Pisces men: Great actors, or hopeless romantics? (Page 2)

In my experience pisces loves to fantasize about being the center of attention (without having to work too hard for it) - like they want real life to be like that story of the underdog that gets a sudden recognition and a crown plopped onto their head and everyone cheers for them. "I just want to feel like I'm alive in the middle and a part of everything" were exact words spoken by my pisces lovers / friends. He probably spinning some romantic fantasy story in his head about you, falling in love with his own perception of you and your guys' future potential together. Then wanting that to come true so much that he falls more in love with it/you/the idea of you and is trying to get you to make it happen?

Posted by Whorpio
I’ll start this off by saying I’m pretty accustomed to men telling me they love me. It’s not a problem in my perspective since they still seem to understand the nature of our relationships are sexual, and accept it as that.

In August I started seeing a Pisces who professed his love for me wayyyy faster than most of my other sexual partners: the first day we met face-to-face. I just brushed it off as a fetish (like maybe he was seeking the GFE), but as I’ve continued to see him he’s become more and more persistent.
He likes to play house with me, he considers me his girlfriend (and says I’m “wifey”), all things I consider the GFE, right?
Well, he’s expressed more intimate thoughts, than span way deeper than what I feel is just girlfriend-roleplay.
He speaks of planning to run away with me (he’s in a relationship, the woman has caught his affair with me twice because his lies are so sloppy [imagine the awkwardness of being out on the town with your lover and seeing 31 missed calls on their phone 🫣], and yet this woman still stays with him), actively talks about specific things I said that he couldn’t stop thinking about while at his job as a surgeon, speaks of an urge to meet my parents, wants to put a baby inside me, and oh yeah, despite having a history of being a serial cheater he insists when we run away together he wants to be 100% devoted to me and he will put all his energy into doing so (as if humans can choose to be monogamous)😂

I see him as a walking red flag, but I also thought the same of my gemini boyfriend who exhibited similar behaviors. You know what both these men have in common? CANCER MOON

Can someone please explain the pisces psyche to me? I just don’t understand how people can be so comfortable moving so fast (like even when my cancer moon bf moved this fast I was mortified).
Is it a pisces thing or a cancer moon thing? Do they understand boundaries? Do they act like this on purpose, as a way of torturing you (maybe they feed off your fear)??
Are they serious about these kind of feelings, or is it a ruse? The answer to this question will help me decide if I keep seeing him or not. I don’t want to hurt him, but up until he spoke of meeting my parents I thought this was just a joke.
If it’s just a phase that will pass, I’ll probably keep seeing him because he spoils me 🤑🤑

Its a serotonin spike from the sex that has him talking that way.

UPDATE: I was not his karma, but a 25-year-old with a boyfriend, a son, and apparently lower standards than myself apparently was his karma.

She gave him chlamydia, he tried to convince me it’s something he’s had since October, that it must’ve just been asymptomatic until this month (please note, I did not believe this one bit).

I start thinking I gave him chlamydia, given my sexual track record these last 3 months.

I went and got tested this week; NEGATIVE for everything- chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes 1&2, HIV, syphillis, and trich.

I tell him I’m clean. He has the audacity to say “Wow, you must be immune!”

So I ended up breaking things off. I can’t risk catching/spreading infections/diseases to people I care about or more significant clients.

I definitely think Satan is watching over me; days before I broke it off, a super handsome businessman at my office building gave me his # and asked me to text him. Can’t help but feel fortunate that a new door always opens right before another one closes 🙏

I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life, or if a new affair is needed to bring myself out of this shell I feel I am currently in.

Posted by Whorpio
UPDATE: I was not his karma, but a 25-year-old with a boyfriend, a son, and apparently lower standards than myself apparently was his karma.

She gave him chlamydia, he tried to convince me it’s something he’s had since October, that it must’ve just been asymptomatic until this month (please note, I did not believe this one bit).

I start thinking I gave him chlamydia, given my sexual track record these last 3 months.

I went and got tested this week; NEGATIVE for everything- chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes 1&2, HIV, syphillis, and trich.

I tell him I’m clean. He has the audacity to say “Wow, you must be immune!”



So I ended up breaking things off. I can’t risk catching/spreading infections/diseases to people I care about or more significant clients.



I definitely think Satan is watching over me; days before I broke it off, a super handsome businessman at my office building gave me his # and asked me to text him. Can’t help but feel fortunate that a new door always opens right before another one closes 🙏

I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life, or if a new affair is needed to bring myself out of this shell I feel I am currently in.

"I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life"

What do you mean by this?

Posted by TXCowboy
Detox.

There’s money on a table with your name on it. Do you walk past it, or take a seat so you can get a piece of the pie?

Pisces men are 🗑

Posted by Lostthoughts
"I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life"



What do you mean by this?

In December, I had gotten a UTI, and had to refrain from sex for 7 days. This pisces was infuriated, saying there’s only one main way women get UTI’s. He asked me to be honest and tell him if I slept with someone else, and flipped out when I was honest & said “yes”.

He got super jealous even when I was invited to just WATCH a couple have sex.

And just an overall pattern of words not matching actions. I’m a hooker, I don’t expect anything beyond money/presents. So when even I get confused about what someone wants from me, you know there’s some sort of mind games going on.

Posted by TXCowboy

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TXCowboy
Detox.

There’s money on a table with your name on it. Do you walk past it, or take a seat so you can get a piece of the pie?
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I've got plenty of money. And you probably do too now.



There's no amount of money for the price of your sanity. And that's true if you're making this thread, especially with that last update post of yours.

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To be fair, I don’t plan to get involved (or let things continue for as long as they did) with someone like him again.

I have a money fetish 🤷‍♀️ But I am using my money to pay for therapy and reiki healing.

He’s a cheater this ruse works for all his women now working on you

Posted by Truemara
He’s a cheater this ruse works for all his women now working on you

I tend to avoid the love-bombing types as I know something is wrong when you have to love bomb a woman you’re paying for sex. This experience was a clear reminder why I don’t mess with people who display red flags from day 1.

Posted by Whorpio
UPDATE ON LAST PAGE OF THREAD; NO NEED TO RESPOND TO THIS OP.

I’ll start this off by saying I’m pretty accustomed to men telling me they love me. It’s not a problem in my perspective since they still seem to understand the nature of our relationships are sexual, and accept it as that.



In August I started seeing a Pisces who professed his love for me wayyyy faster than most of my other sexual partners: the first day we met face-to-face. I just brushed it off as a fetish (like maybe he was seeking the GFE), but as I’ve continued to see him he’s become more and more persistent.

He likes to play house with me, he considers me his girlfriend (and says I’m “wifey”), all things I consider the GFE, right?

Well, he’s expressed more intimate thoughts, than span way deeper than what I feel is just girlfriend-roleplay.

He speaks of planning to run away with me (he’s in a relationship, the woman has caught his affair with me twice because his lies are so sloppy [imagine the awkwardness of being out on the town with your lover and seeing 31 missed calls on their phone 🫣], and yet this woman still stays with him), actively talks about specific things I said that he couldn’t stop thinking about while at his job as a surgeon, speaks of an urge to meet my parents, wants to put a baby inside me, and oh yeah, despite having a history of being a serial cheater he insists when we run away together he wants to be 100% devoted to me and he will put all his energy into doing so (as if humans can choose to be monogamous)😂



I see him as a walking red flag, but I also thought the same of my gemini boyfriend who exhibited similar behaviors. You know what both these men have in common? CANCER MOON



Can someone please explain the pisces psyche to me? I just don’t understand how people can be so comfortable moving so fast (like even when my cancer moon bf moved this fast I was mortified).

Is it a pisces thing or a cancer moon thing? Do they understand boundaries? Do they act like this on purpose, as a way of torturing you (maybe they feed off your fear)??

Are they serious about these kind of feelings, or is it a ruse? The answer to this question will help me decide if I keep seeing him or not. I don’t want to hurt him, but up until he spoke of meeting my parents I thought this was just a joke.

If it’s just a phase that will pass, I’ll probably keep seeing him because he spoils me 🤑🤑

Pisces can have a warped view on reality imo. Somewhere between fantasy and reality. Water distorts and makes for a fun-house view. You might be running into that? Or, maybe he's just punched right through whatever front you've put up and is really into you? It's hard to say because his venus and mars placements have a great deal of impact contextually.

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by Lostthoughts
"I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life"



What do you mean by this?

In December, I had gotten a UTI, and had to refrain from sex for 7 days. This pisces was infuriated, saying there’s only one main way women get UTI’s. He asked me to be honest and tell him if I slept with someone else, and flipped out when I was honest & said “yes”.

He got super jealous even when I was invited to just WATCH a couple have sex.

And just an overall pattern of words not matching actions. I’m a hooker, I don’t expect anything beyond money/presents. So when even I get confused about what someone wants from me, you know there’s some sort of mind games going on.

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That's not toxic. He got attached🙂

Safe to say he is the one that got confused.

Posted by MonaLisa26
I can’t find what happened that he did something extra ordinary…and love ended?

Can you rephrase this?

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by Lostthoughts
"I can’t tell if I want to take a break to detox my mind/body from the poison this dude brought into my life"


What do you mean by this?

In December, I had gotten a UTI, and had to refrain from sex for 7 days. This pisces was infuriated, saying there’s only one main way women get UTI’s. He asked me to be honest and tell him if I slept with someone else, and flipped out when I was honest & said “yes”.


He got super jealous even when I was invited to just WATCH a couple have sex.


And just an overall pattern of words not matching actions. I’m a hooker, I don’t expect anything beyond money/presents. So when even I get confused about what someone wants from me, you know there’s some sort of mind games going on.
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That's not toxic. He got attached🙂

Safe to say he is the one that got confused.

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He may have been attached, but I personally feel his attachment to me was a compensation for something he’s missing within himself.

There’s just something that don’t make sense to me about someone who is in a committed relationship, sleeping with a whore & “planning” a life with her, sleeping with other married/taken women, and then freaking out when any one of the aforementioned ladies sleeps with anyone except him.

And then when his other side chick gave him chlamydia, he was heartbroken; not because of the illness, but because she had told him the very same lies he was telling each of us.

Isn't it obvious? they like to live their dreams— They make fantasies as real as possible.