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Do most people overexaggerate their sexual aptitude?
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Lol @ hearing parents. Sorry for your trauma op
I'll have to agree, people have sex like they're shooting a porno. It's kind of odd. I wouldn't say I'm good at it due strictly to lack of experience and willingness to just try anyone.
Hahahhahahaha
Step by step how to books
Its gotta be one of the 3 p's right?
Peers, parents, or pormos
Practice practice practice
Porn has a lot to answer for
👎🏻😕
Yes sex has millions of parameters and those of each person have to match perfectly..it can go wrong for many reasons. Our fantasies may be grand, but the reality is often grim.
That is why Sex hasn't been satisfying to me i get bored really fast if there is no mental connection. After the 1st time and meeting again the attraction is already gone ... i'm abstaining from sex now until i find the right person because otherwise i regret having sex i do not wanna get disappointed any longer the only real chemistry i had was with my ex and we both know that before i would not be able to go without for a day right now i think i can easily go without for a whole year... don't know if it is my age or just the fact that i am single after a long time but i want something more deep.
This is the most accurate thread I've ever seen
People don't know how to be passionate and giving without context of themselves that's why.
Good lovers are people who can transcend
Sexual aptitude means zero when two people truly feel connected to one another in every level (including the sexual one)The sexual one becomes a formality rather than the priority. The sexual component then evolves from the "I need to be good at sex in order to keep this person" to "I want to use my sexual energy to merge with this person"
People don't know how to be passionate and giving without context of themselves that's why.
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Always with this scene!
It's always the quiet ones... 🥰
Sexual aptitude means zero when two people truly feel connected to one another in every level (including the sexual one)The sexual one becomes a formality rather than the priority. The sexual component then evolves from the "I need to be good at sex in order to keep this person" to "I want to use my sexual energy to merge with this person"
Totally agree
I believe 90% of men & women are probably terrible at sex. They can say it's about passion & all of this other shit, but if you dont got moves &/or proper conversation, ur just average dick/pussy. I've also noticed a generic sounds & dialogue people have adopted during sex. Do they get this from hearing parents or watching porn?
That's the same conclusion I came to so I created the thread, "Who Taught You the Birds and the Bees?" It really goes back to the basics: being introduced and taught in healthy, open, and honest non-judgmental way by someone who knows.
One thing I noticed is no one ever tried to make me feel ashamed.
I noticed the neglect of the psychological aspects of sex.
Yes.. from experience I've had men brag about how fire their head game was but didn't know how to do shit but lick like a lil azz boy 🙄
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
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Who?
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
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Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
😂😂😂😂
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
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Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
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Number 2 and still a dxper
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
Damn. I want to know ☕
Perhaps I will drop a tiny hint or two about one of the boiz. 🤔 Perhaps.
How many are we talking about though 😏
Three. Or was it four? Can't remember exactly. 🤔
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Oooo I think I know who the lastest one was.. 😌
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
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Where does he live? What's his race?
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
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Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
Most? There have been more than one?
There have been three.
There can be only one /highlander
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Probably you
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
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😂😂😂😂 ole nosey azz!!
(You're doing great.. keep asking questions)
OK
Male introverts
Taurus, Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Aries
How many did I get right?
My "abilities" say you got Virgo right.
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
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Virgo 😅😌
OK
Male introverts
Taurus, Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Aries
How many did I get right?
You definitely got them all right 😅😂 except for maybe aries..
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
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There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
😂😂😂😂 ole nosey azz!!
(You're doing great.. keep asking questions)
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This is a little different for me. I'm use to people telling me everything without asking.
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
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Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Perhaps. 🤔
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Well you're a beautiful woman, I see why they'd all want to get their hand on you.
What made you go for them?
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Perhaps. 🤔
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Btw, I'm aware this means absolutely 😉
OK
Male introverts
Taurus, Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, Aries
How many did I get right?
You definitely got them all right 😅😂 except for maybe aries..
It's rare to see aries men posting on dxp.
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Lol right. That's why I'd be really surprised if she had one in her DMs.
Aries men move quick. It'll be hard catching one if you never meet face to face.
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
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Does he have a Scorpio moon?
Why would you do them like this doe? @HeartofIce
These men promised you a rosen garden or something?
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
Does he have a Scorpio moon?
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The one I had in mind no.. no scorpio moon.
STILL don't use your detective skills on me 😅😂 I'm not saying anything else..
Lots of women getting DXP dick
🤢🤢🤢🤢
The Lioness is a bad mf.
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
Does he have a Scorpio moon?
The one I had in mind no.. no scorpio moon.
STILL don't use your detective skills on me 😅😂 I'm not saying anything else..
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😂😂 Had to shoot my shot
Why blow up my spot because we both got hot
Now check it - I got more Mack than Craig and in the bed
Believe me sweetie I got enough to feed the needy
Alright now biggie..
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Perhaps. 🤔
Well you're a beautiful woman, I see why they'd all want to get their hand on you.
What made you go for them?
Aw, thank you. You're so kind. 😊
And if you want my honest answer... I liked the thrill of getting dick from a garbage forum like this one. 😂 But also getting to know them outside of DXP was pretty good.
Just that most of them talked big game when they didn't have any.
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So are they straight shooters the moment they DM you, or do they try to finness?
This thread is giving me life...
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
Does he have a Scorpio moon?
The one I had in mind no.. no scorpio moon.
STILL don't use your detective skills on me 😅😂 I'm not saying anything else..
I know who
And i KNOW they fuked
Always had an inkling
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😌
Why blow up my spot because we both got hot
Now check it - I got more Mack than Craig and in the bed
Believe me sweetie I got enough to feed the needy
Hi! Hug and booty squeeze
Sup 22 Savage
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LOL
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Perhaps. 🤔
Well you're a beautiful woman, I see why they'd all want to get their hand on you.
What made you go for them?
Aw, thank you. You're so kind. 😊
And if you want my honest answer... I liked the thrill of getting dick from a garbage forum like this one. 😂 But also getting to know them outside of DXP was pretty good.
Just that most of them talked big game when they didn't have any.
So are they straight shooters the moment they DM you, or do they try to finness?
Actually, the DM sliding is started because we find each other interesting based on what we say on the boards, not because I'm good looking or anything.
But after getting into all kinds of discussions about this and that, that's when the juicy talk starts dripping in my inbox.
😏
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That's that psychological aspect.
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Taurus?! Oops nevermind I was thinking someone else..
Damn, who were you gonna guess it was? What Sun sign?
Virgo 😅😌
☺
Lol why do I have a feeling me and you we're thinking the same person 😅
Does he have a Scorpio moon?
The one I had in mind no.. no scorpio moon.
STILL don't use your detective skills on me 😅😂 I'm not saying anything else..
😂😂 Had to shoot my shot
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😂 don't let me distract you..
Focus on the mission. We still need 3 or 4 names 😅😅😅😅
Most of the men I've fucked from here have exaggerated hella. 🙄
And your dms are locked i can't even ask who😣😣😣
I mean you could've just asked me directly here.
Who?
But asking me wouldn't guarantee an answer from me.
Lol Give me 2 hints. What's his sign?
Hardly know or interact with anyone here. I most likely wouldn't know if you told me.
I mostly fuck with the more quiet men here. They're the ones who like to slip into my DMs. And which one did you want hints about?
Smart girl
Hmmmmm, the latest
The one who has most recently hit me up? Or the most recent one I fucked?
Number 2 and still a dxper
He's a Taurus Sun.
Where does he live? What's his race?
Somewhere in the States. He's yellow.
There's a yellow Taurus here? Hmm That guy with the ponytail?
Perhaps. 🤔
Well you're a beautiful woman, I see why they'd all want to get their hand on you.
What made you go for them?
Aw, thank you. You're so kind. 😊
And if you want my honest answer... I liked the thrill of getting dick from a garbage forum like this one. 😂 But also getting to know them outside of DXP was pretty good.
Just that most of them talked big game when they didn't have any.
So are they straight shooters the moment they DM you, or do they try to finness?
Actually, the DM sliding is started because we find each other interesting based on what we say on the boards, not because I'm good looking or anything.
But after getting into all kinds of discussions about this and that, that's when the juicy talk starts dripping in my inbox.
😏
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That's a facade babe. You being a gd conversationalist serves as a segue.
Have you made any female friends outside of Dxp?
Did this help you understand your situation?
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I believe 90% of men & women are probably terrible at sex. They can say it's about passion & all of this other shit, but if you dont got moves &/or proper conversation, ur just average dick/pussy. I've also noticed a generic sounds & dialogue people have adopted during sex. Do they get this from hearing parents or watching porn?