Help me out here (Page 3)

LOL 6 pack minimum. Accompanied with 6 pack hold.

Posted by P-Angel
A year is a long time ... if he were interested in you more than just a close buddy then something would have happened by now.

A guy isn't going to wait around for this long for you to work out your issues .. especially a Pisces. You had said that you don't get to see him other than when friends are around .. so this means he isn't caring to be alone with you to even discuss a relationship.

If he isn't making any kinds of efforts for you and him to have alone time to even see if there is a possibility of a relationship ... then he isn't into you the way you have decided you want him to be.

My first assessment stands .... he isn't the kind of person you are envisioning him to be. You have something in your mind, because you have chosen him .. and he isn't that person that you have in your head ... because if he was, then he would have made it clear to you that he's interested in you.

He's not.

Of course, you can listen to the others if you choose (who are leading you astray, btw) .... they would tell you to just be bold and put yourself out there without caution.

::: shrugs :::

Totally agree...I hope for the best but I fear it's not what sweets has built it up to be but for the most part I hope she will consider getting on with her life and leave her thoughts open for men that truly show a deep interest in her, something more reciprocal and constant.

sweets is going to be fine, despite our best efforts to make her head implode lol

And as for Ian's "6 pack" joke... when Lauren ASKED that "oh-so-innocent" (as in leading) question, I just KNEW his answer would be the same as mine... it wasn't. I was thinking, "A dozen at least." Ahhh well. We must share that same twisted sense of humor, Ian and I. *grin* I could almost imagine the wicked twinkle in his eye from here.

There was no "right answer" to that jacked-up question, Lauren.. you were prepared to vilify him for his answer whatever way he went... if he played into the sexual innuendo YOU started, then he's a pussy hound and a user. If he ignored it, then he was a chickenshit and avoiding answering. If he declared none, that he wasn't interested in sex (and a guy should ALWAYS carry a condom, SHEESH!).. you'd probably call him a liar, but you'd definitely THINK he was lying. You already had your responses formulated, Gemini girl -- sadly though, you do NOT understand Pisces. Funny how Geminis so often THINK they do, though - and usually misconstrue everything a tongue-in-cheek Pisces says. Which further amuses the Pisces - because the Airy, in-their-head literal Gemini can't see what's right in front of them, because they already think they KNOW what they're looking at!

Posted by ianthefish
how many women do you think ive been with?

i will accept a guess..

I assume you mean sexually, as in home run, all-the-way?

I guess.. three. Maybe four.

I'm such a bitch lol

I was right? Three or four? What did I win? You can mail me a prize check, kthx.

And hey... if the guy brought ONE condom out of his wallet, I'd be like.. o.O.. One? Really? You thought that would be enough? Baby boy, Imma WRECK you.. good thing I have six condoms in my purse. Now strip and kneel 😛

Posted by Prince_Pisces

Posted by Nefer
And hey... if the guy brought ONE condom out of his wallet, I'd be like.. o.O.. One? Really? You thought that would be enough? Baby boy, Imma WRECK you.. good thing I have six condoms in my purse. Now strip and kneel 😛

LOL

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Oh, just TRY to tell me this isn't YOU TOO, Mr. PP! Go on, try it. I need to laugh today 😉

Pisces are sex fiends.. every single one I've ever known. I'm sure there's exceptions, some traumatized Pisces gal who just LOATHES sex.. but I haven't met one personally. Even the ones with.. erm... a history... they still love sex, throw themselves body, heart, and soul into lovemaking. We don't get "tired" of having sex, it doesn't get "old" (cuz we won't let it!), and we don't necessarily need a new partner to rev it up again... though if the sex starts sucking hardcore (if say, the partner is a Gemini or Sag who could take or leave sex).. sex IS important enough to us that not having a good sex life is a truly horrifying thought... and if our best efforts to pump life back into our dying/dead sex life fail.. erm, yeah.. we're much more likely to swim away.

But FFS, do NOT mistake the heady abandon with which we throw ourselves into our love of sex and meaning it's the ONLY thing that matters, or that we use people like breathing blow up dolls. Quite the opposite is true... we want the connection with our lover.. the melding, the click, the soul-shattering joining.

Sex is not THE most important thing, people. But it sure as HELL isn't number three or four! 😛

Posted by Nefer
sweets is going to be fine, despite our best efforts to make her head implode lol

!

And that is exactly where I'm at...a true to form Libran that can see the wisdom in what you are ALL are saying...

Gona take a queue out of a male book and go sit on my rock and ponder...

thanks so much all of you, you are exactly what this girl needs to sort out herself 🙂