Madhatter- my side of the story

Since he wants me to respond so bad, because he’s incapable of dealing with the idea that I do not want him, have no interest in meeting or no longer want to speak with him in any capacity, let me begin.

This man and I have been talking on here about 7 1/2/8 years. Mind you, when we began talking I was with my Capricorn and he had just gotten the Virgo he had been writing about on here pregnant and had started a relationship with her. We were both emotionally cheating on our partners at the time. So much for outing cheaters huh? I have been separated from the cap for about 7 years now and divorced for 6. Everyone was has know my situation with the cap knows the crap I went through, from cheating, to emotional and psychological abuse. Hatter knows this. So no, there was no “pattern”, I left because I saw my worth and wanted a better environment for my kids. Hater and I continued to talk and had created a pretty deep connection. After some time of talking, I eventually felt safe enough to start telling this man some more personal information about myself like my name. At this point, he gave me a first name but said he would. It be telling me anymore. He had trauma around letting people know who he was because he had dated a woman who tried to destroy his life and the whirlwind of that was substantial. Imagine that, a man who keeps his identity hidden because of the potential of what people will do that information is here right now, stating he will post all my personal information to a website that I’ve intentionally never made anyone aware of my personal information except for a few. I’ve blocked several of you from finding me in an attempt to keep my personal life away from here and now, because Hatter thinks I’m “cheating” and a product of my attachment style , he feels he is justified is throwing my whole life out for all of you to see.

I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about. This man went out of his away to find my home address and started sending me cards and gifts to my home and even after I told him I was creeped out by this and to stop, he continued to do it. I have been 100% honest with this man and I’ve tried doing it nicely and I’ve tried doing it more aggressively and he has no respect for my boundaries, and no respect for my life.

Hatter and I have NEVER met in person, never talked on the phone and he has never told me where he works, what businesses he supposedly runs or his last name. This man wants to state him and I are in a relationship when we were always penpals at best. I tried to get him to speak with me on the phone, on a video chat, or even off of here and he refused. He barely started emailing me outside of DXP 3 years again. That means it took 5 years for this man to even communicate with me off of this stupid website, which is why everyone noticed the both of us constantly deleting and coming back. There were so many red flags and I saw them and people tried to tell me about them on here through private messages. As years went by I cared about him less and less. He’s trying to say that we spoke every day for almost 8 years and that’s absolutely not true, we’ve gone months without talking. I think 6 months has been one of the most memorable gaps. We would speak for a couple of days for maybe a couple of weeks straight and then not speak for days or weeks or months. How this man sees this as a “relationship” is beyond my comprehension.

I’ve been single since 2020, and I’ve told him that I’ve dated during this time. He does his own thing, I do mine. I stopped imaging much with him a while ago but I think some part of me held on to this small hope that it would develop. I went in 2022 to a concert in the state right across from him because he said he goes to this concert every year and that’s absolutely we could meet up there. He wanted to get a room for both of us and I didn’t like that idea since I’d never met him, never even spoke to him on a phone so that made me uncomfortable. For some reason this made him bothered with me and he took that as I wasn’t going or something of the sort. He knew I was going. He knew I planned on meeting him, hell he was all up for it. As time got closer and closer to that date, he never brought it up and then when I finally asked he told me he sold the tickets and was no longer going to this concert. I was in disbelief. I had already bought this ticket, a flight out to that state and a hotel for my time there. This caused a fight and he deleted his DXP so I followed suit. This meant I had no way of contacting him while I was there any longer because he refused to talk to me outside of DXP. So I was alone in another state at a concert I was supposed to be at with him and he removed contact from him. This man wants to play the “good guy” all of the time but he is not. He is the kind of assumption and will accuse you of everything under the sun if you don’t say or respond in a way that he believes to be the truth.

I have gone through A LOT with hatter emotionally over the last years and he wants to keep harping on the idea that I’ll never own up to my part in anything, yet he is incapable of that himself. This man talks about himself like he is gods gift in all rooms, always sticking up for people, always doing the “right” things, and good lord have we not all heard about how many women love him or how many tiddies he’s seen. Like take a breath dude.

I used to live and care for hatter and yes, I did see a future with him but I was being the delusional Pisces that I am and never thought about how insane this all was until I started to live in my reality again. He kept trying to push us to connect again, he knew our connection was never going to be the same and he mentioned that several times over the last few years. I haven’t loved him like that in a long time. Sancho was my real eye opener, she’s the one that told me how he spoke about me to her and obviously he continued to do so as it was shown in that big blow up between them recently. That was when I knew this wasn’t someone I wanted in my life anymore. Watching him parade himself on here, seeing the way he would belittle people or even the way he would accuse, belittle or berate me when I would ignore him or not answer something with enough detail to his liking was enough for me to know I no longer wanted this man in my life.

I had told him that his behaviors were not attractive to me and I knew I couldn’t be with him because of that. It wasn’t only the way he treated me when he was mad or thought I was lying or whatever he conjured up in his mind that day, but the constant flirting with women and so forth- I don’t like that. He never accepted anything I would say. I don’t know how much more honest someone could be, but it’s never been good enough for him. He always wants more when there is NOTHING more.

I’ve dated a couple of guys in this last 6 years and I can because him and were never really together. He wanted to say we were in a relationship at some point but this has never been a relationship. To this day, I do not know anything about this man and when he did finally give me a number to call, it was a burner number. It wasn’t even his real number. He was already far too late at this point, this had only happened in the last 10 months or so. I’m already so tired of the bullshit at this point, that him creating a burner just highlighted how much I no longer cared to know this man. And mind you, I still don’t know his full name, where he works or lives and it’s 8 years later. Meanwhile, this man has searched me with his programs and found my name, and now knows my home address. I never wanted him to know that.

All the while, I told him that I had an off and on thing with another Taurus man since 2023. This Taurus and I were more in a friends with benefits situation for years before we developed feelings. The Taurus had his own personal shit going on and so did I, so we never really came together in a relationship. When hatter decided he wanted to try harder for me, so did the other Taurus. I’ve known this Taurus IN-PERSON, on a whole name basis, I know where he lives, I’ve met his friends and he lives in my state and Hatter just barely started trying to have a phone or text conversation with me via a burner phone after 8 years. Obviously I made a choice and it wasn’t hatter. Because I chose the other Taurus and didn’t choose hatter now he is smearing my name on here and I have actively ignored it, even with requests to share my side of the story. Hatter said it himself, I’m not the kind of person to give attention, good or bad, to people I don’t find worthy of further attention so I stayed away BUT now as he’s stating I’m a cheater and threatening to put my personal information out for everyone- absolutely not. I want file harassment charges on you because you won’t leave me alone!

I have told hatter the truth. I have said it nicely and aggressively. I have asked him to leave me alone and let me live my life and he refuses. I have asked him to leave me alone and then he sends shit to my house. I told him it was creepy and that he needed to stop and he proceeded to send me more. I had to tell my oldest daughter because I was genuinely beginning to fear coming home. Hatter didn’t respect anything I would ask from him. The Taurus and I were not official until the end of this last year and I told you, hatter, he knew about you, I told him about you. And YOU knew this. I was honest. Then you have your little minions stalking my social network profiles and now you are, like a fucking hawk and you guys see that I put in a relationship since 2023 and all of the sudden I’m lying. This taurus and I have had a friends with benefits situation/situation-ship and eventually a relationship over the span of 3 years.

I am allowed to say we’ve been together since 2023 because we have been in each others lives, pretty consistently for 3 years now and now he is actually my boyfriend. Him and I did not decide to be official until the end of 2025, and that’s when I had told you that I no longer wanted anything with you. There are no lies, no magical words. I was single and so were you, you were doing your own thing and so was I. I have asked you several times to leave me alone. I have told you several times that I am no longer interested in anything with you, especially now, you will never be seen fondly in my eyes again.

You gloat about all these women who want you, for fucks sake, leave me alone and go with one of them. You’re so hell bent on destroying me and I’m done. You’ve accused me of shit I’ve never done. You blame my attachment style for every little thing. It’s pattern this and pattern that, I’ve dealt with so much shit from you over the years. And still am because you won’t stop talking about me on here. You’re toxic and you’re cruel when you think someone is doing something they’re not, and it’s all assumptions. People warned me about you through DMs and right in the message boards and I didn’t listen. You have me genuinely fearful for my safety at this point and that’s not okay. You’re trying to destroy me over something YOU BELIEVE is true rather than listening to the truth I’ve kept telling you. You’re just as bad as that woman who tried to destroy your life because now you’re doing it to me because I chose another man over you. It’s like if I can’t have you, no one else can mentality. It’s ugly.

Then just few days ago, you have the audacity to call me at 9 at night on a weeknight saying you’re in my city and expected me to see you? I was home alone with my children and all night I was TERRIFIED you were in my neighborhood or would show up at my front door. Leave me alone.

My personal shit is not public knowledge, a lot of it is stuff you’ve searched and found out.

I am not a good person always, and I’ve never claimed to be. I have my faults like anyone else. I don’t know what you want me to admit so badly, it’s frustrating because I don’t need to further explain anything to you. I don’t even know who you are at the end of day, so stop acting like I owe you my life or some shit. One things for sure, you did show me how to value myself more and finally get away from you.

This, this is what I wanted. Your fucking side.

I have all the emails. I have you telling me you loved me over and over. I have you sending me your address AND the one to where you work. Me asking what youd think if I just showed up. You were excited about it. These were recently. I have the email where I asked if you wanted to FaceTime and you mentioned your kid. Dont act like we hadnt sent videos and messages back and forth. Yeah, I sent a shit ton of birthday gifts to your door because you constantly tried to make me feel like shit for not wishing you a happy birthday when youd disappear for days. I gave you the same energy you gave me. I always told you id go at your pace.

The Louder than Life, pissed me off. I told you i had a room and it would be cool if you stayed in or around the same hotel I was in. Id buy you dinner. But you disappear, wouldnt respond so I sold my hugging tickets and didnt even go thinking you weren't going to show up anyway.

I have all the emails BLATANTLY asking if you had been dating anyone and you TOLD ME NO.. you had named your Chat GPT LUMEN and he was your boyfriend. I have the email where you told me you were going to disappear because you were needing to focus on work and what was immediately in front of you amd didnt have time for a relationship.... WHILE YOU WERE IN A FUCKING RELATIONSHIP!! DAFUQ!! Then you even had to add a jab about "I guess i am where you were a few years ago when you were building your business".. how respectable. How admirable. How much bullshit.

You know why I wont give you my last name.. and its the same reason you always found excuses not to meet.

You were the one who always disappeared, then would show up around my birthday wishing me happy birthday... id welcome you back with open arms, but youre damn right I didnt fully trust you. I even made the comment that hurt your feelings about the Pet Sematary line "sometimes things are better left dead"

You were always asking if I had told anyone about you, and I had. Fuck, I turned down so many things, I practically neutered myself waiting for you.

I told you id meet you in Kansas at neutral ground.

You cant say i wasnt anything but a gentleman to you. Never got crazy perverted. Always checked to make sure you were comfortable. You set the pace.

Fucking New Years we talked up until that day.. then you disappeared.. you said it didnt mean that much to you and apologized profusely.. tell me you weren't with someone else.

Look, dont act like you didnt treat whatever it was like a relationship and I was the crazy one. You know damn good and well that's not the case amd I have the receipts still. I have the photos you sent me right before your exit. I have all your words.

I have the picture of you at the lake you sent me. I have you in the plane to get your tattoo.

Don't act like we didnt talk all day long every day except when you'd disappear. Dog ate something it shouldnt have and that kept you away. Family member was going through a dark time and you wanted to be there and focused. Excuses after excuses that I, like, to use your words "a fool" bought hook line and sinker. The only thing that makes sense is you and whomever were doing your thing on those occasions, because for all these years from sun up to wee hours of the morning we talked almost all day every day, except those MIA days.. you literally got mad at me and told me.how deeply you were hurt because id comment or post on here before wishing you good morning on occasion. Those were rare, but did occur.

I have the picture you sent me the morning of or the morning prior, but the day after the lake photo you were "talking to your bestie about their breakup" where you had clearly been crying. This was just a few months ago while you were in a relationship. Tell me you didnt get busted and that was the turning point?



Regardless, there was never a windup.. no grown people talk. I always gave you an out because we were long distance and I had always said I would never do a long distance relationship other than what you and I were trying to do, because its hard. And dont actblike i didn't give you these outs all along the way.

Yeah, im not even mad at you, im mad at myself.. i actually got back on here to delete the thread i made and just acknowledge im usually good at assessing someone's character but truly never expected any of what youve shown, from you.

I asked if you wanted my new contact info the last disappearance and you said yes, so you had it.. i even called you several times.and you never answered. And at that time you had said you needed time.to focus on school and texting was distracting. But when you messaged me you had been to a wedding, you said, and you never asked me to call you.

Then you tried to say we had went months (which was initiated by you every time except when i expanded my business and had to double down, and a day where i told you i was in a shit mood and didn'twant to say something id regret because inwas in a bad mood from somethingunrelated to you) without talking and that YOU had to be the one to reconnect, but how many times did I try to reach out to you and you just fucking ignored me until you were ready.

All these years of constant talking, the sharing of emotions and love we had, then poof, youd be gone, but you always came back and we always always tried to plan on something for the future. And dont act like it was one-sided. Like im some crazy stalker. I never chased you, not once. I even told you when youd meet me id hand you my driver's license

. You know why I dont tell people my last name, its no secret..

What I want is for you to tell me where I was wrong. Tell me was I the first person you ever did what we did from DXP? @VirgoHero? @SirenSting? There were a lot of men from here who had weird emotions towards you.. and once we started talking, they all kinda took shots at you and left.. w coincidence?

I just cant believe how fugging blind and dumb I was.

Fuck, you got mad because I had asked, right before you disappeared, if we could do smaller messages during the day with more meat, and less potatoes because it was easier to respond to smaller messages during the day than writing long ones. And you said you thought inwas your person and you wanted to hear from your person more often.

Like wtf? If youre in a. Relationship with someone else.

Oh, and to clear the air, I wasnt emotionally or otherwise cheating on the virgo. We broke up when she told me she was on the pill and later told me she deliberately lied and wanted to get pregnant. I split right after she got pregnant. But, I always made sure she was good, and i take care of my kid now. But, no, her and I weren't together and you know that.

Oh shit so you're madhatter

And to be clear, i was never going to out your personal business, you were never going to be in harm.. i just know youve been watching me on here and on Instagram.. low and behold I delete Instagram and make a post on here about anf dont name you at all, under a completely different name, and here she comes.. wow! What a coincidence! You see how knowing, and seeing what youre doing, giving our past off and on shit, kinda had me in limbo? Especially when I see you watching me. I see it! I even forced your hand to block me, like i forced your hand here. Like youve always told me you watched me while you did whatever it was you were doing. Talk about criel and sadistic, look in the mirror.

I was in your town for 2 weeks (beautiful place BTW, may consider moving there 😆) jk, i wouldnt, but will be cooking my burgers with Chiles from now on, and went on to the Grand Canyon.. i swung through on the way back and it felt weird to be 1400 miles away and not at least reach out.. 1 time. Ball was in your court. If i wanted to do harm to you, and you know i had your address because you gave it to me, id jyst show up, wouldnt i? Not call first?

I been told ya girls he a simp and he butthurt 😭😭😭 ayo hat why tryna leak girls pics for— That's sum real predator ass shit u fuckin goofy!!!? 😭😭😭

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And to be clear, i was never going to out your personal business, you were never going to be in harm.. i just know youve been watching me on here and on Instagram.. low and behold I delete Instagram and make a post on here about anf dont name you at all, under a completely different name, and here she comes.. wow! What a coincidence! You see how knowing, and seeing what youre doing, giving our past off and on shit, kinda had me in limbo? Especially when I see you watching me. I see it! I even forced your hand to block me, like i forced your hand here. Like youve always told me you watched me while you did whatever it was you were doing. Talk about criel and sadistic, look in the mirror.

I was in your town for 2 weeks (beautiful place BTW, may consider moving there 😆) jk, i wouldnt, but will be cooking my burgers with Chiles from now on, and went on to the Grand Canyon.. i swung through on the way back and it felt weird to be 1400 miles away and not at least reach out.. 1 time. Ball was in your court. If i wanted to do harm to you, and you know i had your address because you gave it to me, id jyst show up, wouldnt i? Not call first?

You stalked the bitch goofy!!! How u find her address dickhead!!! Tf!! That's definitely a charge! !! wtf??!?? 🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣

Posted by Pisco333
I am not a good person always, and I’ve never claimed to be. I have my faults like anyone else. I don’t know what you want me to admit so badly, it’s frustrating because I don’t need to further explain anything to you. I don’t even know who you are at the end of day, so stop acting like I owe you my life or some shit. One things for sure, you did show me how to value myself more and finally get away from you.

I ain't gon lie u fucked up when the nigga wasn't even tryin to show u his face or know who he is like he famous or sum, like he got clout or sum. Bitch he a nobody! tf!??😭😂🤣

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Posted by Pisco333
I am not a good person always, and I’ve never claimed to be. I have my faults like anyone else. I don’t know what you want me to admit so badly, it’s frustrating because I don’t need to further explain anything to you. I don’t even know who you are at the end of day, so stop acting like I owe you my life or some shit. One things for sure, you did show me how to value myself more and finally get away from you.

I ain't gon lie u fucked up when the nigga wasn't even tryin to show u his face or know who he is like he famous or sum, like he got clout or sum. Bitch he a nobody! tf!??😭😂🤣

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Lmaooooooo

Let me get my caramel popcorn 🍿

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Posted by ERROR429
And to be clear, i was never going to out your personal business, you were never going to be in harm.. i just know youve been watching me on here and on Instagram.. low and behold I delete Instagram and make a post on here about anf dont name you at all, under a completely different name, and here she comes.. wow! What a coincidence! You see how knowing, and seeing what youre doing, giving our past off and on shit, kinda had me in limbo? Especially when I see you watching me. I see it! I even forced your hand to block me, like i forced your hand here. Like youve always told me you watched me while you did whatever it was you were doing. Talk about criel and sadistic, look in the mirror.

I was in your town for 2 weeks (beautiful place BTW, may consider moving there 😆) jk, i wouldnt, but will be cooking my burgers with Chiles from now on, and went on to the Grand Canyon.. i swung through on the way back and it felt weird to be 1400 miles away and not at least reach out.. 1 time. Ball was in your court. If i wanted to do harm to you, and you know i had your address because you gave it to me, id jyst show up, wouldnt i? Not call first?

You stalked the bitch goofy!!! How u find her address dickhead!!! Tf!! That's definitely a charge! !! wtf??!?? 🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣

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Dipshit, she gave me her address after she bought her house. We talked about me coming to see her. I joked about hiding in the bushes.. obviously I didn't.. I told her id send her gifts. Told her id send her flowers at work.. she gave me that address too..

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Posted by ERROR429
And to be clear, i was never going to out your personal business, you were never going to be in harm.. i just know youve been watching me on here and on Instagram.. low and behold I delete Instagram and make a post on here about anf dont name you at all, under a completely different name, and here she comes.. wow! What a coincidence! You see how knowing, and seeing what youre doing, giving our past off and on shit, kinda had me in limbo? Especially when I see you watching me. I see it! I even forced your hand to block me, like i forced your hand here. Like youve always told me you watched me while you did whatever it was you were doing. Talk about criel and sadistic, look in the mirror.

I was in your town for 2 weeks (beautiful place BTW, may consider moving there 😆) jk, i wouldnt, but will be cooking my burgers with Chiles from now on, and went on to the Grand Canyon.. i swung through on the way back and it felt weird to be 1400 miles away and not at least reach out.. 1 time. Ball was in your court. If i wanted to do harm to you, and you know i had your address because you gave it to me, id jyst show up, wouldnt i? Not call first?

You stalked the bitch goofy!!! How u find her address dickhead!!! Tf!! That's definitely a charge! !! wtf??!?? 🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣click to expand

Dipshit, she gave me her address after she bought her house. We talked about me coming to see her. I joked about hiding in the bushes.. obviously I didn't.. I told her id send her gifts. Told her id send her flowers at work.. she gave me that address too..

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This nigga joked about hiding in the bushes!!! Ok u got her addy now u comin off like a serial killer TF!!? omg u a fuckin idiot!!! 🤣😭😭😭 nah idgaf u stalked her word to bro !!! 😭🤣🤣😭

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Posted by Pisco333
I am not a good person always, and I’ve never claimed to be. I have my faults like anyone else. I don’t know what you want me to admit so badly, it’s frustrating because I don’t need to further explain anything to you. I don’t even know who you are at the end of day, so stop acting like I owe you my life or some shit. One things for sure, you did show me how to value myself more and finally get away from you.

I ain't gon lie u fucked up when the nigga wasn't even tryin to show u his face or know who he is like he famous or sum, like he got clout or sum. Bitch he a nobody! tf!??😭😂🤣

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This is so ironic coming from your corny ass masked fucking persona..

Bitch, shes seen me, she has video of me, shes heard me, we've had voice conversations. Like ive said ive tried nemerous times to meet her in person and theres always an excuse.. im no local-joker like yourself, but im pretty well known in my area.. my businesses have my name on them. Been there done that. Ironically, she knows my middle name which is what only my friends and family call me.

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Posted by Pisco333
I am not a good person always, and I’ve never claimed to be. I have my faults like anyone else. I don’t know what you want me to admit so badly, it’s frustrating because I don’t need to further explain anything to you. I don’t even know who you are at the end of day, so stop acting like I owe you my life or some shit. One things for sure, you did show me how to value myself more and finally get away from you.

I ain't gon lie u fucked up when the nigga wasn't even tryin to show u his face or know who he is like he famous or sum, like he got clout or sum. Bitch he a nobody! tf!??😭😂🤣click to expand

This is so ironic coming from your corny ass masked fucking persona..

Bitch, shes seen me, she has video of me, shes heard me, we've had voice conversations. Like ive said ive tried nemerous times to meet her in person and theres always an excuse.. im no local-joker like yourself, but im pretty well known in my area.. my businesses have my name on them. Been there done that. Ironically, she knows my middle name which is what only my friends and family call me.

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I have no persona I'm hidin my face because I do not fuck with u muthafuckas on here!!!! 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭 Idgaf!!! she literally said she ain't want u sendin shit to her home goofy!!!! and u did it nigga!!!! It's called boundaries goofy!! How u own businesses and u on dxp talkin to a bitch for 8 years sendin shit to her address, she obviously uncomfortable with that because she sayin she not jackin it, she dnt fwu!!!! move on the fuck on goofy!!!

I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

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I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

Oh, youre going to believe her because you think somehow that may get you closer to getting it, but i dont really give a shit who you believe, why would i care about your opinion, i watched you trying to pretend you a stud then for a split second was real and talked about 1 girl you wish you had the balls to actually go for.. but you wont, because like im doing right now. You have to put shut in the line. You all have seen my face, everytime i do your boyfriend says im on steroids which is oddly a compliment. Pisco already told me about you trying to get in her DMs also, and she ignored you cause youre a joke. Homie, you wouldn't have a shot in hell.

See, you and I are looking for 2 different things and thats completely fine - you just want validation from women because youre insecure with who you really are. It pours out of your entire persona and how hard you try.. but that 1 girl you mentioned, 1 day youll get real, and you may do something to make it happen. And when and if that happens im rooting for you, homie. I really do wish you the best. And I think at a deeper level you know exactly what I'm saying, because you know this too.. just be you.

Im not young. I may be older than you. Ive always been in LTRs.. i get female attention but typically turn it away because Im fairly loyal. You wont find a woman on here ive DMed the way you do. Why? because, and i know you dont get this, but Pisco was why I was here. But women have DMed me, and Ive turned them down. See, Im getting old. I had a scare with cancer last year that really made me put my priorities in perspective. Im not just looking for pussy, pussy is easy to get, im looking for something deeper than that. Its cool that you dont give a shit about what I give a shit about. But I dont want to be like you, and you dont want to be like me, and thats cool. We just value different things.

And youre 100% right about me being a goofy cracker.. i believed her.. i really, truly believed she may have been that 1.. so maybe youre philosophy is the right one, idk. I just cant accept that for myself.

Yeah... just keep swimming...

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Posted by bb909999
I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

Oh, youre going to believe her because you think somehow that may get you closer to getting it, but i dont really give a shit who you believe, why would i care about your opinion, i watched you trying to pretend you a stud then for a split second was real and talked about 1 girl you wish you had the balls to actually go for.. but you wont, because like im doing right now. You have to put shut in the line. You all have seen my face, everytime i do your boyfriend says im on steroids which is oddly a compliment. Pisco already told me about you trying to get in her DMs also, and she ignored you cause youre a joke. Homie, you wouldn't have a shot in hell.

See, you and I are looking for 2 different things and thats completely fine - you just want validation from women because youre insecure with who you really are. It pours out of your entire persona and how hard you try.. but that 1 girl you mentioned, 1 day youll get real, and you may do something to make it happen. And when and if that happens im rooting for you, homie. I really do wish you the best. And I think at a deeper level you know exactly what I'm saying, because you know this too.. just be you.

Im not young. I may be older than you. Ive always been in LTRs.. i get female attention but typically turn it away because Im fairly loyal. You wont find a woman on here ive DMed the way you do. Why? because, and i know you dont get this, but Pisco was why I was here. But women have DMed me, and Ive turned them down. See, Im getting old. I had a scare with cancer last year that really made me put my priorities in perspective. Im not just looking for pussy, pussy is easy to get, im looking for something deeper than that. Its cool that you dont give a shit about what I give a shit about. But I dont want to be like you, and you dont want to be like me, and thats cool. We just value different things.

And youre 100% right about me being a goofy cracker.. i believed her.. i really, truly believed she may have been that 1.. so maybe youre philosophy is the right one, idk. I just cant accept that for myself.

Yeah... just keep swimming...

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Wtf are u yappin about!!?? 😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭 this how I know you're all fucked up lol listen idk wat girl u talkin about, idk wat dm u talkin about but all I kno is i wanna hear from @Pisco333 !!! I don't even know wat this bitch looks like!!!? I don't even know who she is so wtf are u talkin about dms— unless she changed her username i don't remember or know who she is lol see unlike you if a bitch turn me down I'm not over here cryin like a bitch tryna send presents to her house like a ho!!! 🤣🤣🤣😭 How u tellin me about myself and givin me advice but say I'm right in the end!n!? 😂🤣🤣 😭😭😭😯😭😂😭😂😂😭😂 !!Pisco wat u did to this man—

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

And my guy how many times am I gonna tell you to stop believing the shit these hoes be sayin to you goofy!!!!! 😭😂😂🤣😭😭 y would she tell u she wants to fuck me?!! be fr now!!? especially if I don't know her and she knows you— u dead too old to not know how shit works with girls and u tryna settle down ?? lmaoooo!!!!!!!!!! 😭🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣😭😭😂😭😂😭😂😂😭😂😭😭😂😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭

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Posted by ERROR429

Posted by bb909999
I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

Oh, youre going to believe her because you think somehow that may get you closer to getting it, but i dont really give a shit who you believe, why would i care about your opinion, i watched you trying to pretend you a stud then for a split second was real and talked about 1 girl you wish you had the balls to actually go for.. but you wont, because like im doing right now. You have to put shut in the line. You all have seen my face, everytime i do your boyfriend says im on steroids which is oddly a compliment. Pisco already told me about you trying to get in her DMs also, and she ignored you cause youre a joke. Homie, you wouldn't have a shot in hell.

See, you and I are looking for 2 different things and thats completely fine - you just want validation from women because youre insecure with who you really are. It pours out of your entire persona and how hard you try.. but that 1 girl you mentioned, 1 day youll get real, and you may do something to make it happen. And when and if that happens im rooting for you, homie. I really do wish you the best. And I think at a deeper level you know exactly what I'm saying, because you know this too.. just be you.

Im not young. I may be older than you. Ive always been in LTRs.. i get female attention but typically turn it away because Im fairly loyal. You wont find a woman on here ive DMed the way you do. Why? because, and i know you dont get this, but Pisco was why I was here. But women have DMed me, and Ive turned them down. See, Im getting old. I had a scare with cancer last year that really made me put my priorities in perspective. Im not just looking for pussy, pussy is easy to get, im looking for something deeper than that. Its cool that you dont give a shit about what I give a shit about. But I dont want to be like you, and you dont want to be like me, and thats cool. We just value different things.

And youre 100% right about me being a goofy cracker.. i believed her.. i really, truly believed she may have been that 1.. so maybe youre philosophy is the right one, idk. I just cant accept that for myself.

Yeah... just keep swimming...

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Wtf are u yappin about!!?? 😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭 this how I know you're all fucked up lol listen idk wat girl u talkin about, idk wat dm u talkin about but all I kno is i wanna hear from @Pisco333 !!! I don't even know wat this bitch looks like!!!? I don't even know who she is so wtf are u talkin about dms— unless she changed her username i don't remember or know who she is lol see unlike you if a bitch turn me down I'm not over here cryin like a bitch tryna send presents to her house like a ho!!! 🤣🤣🤣😭 How u tellin me about myself and givin me advice but say I'm right in the end!n!? 😂🤣🤣 😭😭😭😯😭😂😭😂😂😭😂 !!Pisco wat u did to this man—

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Lol all you saying is you just DM anyone.. bro! We've seen your DMs.. people screenshot your shit, homie 😆 🤣 😂 goofball

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Posted by bb909999

Posted by ERROR429

Posted by bb909999
I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

Oh, youre going to believe her because you think somehow that may get you closer to getting it, but i dont really give a shit who you believe, why would i care about your opinion, i watched you trying to pretend you a stud then for a split second was real and talked about 1 girl you wish you had the balls to actually go for.. but you wont, because like im doing right now. You have to put shut in the line. You all have seen my face, everytime i do your boyfriend says im on steroids which is oddly a compliment. Pisco already told me about you trying to get in her DMs also, and she ignored you cause youre a joke. Homie, you wouldn't have a shot in hell.

See, you and I are looking for 2 different things and thats completely fine - you just want validation from women because youre insecure with who you really are. It pours out of your entire persona and how hard you try.. but that 1 girl you mentioned, 1 day youll get real, and you may do something to make it happen. And when and if that happens im rooting for you, homie. I really do wish you the best. And I think at a deeper level you know exactly what I'm saying, because you know this too.. just be you.

Im not young. I may be older than you. Ive always been in LTRs.. i get female attention but typically turn it away because Im fairly loyal. You wont find a woman on here ive DMed the way you do. Why? because, and i know you dont get this, but Pisco was why I was here. But women have DMed me, and Ive turned them down. See, Im getting old. I had a scare with cancer last year that really made me put my priorities in perspective. Im not just looking for pussy, pussy is easy to get, im looking for something deeper than that. Its cool that you dont give a shit about what I give a shit about. But I dont want to be like you, and you dont want to be like me, and thats cool. We just value different things.

And youre 100% right about me being a goofy cracker.. i believed her.. i really, truly believed she may have been that 1.. so maybe youre philosophy is the right one, idk. I just cant accept that for myself.

Yeah... just keep swimming...

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Wtf are u yappin about!!?? 😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭 this how I know you're all fucked up lol listen idk wat girl u talkin about, idk wat dm u talkin about but all I kno is i wanna hear from @Pisco333 !!! I don't even know wat this bitch looks like!!!? I don't even know who she is so wtf are u talkin about dms— unless she changed her username i don't remember or know who she is lol see unlike you if a bitch turn me down I'm not over here cryin like a bitch tryna send presents to her house like a ho!!! 🤣🤣🤣😭 How u tellin me about myself and givin me advice but say I'm right in the end!n!? 😂🤣🤣 😭😭😭😯😭😂😭😂😂😭😂 !!Pisco wat u did to this man—click to expand

Lol all you saying is you just DM anyone.. bro! We've seen your DMs.. people screenshot your shit, homie 😆 🤣 😂 goofball

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Lol u on meth cracker!!!! I don't just dm anyone and there's not a lotta hoes on here there's like 6 on here -- shooters shoot lol ain't nun wrong wit shootin my shot but u a simp goin along w wat these hoes sayin to u when they not gon tell u the truth!!!! 😭😭😭🤣🤣😭😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭😭🤣😭🤣😭

Posted by ERROR429

Posted by bb909999

Posted by ERROR429

Posted by bb909999
I ain't gon lie @ERROR429 this wat she said :

"I’ve told him that I no longer was interested. That I no longer wanted to speak or move forward with whatever we have here and he continued with harassing me by sending shit to my HOME ADDRESS that I never told him about."

I'm supposed to believe you or her?? she literally said she never told u her address!!! u a creep goofy cracker wtf!!!!?

Oh, youre going to believe her because you think somehow that may get you closer to getting it, but i dont really give a shit who you believe, why would i care about your opinion, i watched you trying to pretend you a stud then for a split second was real and talked about 1 girl you wish you had the balls to actually go for.. but you wont, because like im doing right now. You have to put shut in the line. You all have seen my face, everytime i do your boyfriend says im on steroids which is oddly a compliment. Pisco already told me about you trying to get in her DMs also, and she ignored you cause youre a joke. Homie, you wouldn't have a shot in hell.

See, you and I are looking for 2 different things and thats completely fine - you just want validation from women because youre insecure with who you really are. It pours out of your entire persona and how hard you try.. but that 1 girl you mentioned, 1 day youll get real, and you may do something to make it happen. And when and if that happens im rooting for you, homie. I really do wish you the best. And I think at a deeper level you know exactly what I'm saying, because you know this too.. just be you.

Im not young. I may be older than you. Ive always been in LTRs.. i get female attention but typically turn it away because Im fairly loyal. You wont find a woman on here ive DMed the way you do. Why? because, and i know you dont get this, but Pisco was why I was here. But women have DMed me, and Ive turned them down. See, Im getting old. I had a scare with cancer last year that really made me put my priorities in perspective. Im not just looking for pussy, pussy is easy to get, im looking for something deeper than that. Its cool that you dont give a shit about what I give a shit about. But I dont want to be like you, and you dont want to be like me, and thats cool. We just value different things.

And youre 100% right about me being a goofy cracker.. i believed her.. i really, truly believed she may have been that 1.. so maybe youre philosophy is the right one, idk. I just cant accept that for myself.

Yeah... just keep swimming...

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Wtf are u yappin about!!?? 😭🤣🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭 this how I know you're all fucked up lol listen idk wat girl u talkin about, idk wat dm u talkin about but all I kno is i wanna hear from @Pisco333 !!! I don't even know wat this bitch looks like!!!? I don't even know who she is so wtf are u talkin about dms— unless she changed her username i don't remember or know who she is lol see unlike you if a bitch turn me down I'm not over here cryin like a bitch tryna send presents to her house like a ho!!! 🤣🤣🤣😭 How u tellin me about myself and givin me advice but say I'm right in the end!n!? 😂🤣🤣 😭😭😭😯😭😂😭😂😂😭😂 !!Pisco wat u did to this man—click to expand

Lol all you saying is you just DM anyone.. bro! We've seen your DMs.. people screenshot your shit, homie 😆 🤣 😂 goofball

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And don't say ppl screenshot my shit, u mean girls lol see the thing is with you u not non-threatening u regular guy, u safe, they kno I go straight to the point, let's fuck lol that's all I tell bitches but see unlike u I'm not tryna fall in luv w these bitches lol so wtf!!? 🤣😭😭😭😭 u a clown!!!

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Posted by SassyKiwi
It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.

It’s really sad that both of you couldn’t resolve this privately. It just really cheapens your connection, your past story and any potential for either one of you to become friends again in the future.

I guess this public display opens for all of us to have an opinion… maybe that will help clarify and finally end it all. It’s just such a traumatic way to go about it.

If you both started saying “I love you” to each other and getting possessive towards each other, and gotten so jealous of each others connections with others on DXP then you should have made more efforts to have that convo like ADULTS and end your “relationship” or “connection” amicably.



IF Pisco really did avoid these convos, I can understand why Hatter would be upset and have a strong desire to make things FAIR and just.

IF Pisco DID have those convos and Hatter couldn’t take no for an answer… then that is VERY fear inducing and I could understand why she would be keeping an eye on Hatters every move.

Obsession: That can be tricky to pinpoint. Sure, Pisco was watching you… but you can’t assume it was because she was interested. It could be out of fear, it could also be because she IS strongly connected to you whether she likes it or not, I can relate to that… especially as a Water sign and just having some abilities I cannot control. And the new user name… it has your birthday - it’s quick to figure out.

Hatter being obsessed… not sure either. I can understand the need for clarification and I can also understand how that need could be STRONGER than the need or desire to rekindle anything.

I don’t know either of you and there might be some sneaky playing between you two. And all of us are just being used as pawns 🙄. This might actually work, if you both love this kind of drama show. It would NEVER work for me, this is such a turn off - I can’t stand these types of childish games. It would have been much more loving to deal with this in private.

I also see how both of you held a lot of info from each other… and how it ended up being toxic for your connection.

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Posted by ERROR429

Posted by SassyKiwi
It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.

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Yup 💯%

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by ERROR429

Posted by SassyKiwi
It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.

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Nah he a stalker stop it

Posted by Mare-E-Sole
It’s really sad that both of you couldn’t resolve this privately. It just really cheapens your connection, your past story and any potential for either one of you to become friends again in the future.

I guess this public display opens for all of us to have an opinion… maybe that will help clarify and finally end it all. It’s just such a traumatic way to go about it.

If you both started saying “I love you” to each other and getting possessive towards each other, and gotten so jealous of each others connections with others on DXP then you should have made more efforts to have that convo like ADULTS and end your “relationship” or “connection” amicably.

IF Pisco really did avoid these convos, I can understand why Hatter would be upset and have a strong desire to make things FAIR and just.

IF Pisco DID have those convos and Hatter couldn’t take no for an answer… then that is VERY fear inducing and I could understand why she would be keeping an eye on Hatters every move.

Obsession: That can be tricky to pinpoint. Sure, Pisco was watching you… but you can’t assume it was because she was interested. It could be out of fear, it could also be because she IS strongly connected to you whether she likes it or not, I can relate to that… especially as a Water sign and just having some abilities I cannot control. And the new user name… it has your birthday - it’s quick to figure out.

Hatter being obsessed… not sure either. I can understand the need for clarification and I can also understand how that need could be STRONGER than the need or desire to rekindle anything.

I don’t know either of you and there might be some sneaky playing between you two. And all of us are just being used as pawns 🙄. This might actually work, if you both love this kind of drama show. It would NEVER work for me, this is such a turn off - I can’t stand these types of childish games. It would have been much more loving to deal with this in private.

I also see how both of you held a lot of info from each other… and how it ended up being toxic for your connection.

I ain't gon lie tho she did say she ain't give him the address, it's like ya missin the point she sayin lol instead of automatically believin everything u here u should maybe use some fuckin logic and stick with some fuckin facts .. until she say that nah he ain't stalk me, I gave him my address I was just mad don't just start believin the nigga lol u girls are so fuckin easy to manipulate lol shit is brazy

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop it

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Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?

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Exactly👌👌… that’s why I said it felt like we were just pawns in their game.

He did say he was bored, too 🤣👌

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?

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All I know is listen to what she's sayin lol if this was a dude potentially stalkin ur daughter u wouldn't be sayin none of dis right now, u'd be takin precautions

Idk either of you, but I know men ain’t shit. And I support women’s rights and women’s wrongs.

All jokes aside… nobody should be doxed. That’s evil as hell.

Ime with obsessed harassing men (yes unfortunately for me plural and irl stalking not this online shit) if you cut off all communication on your end they will find their next obsession much faster and move on. When in doubt up and move. Relocate. Restraining orders don’t do ish.

That being said, reading this felt far too personal and intrusive. Not meant for my eyes. Not meant to be entertainment to the vultures of this site.

You don’t need to justify yourselves to internet strangers. It’s not that serious. Make peace with the end and go hug your loved ones. Touch grass. Happy Father’s Day!

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

click to expand

That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?

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Yeah, we did that because Midatbest kept wanting to dig up info on us. Was my idea and she went along with it. Married and pregnant if i remember right. We were both kinda shocked how many people on here weren't surprised, and almost expected it.

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

click to expand

That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?click to expand

All I know is listen to what she's sayin lol if this was a dude potentially stalkin ur daughter u wouldn't be sayin none of dis right now, u'd be takin precautions

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I don’t know if he’s self-aware of how infatuated he is with her to the point where it’s very obviously mentally affecting him. He’s been airing this stuff out here for some time like it’s a cry for help. Maybe outsiders can give him some perspective to help him move on for everyone’s well being. Calling him a stalker won’t help him get over it and leave her alone. If my daughter was in this situation, I’d help her move and get all her public data concealed. As long as she didn’t communicate with him again in any kind of way she should be fine but that’s not what’s happening here.

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

click to expand

That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?click to expand

All I know is listen to what she's sayin lol if this was a dude potentially stalkin ur daughter u wouldn't be sayin none of dis right now, u'd be takin precautionsclick to expand

I don’t know if he’s self-aware of how infatuated he is with her to the point where it’s very obviously mentally affecting him. He’s been airing this stuff out here for some time like it’s a cry for help. Maybe outsiders can give him some perspective to help him move on for everyone’s well being. Calling him a stalker won’t help him get over it and leave her alone. If my daughter was in this situation, I’d help her move and get all her public data concealed. As long as she didn’t communicate with him again in any kind of way she should be fine but that’s not what’s happening here.

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Whatever this shit is they better get it tf together before I cook her man sum more wrda bro

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

click to expand

That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

Nah he a stalker stop itclick to expand

Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?click to expand

Yeah, we did that because Midatbest kept wanting to dig up info on us. Was my idea and she went along with it. Married and pregnant if i remember right. We were both kinda shocked how many people on here weren't surprised, and almost expected it.

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To get midatbest off y’alls back y’all decided to double down ? 🤦‍♀️

All Midatbest said was that I mog both of you… Not that I care anymore about that backstabber. But you both keep blaming everyone else! And making shit up!

Also I posted this but it’s not showing up.

Hi, I would appreciate it if you stopped blaming me for your relationship problems. And also stop trying to sic hatter on me.

Background: six months after hatter and pisco broke up, I asked hatter if he wanted to meet up. He started talking to me on these boards so pisco came back to tell him she was in love with him etc. He cut me off so I deleted. She promptly dumped him after I deleted and told him she has a boyfriend.

She claims that she can be with however many people she wants and hatter can be with whomever he wants, yet she got crazy jealous when he asked me for a tarot reading. A fucking tarot reading. A TAROT READING ABOUT HER. He only talked about her and stuff that was already mentioned in public. Her blaming me is crazy. He is crazy too, but at least he tried to get help. Anyone with half a brain on here can tell he’s her puppet. And she’s always telling him that I’m trying to ruin them etc. she’s literally trying to brainwash him into coming after me and mine.

She would rather him blow his brains out than him get help. And she’s always stalking him too. But he will just believe her bullshit like he always does. Which is why I’m no longer willing to help. He is in his own way. I’m just here to clear the air.

Let me be clear, I never talked to pisco privately. And I want nothing to do with anyone on this god forsaken website.

And to everyone on here who didn’t believe me, fuck you.

Also VS, I met a Scorpio man who is super into me and he’s a CFO… I hope that pisses you off.

I’ve been part of online communities like this with other college kids and even their dramas involves actually flying to each other, sleeping around and knocking others up… this is like preteen club penguin level drama

Imagine the plot twist; it's just Hatter talking to himself on multiple accounts! 😏

At the end of the day, only Hatter and I do know what happened and obviously neither one of us perceives it similarly at all. We have both have done stupid shit and I did try to end this outside of DXP but he continued to bring me up and reach out. I’m done. I came back because I am tired of being talked about and now potential threats of doxing me because someone’s bored. That’s absolutely not okay.

I aired out all the dirty laundry so people would stop stalking my social media profiles and running to hatter, we are not together and my personal business is no one’s business. I have actively tried blocking as many of you from my Facebook and instagram as I see you come up because I don’t want my personal world mixed into this. I have friends from here and we’ve continued to be amazing friends, but it has put me very much at risk of being found by the ill intentioned people from here. And I definitely was watching what you were doing hatter because I knew you’d eventually be around my hometown and you continue to bring me up here when you have no reason to. Leave me alone.

I have moved on. Everyone else moved on. Now you move on.

The "we're having a kid together" joke is the most incomprehensible to me, I wouldn't be surprised some people here still believe it to this day. I'm not going to try to undrestand, if anything this thread couild be just another duo trolling

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Imagine the plot twist; it's just Hatter talking to himself on multiple accounts! 😏

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Look, ill say this and im done with words, ill just post the screenshots.

Maybe in her head she had this discussion with me, but it never happened. As soon as I figure out how to post images ill share the sequence of how this transpired. The mindfuck has been the years of off and on where she'd disappear and eventually come back. The way she actually ended things left it open ended like always..

Look, ive always just wanted her to be happy, I know what we were trying to do was hard as fuck. I tried to give her every put. I would not have been mad. I always asked when she came back if she had been dating anyone and she always said no, or nothing real serious. I did the same so I wasnt upset. It was the constant she's in... then shes out... then shes in... then shes out... then shes back in.. i tried to be patient. I tried to be understanding. Lol I even told her I felt just like bb909999 is saying I am.. but I felt like she was worth it.. i clipped my own pride and ego to try..i flat told her she made me feel Ike a simp.. i really did want to try.. i liked her. I like the idea of the story we could have made.

I make good money on my appearance and my ability to flirt. Im in sales, its part of the job. And yes, sometimes its hard to turn off.

Sancho DMing you was all bullshit. I remember when she did that. I have never talked poorly about you on the boards or behind you back. There is only 1 person whom ive initiated a DM with on here and that is Argus. I was wrong in doing so. It was after 1 of your disappearances. I felt like iI was using her, though i do think shes a great person, but thats not my style . I told you about that. I think Argus would acknowledge that I spoke highly of you, and that I did love you, and I wasnt mad about anything, but id never do long distance anything again.

Sancho told you that because Sancho was after me and that was a wedge. Unfortunately it worked. She knows that. Ive called her on it.

PISCO has never been in any harm by me. If she needed something to this day id do what i could to help. Look, life changes. Situations change. When we started talking you had talked about moving close to where I lived because you were a fan of Notre Dame.. you and your sister were planning your own practice. I was always your biggest cheerleader. You told me some of the saddest stories, like your family not going to your graduation and you being alone, and it broke my heart because if youd have let me id have been there clapping for ya.

At any point all you had to do is talk to me. I was never going to Dox you, I think you know that though.

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It can be fun meeting people from online. I’d rather do that first than ever give out my full name tbh. But after you have kids, ooof you gotta be super careful. It’s so easy to find anyone’s entire real life info nowadays even with a first name only. It’s wild that he gave you a burner number after you guys had known each other for so long. That is a whole other level of paranoia or some deep trauma from his end. Some of the recent movies I’ve watched are Obsession & Wuthering Heights so themes of obsession are on my mind rn and he definitely sounds like he was obsessed with you (and still is since he to this day wants reactions out of you)… but like from afar. Idk how people in at least the last two decades this day and age don’t meet up with someone from online as soon as they get a good opportunity to unless they’re hiding something big.

It wasn't a burner number. I setup an entire phone just for her. I run 3 good size businesses that all go through 1 number. I get probably 500 to 1000 calls a day, so I literally setup a phone just for her.. burner phone phone implies it wasnt traceable.. it was literally another line on my business plan lol.

The meeting up part is why she never got my last name. She had everything else. And I told her if she'd meet me id hand her my driver's license. But itvwas always something. Theres a big burning man type festival near her i was going to and wanted to meet her there

, and immediately she disappears.. all the ings shes accused me of, and youve mentioned, danced through my head as well. I honestly thought it was some sort of insecurity about looks.. but i was never really about her looks so itbwas frustrating for me as well.

I love that you say I was obsessed.. she always told me she wanted her person to be obsessed with her, but I didnt chase in all those 8 years and that made me not obsessed enough, according to her..

At the end of the day all that needed to happen was grown folk talk. Thats it.

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That sounds like a reasonable explanation… how come she interpreted it differently? It sounds like overall you two have A LOT of miscommunications and misunderstandings. In that situation when feelings end up developing from both or either, a lot has to do with infatuation and the mind mentally filling in the blanks about the other person instead of from real substance.

Meeting someone in a public setting is the best that it gets, especially when you’ve been communicating with someone over a span of so many years? Clearly there must be a natural curiosity and deep desire to get to know the other person in real life at that point? It’s not like it was only a few months. You both accuse each other of backing out on meeting each other for whatever reason or suspicions… not normal, very weird and once again a huge form of miscommunication & misunderstanding.

Everyone wants their love interest to be somewhat obsessed with them. Instead of seeing your behavior as obsession she sees them as violating her safety… That means you need to fully back off and figure out how to let her go completely in all aspects. As in also saving your shit about her for therapy instead of blasting it on a platform that she also has been involved in.

What is there to talk about between you two when all you guys have done is constantly misunderstand each other? Maturity is both of you needing to let it all go and move on. It sounds like she’s already been doing it but you want to ignite her.click to expand

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Not too long ago they trolled on here saying they were getting married or having a kid, I don’t remember which exactly but both of them must’ve been involved in that? Who does that kind of troll together if they’re not trying to insinuate something going on behind the scenes?click to expand

Yeah, we did that because Midatbest kept wanting to dig up info on us. Was my idea and she went along with it. Married and pregnant if i remember right. We were both kinda shocked how many people on here weren't surprised, and almost expected it.click to expand

To get midatbest off y’alls back y’all decided to double down ? 🤦‍♀️

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Well, at the time she was wanting to stir up drama between Pisco and I, so im a let's give em something to talk about kind a guy. At that time Pisco and I was fine, I thought, seemed to be, had been.. idk anymore, man.