
5 months without a single dip
@Jumpin_Jupiter
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Posted by nanochip
Stop this shit, we are all old now
Neno rubbed off on everyone I see
Ain’t no one looking at anyone ffs
Esp not any cashiers get a grip

Posted by Sagicorn
People who smile at you for no particular reason are straight out creeps. Men or women, doesn't matter. If there is a context then sure, it's a normal thing but to just look at smile for literally no reason...weirdo!
And lets see, why do I look at some guy. Well, most of the time it's cause I'm gauging where do I know him from or he appears to be looking like someone I know.
Next reason, they are well dressed or have pleasant face features and/or blue eyes. I just happen to notice people with blue eyes a lot more than other people. And it's nice to see someone wearing something that fits them well and it makes them look neat and well maintained.
Third reason would be cause I find them attractive overall, which is super rare and most men I see are nowhere near what I consider attractive.
Now, I'm not saying I have high standards cause I literally don't and I'm usually into weird or mysterious men that don't look that good, but I still do like to see someone very attractive too.

Posted by nanochip
Stop this shit, we are all old now
Neno rubbed off on everyone I see
Ain’t no one looking at anyone ffs
Esp not any cashiers get a grip

Posted by Saturn_Returns
You really shouldn't have started this thread.
I was merely being sarcastic, because the harsh reality is that most female dxpers will give you reasons that range from the crappy to the utterly ridiculous. At the end of it, you'll be none the wiser. But, hey, that's what happens when men ask for insights and advice from (relatively) young women on an online forum.
So, smiling at will makes people creeps. Oooooooooooooooooookay...
*smh*



Posted by Soul
Tbh it's the golden age for unattractive chubby men, because hot young women feel they can actually obtain them. For young people in general people aren't really dating. At least no the same they were back in the day. Most young attractive women are addicted to online likes and clout, and fat unattractive men happen to be their largest fanbase. So if you are fat and unattractive, just simp to some young attractive woman. They will likely date you purely because you are easy to obtain, and they don't have to have any real personality traits or talent to keep you in a relationship on their terms.
Also I'm immune to the incel card, because I honestly don't hate women. Don't even try it. Like I said many times I'm a coomer and jerk off like 3 times a day.

Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Saturn_Returns
You really shouldn't have started this thread.
I was merely being sarcastic, because the harsh reality is that most female dxpers will give you reasons that range from the crappy to the utterly ridiculous. At the end of it, you'll be none the wiser. But, hey, that's what happens when men ask for insights and advice from (relatively) young women on an online forum.
So, smiling at will makes people creeps. Oooooooooooooooooookay...
*smh*
Nah it's ok. I really am interesting in what women see in men. Like we got some here who likes feminine men and the majority of them sees masculine men as strong and attractive. I like to hear all stories from all the women on here about all kinds of men their attracted to. And most especially why feminine men most particularly the Gemini ones get lots of stares.
But, in most cases, you're not going to get the truth. But you continue enjoying being fed lies and blatant contradictions.
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Posted by poppyflower
1) They are attractive
2) They are quiet
3) They are there

Posted by Soul
Tbh it's the golden age for unattractive chubby men, because hot young women feel they can actually obtain them. For young people in general people aren't really dating. At least no the same they were back in the day. Most young attractive women are addicted to online likes and clout, and fat unattractive men happen to be their largest fanbase. So if you are fat and unattractive, just simp to some young attractive woman. They will likely date you purely because you are easy to obtain, and they don't have to have any real personality traits or talent to keep you in a relationship on their terms.
Also I'm immune to the incel card, because I honestly don't hate women. Don't even try it. Like I said many times I'm a coomer and jerk off like 3 times a day.

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Soul
Tbh it's the golden age for unattractive chubby men, because hot young women feel they can actually obtain them. For young people in general people aren't really dating. At least no the same they were back in the day. Most young attractive women are addicted to online likes and clout, and fat unattractive men happen to be their largest fanbase. So if you are fat and unattractive, just simp to some young attractive woman. They will likely date you purely because you are easy to obtain, and they don't have to have any real personality traits or talent to keep you in a relationship on their terms.
Also I'm immune to the incel card, because I honestly don't hate women. Don't even try it. Like I said many times I'm a coomer and jerk off like 3 times a day.
Hm now this a good read. I mean at this point in my life I am very uninteresting in getting involved with dating. I kinda am on the fat side but also muscular. Not what you call chisel. I could never be chisel. But more stout and yes and a bit chubby. Plus age ain't helping much anyway. The older I get the more uninteresting I get. I turn to jerking off too because women these days don't want to give a feminine submissive man what they want, domination. I am approaching the senior citizen level aka elderly so I can only guess it's natural to be the way I am now...uninteresting in almost everything now.click to expand

Posted by nanochipPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by SoulHm now this a good read. I mean at this point in my life I am very uninteresting in getting involved with dating. I kinda am on the fat side but also muscular. Not what you call chisel. I could never be chisel. But more stout and yes and a bit chubby. Plus age ain't helping much anyway. The older I get the more uninteresting I get. I turn to jerking off too because women these days don't want to give a feminine submissive man what they want, domination. I am approaching the senior citizen level aka elderly so I can only guess it's natural to be the way I am now...uninteresting in almost everything now.
Tbh it's the golden age for unattractive chubby men, because hot young women feel they can actually obtain them. For young people in general people aren't really dating. At least no the same they were back in the day. Most young attractive women are addicted to online likes and clout, and fat unattractive men happen to be their largest fanbase. So if you are fat and unattractive, just simp to some young attractive woman. They will likely date you purely because you are easy to obtain, and they don't have to have any real personality traits or talent to keep you in a relationship on their terms.
Also I'm immune to the incel card, because I honestly don't hate women. Don't even try it. Like I said many times I'm a coomer and jerk off like 3 times a day.
Are you still chubby and short with long gorgeous hair and beautiful, feminine, soft, and childlike features?click to expand




Posted by hoeflationPosted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
There is a man on the list 😅click to expand

Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by xxAjuxx
Plopped in thread like a baby 🍼 in crib.
"😳''—
😂
I'll answer.
(Its going to be boring I think)
Thank you for the mention.
I'll just say...
We can't fight nature. I see this as mostly a nature thing. its our genes when we gaze. Our bodies, our genes want to survive and evolve.I know what you mean when you say you just don't have time for it or don't feel like being in that "mood" of it all. I even agree.
I've even said in a recent thread that I don't look at anyone when I'm out. It's mainly to avoid eye to eye but Walking like the Terminator.. this is very unnatural but It helps with my energy though.
Regardless, people will look. People will see your light. What if we had no one looking? No one to picture back what we give off to the world?
I avoid eye contact mostly too because if I am out of my house I am on a mission to get what I need so I can get my introvert butt back to my hermit hole. I have had coworkers like "hey I saw you, I waved, but you didnt look up lol." Plus strangers love to talk to me and tell me weird things I dont need to know. Move out the way so I can grab this ketchup sir, I dont care about your kids birthday party.
However, some people do have a particular glow or energy about them that makes you just stare. Its not always sexual, sometimes its just admiration. Like wow he/she looks goodt.click to expand

Posted by black773
They are making sure they get a good description of you so that they could provide it to police.

Posted by hoeflationPosted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
There is a man on the list 😅click to expand

Posted by poppyflowerPosted by Lostthoughts
Did I miss anyone?
🤧
😝click to expand

Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
aju is not a woman and I definitely was not trolling lol. Rude. Just say you want responses from your dxp crushes.click to expand

Posted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?

Posted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Lostthoughts
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
Yo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by LostthoughtsYo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
Abby is lovely and there is no comparison between her and 773…..she’s not a troll lol.click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by LostthoughtsYo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
Abby is lovely and there is no comparison between her and 773…..she’s not a troll lol.
What you mean she's not a troll. Yes she is a troll much like we all are. She posts the same shiz on the comment section every chance she gets. About her play, karaoke, acting or whatever. The only reason I'm here is because I be wanting to read some funny and fun stuff. I'm not here to be friends with anybody nor am I here to be lovely. As being dominated by Gemini I want fun festivities.click to expand


Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterAbby is lovely and there is no comparison between her and 773…..she’s not a troll lol.Posted by LostthoughtsYo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
What you mean she's not a troll. Yes she is a troll much like we all are. She posts the same shiz on the comment section every chance she gets. About her play, karaoke, acting or whatever. The only reason I'm here is because I be wanting to read some funny and fun stuff. I'm not here to be friends with anybody nor am I here to be lovely. As being dominated by Gemini I want fun festivities.
That’s not trolling lol
They are updates of her life
Trolling is when you follow people around and try to get a rise from them. Both you and I have been targets for thatclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShine
@Jumpin_Jupiter
A memory to hopefully make you smile
😃

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Jumpin_JupiterAbby is lovely and there is no comparison between her and 773…..she’s not a troll lol.Posted by LostthoughtsYo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
What you mean she's not a troll. Yes she is a troll much like we all are. She posts the same shiz on the comment section every chance she gets. About her play, karaoke, acting or whatever. The only reason I'm here is because I be wanting to read some funny and fun stuff. I'm not here to be friends with anybody nor am I here to be lovely. As being dominated by Gemini I want fun festivities.
That’s not trolling lol
They are updates of her life
Trolling is when you follow people around and try to get a rise from them. Both you and I have been targets for that
Oh ok well spam then. Some users are just less contempt with it than others.click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShine
@Jumpin_Jupiter
A memory to hopefully make you smile
😃
😁 Now that's what's upclick to expand

Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by LostthoughtsYo yo yo stop✋🛑 right there. AbbyNormal got me muted because I got women and posts about them on the comment section on occasion. Some women who never had a man are jealous of single folks like me who girls are interesting in so you ain't gone see yo girl on this thread. Those type women can't stand men like me. So scratch her off dude. Like black773 she's no fun and not humorous.
Too many troll responses. Im really interested in this!
* begins ritual*
"Real woman with genuine responds come forth!"
@AquaClassy
@thegreenfairie
@DMV
@VenusAquarius
@AbbyNormal
@LoveroftheSea
@MyStarsShine
@Borednbeautiful
@LostinmyMind11
@SeaLion
@xxAjuxx
Did I miss anyone?
If Abby muted you, then you deserved it lol. You say a lot out of pocket stuff.click to expand



Posted by LostinmyMind11
if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?click to expand

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏click to expand

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.
I only got it for 5mths and had to move
Oh …. What’s the story, you been evicted??click to expand

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.
I only got it for 5mths and had to move
Oh …. What’s the story, you been evicted??
Ah gotcha.
Nope...at least not yet. I'm in limbo right now...all I know is the building sold and I'm not even supposed to know that. Everything is ridiculously overpriced so idk what imma do but right now I'm just trying to focus on that fact and that fact alone.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.
I only got it for 5mths and had to move
Oh …. What’s the story, you been evicted??
Ah gotcha.
Nope...at least not yet. I'm in limbo right now...all I know is the building sold and I'm not even supposed to know that. Everything is ridiculously overpriced so idk what imma do but right now I'm just trying to focus on that fact and that fact alone.
Oh hell
Have you been looking around? Is it possible to share a tenancy with someone?click to expand

Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.
I only got it for 5mths and had to move
Oh …. What’s the story, you been evicted??
Ah gotcha.
Nope...at least not yet. I'm in limbo right now...all I know is the building sold and I'm not even supposed to know that. Everything is ridiculously overpriced so idk what imma do but right now I'm just trying to focus on that fact and that fact alone.
Oh hell
Have you been looking around? Is it possible to share a tenancy with someone?
I have and everything is outta my price range...even with a 3rd job. Idk anyone that is looking nor willing to go half on a place. Idk I'll figure it out or be homeless ...at this point...idc either way.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LostinmyMind11
I'll chime in cause I was called....ahem ain't nobody looking at y'all...fuck men!
Thank you and have a great day!
Jokes aside...if I'm looking at you...I just find you attractive. That's all...nothing more nothing less.
Hey LIMM, how’s it going?
Things could be better but I'm hanging in there. How are you?
Oh no, what’s up? 🙁❤️
I’m ok thanks, living with ex Virgo, thankfully he gave me a roof 🙏
Wait what happened to your house you were renting?
Y'all got room for one more tho? I'm about to be in that same boat.
I only got it for 5mths and had to move
Oh …. What’s the story, you been evicted??
Ah gotcha.
Nope...at least not yet. I'm in limbo right now...all I know is the building sold and I'm not even supposed to know that. Everything is ridiculously overpriced so idk what imma do but right now I'm just trying to focus on that fact and that fact alone.
Oh hell
Have you been looking around? Is it possible to share a tenancy with someone?
I have and everything is outta my price range...even with a 3rd job. Idk anyone that is looking nor willing to go half on a place. Idk I'll figure it out or be homeless ...at this point...idc either way.
You won’t be homeless
I thought the same thing
Will pray 🙏 for you
Stay positive ❤️click to expand
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What I like to know is why women look at some men. Notice I say some not referencing to all. It's just that I notice they don't look at men the same way I see men look at women. Now in my case this ain't no joke. Women really do look at me. And with a smile. Staring in fact. Men do too so y'all ain't out of the woods. Sometimes I'm bothered by it simply because I don't be in the mood regardless of the smile and sometimes I don't be. I just carry on with my day.
I know it's highly unusual that women look at men in a drooling lustful and disrespected kind of way. And I know most times calls for looking, I mean people gonna look at you anyway regardless whether you a man or woman. It's quite natural.
But I like to know this from a women's perspective. Why women be looking like they wanna grab you? Is it because women find some men sexy? Attractive? Or could it be because I'm just so quiet and be minding my own business, in my case?