Personal Development Forum: Learn, Heal, and Evolve

Welcome to the Personal Development forum, a supportive space for self discovery, emotional growth, and mental clarity. Here, members share real experiences, ask deep questions, and explore powerful tools for healing, change, and awareness. Topics include emotional challenges, relationships, identity, life transitions, and everyday habits that shape who we become. Whether you are seeking inspiration, clarity, or just a place to be heard, this forum is a resource for learning and evolving in your own time. By reading through shared experiences or starting your own conversation, you can take a meaningful step toward personal transformation.

I’ve recently come to the realization that i have trouble coping with angry/aggressive/spiteful people, and wondering if there’s anything i can do to open my mind and heart to these folks. i just had a falling out with my taurus bff of 9 years, becau
Whorpio
@Whorpio
8 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio
Joined: Mar 31, 2017 · Topics: 141 · Posts: 6184
May or may not work. ive recently learned that many men use annoying questions the answers to which they dont care to make you uncomfortable when they dont like you.
MidAtBest
@MidAtBest
1,000+ PostsGemini
Joined: Mar 09, 2025 · Topics: 38 · Posts: 2201
Started reading this… apparently it’s the anti manifestation book. anybody ever read it?
DMV
@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
Joined: Nov 10, 2010 · Topics: 654 · Posts: 28989
Having trouble sleeping tonight, but for some reason this popped into my mind. curious to see what others are on here.
WarAngel79
@WarAngel79
2 Years500+ PostsScorpio
Joined: Nov 16, 2023 · Topics: 13 · Posts: 875
I want to start off my post by begging you, if you think you have an alcohol problem please get help. there is a saying thats its never too late, but sometimes, just sometimes is it.
Queenofthepheasantfairies
@Queenofthepheasantfairies
9 Years5,000+ Posts
Joined: Jul 28, 2016 · Topics: 83 · Posts: 6474
Written by tom petty. his widow thought it was about his mom, others say "her" is his widow...
TheGreenFairie
@TheGreenFairie
2 Years
Joined: Nov 21, 2023 · Topics: 4 · Posts: 118
Where are you on your journey? who are you ..
xxAjuxx
@xxAjuxx
4 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Jun 02, 2021 · Topics: 34 · Posts: 1102
With this interaction? someone did a huge favor for me a few months back and i'm thankful and all and our last convo was ofc pleasant.
virgoOPPP
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 24, 2019 · Topics: 287 · Posts: 10885
For anyone who is a mum or dad or who is planning to be … a place to share stories, experiences, advice, tips, ask questions etc
MyStarsShine
@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts
Joined: Sep 03, 2016 · Topics: 331 · Posts: 41243
New method? if i had a nickel for everytime i come across this happening, i'd have exactly 2.
virgoOPPP
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 24, 2019 · Topics: 287 · Posts: 10885
It’s interesting in the light of the me too movement as well as other cases where individuals were exposed to be terrible people that is when the in their people try to disassociate themselves from those people. it makes sense because no one wants to be
Adreamuponwaking
@Adreamuponwaking
10 Years5,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 30, 2015 · Topics: 214 · Posts: 6434
I said what i said. men will agree how many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look....
BigTeddyBear2
@BigTeddyBear2
2 Years
Joined: Mar 27, 2023 · Topics: 10 · Posts: 55
Do you accept where you are in life? let go of your past, just live in the moment or try to plan the future?
PuzzlePieces
@PuzzlePieces
6 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: May 26, 2019 · Topics: 79 · Posts: 3897
I’ve been a sigareyye smoker since i was 15. we were ditching school going on the train and smoking and ending up in villages where people sold home made wine by gallons and drank and smoked (no sex) and i am still smoking… however i discovered weird thin
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
A bit of background about my chart. i'm a gemini with lots of earth.
BaeMaxx
@BaeMaxx
3 Years
Joined: Jul 29, 2022 · Topics: 15 · Posts: 418
What is wrong with women (mostly women) in general? what is the status of personal worth and dignity?
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
Any introverts here? are you in a job dominated by extroverts?
BaeMaxx
@BaeMaxx
3 Years
Joined: Jul 29, 2022 · Topics: 15 · Posts: 418
I could write a full article or essay but i don't have time for that. so i keep it short and sweet.
Lostthoughts
@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Nov 05, 2019 · Topics: 30 · Posts: 2949
Avoid relatives/family with libra suns or libra moons without looking like you're doing it on purpose? there's this libra moon i'm trying to avoid but this libra sun relative is basically forcing me to deal with her by guilt tripping me about it.
virgoOPPP
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 24, 2019 · Topics: 287 · Posts: 10885
I know i need to walk away but that cookie just might be my kryptonite........
Adreamuponwaking
@Adreamuponwaking
10 Years5,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 30, 2015 · Topics: 214 · Posts: 6434
How do you feel when someone loves you the right way but u can’t reciprocate? like genuine love.
Truemara
@Truemara
4 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: May 29, 2021 · Topics: 11 · Posts: 2228
I ask this based on the forgive and forget thread. do you believe someone can change?
AbbyNormal
@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus
Joined: Aug 07, 2013 · Topics: 61 · Posts: 5321
…and say thats it??? girls will do it for you.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
Relationship consultant (steve geyer) assuring us that men have this god given gift to think about…nothing! he said driving with his wife she asking sometimes ‘what are you thinking?’ and he said (inviting all men in audience to answer and everybody co
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
Ok. those women who said whew - gtfo scorpio years later we had so much i can remember like what?
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
Someone said: i am punching well above my weight i was curious what she meant. so i found this: engage in an activity or contest perceived as being beyond your capacity or abilities.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
I remember sitting by the mirror brushing my hair looking at my face thinking god had never created more beautiful woman. i was extremely discreet and happy with myself inside myself not telling anybody that i am so special and one of a kind.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
I want to say i am happy just because i am with my mom cooking food waiting for our little one coming home tomorrow to eat food we made for her and be with us for a day talking shit and laugh about life in general…simple thing nothing significant. just 3
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
I want to help mothers who are worried about baby formula shortage... i breast fed my child for 90 days and my milk stopped coming so i went old fashion way and started to boil oatmeal and blend it in a blender and buckwheat and rice with vegetables (adde
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
Hey. i had googled norways financial and it is 6th of the richest countries as you said.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
All pot heads invited for discussion.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
When i was married to a cap - he was lazy and was letting me do everything as long as he doesn’t have to but i was young and i didn’t know and didn’t care. not too long ago i had briefly worked in the office and man and woman in their 70th came and ha wa
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
I remember at some point there were sites that invited women to meet busy wealthy men who are too busy to look for a date because they were baking those millions and couldn’t leave that oven so they used those sites. it used to pop up everywhere.
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
…won’t you all admit that if sex is no good - happily ever after is just a lie??? if you all admitted it - world would be a better place because all shit in the world is due to sexually frustrated ugly people?
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
…reading all that ‘ugly dating ugly’ i am wondering - how many of us would date that ugly person whom we refused to date because we knew that people will say behind our back ‘did you see her man? 😂🫣i would never!
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
3 kids (adults now 60, 55, 45) growing up with parents who weren’t affectionate to each other to the point that kids had never seen parents hugged each other - all 3 grew up none affectionate blaming their upbringing in such family. one sister and 2 broth
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
May i have an example of the richest handsome men not from hollywood? question is - when those people who look like bill gates and elon musk having all these money and knowing that they can never be sure that their partner loves them for them because of
GemiMay
@GemiMay
3 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Apr 02, 2022 · Topics: 132 · Posts: 2497
To get over a breakup that you initiated. thanks.
SnowBunny726
@SnowBunny726
4 Years500+ Posts
Joined: Dec 16, 2020 · Topics: 39 · Posts: 785
What does it mean when you show some degree of kindness to someone you've just me and they immediately feel comfortable attempting to borrow money from you? does this mean they absolutely don't like you but feel that they should at least get something out
virgoOPPP
@virgoOPPP
6 Years10,000+ Posts
Joined: Mar 24, 2019 · Topics: 287 · Posts: 10885
Date your dead besties hubbie??
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts
Joined: Oct 21, 2015 · Topics: 110 · Posts: 35718
So i woke up last night and was up thinking about this. (cheers to libra to scorpio season moving planets out of my 12th house and into the 1st house) i believe that we are all spiritual beings (soul self) having a human experience (human self).
themilkyway36
@themilkyway36
9 Years500+ Posts
Joined: Oct 09, 2016 · Topics: 24 · Posts: 905
Hey all, going into the new year, what do you want for yourself? i want to be motivated to get back into playing the piano again and opening up my creative mind.
PoshChickenLove1111
@PoshChickenLove1111
3 Years500+ Posts
Joined: Dec 17, 2021 · Topics: 19 · Posts: 547
I met it more than once that people who were born on leo cusp--on july 22-23 or august 22-23--and found out that because of their time of birth they were not leos, were very sad about it. is it cooler and more chic to be a leo than a cancer or a virgo?
Som
@Som
5 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: Feb 15, 2020 · Topics: 43 · Posts: 1707
How hard would this be for a partner to handle? is it a matter of being understanding or ways to handle so you aren’t the target of reactions?
PuzzlePieces
@PuzzlePieces
6 Years1,000+ Posts
Joined: May 26, 2019 · Topics: 79 · Posts: 3897
Hi everyone i hope your all keeping well. i just wanted to ask when your feeling down and depressed what do you do to bring yourself back up to feeling you again.
Centaur12
@Centaur12
5 Years500+ Posts
Joined: Nov 15, 2020 · Topics: 23 · Posts: 628
How have y’all dealt with missing someone? i guess kind of like grieving someone.
AbbyNormal
@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus
Joined: Aug 07, 2013 · Topics: 61 · Posts: 5321
To celebrate the sun, moon and mars currently in virgo, let us feast in discussing how we self-criticize ourselves to become a better person. i shall start.
SassyKiwi
@SassyKiwi
10 Years5,000+ Posts
Joined: Nov 05, 2015 · Topics: 126 · Posts: 6967
“you cannot suffer the past or future because they do not exist. what you are suffering is your memory and imagination.” i just shared this quote with virguy because it came up on ig and has always been one of my favs from growing up.
AbbyNormal
@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus
Joined: Aug 07, 2013 · Topics: 61 · Posts: 5321
Sometimes, unspoken truths must be shared in order for the better of the collective conscious. if you find no beauty in life, it's because you can't see the beauty in yourself.
GemCurioThe1
@GemCurioThe1
5 Years
Joined: Aug 11, 2020 · Topics: 49 · Posts: 408
Centaur12
@Centaur12
5 Years500+ Posts
Joined: Nov 15, 2020 · Topics: 23 · Posts: 628
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