Is she mad at me?

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The pisces I love was texting me yesterday. Almost all day. Asked me if I was feeling better in the morning because I'm sick. We ended up having a conversation about our mothers. They are similar. She sent me a text in the afternoon.. the last text saying "It seems to my like our mothers have a lot in commonlol."

I fell asleep because I was smoking mad weeds. And didn't wake up until midnight. Texted back "hey I KOd heavyyy, yeah they should meet lol".

I feel like she was trying to get in to deep conversation with me. And now Im worried she thinks Im playing games with her again. I used to play power struggle games. Not just with her. In general. Because of my abandonment issues. I told her this when we were in baltimore. And since we got back. She's been more vocal with texting me. And, being as I promised friendship, im doing just that. Being a friend. Not playing power games anymore. But I think she was opening up to me finally. Do you guys think she's mad at me? Is that a thing? I read somewhere here a pisces say that because of their own abandonment issues, they take it hard when someone doesn't text back after a long time.
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I don't think she's mad at all... nothing to be mad at really and you told her you had been smoking weed. This one you're reading too much into. I find that with the Pisces I speak to if I don't reply for a while, when I finally do she responds like immediately.

Just chill. It's fine but dude honestly, I don't think you can be her friend considering you're in love with her... it's too hard and you're doing yourself over. I feel like you're putting so much energy into her or figuring things out. Trust me been there done that. Think about it this way, you're in love and you're putting all this energy into her - what if she turns around and ends up dating someone else. You will be devo. I think you should distance yourself I feel like continuing with this is going to damage you more in the long run. If you distance yourself and she comes running back then have that conversation with her. Ask her wtf she wants because you're feeling a certain type of way and you just can't deal with the backwards and forwards. You need to be real with her. They appreciate that.
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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the window. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND they SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/calls you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Your abandonment issues is kicking in with your texting... you're still gonna mess up its apart of human life... it's so good that you are aware of how you are/were and trying to change it. It won't happen overnight so please give yourself a break. You can always tell her that you did not do it on purpose and you meant what you said that you would try to change but you really did fall asleep and leave it at that since it's on your mind.

I so wish more people would realize their fears and try to overcome them especially when it comes to hurting others. Kuddos to you for doing that. It will be just fine.
thanks chica 🙂 still no response... :/
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I don't think she's mad at all... nothing to be mad at really and you told her you had been smoking weed. This one you're reading too much into. I find that with the Pisces I speak to if I don't reply for a while, when I finally do she responds like immediately.

Just chill. It's fine but dude honestly, I don't think you can be her friend considering you're in love with her... it's too hard and you're doing yourself over. I feel like you're putting so much energy into her or figuring things out. Trust me been there done that. Think about it this way, you're in love and you're putting all this energy into her - what if she turns around and ends up dating someone else. You will be devo. I think you should distance yourself I feel like continuing with this is going to damage you more in the long run. If you distance yourself and she comes running back then have that conversation with her. Ask her wtf she wants because you're feeling a certain type of way and you just can't deal with the backwards and forwards. You need to be real with her. They appreciate that.
Thanks.. thats kinda what iv been doing.. and she just started talking with me more and more. And here I am again. Dazed and confused. I was also sick in bed which didn't help my productivity at all. Im doing the "4 week test".. Im gonna entertain this for 4 weeks. And if nothing. move the fuck on. But she has to initiate wanting to see me. You are right. I can't realistically be her friend at this pace.
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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...
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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...

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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...

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YW. She's Piscean, we live by the stars...yeah, tell her about the meteor shower tonight and tell her about the eclipse on the 21st. I HAD a feeling both of y'all do Mary Jane (typical). DUH!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...


YW. She's Piscean, we live by the stars...yeah, tell her about the meteor shower tonight and tell her about the eclipse on the 20th. I HAD a feeling both of y'all do Mary Jane (typical). DUH!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Yeah so message her even though she hasn't messaged me back?

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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...


YW. She's Piscean, we live by the stars...yeah, tell her about the meteor shower tonight and tell her about the eclipse on the 21st. I HAD a feeling both of y'all do Mary Jane (typical). DUH!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Yeah so message her even though she hasn't messaged me back?

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Yep

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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yes, message her not to forget the meteor shower, and that you both must continue that conversation - tell her you feel out after smoking and will try harder next time not to do that

it's not big deal - I used to text every time I wanted to tell him something and we laughed about it - he said, you just text anything that comes to your head don't you - lol - I said yeah that way I won't forget to tell you things

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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...


YW. She's Piscean, we live by the stars...yeah, tell her about the meteor shower tonight and tell her about the eclipse on the 20th. I HAD a feeling both of y'all do Mary Jane (typical). DUH!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Yeah so message her even though she hasn't messaged me back?

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Nope. She's not mad at you. Things happen. Let me explain. I texted "Have a good day" to the Taurus I have a date with tonight (coming over for pizza, movie, and meeting my son). My T-mobile phone has automated sound that will say, "New Text from John ____". Well, I didn't hear anything; went back to work and I was pouting (we Piscean are OVER thinkers). I started thinking the WORSE (he's gonna cancel on me; so NOW I understand your saying that Pisceans don't like to be abandoned; AKA "ignored" and you're right!)....keep reading.

Well, LOL, I checked the volume on my phone and realized he sent me a text back saying, "You too, Sweetheart". I smiled. All my fears went out the door. I'm sure something happened at your/hers end when she hasn't communicated back to you.

You are young, I get that, BUT if you want this Piscean woman, may I suggest you STOP smoking Mary Jane! What are you telling her by doing this? Drug addict? Addicted to Mary Jane? IF, if she finds out you're smoking do you think she will come running to you (slow motion; in movies) and embracing you because you do Mary Jane? We (Pisceans) do NOT like our men to smoke Mary Jane (let alone regular cigarettes); AND the SAY Pisceans are the drug addicts/alcoholics...not!

Moral of the story is for you to sober up. When she texts/call you will be SOBER enough to talk/text her back with sober messages (and not sounding/texting like Jeff Spicoli; movie from Fast Times at Ridgemont High). Hey, you do what you want to do (IF you want to keep the gorgeous Piscean woman in your life adhere to my advice; if not, again, "Do what you want to do").



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks chica. And for context. I was sick in bed for 2 days. Weed is my holistic medicine... and she smokes too just fyi. But when Im around her and want to be real. I don't really smoke. Because when I need to be real I can't be cloudy in my head. However it was the only thing helping me to sleep while I was sick. I was thinking of texing her again. I wanted to tell her about the meteor shower tonight... But I don't want to be over baring. Should I just be patient and wait until I hear from her?

Its been over 24 hours now and nothing...


YW. She's Piscean, we live by the stars...yeah, tell her about the meteor shower tonight and tell her about the eclipse on the 20th. I HAD a feeling both of y'all do Mary Jane (typical). DUH!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Yeah so message her even though she hasn't messaged me back?



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She messaged me first. lol
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lol ok she beat me to the punch. Said "Sup dude? yeah had a good day. At my internship rn... ect. HBY" So im just not gonna mention me falling asleep the other night.
That's good

i knew you were in your head I'm glad she responded before you initiated the self-sabotage routine...well kind of you can argue that in a way you started by getting in your head again
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lol ok she beat me to the punch. Said "Sup dude? yeah had a good day. At my internship rn... ect. HBY" So im just not gonna mention me falling asleep the other night.
That's good

i knew you were in your head I'm glad she responded before you initiated the self-sabotage routine...well kind of you can argue that in a way you started by getting in your head again
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Yeah.. phew. In all reality I always wait too long to calculate my options. I guess it's a good quality for me hah
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lol ok she beat me to the punch. Said "Sup dude? yeah had a good day. At my internship rn... ect. HBY" So im just not gonna mention me falling asleep the other night.
That's good

i knew you were in your head I'm glad she responded before you initiated the self-sabotage routine...well kind of you can argue that in a way you started by getting in your head again
Yeah.. phew. In all reality I always wait too long to calculate my options. I guess it's a good quality for me hah
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your virgo venus is taming the impulsiveness of your sagg moon and the emotional nature of your cancer sun.

the last two can get you tripped up

i'm telling you
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lol ok she beat me to the punch. Said "Sup dude? yeah had a good day. At my internship rn... ect. HBY" So im just not gonna mention me falling asleep the other night.
That's good

i knew you were in your head I'm glad she responded before you initiated the self-sabotage routine...well kind of you can argue that in a way you started by getting in your head again
Yeah.. phew. In all reality I always wait too long to calculate my options. I guess it's a good quality for me hah
your virgo venus is taming the impulsiveness of your sagg moon and the emotional nature of your cancer sun.

the last two can get you tripped up

i'm telling you
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WORD you are so on point with that. Gotta get more in tune with my logical venus for sure. Being emotional and impulsive is annoying af. Though my sag moon can be a savior for my pessimistic sun a lot of the times. That could be good or bad though. I thank the heavens for my lib rising and my virgo and cap placements tho. They keep me nice and groundedddd.

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I wish my Venus was more influential in my chart
what is your venus?
taurus.

it just makes me like food

quality products

and candles

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makes sense lol. What is my venus in virgo make me do exactly? I have a hard time understanding venus. I just understand it on an emotional level.
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I wish my Venus was more influential in my chart
what is your venus?
taurus.

it just makes me like food

quality products

and candles


makes sense lol. What is my venus in virgo make me do exactly? I have a hard time understanding venus. I just understand it on an emotional level.
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lol "i just don't understand it on an emotional level" says the venus in virgo

https://astrolibrary.org/virgo-in-love/

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I wish my Venus was more influential in my chart
what is your venus?
taurus.

it just makes me like food

quality products

and candles


makes sense lol. What is my venus in virgo make me do exactly? I have a hard time understanding venus. I just understand it on an emotional level.
lol "i just don't understand it on an emotional level" says the venus in virgo

https://astrolibrary.org/virgo-in-love/

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"Just let them know you’re trying your best to be perfect." makes us sound awful! lol
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
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well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
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She's so tired that by the time the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) hits her, she starts to dream, and then either the alarm goes off or she wakes up. Does she have sleep apnea? Ask her to take mild sleeping pills (I do) and I STILL dream! She will sleep soundly and will HAVE to wake up when the alarm goes off (I'm like her, I wake up "randomly"). It's a if our guardian angel wakes us up (Eva shrugs shoulders; as this is my excuse for waking up randomly. Which means I can beat traffic, or pick up from Starbucks, or go to the office early so I can leave early -- like today).

It's okay if she doesn't' remember what she dreamt...she needs loving (TLC) so she can go cuddle after "making love" and fall asleep in your arms (hint, hint!) 😉 Just listen to her talk to you about this said dream she cannot remember. IF she asks for your opinion, tell her you'll get back to her (come and ask me tomorrow). If she doesn't ask you any question(s); then all she wants you to do is "Lend her your ears"..."Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your ears".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am outta here at 3:03 pm cst.
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
She's so tired that by the time the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) hits her, she starts to dream, and then either the alarm goes off or she wakes up. Does she have sleep apnea? Ask her to take mild sleeping pills (I do) and I STILL dream! She will sleep soundly and will HAVE to wake up when the alarm goes off (I'm like her, I wake up "randomly"). It's a if our guardian angel wakes us up (Eva shrugs shoulders; as this is my excuse for waking up randomly. Which means I can beat traffic, or pick up from Starbucks, or go to the office early so I can leave early -- like today).

It's okay if she doesn't' remember what she dreamt...she needs loving (TLC) so she can go cuddle after "making love" and fall asleep in your arms (hint, hint!) 😉 Just listen to her talk to you about this said dream she cannot remember. IF she asks for your opinion, tell her you'll get back to her (come and ask me tomorrow). If she doesn't ask you any question(s); then all she wants you to do is "Lend her your ears"..."Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your ears".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am outta here at 3:03 pm cst.

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only question i was asked was "ya know"... but it felt more like a statement. Should I continue the convo? or just say "yeah i get it".. I don't want to go into the details of what I think... if its unwarranted. it definitely sounds like she wants an ear. But isn't asking much of my opinion. idk.. Last thing she said word for word is "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"... not even punctuation. I read in to EVERYTHING. As you can tell..
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
She's so tired that by the time the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) hits her, she starts to dream, and then either the alarm goes off or she wakes up. Does she have sleep apnea? Ask her to take mild sleeping pills (I do) and I STILL dream! She will sleep soundly and will HAVE to wake up when the alarm goes off (I'm like her, I wake up "randomly"). It's a if our guardian angel wakes us up (Eva shrugs shoulders; as this is my excuse for waking up randomly. Which means I can beat traffic, or pick up from Starbucks, or go to the office early so I can leave early -- like today).

It's okay if she doesn't' remember what she dreamt...she needs loving (TLC) so she can go cuddle after "making love" and fall asleep in your arms (hint, hint!) 😉 Just listen to her talk to you about this said dream she cannot remember. IF she asks for your opinion, tell her you'll get back to her (come and ask me tomorrow). If she doesn't ask you any question(s); then all she wants you to do is "Lend her your ears"..."Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your ears".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am outta here at 3:03 pm cst.

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And she wasn't saying she wakes up randomly btw. But that her dreams are random..
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If she's messaging more often I think that's a really good sign. I find they can be like in the clouds a bit so if she is coming back to earth and taking the time to send you a text then you're obviously running through her mind.

She seems like she can see you as someone to have deeper convos with not just superficial. I know the one I speak with gets deep. Our convos are always intense. Always! and she loves it.
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@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
She's so tired that by the time the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) hits her, she starts to dream, and then either the alarm goes off or she wakes up. Does she have sleep apnea? Ask her to take mild sleeping pills (I do) and I STILL dream! She will sleep soundly and will HAVE to wake up when the alarm goes off (I'm like her, I wake up "randomly"). It's a if our guardian angel wakes us up (Eva shrugs shoulders; as this is my excuse for waking up randomly. Which means I can beat traffic, or pick up from Starbucks, or go to the office early so I can leave early -- like today).

It's okay if she doesn't' remember what she dreamt...she needs loving (TLC) so she can go cuddle after "making love" and fall asleep in your arms (hint, hint!) 😉 Just listen to her talk to you about this said dream she cannot remember. IF she asks for your opinion, tell her you'll get back to her (come and ask me tomorrow). If she doesn't ask you any question(s); then all she wants you to do is "Lend her your ears"..."Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your ears".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am outta here at 3:03 pm cst.


only question i was asked was "ya know"... but it felt more like a statement. Should I continue the convo? or just say "yeah i get it".. I don't want to go into the details of what I think... if its unwarranted. it definitely sounds like she wants an ear. But isn't asking much of my opinion. idk.. Last thing she said word for word is "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"... not even punctuation. I read in to EVERYTHING. As you can tell..
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Just tell her, "The confusion and restless means your probably not sleeping well as I heard your REM happens just as you're waking up. Are you sleeping okay?"

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by WaterDevil
@evathediva @nats @adreamuponawakening she's messaging me.. and brought up her dreams that she's having lately... should I be reading in to this? Do pisces do this with people who are "just friends" ?
Yes, silly! I TOLD you she's confiding in you (Eva smiling as we speak). Ask her to tell you what she dreamt. I will interpret for you to give her back the interpretation of her dream.

^5 (high five). You sound so elated and I'm happy for you!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Get ready for your Piscean to go into detail about her dream, colors, what she saw, what was heard/said, scene, etc 😆
well the conversation started with me asking her if she's been having a hard time sleeping lately.. because she said she was really tired today at work. That's when she responded that she has been having really random dreams lately. I asked her what the dreams were about. She said she doesn't remember.. that they are just random. So I asked her if she remembered how they made her feel. And to give me an example of "random". She answered with a very simple response "they just make me feel confused and maybe restless ya know"

I havn't responded yet.. It sounds like she wants to talk about her dream.. but than again she's being very vague.. what is that?
She's so tired that by the time the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) hits her, she starts to dream, and then either the alarm goes off or she wakes up. Does she have sleep apnea? Ask her to take mild sleeping pills (I do) and I STILL dream! She will sleep soundly and will HAVE to wake up when the alarm goes off (I'm like her, I wake up "randomly"). It's a if our guardian angel wakes us up (Eva shrugs shoulders; as this is my excuse for waking up randomly. Which means I can beat traffic, or pick up from Starbucks, or go to the office early so I can leave early -- like today).

It's okay if she doesn't' remember what she dreamt...she needs loving (TLC) so she can go cuddle after "making love" and fall asleep in your arms (hint, hint!) 😉 Just listen to her talk to you about this said dream she cannot remember. IF she asks for your opinion, tell her you'll get back to her (come and ask me tomorrow). If she doesn't ask you any question(s); then all she wants you to do is "Lend her your ears"..."Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your ears".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am outta here at 3:03 pm cst.


And she wasn't saying she wakes up randomly btw. But that her dreams are random..

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See previous message.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
You CAN be a friend, lover, boyfriend, etc (just saying for future reference). We keep allot inside of us as we are "mutable". I can come to work and no one knows what the treetrunk I am going thru as I've mentioned before when we come to work we put on our "work hats". Since we don't own Diaries we don't do the "Dear Diary" We have LIMITED friends, of which, we pick and choose from, but then again, we don't rely on them for detailed information about us/Pisceans, either; not even my mom knows about my trials/tribulations, etc, as everyone does (trials/tribulations, etc) and we are not immune.

Keep being there for her. You will mean the WORLD to her!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Lunch time! See ya later.
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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
You CAN be a friend, lover, boyfriend, etc (just saying for future reference). We keep allot inside of us as we are "mutable". I can come to work and no one knows what the treetrunk I am going thru as I've mentioned before when we come to work we put on our "work hats". Since we don't own Diaries we don't do the "Dear Diary" We have LIMITED friends, of which, we pick and choose from, but then again, we don't rely on them for detailed information about us/Pisceans, either; not even my mom knows about my trials/tribulations, etc, as everyone does (trials/tribulations, etc) and we are not immune.

Keep being there for her. You will mean the WORLD to her!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Lunch time! See ya later.
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ty! enjoy your lunch

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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
You CAN be a friend, lover, boyfriend, etc (just saying for future reference). We keep allot inside of us as we are "mutable". I can come to work and no one knows what the treetrunk I am going thru as I've mentioned before when we come to work we put on our "work hats". Since we don't own Diaries we don't do the "Dear Diary" We have LIMITED friends, of which, we pick and choose from, but then again, we don't rely on them for detailed information about us/Pisceans, either; not even my mom knows about my trials/tribulations, etc, as everyone does (trials/tribulations, etc) and we are not immune.

Keep being there for her. You will mean the WORLD to her!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Lunch time! See ya later.
ty! enjoy your lunch

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YW and thanks (back from lunch). My Taurus "sweetie" texted me a pic of himself from work...he's AWFULLY cute!!!!!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
Just be there for her. Don't overthink all her actions/reactions/conversations.

What I've learnt is they can be really direct and if they like then you will know. Yes they can be shy but when you see them they have this look in their eye - you can't miss it. Also they will smile around you/upon seeing you.

Just listen to her. Try and get her to open up to you. Ask her questions. Don't be scared!

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So i won't go in to detail. Because she told me something personal that she's going through after I asked her what was on her mind. Apparently she is going through some things I didn't really imagine were going on still. And getting worse. And im putting my wants and needs aside for the moment. She needs a friend. someone to care. The game has changed. I cant treat her like a love interest anymore. Not since I care about her and want her to get better. And I want that more than an ideal outcome between the two of us rn. Im just hurting for her 😢 @evathediva @nats
Just be there for her. Don't overthink all her actions/reactions/conversations.

What I've learnt is they can be really direct and if they like then you will know. Yes they can be shy but when you see them they have this look in their eye - you can't miss it. Also they will smile around you/upon seeing you.

Just listen to her. Try and get her to open up to you. Ask her questions. Don't be scared!

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she was going to call me yesterday. thats when i was gonna ask questions. the night she told me what was going on through text. than she was at work so she couldn't talk. she texted me yesterday morning to lmk she fell asleep after work but that she wanted to call me later in the day if i was up to it. i said was. she thanked me. but i never heard from her so i just gave her space. she knows she can call me whenever. Than she liked a post of mine when I was out last night. She's in her head and maybe wasn't ready to talk yet. I just sent her a fun song as soon as woke up this morning. Something fun to wake up to (People Everyday- Arrested Development). and i just wrote "morning". she knows she can contact me whenever. but i just wanted to make sure she smiled when she woke up. and that she didn't feel weird about not calling me.