and she left because of prior issues and these recent issues led her away. Who wants to pm me, if they see what's happening to me personally, for speaking out?
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Case in point:
Now when i've said it its cause i've been bullied and pushed to my limits...not to excuse it but i really meant it, cause i hate those people and their inner matter...

but P-Angel attack people just cause she wants and your manipulative as heck trying to go after truecap, when ITS BECAUSE YOUR LIKED BY DUNCAN (IS HE YOUR LOVER?) THAT YOU HAVE YET TO BE BANNED YET EVEN IF YOU CAUSE PEOPLE MENTAL BREAKDOWNS.


Didn't you run out that one Virgo chick who was having a hard time passing her GED, calling her ignorant, telling her she was a sad excuse of a person, told her she was a horrible mother, and that people like her shouldn't be living, etc etc....

cruelty presented as truth...PLEASE HEFFER. Check yourself before you wreck yourself Granny.



Point of Order.

Gentleman from Miami would like to take the floor and state for the record that you CC have on several threads told me, miamivirgo, to do harm to myself.

At no time did he ever. And when he says ever he means:

ev??er

/??ev??r/

adverb

adverb: 1. at any time.

2. at all times; always.

Bully Clueless Cancer. Your statement put forth is false.
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Most of what people say here, they would never say to anyone IRL.

It is easy to be a big and tough online.
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I don't want you to die. Die @ 0% 🙂 I am 30% die -.-
Haha ok

I won't die. Ever 😛
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