Haruuka
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Why do people hate geminis?
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I don't Gems are my favorite air sign.
My boyfriend is a Gemini as is my mom. I LOVE them 🤗🤗
Posted by ScorpioTruthSounds so close to my experiences with them.
I don’t hate Gemini’s..
My mom was a Gemini and she was my favorite Gemini ever. However I’ve had two female Gemini friends.. one treetrunked my ex boyfriend and the other was extremely competitive with me. She also caused a lot of drama, (example: we were at a nightclub one night and there was a girl that she didn’t get along with.. she pushed ME into the girl in an effort to get me to fight the girl for her lol) this was when we were in our late 20s. She was a butter starter.. we really couldn’t have a good time without some type of boyfriend drama or she would see someone she had beef with. I have 4 libra placements so I just want some treetrunking peace in my life, so I eventually distanced myself from her. She is still on my fb friends list and still has the same boyfriend/enemy bullbutter going on and she’s damn near 40. Never a dull moment for her, I think she needs all that excitement for her to feel alive. Maybe it’s not her sun sign at all.. it’s hard to tell. That’s just been my observation and it seems Gemini women in general do like have enemies and drama. The ones that I’ve met, anyway.
As far as Gemini men, they are just too fickle for me. As a Scorpio I’m too possessive to even think about dating a flirtatious Gemini, he would drive me batbutter crazy. Lol
Women - Boastful, untrustworthy, competitive to the 3rdpower, and sleazy
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
Posted by STILLcorrection- Most, not all of the ones I've encountered
Women - Boastful, untrustworthy, competitive to the 3rdpower, and sleazy
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
Posted by Senorita_LLP2I fixed it. Going too fast. Doing 20 things at once.Posted by STILL
Women - Boastful, untrustworthy, competitive to the 3rdpower, and sleazy
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
😭😭😭😭😭 click to expandclick to expand
You know you're my sugar mama!
Posted by Senorita_LLP2Posted by STILLPosted by Senorita_LLP2Posted by STILL
Women - Boastful, untrustworthy, competitive to the 3rdpower, and sleazy
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
😭😭😭😭😭 click to expand
I fixed it. Going too fast. Doing 20 things at once.
You know you're my sugar mama! click to expand
Not until you wash my cute polka dots underwear.
Blahh! Lmaooo meanie lil Aquacurious. click to expandclick to expand
Already washed them, military rolled and put them away. I'm on my job miss. In addition to my tuition and books, I need lunch money now. 😄
Posted by Senorita_LLP2Correct.Posted by STILLPosted by Senorita_LLP2Already washed them, military rolled and put them away. I'm on my job miss. In addition to my tuition and books, I need lunch money now. click to expandPosted by STILLPosted by Senorita_LLP2Posted by STILL
Women - Boastful, untrustworthy, competitive to the 3rdpower, and sleazy
Men - Sleazy & Boastful
😭😭😭😭😭 click to expand
I fixed it. Going too fast. Doing 20 things at once.
You know you're my sugar mama! click to expand
Not until you wash my cute polka dots underwear.
Blahh! Lmaooo meanie lil Aquacurious. click to expand
Military role is the same like those sardine rolls no?
I'm curious now... click to expandclick to expand
Sherry, that's why.
Posted by DeadInsideYou are will never know if sag is a serious or not because you’re always seriousPosted by Haruuka
Why ?
I’m serious.
Op saying she's serious but she's a sag sun, what we can believe click to expandclick to expand
Posted by nikkistarOnly god know how much I lovehate them
Sherry, that's why.
There's no smoke without fire.
Posted by AerialViewOf god
There's no smoke without fire.
Its fascinating tbh
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in consideration some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority within a minority. 🙄
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority within a minority. 🙄
It's same with love - but for the opposite reason (: the love for a given sign - is usually outcome of a positive experience).
Posted by AneemA04
I even find gemini women to be attractive.
Really.
I once wanted to write a thread about how i find gem women sexy but I havent got enough data and too lazy to post it.
But even tho I consider scorp women to be sexy alluring, gemini women are less dangerous compare to scorp women, imo. They're attractiveness are intruiging, and it's not heavy therefore they are more comfortable to be around. But this is just my opinion.
they are competition for scorpio women!!!
gemini women versus scorpio women.
http://scorpioland.org/scorpio-women-gemini-women-sexist/
some scorpio men even MARRY gemini women...
i just haven't seen the other way around where Scorpio women marry gemini men as much.
Posted by AneemA04yeah lolPosted by lisabethur8Posted by AneemA04they are competition for scorpio women!!!
I even find gemini women to be attractive.
Really.
I once wanted to write a thread about how i find gem women sexy but I havent got enough data and too lazy to post it.
But even tho I consider scorp women to be sexy alluring, gemini women are less dangerous compare to scorp women, imo. They're attractiveness are intruiging, and it's not heavy therefore they are more comfortable to be around. But this is just my opinion.
gemini women versus scorpio women.
http://scorpioland.org/scorpio-women-gemini-women-sexist/
some scorpio men even MARRY gemini women...
i just haven't seen the other way around where Scorpio women marry gemini men as much.
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Yep, I actually read that article om scorpioland lol
That's why I tried to compare gem women to scorp women hahaha
But I dont mind the competition, scorp and gem women have totally different flavor to their attractiveness.
Imo gems are less dangerous
Scorps have the femme fatale traits. Dangerous lol click to expandclick to expand
😛
Posted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
Posted by AneemA04And gemini men
I even find gemini women to be attractive.
Really.
I once wanted to write a thread about how i find gem women sexy but I havent got enough data and too lazy to post it.
But even tho I consider scorp women to be sexy alluring, gemini women are less dangerous compare to scorp women, imo. They're attractiveness are intruiging, and it's not heavy therefore they are more comfortable to be around. But this is just my opinion.
Posted by TheTinMan
I discovered we got sum Gemini haterz right here across these message boards. I thought that Gemini hating thing dayz is gone on this site but no, it's still here obviously.
Granted:
I wonder why I haven't seen the Gemini haterz pop up on this thread yet
Unless I didn't look good enough. I'll take a look back and see.
The different between gem and sag, that we don’t give a damn about what people think or feel about us 🙅🏻♀️
Posted by perperunaDon’t be silly, we are just talking here
When will the Gemini persecution end?
When!?
Posted by HaruukaIf he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛Posted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
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From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is).
Posted by Triple_C
Why don't you feel silly asking such a foolish question? You generalize to such an extent that the question isn't even one which can be considered intelligently. No one "hates" entire signs of human beings. (If you do, you are a loser and in no way a real astrologer). No entire sign group of people is the same. No one's flaws are the same. Don't use powerful words like "hate" and associate them with your loose and meaningless sentences. These posts are stupid.
U r so smart
Posted by HaruukaI'm likely smarter than you both in a general sense and as an astrologer. But truthfully, if you generalize entire signs, then stop chatting on a real astrology forum and go back to reading the basic 12 sign horoscope stuff that the media pushes as "astrology." That would suit you better.Posted by Triple_C
Why don't you feel silly asking such a foolish question? You generalize to such an extent that the question isn't even one which can be considered intelligently. No one "hates" entire signs of human beings. (If you do, you are a loser and in no way a real astrologer). No entire sign group of people is the same. No one's flaws are the same. Don't use powerful words like "hate" and associate them with your loose and meaningless sentences. These posts are stupid.
U r so smart click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Triple_CPosted by HaruukaPosted by Triple_CU r so smart click to expand
Why don't you feel silly asking such a foolish question? You generalize to such an extent that the question isn't even one which can be considered intelligently. No one "hates" entire signs of human beings. (If you do, you are a loser and in no way a real astrologer). No entire sign group of people is the same. No one's flaws are the same. Don't use powerful words like "hate" and associate them with your loose and meaningless sentences. These posts are stupid.
I'm likely smarter than you both in a general sense and as an astrologer. But truthfully, if you generalize entire signs, then stop chatting on a real astrology forum and go back to reading the basic 12 sign horoscope stuff that the media pushes as "astrology." That would suit you better. click to expandclick to expand
Than both?? Me and who?
Posted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by nevesI got what you’re saying
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
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If he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛
From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is). click to expandclick to expand
I think yeah I broke his heart cuz I rejected him, even tho I was in love with him, but it’s complicated
I will never know how can u know about things but yeah he said something about sagittarius. and it wasn’t a good thing 😿💔
Posted by greengemini_The thing with me being a terrorist is very old and boring
Shouldn't you be plotting some terrorist plot with your cousins or something right now?
Stupid thread
But yeah I’m a terrorist, what are u gonna do about it?
I love Gems and really wish we could be besties but I can't trust you.
Posted by Haruuka
Why ?
I’m serious.
I don't. Could def consider dating one. They're a little like Sags only with reason & accountability
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
Posted by Cancer Lady
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
What did he exactly say? I wanna f*** you?
How can anyone be like this??
Don’t feel bad or sad, I remember that old gemini... he was crazy about getting marry!! Because he is already married ... fking crazy
Posted by enfant_terribleWhat do you mean by like sags but without reason & accountability ??Posted by Haruuka
Why ?
I’m serious.
I don't. Could def consider dating one. They're a little like Sags only with reason & accountability click to expandclick to expand
Posted by HaruukaHe started out talking normally like asking how I've been since leaving the job and everything. We had a great work relationship so I wasn't surprised by him calling and was actually happy he cared to check on me because it was a bad situation as to why I quit. Until he started asking if I was home alone and could he come over and I'm like what come over for what and at that point I couldn't believe what was actually happening. I thought his actions with me were genuine and sincere and never would have thought he would have thought so low of me to ask me for sex knowing he's married.Posted by Cancer Lady
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
What did he exactly say? I wanna f*** you?
How can anyone be like this??
Don’t feel bad or sad, I remember that old gemini... he was crazy about getting marry!! Because he is already married ... fking crazy click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Cancer LadyI’m so sorry you go through this, it’s not easy when you feel like this, I knowPosted by HaruukaPosted by Cancer LadyWhat did he exactly say? I wanna f*** you?
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
How can anyone be like this??
Don’t feel bad or sad, I remember that old gemini... he was crazy about getting marry!! Because he is already married ... fking crazy click to expand
He started out talking normally like asking how I've been since leaving the job and everything. We had a great work relationship so I wasn't surprised by him calling and was actually happy he cared to check on me because it was a bad situation as to why I quit. Until he started asking if I was home alone and could he come over and I'm like what come over for what and at that point I couldn't believe what was actually happening. I thought his actions with me were genuine and sincere and never would have thought he would have thought so low of me to ask me for sex knowing he's married. click to expandclick to expand
But gemini men can’t understand the emotional and respect.. they ALWAYS think women want sex and f***
With gemini men, I’m always ready for the lowest things, I always know how can I deal with them with me pretend that I’m crazy lol
Posted by HaruukaYeah, stuff like that. Happens (it is what is).😔Posted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
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If he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛
From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is). click to expand
I think yeah I broke his heart cuz I rejected him, even tho I was in love with him, but it’s complicated
I will never know how can u know about things but yeah he said something about sagittarius. and it wasn’t a good thing 😿💔
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Goes to prove - that so called Love/Romance - is a childish thing 😛
Posted by nevesYeah I knowPosted by HaruukaPosted by nevesI think yeah I broke his heart cuz I rejected him, even tho I was in love with him, but it’s complicatedPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
click to expand
If he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛
From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is). click to expand
I will never know how can u know about things but yeah he said something about sagittarius. and it wasn’t a good thing 😿💔
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Yeah, stuff like that. Happens (it is what is).😔
Goes to prove - that so called Love/Romance - is a childish thing 😛 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by HaruukaOkay this is good to know cos my man has a close Gem relative and we have that same unspoken attraction but it's emotional/respect on my end especially given he's a relative to my man. However I'm going to scale back on being attentive to him when he's around. I can't control his feelings but now knowing the truth, I can do my best to not feed into them even though its sad that not everyone is equipped to connect on a pure level.Posted by Cancer LadyPosted by HaruukaPosted by Cancer Lady
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
What did he exactly say? I wanna f*** you?
How can anyone be like this??
Don’t feel bad or sad, I remember that old gemini... he was crazy about getting marry!! Because he is already married ... fking crazy click to expand
He started out talking normally like asking how I've been since leaving the job and everything. We had a great work relationship so I wasn't surprised by him calling and was actually happy he cared to check on me because it was a bad situation as to why I quit. Until he started asking if I was home alone and could he come over and I'm like what come over for what and at that point I couldn't believe what was actually happening. I thought his actions with me were genuine and sincere and never would have thought he would have thought so low of me to ask me for sex knowing he's married. click to expand
I’m so sorry you go through this, it’s not easy when you feel like this, I know
But gemini men can’t understand the emotional and respect.. they ALWAYS think women want sex and f***
With gemini men, I’m always ready for the lowest things, I always know how can I deal with them with me pretend that I’m crazy lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Cancer LadyPosted by HaruukaPosted by Cancer LadyPosted by HaruukaPosted by Cancer Lady
Oh as for the men, there's an unspoken attraction with us but I don't feel that attraction in a romantic way the way they do toward me. It's more like a friend/someone I respect kind of attraction I have with them. Like for example I had a Gem boss and I admired/respected him so much but after I quit, he called me trying to hook up with me and he's married.
I cried after getting off the phone turning him down of course but it was very disappointing and hurtful to me that the guy that I respected and held in a high regard was scum.
What did he exactly say? I wanna f*** you?
How can anyone be like this??
Don’t feel bad or sad, I remember that old gemini... he was crazy about getting marry!! Because he is already married ... fking crazy click to expand
He started out talking normally like asking how I've been since leaving the job and everything. We had a great work relationship so I wasn't surprised by him calling and was actually happy he cared to check on me because it was a bad situation as to why I quit. Until he started asking if I was home alone and could he come over and I'm like what come over for what and at that point I couldn't believe what was actually happening. I thought his actions with me were genuine and sincere and never would have thought he would have thought so low of me to ask me for sex knowing he's married. click to expand
I’m so sorry you go through this, it’s not easy when you feel like this, I know
But gemini men can’t understand the emotional and respect.. they ALWAYS think women want sex and f***
With gemini men, I’m always ready for the lowest things, I always know how can I deal with them with me pretend that I’m crazy lol click to expand
Okay this is good to know cos my man has a close Gem relative and we have that same unspoken attraction but it's emotional/respect on my end especially given he's a relative to my man. However I'm going to scale back on being attentive to him when he's around. I can't control his feelings but now knowing the truth, I can do my best to not feed into them even though its sad that not everyone is equipped to connect on a pure level. click to expandclick to expand
Good luck with that gurl 👍🏻
I like them
Quick witted
Funny
Interesting
Quick witted
Funny
Interesting
Posted by bainbain😂😂😂😂
*comes in
*throws grenade at gemini haters
*fire homing missile unto haruka
*exits
Posted by Haruuka... 😅Posted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
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If he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛
From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is). click to expand
I think yeah I broke his heart cuz I rejected him, even tho I was in love with him, but it’s complicated
I will never know how can u know about things but yeah he said something about sagittarius. and it wasn’t a good thing 😿💔
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Yeah, stuff like that. Happens (it is what is).😔
Goes to prove - that so called Love/Romance - is a childish thing 😛 click to expand
Yeah I know
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Posted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
There's not much mystery - as far as i can tell (i think most people know the answer 😐). It's the same reason - why "some people" hate any other sign: they had a bad experience - with someone who happen to have this sign (more often than not - hate for a given astro-sign - is tied to a romantic experience gone wrong, though - just as well - it can be tied to a family member or a friend - to someone close - that broke their trust). Even if this traumatic experience is related to just one individual - that can be enough - to form an emotional trigger tied to all the people from this astro-sign. That's simply - how our psychological defense mechanism works (takes in confederation some patterns - and through hate or fear/anxiety tries to keep us away - from what has been acknowledged as a possible danger to our well being").
For example: let's say you played with a dog for the first time - and had fun at first - but then it bites you for some reason. If it's a minor bite - which can heal fairly easily - your defense mechanism might register some fear (as away to keep you safe) - but if it's a big scar - on your face even (disfigured) - something that affects your well-being long-term - that can translate to both fear and hate. And not just for that dog - but all dogs you may encounter from there on. This is just a basic example - but it works the same. Either that or they're just hateful by nature (haters will hate).
It's also worth to be added that - the majority of the world's population - couldn't care less whether you're a Gemini or any other astro-sign (since they see astrology as BS). So we're talking about a minority withing a minority. 🙄
I got what you’re saying
But I got a kind of really bad experience with gemini man, still I don’t hate geminis, but it’s maybe because I’m not judgmental.
click to expand
If he was into astrology and you broke his heart - he might hate Sagittarius. 😛
From what you expressed about him - you seemed more or less disappointed - by his actions/behavior towards you. Didn't seem like he broke your heart (that's usually what it takes - for people to develop feelings of hate / love-hate that is). click to expand
I think yeah I broke his heart cuz I rejected him, even tho I was in love with him, but it’s complicated
I will never know how can u know about things but yeah he said something about sagittarius. and it wasn’t a good thing 😿💔
click to expand
Yeah, stuff like that. Happens (it is what is).😔
Goes to prove - that so called Love/Romance - is a childish thing 😛 click to expand
Yeah I know
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Huh 🤭😅
The thing is We think it’s childish because it’s hard for gemini and sagittarius to fall in love, we are cowards and can’t handle the deep emotional especially when we are with each other, it’s very deep .. I was drowning and I think he felt the same, But this is only what I think.
I don’t know about your other placements but I know that Aries mooner are very emotional 😌
Loose morals, loose lips (all 4 of em)
They talk too much
Posted by Senorita_LLP2Posted by bainbain
*comes in
*throws grenade at gemini haters
*fire homing missile unto haruka
*exits
No.
I'll fight you if you ever do that. click to expandclick to expand
You know that I don’t care about people, but I love it when my gemini friends defends on me
How can people hate you guys 😟
Posted by Senorita_LLP2Posted by HaruukaPosted by Senorita_LLP2You know that I don’t care about people, but I love it when my gemini friends defends on mePosted by bainbain
*comes in
*throws grenade at gemini haters
*fire homing missile unto haruka
*exits
No.
I'll fight you if you ever do that. click to expand
How can people hate you guys 😟 click to expand
LoooL! I was just messing around with that Gemini.
But irl, I will only stand for the underdogs. I hate bullies. I despise them the most. I can be protective over my loved ones but if they are wrong, they will still be wrong.
How about you? Are you sure you really don't care? click to expandclick to expand
My gemini friend protect me for years 😅🤭
I don’t care... mmm when I think about it, I care about what people I love do, the others can’t really hurt me.... I know it’s weird but it’s truth
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