
So my cousin who I've had issues w added me and doesn't like anything but like everything in our family/ friend group but my stuff? It's so annoying what should I do?


Posted by LibramissThat's what it looks like
Maybe to spy on you. ๐


Posted by ChoXtsyExactly I know it's petty but she knows what's she doing. She's one of those fake name brand having superficial competive for likes girl and I've caught her lying and Called her out lol at her job actually she sold me a car and I caught her lying about the deal and took it straight to her manager. I don't think she's ever been caught like that because she uses her charm. She was in shock and caught red handed so I deleted her and she adds me a year later and is now doing this lol
My aqua friend does this.
She likes to lurk and secretly hate. She won't like anything but be like " oh i saw what you posted". I'm like ok cool that's what the like button is for.

Posted by ChoXtsyLol! Everyone saw what I posted right?
My aqua friend does this.
She likes to lurk and secretly hate. She won't like anything but be like " oh i saw what you posted". I'm like ok cool that's what the like button is for.


Posted by yupvirgooBut I don't want her to know it bothers me lol
Block that hater.


Posted by GemitatiLaugh it off!
Your cousin need a scapegoat.
To feel better that somebody.
Makes sense!

Posted by Capri-sunI don't want to unfriend because she will know t bothered me lol
1. What should you do? Nothing
2. Why do you care?
3. Unfriend her/him?
4. Ignore it...?
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Posted by yupvirgooI know but I don't even want her to know I know what she's doing lol I think I will just unfollow herPosted by Stensco21when i block someone, i just pretended ive deactivatedPosted by yupvirgooBut I don't want her to know it bothers me lol
Block that hater.
i hurt them more with my lies so i like to twist the knife a little more by doing that
but these are people i also block in life so... *shrugsclick to expand

Posted by aquasnozFuck off girl problems still continue even when your 29
Serious question, are you really 29



Posted by Stensco21Apparently so. May I suggest liking all her posts and passively aggressively posting on all her posts and then tag her in your high angled selfies so she replies and likes them.Posted by aquasnozFuck off girl problems still continue even when your 29
Serious question, are you really 29click to expand

Posted by SeraphlightI've seen your post it flip flops between boring and sadPosted by Stensco21If you are over 20 ..you should get a life..
So my cousin who I've had issues w added me and doesn't like anything but like everything in our family/ friend group but my stuff? It's so annoying what should I do?
If you are under 20 ..Awh honey I am sorry they are just meanies! ๐ขclick to expand

Posted by LibramissHow exactly is browsing content someone has posted to the web and added you to view 'spying'. Jfc. How?
Maybe to spy on you. ๐

Posted by SeraphlightPosted by Stensco21Not as boring and sad as your life seemingly.Posted by SeraphlightI've seen your post it flip flops between boring and sadPosted by Stensco21If you are over 20 ..you should get a life..
So my cousin who I've had issues w added me and doesn't like anything but like everything in our family/ friend group but my stuff? It's so annoying what should I do?
If you are under 20 ..Awh honey I am sorry they are just meanies! ๐ขclick to expand

Posted by Stensco21Thank God you don't have more important
So my cousin who I've had issues w added me and doesn't like anything but like everything in our family/ friend group but my stuff? It's so annoying what should I do?


Posted by Stensco21I'm in a weird situation like that. My best friend from Knd, yes Knd, unfollowed me on Ig. I want to unfollow too, but I don't want her to know that I cared that much lol. I think it's sad that people are willing to give up REAL friendships for a high number of followers, whom are people they don't even know in real life.Posted by Capri-sunI don't want to unfriend because she will know t bothered me lol
1. What should you do? Nothing
2. Why do you care?
3. Unfriend her/him?
4. Ignore it...?
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Posted by lexciPosted by Stensco21I'm in a weird situation like that. My best friend from Knd, yes Knd, unfollowed me on Ig. I want to unfollow too, but I don't want her to know that I cared that much lol. I think it's sad that people are willing to give up REAL friendships for a high number of followers, whom are people they don't even know in real life.Posted by Capri-sunI don't want to unfriend because she will know t bothered me lol
1. What should you do? Nothing
2. Why do you care?
3. Unfriend her/him?
4. Ignore it...?
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I also had a friend from elementary and middle school follow me this past weekend. I liked maybe 3 of her photos, she didn't even like 1 of mine lol. Social media is a weird place to me.click to expand

Posted by confusingconfusedThat's not what in wanting. I know her personally and know she plays games. And I run my business off social media. I'm bound to notice it and I hardly post anything and I don't do narcissistic selfies and she makes it a point to ignore anything w me in it. Our generation is different most of our social life is ran on social media. Ppl use is as a weapon
Why do you ever care? I don't get why people have to like everyone's pictures. It's lame if all you do every day is to like every single picture posted by your friends on FB. I don't know anyone who has that kind of time. Get a life.

Posted by confusingconfusedWell I'm observant so shoot me and I haven't lost because she doesn't know I even carePosted by Stensco21Posted by confusingconfusedThat's not what in wanting. I know her personally and know she plays games. And I run my business off social media. I'm bound to notice it and I hardly post anything and I don't do narcissistic selfies and she makes it a point to ignore anything w me in it. Our generation is different most of our social life is ran on social media. Ppl use is as a weapon
Why do you ever care? I don't get why people have to like everyone's pictures. It's lame if all you do every day is to like every single picture posted by your friends on FB. I don't know anyone who has that kind of time. Get a life.
Then you already lose the game cuz it bothers you. I would not even notice if someone likes everyone else' picture but mine in the first place.
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Posted by confusingconfusedHow would she know that lol she doesn't so whateverPosted by Stensco21Only if she doesn't know you are on here ๐Posted by confusingconfusedWell I'm observant so shoot me and I haven't lost because she doesn't know I even carePosted by Stensco21Posted by confusingconfusedThat's not what in wanting. I know her personally and know she plays games. And I run my business off social media. I'm bound to notice it and I hardly post anything and I don't do narcissistic selfies and she makes it a point to ignore anything w me in it. Our generation is different most of our social life is ran on social media. Ppl use is as a weapon
Why do you ever care? I don't get why people have to like everyone's pictures. It's lame if all you do every day is to like every single picture posted by your friends on FB. I don't know anyone who has that kind of time. Get a life.
Then you already lose the game cuz it bothers you. I would not even notice if someone likes everyone else' picture but mine in the first place.
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Posted by DivaCanLeoGood idea
put her on restricted. problems solved. i notice this thread, its passive aggressive, so ...okay..you don't get to see my world. period.com

Posted by Stensco21Didn't think of thatPosted by DivaCanLeoGood idea
put her on restricted. problems solved. i notice this thread, its passive aggressive, so ...okay..you don't get to see my world. period.com
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Posted by DivaCanLeoWhy would u even bother to put them on restricted. Such a petty lioness
put her on restricted. problems solved. i notice this thread, its passive aggressive, so ...okay..you don't get to see my world. period.com


Posted by Stensco21Why did you accept the friend request, then... ?
Why would I not put her on restricted?shes clearly a hater and it's strange. She has evil energy and she's a thief too

Posted by TaurasianShe's a Cancer, and it's a great idea, esp if you're suffering fools forPosted by DivaCanLeoWhy would u even bother to put them on restricted. Such a petty lioness
put her on restricted. problems solved. i notice this thread, its passive aggressive, so ...okay..you don't get to see my world. period.com
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Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Stensco21Why did you accept the friend request, then... ?
Why would I not put her on restricted?shes clearly a hater and it's strange. She has evil energy and she's a thief too
I blocked my cousin when she was disrespectful of my account/privacy.
She knows I'm a freak about that shit.
I believe she even got my other cousin (in Australia) to send me a request,
just to see what was up-- she was astonished that she was blocked.
I ignored them both.
It's *my* account that I use exclusively for *my* convenience, and tbh,
it's more of a nuisance than anything.
Because she pretended to be my friend at a family gathering. I thought the tift was over.
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Posted by Montgomery
... my other cousin (in Australia)...




Posted by aquarius09Same. It's not that I don't like it either. I'll just like it in my head and move on.
Okay, I'll explain this from the perspective of someone who has bunch of acquaintances on her FB and I don't like half of the nonsense I see.
I'm very particular about what I like. I'm not someone who goes on "liking" spree and likes just about anything nor am I into pity likes (liking something because someone didn't get that many likes on their posts). I also don't like things just because we are close friends. If I truly like something, I will like it.
I will add people that are just acquaintances because I know them or have known them. I don't care to stalk them and nor did I add them with the intention of liking their posts.

Posted by SeraphlightI'm lazy. I didn't get that far in the thread yet.Posted by Deedee86It's possible but also ...the other stuff the stealing etc ..that is WEIRD.
Not to play devils advocate here but maybe it just doesn't pop up on her feed. If she has lots of friends she may miss your posts.
That's one thing I hate about Facebook is the misunderstandings and unnecessary drama that it creates.
My aunt (who is my mother's age) got mad at me once because I didn't post a happy birthday message on her wall. Forget that I did it in person, she wanted the public wish. To get me back, she unfriended me. It backfired though because I didn't notice until several months later when I tried to include her in a group private message invitation. I really had no idea why she was upset. I just called her and said "really?"click to expand

Posted by wagtailPosted by Montgomery
... my other cousin (in Australia)...
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Posted by Stensco21Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Stensco21Why did you accept the friend request, then... ?
Why would I not put her on restricted?shes clearly a hater and it's strange. She has evil energy and she's a thief too
I blocked my cousin when she was disrespectful of my account/privacy.
She knows I'm a freak about that shit.
I believe she even got my other cousin (in Australia) to send me a request,
just to see what was up-- she was astonished that she was blocked.
I ignored them both.
It's *my* account that I use exclusively for *my* convenience, and tbh,
it's more of a nuisance than anything.
Because she pretended to be my friend at a family gathering. I thought the tift was over.
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Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Stensco21Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Stensco21Why did you accept the friend request, then... ?
Why would I not put her on restricted?shes clearly a hater and it's strange. She has evil energy and she's a thief too
I blocked my cousin when she was disrespectful of my account/privacy.
She knows I'm a freak about that shit.
I believe she even got my other cousin (in Australia) to send me a request,
just to see what was up-- she was astonished that she was blocked.
I ignored them both.
It's *my* account that I use exclusively for *my* convenience, and tbh,
it's more of a nuisance than anything.
Because she pretended to be my friend at a family gathering. I thought the tift was over.
I thought you were supposed to be able to see
through all of that.
Non-discerning Scorpio... does not compute.
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Posted by AmethysstI can't stand fake ppl either you'll know
This sounds like facebook drama. I never add people or even family to my social media who would annoy me to the point of insanity.
I removed the add friend request button to my page so only I can add them if I care to do so, not the other way around. I despise fake people and nonsense.

Posted by Libramiss+1
Maybe to spy on you. ๐


Posted by littlenanobyte
I didn't read through the entire thread, but people are bitches. Simply put, they add you to spy on you and tell everyone who cares to listen about your life updates and they scrounge together personal information by way of seeing what you comment on to other people, or by reading through your own comments. A lot of my Facebook friends are single mothers or stay at home moms who don't do shit all day. So they literally see everything on there.
My favorite part is when people add me, and I think they are cool (but not close), and then I later hear that they are talking shit about me about something I said or posted because like someone else said, they read EVERYTHING, but comment or like nothing. They can't even possess the ballsack to put their snotty tacky comment into the comment box, they have to gossip and do it behind my back. Like if there's an issue with my post, write it below or bye bye bitch. I wouldn't be surprised if your cousin was doin the same damn thing.

Posted by Stensco21Posted by Montgomery
I thought you were supposed to be able to see
through all of that.
Non-discerning Scorpio... does not compute.
I really didn't care enough to give it much thought but it's funny what she's doing now. I think it's because I have everything she wants career, money hot guy and skinny and she's fat
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Posted by Stensco21Posted by littlenanobyte
I didn't read through the entire thread, but people are bitches. Simply put, they add you to spy on you and tell everyone who cares to listen about your life updates and they scrounge together personal information by way of seeing what you comment on to other people, or by reading through your own comments. A lot of my Facebook friends are single mothers or stay at home moms who don't do shit all day. So they literally see everything on there.
My favorite part is when people add me, and I think they are cool (but not close), and then I later hear that they are talking shit about me about something I said or posted because like someone else said, they read EVERYTHING, but comment or like nothing. They can't even possess the ballsack to put their snotty tacky comment into the comment box, they have to gossip and do it behind my back. Like if there's an issue with my post, write it below or bye bye bitch. I wouldn't be surprised if your cousin was doin the same damn thing.
That's the exact vibe I'm getting. She's a single man hungry sad person who talks shit and constantly lies
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