@Queenaries2
8 Years1,000+ Posts
What would you do in my situation. Need a mans and women’s point of view
Wow relax. He called you wifey a few times in jest and your acting like he cheated on you.
Talking doesn’t equal a marriage certificate. He can fuck who he wants. Just like you can. Live your life.
Posted by Queenaries2
Men: you think he definitely treetrunked
you know that's not the real problem
Posted by Queenaries2
Men: you think he definitely treetrunkedyou know that's not the real problem click to expand
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Then what is
Posted by TicksMuyTerrible
"Nobody just chills in the bathroom"Is he a taurus and was the girl a virgo?
She is a Taurus and he’s a leo
Posted by LadyNeptune
Wow relax. He called you wifey a few times in jest and your acting like he cheated on you.Talking doesn’t equal a marriage certificate. He can fuck who he wants. Just like you can. Live your life.
That’s true
Posted by Ellygant
So you are upset because a guy you never took seriously ended up not being serious?I get trying to protect yourself, but that starts with yourself first and then moves out to others. It sounds like perhaps you enjoyed the attention enough to let yourself hope for more even though the action wasn’t there to back it up.
There are men out there who will treat you well and with respect. Don’t waste your valuable self on men who make you feel the need to analyze their social media behavior in order to know where you stand. Be a little more open to getting to know someone at first too. Did y’all go out at all? You can go out with someone and just pace it to not get too close too quick.
It’s not that I didn’t take him seriously I was just telling myself to be careful
Hah I was right. When I get these feelings they’re always right 🙂 lol
Posted by Queenaries2
I was talking to this guy and he would call me wifey etc. never took him seriously cuz I wanted him to prove himself. He would always make petty comments like you get a lot of attention or do you really mean what you say. So after two weeks he started to get distant. He put a pic of a girl and they were in the bathroom together. It wasn’t a Romantic picture but kind of silly
I still got pissed off. They definitely treetrunked. Nobody just chills in the bathroom. Lol.
This may not matter but he would like a lot of girls pics which I didn’t care. But he would not comment on mine. Trust I did my researching
Ladies what would you do or think
Men: you think he definitely treetrunkedYou're very insecure. Stay off social media. It'll do you some good. click to expand
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I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me
Posted by bumboklatt
i would say he trunked her tree too but he wasnt dating youthe problem is you paid attention to anyone who calls you wifey hahahaha
or waifu lmao
How so?
What he is saying is acting like he is serious
So he’s fake?
Posted by solidsnake
I do plenty of things I’m not suppose to do in the restroom.
Like, brushing my teeth & eating while poopingWhat is your go to snack when dropping logs? click to expand
Coffee and cig
Great idea for a thread
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"What top 3 things you do while pooping?"
😆
Posted by TicksMuyTerrible
"Nobody just chills in the bathroom"Is he a taurus and was the girl a virgo?
She is a Taurus and he’s a leo click to expand
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You know who she is?
I was gonna say could be a family member or gay friend. Silly pose in the bathroom mirror doesn’t mean you’ve fucked each other. If it did my sex partner number would be a lot higher. Like astronomically higher 😅😂
Posted by solidsnake
I do plenty of things I’m not suppose to do in the restroom.
Like, brushing my teeth & eating while poopingWhat is your go to snack when dropping logs? click to expand
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Thank you for always asking the important questions 🙌
Posted by Queenaries2
I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me click to expand
Exactly! Someone who is serious about getting to know someone isn’t going to say shit like that. Red flag. You knew instinctually. Next time skip the part where you act surprised that he’s a fucboi and just cut that shit off early.
what does "I'm gucci" mean?
If we weren't serious I would have gone MIA on him.
Ghost him completely. He isnt showing me anything that would prove himself, not worth it.
Posted by bumboklatt
i would say he trunked her tree too but he wasnt dating youthe problem is you paid attention to anyone who calls you wifey hahahaha
or waifu lmao
How so?
What he is saying is acting like he is serious
So he’s fake?well the word wife speaks for itself
actions stronger than words in my opinion click to expand
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Exactly my point
He didn’t act as what he said!
Posted by TicksMuyTerrible
"Nobody just chills in the bathroom"Is he a taurus and was the girl a virgo?
She is a Taurus and he’s a leo click to expand
You know who she is?
I was gonna say could be a family member or gay friend. Silly pose in the bathroom mirror doesn’t mean you’ve fucked each other. If it did my sex partner number would be a lot higher. Like astronomically higher 😅😂 click to expand
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Of course I know who she is. I looked at her profile. I do my research. I’m actually extremely good at researching when I want to and finding info about people
You hang out with people in bathrooms?
That’s a little odd no offense
Posted by Queenaries2
I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me click to expandExactly! Someone who is serious about getting to know someone isn’t going to say shit like that. Red flag. You knew instinctually. Next time skip the part where you act surprised that he’s a fucboi and just cut that shit off early. click to expand
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As soon as I saw the picture I deleted him off everything
ACT HOW YOU SPEAK
Posted by Echo
If we weren't serious I would have gone MIA on him.Ghost him completely. He isnt showing me anything that would prove himself, not worth it.
Exactly
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?
It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb.
Posted by TicksMuyTerrible
"Nobody just chills in the bathroom"Is he a taurus and was the girl a virgo?
She is a Taurus and he’s a leo click to expand
You know who she is?
I was gonna say could be a family member or gay friend. Silly pose in the bathroom mirror doesn’t mean you’ve fucked each other. If it did my sex partner number would be a lot higher. Like astronomically higher 😅😂 click to expand
Of course I know who she is. I looked at her profile. I do my research. I’m actually extremely good at researching when I want to and finding info about people
You hang out with people in bathrooms?
That’s a little odd no offense click to expandclick to expand
So who is she 👀
Yeah my whole glam squad lives in my bathroom. We throw tea parties where we spill the tea. Pinky’s up.
Posted by Queenaries2
I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me click to expandExactly! Someone who is serious about getting to know someone isn’t going to say shit like that. Red flag. You knew instinctually. Next time skip the part where you act surprised that he’s a fucboi and just cut that shit off early. click to expand
As soon as I saw the picture I deleted him off everything
ACT HOW YOU SPEAK click to expandclick to expand
Very few people do. It is what it is.
Posted by Arkansassy
Have you even fucked? Have you even dated?
No
But that shouldn’t matter
He shouldn’t toss around words and act differently
If he’s is going to toss around a big word he should act like hubby
We were talking like I said
Talking as getting to know each other
Posted by solidsnake
I do plenty of things I’m not suppose to do in the restroom.
Like, brushing my teeth & eating while poopingWhat is your go to snack when dropping logs? click to expand
Coffee and cig
Great idea for a thread
click to expand
click to expand
*waits for thread*
Posted by Arkansassy
Have you even fucked? Have you even dated?No
But that shouldn’t matter
He shouldn’t toss around words and act differently
If he’s is going to toss around a big word he should act like hubby
We were talking like I said
Talking as getting to know each other click to expandclick to expand
I have a couple of male friends who call me wifey/waifu but they're not serious about it.
How sure are you that he was serious when calling you that?
Also, just because he calls you by a pet name does not mean he owes you anything, mostly because YOU ARE BOTH NOT DATING.
What part of that last line is not clear to you?
You watching his behaviour on social media and getting mad because you see something beyond your control just shows controlling and paranoid behaviour on your part.
Posted by Queenaries2
I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me click to expandExactly! Someone who is serious about getting to know someone isn’t going to say shit like that. Red flag. You knew instinctually. Next time skip the part where you act surprised that he’s a fucboi and just cut that shit off early. click to expand
As soon as I saw the picture I deleted him off everything
ACT HOW YOU SPEAK click to expandclick to expand
I'd like to point out here that you said you didn't take him seriously when he called you wifey yet your reactions say the opposite.
Say what you mean, act how you speak/think. Maybe then you'll start attracting people who do the same.
Posted by Queenaries2
I’m sorry but if a man is going to act ornsay serious things when getting to know a girl he should act how he says
I’m Gucci
I knew from the start and I was right
Like I always am
He’s a loser whose fucking someone else while sweet talking me click to expandExactly! Someone who is serious about getting to know someone isn’t going to say shit like that. Red flag. You knew instinctually. Next time skip the part where you act surprised that he’s a fucboi and just cut that shit off early. click to expand
As soon as I saw the picture I deleted him off everything
ACT HOW YOU SPEAK click to expandI'd like to point out here that you said you didn't take him seriously when he called you wifey yet your reactions say the opposite.
Say what you mean, act how you speak/think. Maybe then you'll start attracting people who do the same. click to expand
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Hah why would I take that serious when my intuition says something else
1) you’re telling me that people just say that as a joke
2) I do say what I mean. I just wait for people to show their true colors 😉 which he did
Intuition never lies
So I’m the bad person?
Posted by solidsnake
I do plenty of things I’m not suppose to do in the restroom.
Like, brushing my teeth & eating while pooping
Soulmate material 😉
Posted by Queenaries2
I was talking to this guy and he would call me wifey etc. never took him seriously cuz I wanted him to prove himself. He would always make petty comments like you get a lot of attention or do you really mean what you say. So after two weeks he started to get distant. He put a pic of a girl and they were in the bathroom together. It wasn’t a Romantic picture but kind of silly
I still got pissed off. They definitely fucked. Nobody just chills in the bathroom. Lol.
This may not matter but he would like a lot of girls pics which I didn’t care. But he would not comment on mine. Trust I did my researching
Ladies what would you do or think
Men: you think he definitely fucked
I wouldn't care one way or another. I don't care about stuff I can't do anything about.
Posted by Arkansassy
Have you even treetrunked? Have you even dated?No
But that shouldn’t matter
He shouldn’t toss around words and act differently
If he’s is going to toss around a big word he should act like hubby
We were talking like I said
Talking as getting to know each other click to expandSorry. You got no say in this and you're being dramatic. click to expand
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Nope
You say something than act on it
I knew from the beginning what he was going to do. He did it and it was right there
But shows intuition never lies
It’s mind blowing really
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Oh a confused Leo. How original.
What is that suppose to mean
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
My ex brother-in-law used to call any girl he wanted to fuck, "wifey". Never take someone serious, that calls you that, especially if you haven't even dated.
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandclick to expand
Lulz
Man you act 12, all the time.
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandLulz
Man you act 12, all the time. click to expand
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Lol okay!
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandLulz
Man you act 12, all the time. click to expand
Lol okay! click to expand
click to expand
K.
Have fun hiding your real age behind filters!
Posted by Queenaries2
I was talking to this guy and he would call me wifey etc. never took him seriously cuz I wanted him to prove himself. He would always make petty comments like you get a lot of attention or do you really mean what you say. So after two weeks he started to get distant. He put a pic of a girl and they were in the bathroom together. It wasn’t a Romantic picture but kind of silly
I still got pissed off. They definitely treetrunked. Nobody just chills in the bathroom. Lol.
This may not matter but he would like a lot of girls pics which I didn’t care. But he would not comment on mine. Trust I did my researching
Ladies what would you do or think
Men: you think he definitely treetrunked
Whats there to overthink or analyze? He isn‘t into you as much as he talked in the beginning. Men who throw around „you are wifey/material“ seriously make me cringe... ew. 9/10 of them don‘t even know what marriage really means and what a building partnership should really look like + they say that to every girl with good looks.
Dating is like shoe shopping, you can return the shoes within 14 days if they don‘t fit well lol thats fair though if you communicate that things won‘t develope and both parties can move on. But him posting pics with other girls... he keeps you on his backburner for casual sex but he won‘t tell you that he‘s just not that interested anymore - as you already discovered yourself.
Yada yada... girl you deserve better! 🌷I wouldn‘t waste more time on this boy, in the end you probably end up with an STD if you stick around
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid shit that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandLulz
Man you act 12, all the time. click to expand
Lol okay! click to expand
K.
Have fun hiding your real age behind filters! click to expand
click to expand
Oh good one
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid butter that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandLulz
Man you act 12, all the time. click to expand
Lol okay! click to expand
K.
Have fun hiding your real age behind filters! click to expand
click to expand
Never too old to rock manic panic atomic turquoise? (i guess?) 😍😍😍😍😍😍 my absolute favorite is enchanted forest - I looked sooo hot with my green hair
With the right attitude you can rock any hair color! 🌷
Posted by Waterbearerwearer
Oh a confused Leo. How original.What is that suppose to mean click to expand
He deliberately posted that pic girl.
Next that bs asap. Lots of fly af men out there to explore who won’t disorientate you with social media mind fkery.
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And why would he do that
Posted by hydorah
what does "I'm gucci" mean?It's stupid butter that gen z says that you see on worldstarhiphop, that someone her age shouldn't be saying cause it sounds dumb. click to expand
Oh who cares
Just like people your age shouldn’t have unatural colored hair 👌👌🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ click to expandLulz
Man you act 12, all the time. click to expand
Lol okay! click to expand
K.
Have fun hiding your real age behind filters! click to expand
Never too old to rock manic panic atomic turquoise? (i guess?) 😍😍😍😍😍😍 my absolute favorite is enchanted forest - I looked sooo hot with my green hair
With the right attitude you can rock any hair color! 🌷 click to expand
click to expand
😘
I actually have a bottle of that in my medicine cabinet for touch ups. Try pulp riot, it is amazing.
Posted by Ariqua
Stay away from guys who use pet names before you’re even in a relationship.Also, you attract what you are. You do sound a bit insecure and so does he.
What’s your attachment style ?
I don’t really get attached
I’m Aries sun moon cap Pisces venus Mars aqua Taurus asc
He’s leo sun Virgo moon cancer venus mars Taurus leo asc
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I was talking to this guy and he would call me wifey etc. never took him seriously cuz I wanted him to prove himself. He would always make petty comments like you get a lot of attention or do you really mean what you say. So after two weeks he started to get distant. He put a pic of a girl and they were in the bathroom together. It wasn’t a Romantic picture but kind of silly
I still got pissed off. They definitely fucked. Nobody just chills in the bathroom. Lol.
This may not matter but he would like a lot of girls pics which I didn’t care. But he would not comment on mine. Trust I did my researching
Ladies what would you do or think
Men: you think he definitely fucked