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The Cancer female and the plight of the modern woman (Page 2)
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Why are you so obsessed with women reproducing? Why haven’t you contributed to this “plight” if it’s soooo important to you? Instead of being an angry, high incel complaining about it on an astrology board online 😒😒
I am a student of psychology and of astrology. And I am merely playing devil's advocate. I am not angry lol. I am high. Take a Xanax, lady.
And who said I don't have kids?
If you suddenly have kids and yet are current dating, then you can see what’s wrong with the picture then. Newsflash: marriage, relationships don’t last. Statistically
Why not go for any of these women, when allegedly they all 3 desperately want to have children? What are you waiting for?
I’m beginning to wonder if there’s more here than a desire for society with traditional gender roles. Are you shooting blanks or something? Declining sperm count? How close are you to 40 now?
I do my duties. Very well. Don't judge me.
You see your child/children as a "duty"? Ah, maybe you're just a sperm donor and financial contributor.
Why not focus on making your relationships more than duties and stop worrying about Cancers. I think we good
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Men have a duty to their children.
If you don't like my choice of words, it is what it is.
Is this really the best we can do? Imagine these Cancer women started a family at 20. By 30, they would have at least 5 kids. By 60, they would possibly have 20+ grandchildren. Isn't this more beautiful than what we are promoting today?
I am glad people are so confused these days . Imagine the world population going by these statistic.
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Overpopulation is a myth.
While I find you extremely disturbing and unhinged, I am willing to look at the brighter side of things. Please continue to prey strictly on water signs or Cancers in particular or whatever. The less you co-mingle across the zodiac the better. One thing I don’t understand is you do too much talking than action. You should just do the Lord’s work better and help pop one in each of their ovens’ already… They’re down to cut you off right after too.
More emotional BS and ad hominem attacks from the married feminist.
Going for drinks or dinner with a nice lady is preying? OK.
I feel bad for your husband.
Every time you quote me you just gotta mention me being married. Just makes you seem jelly or something that no girl would ever settle for you at the very least 🤷♀️ Thankfully these women on the other end are smart enough.
Marriage to a woman like you is my version of Hell.
Back to the kitchen you go. And put some cheese on the eggs. Scramble them real nice.
Luckily I barely have to cook. Too much of a princess 💅
Who do it then?
Just because I’m not pressured to cook doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy learning or doing it once in a while at my own accord. What is up with this extreme mentality of having to do it all or not at all? It’s so unhealthy.
You said you barely have to
Either this means you almost not do it at all only sometimes whatever or I have to study english all over again
Oh, I glanced at it wrong. I thought you said “why” instead of “who”. My husband doesn’t cook either. I’m blessed to have my MIL and my mom do nearly all the cooking and send us food. I don’t bother fixing something not broken 😄
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Would you like to learn?
It’s pretty easy ...
While I find you extremely disturbing and unhinged, I am willing to look at the brighter side of things. Please continue to prey strictly on water signs or Cancers in particular or whatever. The less you co-mingle across the zodiac the better. One thing I don’t understand is you do too much talking than action. You should just do the Lord’s work better and help pop one in each of their ovens’ already… They’re down to cut you off right after too.
More emotional BS and ad hominem attacks from the married feminist.
Going for drinks or dinner with a nice lady is preying? OK.
I feel bad for your husband.
Every time you quote me you just gotta mention me being married. Just makes you seem jelly or something that no girl would ever settle for you at the very least 🤷♀️ Thankfully these women on the other end are smart enough.
Marriage to a woman like you is my version of Hell.
Back to the kitchen you go. And put some cheese on the eggs. Scramble them real nice.
Luckily I barely have to cook. Too much of a princess 💅
Who do it then?
Just because I’m not pressured to cook doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy learning or doing it once in a while at my own accord. What is up with this extreme mentality of having to do it all or not at all? It’s so unhealthy.
You said you barely have to
Either this means you almost not do it at all only sometimes whatever or I have to study english all over again
my mom do nearly all the cooking and send us food. I don’t bother fixing something not broken 😄
😳
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Any reason you cut off my MIL (mother-in-law)?
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
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Alright, Bored. We get it. You have big tits.
While I find you extremely disturbing and unhinged, I am willing to look at the brighter side of things. Please continue to prey strictly on water signs or Cancers in particular or whatever. The less you co-mingle across the zodiac the better. One thing I don’t understand is you do too much talking than action. You should just do the Lord’s work better and help pop one in each of their ovens’ already… They’re down to cut you off right after too.
More emotional BS and ad hominem attacks from the married feminist.
Going for drinks or dinner with a nice lady is preying? OK.
I feel bad for your husband.
Every time you quote me you just gotta mention me being married. Just makes you seem jelly or something that no girl would ever settle for you at the very least 🤷♀️ Thankfully these women on the other end are smart enough.
Marriage to a woman like you is my version of Hell.
Back to the kitchen you go. And put some cheese on the eggs. Scramble them real nice.
Luckily I barely have to cook. Too much of a princess 💅
Who do it then?
Just because I’m not pressured to cook doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy learning or doing it once in a while at my own accord. What is up with this extreme mentality of having to do it all or not at all? It’s so unhealthy.
You said you barely have to
Either this means you almost not do it at all only sometimes whatever or I have to study english all over again
Oh, I glanced at it wrong. I thought you said “why” instead of “who”. My husband doesn’t cook either. I’m blessed to have my MIL and my mom do nearly all the cooking and send us food. I don’t bother fixing something not broken 😄
Would you like to learn?
It’s pretty easy ...
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I’ve mentioned earlier that I do like learning and cooking at my own accord once in a while but I have a super unique and weird issue… my mother-in-law gets really jealous when I’m able to cook things really well at the first try so she took over cooking things for us and I don’t mind at all. She’s a very controlling and easily jealous Scorpio.
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Lol I see it like…. All men are animals, but which ones can control the urges the best. That’s who to go for 🤪😆😆 Self control is hot.
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And respect towards women. How he treats you afterwards is telling what kind of a man he is.
I like a man with strong character. And strong hands and hard…
Lol, okay, time to sign off dxp now. Ciaooooo 😛
While I find you extremely disturbing and unhinged, I am willing to look at the brighter side of things. Please continue to prey strictly on water signs or Cancers in particular or whatever. The less you co-mingle across the zodiac the better. One thing I don’t understand is you do too much talking than action. You should just do the Lord’s work better and help pop one in each of their ovens’ already… They’re down to cut you off right after too.
More emotional BS and ad hominem attacks from the married feminist.
Going for drinks or dinner with a nice lady is preying? OK.
I feel bad for your husband.
Every time you quote me you just gotta mention me being married. Just makes you seem jelly or something that no girl would ever settle for you at the very least 🤷♀️ Thankfully these women on the other end are smart enough.
Marriage to a woman like you is my version of Hell.
Back to the kitchen you go. And put some cheese on the eggs. Scramble them real nice.
Luckily I barely have to cook. Too much of a princess 💅
Who do it then?
Just because I’m not pressured to cook doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy learning or doing it once in a while at my own accord. What is up with this extreme mentality of having to do it all or not at all? It’s so unhealthy.
You said you barely have to
Either this means you almost not do it at all only sometimes whatever or I have to study english all over again
Oh, I glanced at it wrong. I thought you said “why” instead of “who”. My husband doesn’t cook either. I’m blessed to have my MIL and my mom do nearly all the cooking and send us food. I don’t bother fixing something not broken 😄
Would you like to learn?
It’s pretty easy ...
I’ve mentioned earlier that I do like learning and cooking at my own accord once in a while but I have a super unique and weird issue… my mother-in-law gets really jealous when I’m able to cook things really well at the first try so she took over cooking things for us and I don’t mind at all. She’s a very controlling and easily jealous Scorpio.
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Oh hell😬
I give you permission to show her how to let go of control and to be happy that you’re a better cook
Tell her it’s for her higher good 😃
While I find you extremely disturbing and unhinged, I am willing to look at the brighter side of things. Please continue to prey strictly on water signs or Cancers in particular or whatever. The less you co-mingle across the zodiac the better. One thing I don’t understand is you do too much talking than action. You should just do the Lord’s work better and help pop one in each of their ovens’ already… They’re down to cut you off right after too.
More emotional BS and ad hominem attacks from the married feminist.
Going for drinks or dinner with a nice lady is preying? OK.
I feel bad for your husband.
Every time you quote me you just gotta mention me being married. Just makes you seem jelly or something that no girl would ever settle for you at the very least 🤷♀️ Thankfully these women on the other end are smart enough.
Marriage to a woman like you is my version of Hell.
Back to the kitchen you go. And put some cheese on the eggs. Scramble them real nice.
Luckily I barely have to cook. Too much of a princess 💅
Who do it then?
Just because I’m not pressured to cook doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy learning or doing it once in a while at my own accord. What is up with this extreme mentality of having to do it all or not at all? It’s so unhealthy.
You said you barely have to
Either this means you almost not do it at all only sometimes whatever or I have to study english all over again
Oh, I glanced at it wrong. I thought you said “why” instead of “who”. My husband doesn’t cook either. I’m blessed to have my MIL and my mom do nearly all the cooking and send us food. I don’t bother fixing something not broken 😄
Would you like to learn?
It’s pretty easy ...
I’ve mentioned earlier that I do like learning and cooking at my own accord once in a while but I have a super unique and weird issue… my mother-in-law gets really jealous when I’m able to cook things really well at the first try so she took over cooking things for us and I don’t mind at all. She’s a very controlling and easily jealous Scorpio.
Oh hell😬
I give you permission to show her how to let go of control and to be happy that you’re a better cook
Tell her it’s for her higher good 😃
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But it works out for me because I would rather do so many other things than cook 24/7 like her xD She’s weird and also likes to cook for her sister’s, brother’s and daughter’s families… as long as it keeps her super busy and out of my marriage in other areas all is well!
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Lol I see it like…. All men are animals, but which ones can control the urges the best. That’s who to go for 🤪😆😆 Self control is hot.
And respect towards women. How he treats you afterwards is telling what kind of a man he is.
I like a man with strong character. And strong hands and hard…
Lol, okay, time to sign off dxp now. Ciaooooo 😛
Hmmmm maybe even further….. how he treats you (and others) when he’s angry. Even fuck boys can snuggle after sex. That’s not impressive!
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True. How he treats you after a fight/argument and you call him every name in the book. If he stays silent and doesn’t run away, he’s a keeper 😎😜
Bonus, if he sends you flowers!!!! 🌹
If he can’t handle you at your worst, he doesn’t deserve you at your best 💅
But yes. I like certain rudeness (bluntness?) up to a point. But I don’t tolerate guys who are mean to those they see beneath them somehow. Such a turn-off! Must have a soft spot for children, animals, sick, elderly, people in customer service, poor people and similar.
This thread was a lot of fun to read.
Thanks all 😊
Lol. What is the most fun part? Did you learn something new?
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Lol I see it like…. All men are animals, but which ones can control the urges the best. That’s who to go for 🤪😆😆 Self control is hot.
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It really is hot!
and shows strength
Blokes slobbering over a womans
breasts makes me feel sick 😬
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
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Are you happy with that Gem?
I’d feel kind of insulted ....
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Lol I see it like…. All men are animals, but which ones can control the urges the best. That’s who to go for 🤪😆😆 Self control is hot.
And respect towards women. How he treats you afterwards is telling what kind of a man he is.
I like a man with strong character. And strong hands and hard…
Lol, okay, time to sign off dxp now. Ciaooooo 😛
Hmmmm maybe even further….. how he treats you (and others) when he’s angry. Even fuck boys can snuggle after sex. That’s not impressive!
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This 👆. It really tells you a lot about a person when you see how they are treating others when they're angry.
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Are you happy with that Gem?
I’d feel kind of insulted ....
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No, not insulted. He is just fun to play with when I’m in a playful mood 😈
I was a bit bored after all that cleaning today.
Besides, I think we will always stay friends and have a lot of love for one another ❤️
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Are you happy with that Gem?
I’d feel kind of insulted ....
No, not insulted. He is just fun to play with when I’m in a playful mood 😈
I was a bit bored after all that cleaning today.
Besides, I think we will always stay friends and have a lot of love for one another ❤️
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You’re very patient! That’d irritate me lol...the drooling over body parts that is🥴
Having the love is good❤️
but reddit says that a man who'd raise another man's child are just simps used by desperate single moms (the unchosen ones) as a safety net for their poor life choices.
🤔🤔
I know someone who did this. I have huge respect for him.
Is this something you’d be willing to do?
Depends how big her tits are.
Men and big tits. There is nothing you guys wouldn’t do for a good pair of tits. SMH!
I’m cringing 😬 lol
Me too 😄
I really admire guys that can rise above that lol
I haven’t met many who can 😕
I have! 😃
More emotionally intelligent 🤓
Where do I find one of those? All they see is my tits and I’m like “heyyyy I have a brain too!”
Emotionally intelligent men are still men. I’m currently talking to the most emotionally intelligent man I’ve ever spoke to in my life and he’s still befuddled when boobies come out. Truly powerless against such a supernatural force 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Yeah. I had to lure Leo back out of his man cave by using my boobs picture as profile picture. Not my proudest moment 🙈
But it does something to his brain, lol. He answered all my questions dutifully and in detail, but he said the picture is distracting. I’m trying to trap him…here here little 🐁 I’ve got something for ya 🧀 🐈⬛ 😛
LOL!
Are you happy with that Gem?
I’d feel kind of insulted ....
No, not insulted. He is just fun to play with when I’m in a playful mood 😈
I was a bit bored after all that cleaning today.
Besides, I think we will always stay friends and have a lot of love for one another ❤️
You’re very patient! That’d irritate me lol...the drooling over body parts that is🥴
Having the love is good❤️
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Yes, I am patient. Sometimes ☺️
He doesn’t exactly drool, but he exaggerates like “omg, I am so turned on and I need a shower” and I just laugh. It’s just a body part and I don’t have the same reaction. I prefer meaningful talks, entertainment and laughs 🙂
-All 3 usually date younger men. (Hey - good for you.)
True tho lol
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Lol - Cancer women like them young.
Got nothing to add other than that you're just not compatible 🤷♀️
He should also lay off the drugs, he's smoking himself stupid.
I don't think it's the drugs, but whatever
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I think it is impeding him stepping forward ...
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
I understand what he's going through. I'm not one of the ones that was attacking him. I actually did said do what's right for you. When you get to be my age all you really have is booze and some friends to join you in on it. Problem is with me i keep all my personal problems im going through in my everyday life away from this site. I dont want anybody feeling sorry for me and believe me im going through some rough and tough times. I go through personal demons too as well as he is with the smoking and shit. I'm sure we all got some personal demons within us ready to get unleashed someday. I stopped with this thread pages ago so I don't know who's being harsh on him and I haven't picked up where I left off since my last appearance on this thread. I just see this post and chip in my 2 cents.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
Scorpio sun sympathizer! *throws tomatoes*
:p
I'm just concerned that he thinks it's a good sign when women cry and talk about their empty wombs on the first date.
So anytime a cancer tells you a sob story
Is that the time you can smash
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
Scorpio sun sympathizer! *throws tomatoes*
:p
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I (almost) always stick for the underdog. I can’t help it!!! 😬 🙈
And Scorpio sun guys are cool but still…my heart is with fire sign men or a Leo man, in this case 🫶
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
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We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
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Taurus moon isn’t always moderate and scorpio can be extreme
Is this really the best we can do? Imagine these Cancer women started a family at 20. By 30, they would have at least 5 kids. By 60, they would possibly have 20+ grandchildren. Isn't this more beautiful than what we are promoting today?
I am glad people are so confused these days . Imagine the world population going by these statistic.
Overpopulation is a myth.
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Now that’s the dumbest thing I’ve read from you so far….
Got nothing to add other than that you're just not compatible 🤷♀️
He should also lay off the drugs, he's smoking himself stupid.
I don't think it's the drugs, but whatever
His frontal lobe is spilling out the kind of stuff he should keep to himself.
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Pussy.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
Scorpio sun sympathizer! *throws tomatoes*
:p
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Lol
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
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Let me light up another one.
Is this really the best we can do? Imagine these Cancer women started a family at 20. By 30, they would have at least 5 kids. By 60, they would possibly have 20+ grandchildren. Isn't this more beautiful than what we are promoting today?
I am glad people are so confused these days . Imagine the world population going by these statistic.
Overpopulation is a myth.
Now that’s the dumbest thing I’ve read from you so far….
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OK.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
Let me light up another one.
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Sure. Don’t forget to share what’s on your mind 🙂
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
He needs tough love from someone who knows exactly what he's going through, not moderation.
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I know you mean well, but not everyone likes tough love approach.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
Taurus moon isn’t always moderate and scorpio can be extreme
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If anyone can break any sort of addiction, it’s Scorpio. Taurus moon adds staying power.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
He needs tough love from someone who knows exactly what he's going through, not moderation.
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Also, do you have any capricorn in your chart? You’re giving “dad vibes” right now. But not cool dad, but strict dad.
Heaven forbid, it’s not Leo in your chart talking is it?? 😱
If you want people to have nuclear families, encourage higher wages, make it easier to find affordable housing, lower stress by giving people time off enough to rest and have hobbies, improve the school systems, focus on climate change so we don’t have to worry about our kids future, improve maternal health care, give new families time off, make adoption easier for all kinds of families, improve health care overall, teach everyone financial responsibility, home economics, teach men how to respect women, etc.
A lot of women I know don’t want kids for these reasons. They may have wanted them at some point but these don’t make it seem worth it anymore to them.
Plus so many kids these days are extremely worried about the future of the world and no one cares about solving their fears.
I agree to a point. But then how do you explain places like Scandinavia where they have all the social security privileges and 0-1 children? Same goes for all Western Europe.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
Let me light up another one.
Sure. Don’t forget to share what’s on your mind 🙂
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I always do.
With all due respect to everyone, I think you are being a bit harsh to this Reincarnation guy.
I don’t think he is saying this to be mean. If anything, he’s doing a bit projecting.
Maybe he is getting “bit up there in age” himself or he has a hard time locking in a “good woman/good future mother” so he turns these discussions to be about women.
He should really look deep down inside and see what is stopping himself from finding true happiness. Last time he said he works a lot, but now lately he smokes a lot. I am getting concerned. I see him declining. And he has potential. He is otherwise a lovely and smart guy, but he is on the downhill spiral.
Does anyone else see it like I do? I see him as a wounded animal who needs a hug.
He just needs to jump off the pedestal he put himself on. That would be a great start, the drugs - second.
We have all put ourselves on pedestal at some point, haven’t we? Give him few years.
The drug of his choice is legal (not sure how it affects a person though). Oracle of Delphi teaches us “all things in moderation, including moderation”
Taurus moon isn’t always moderate and scorpio can be extreme
If anyone can break any sort of addiction, it’s Scorpio. Taurus moon adds staying power.
I think Scorps tends to be their own worst enemies. 🤔
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Perhaps yes.
What kind of shit rude answers are y'all giving him wtf is wrong with some of you? Fucking bullies
I love a good Taurus woman. 🙂
It is what it is.
You have to be a top 5% man to do well. Don't cry about it. Become.
It is what it is.
You have to be a top 5% man to do well. Don't cry about it. Become.
Or accep that you don't want to put in the effort and accept the consequences.
The cost of outperforming 95% of my fellow men just to have mediocre access to a normal woman isn't even remotely worth it.
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I don't know. Seems like you have already accepted defeat. Not cool.
I will say that it was much easier to talk to women before the dating apps and IG. You just have to be better. But it's not that difficult to get dates.
Before 2012, we had it easy. Too easy. (I'm not a whore at all. But there was just very little resistance.)
Nowadays, I have much more money, but it's more difficult. You are competing with 3 dating apps, IG, Facebook - whatever. Lol. It's fucked up haha.
Just go out an touch women theory works for me
Just go out an touch women theory works for me
See? Even Ands can get a woman.
Just go out an touch women theory works for me
See? Even Ands can get a woman.
Double post. Sorry.
It is what it is.
You have to be a top 5% man to do well. Don't cry about it. Become.
Or accep that you don't want to put in the effort and accept the consequences.
The cost of outperforming 95% of my fellow men just to have mediocre access to a normal woman isn't even remotely worth it.
I don't know. Seems like you have already accepted defeat. Not cool.
I will say that it was much easier to talk to women before the dating apps and IG. You just have to be better. But it's not that difficult to get dates.
Before 2012, we had it easy. Too easy. (I'm not a whore at all. But there was just very little resistance.)
Nowadays, I have much more money, but it's more difficult. You are competing with 3 dating apps, IG, Facebook - whatever. Lol. It's fucked up haha.
What defeat means here depends on your context and the overall framework you use.
As I said, within your framework where you have to be top 5% to even have a chance at dating simply isn't worth it by the most basic cost-benefit analysis. The cut in lifetime due to all the self-inflicted stress alone makes it uneconomical. One could now argue that calling men who refuse to play by those rules weak, or defeatist, is the prime way soceity and women manage to get most men who would be at risk of leaving back into the game.
Within my framework the thing is fairly simple as well. I think the virtue of my character is already worth more than the average woman. Not becauseit is an objective standard but because I value myself enough.
How well that translates into reality and the prospects of getting such a woman is a completly different question and I am the first one to admit that I wouldn't get one. I'm just okay with this reality.
I don't think things were that much better back then. I remember reading the same articles about women not finding suitable mates and being sad, lonely, childess etc. in their thirties that still make the rounds. Same for men who go to massages because it is the only option for them to feel the touch of another human being. That was at the beginning of the 2010s. What we are seeing isn't new. It is a trend that has been in the makings for decades.
If you try to find a partner via apps and social media as a man you are setting yourself up for failure. If you want avoid all the things you criticize you have to switch to offline dating and increase your overall chances of simply having random interactions with women. Go to a cooking course. Dance course. Hiking club. Whatever. There both sides will have the time to slowly feel each other out before taking things anywhere, which reduces a lot of the stress factors of modern dating.
If you don't like offline you can still do online, buit you have to do it on a smaller scale like niche interests and groups. There is it much easier to gain status and being seen as attractive. Depening on the enviorment it can also have some of the stress reducing effects of offline dating.
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Women aren't going to open their wombs to you just because you're virtuous bro.
Just go out an touch women theory works for me
See? Even Ands can get a woman.
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😅
Are you even looking for one though? Or if someone comes along?
I think guys always have options. It’s just that most people end up with those of similar looks/socio-economic background as themselves. However, today people want those way out of their league. There is only 10% truly beautiful people on the planet and those who have it all. Okay, maybe 25% . Rest has to settle and come to terms they will attract those similar to themselves. First step is to take a good, hard look in the mirror and your wallet, lol.
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Men and women should make love. Not war. 🙏
Yes, I’m in a very good mood tonight. Can anyone guess why? Lol