
StingTailedLibra
@LibraLovesHim
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Posted by tizianiThe sandwich isn't going to make itself.Posted by KoniuchaaWell, first off, questions like this have to go.
How do you 'behave like a wife'?click to expand






Posted by LunabeeAmen! Thank you! Make space in the bed for him...all that kinda stuff lol! Geez!
Basically, act the same and when you cook, make extra so he can have some.

Posted by beautifulsoul74Thank you, I loved this! Alot of self love and reflection has gone on with me after my mid 20s. I was a nut previously! Lol!
OP, if you want to be a wife...act like one...but for you and not a man. No man gives you that "status." Being a wife is the same as being mature and responsible...you have to be that even before you meet a man. If you haven't learned to love and respect yourself first, it'll be difficult to get married. Good luck

Posted by exoThis is the kind of response I was looking for. Maybe I should have mentioned single girls who've gotten married should comment lol. Yes so I was previously also more selfish, even in previous relationships. I'm feeling very nurturing with my current and it feels strange for me! I guess i'm growing up, finally...
i don't think i ever "behaved" like a wife until i actually became a wife.
i had put myself first, until i wanted to put him first. had my own plans, until they became our plans.
my mindset has been for us to always grow together happily, so that's what i strive for. 🙂

Posted by beautifulsoul74Apologies for my choice of word. I should have put " "
I hate the word "wifey"...it sounds so childish and not to be taken seriously...like two people are playing house. I usually see it used in relationships that are a train wreck. If you accept that term from a man, he's not taking you seriously.


Posted by GuardianAnuNo, so for example. I am also looking to get hired-is it encouraged to humbly enter the interview showing my knowledgeability and with a self belief that I already have the job?
What, like do the dishes more?
LOL

Posted by beautifulsoul74It makes me cringe
I hate the word "wifey"...it sounds so childish and not to be taken seriously...like two people are playing house. I usually see it used in relationships that are a train wreck. If you accept that term from a man, he's not taking you seriously.

Posted by LibraLovesHimBe hilarious.Posted by GuardianAnuNo, so for example. I am also looking to get hired-is it encouraged to humbly enter the interview showing my knowledgeability and with a self belief that I already have the job?
What, like do the dishes more?
LOL
Just an example 😉click to expand

Posted by GuardianAnuhow do women do that?Posted by LibraLovesHimBe hilarious.Posted by GuardianAnuNo, so for example. I am also looking to get hired-is it encouraged to humbly enter the interview showing my knowledgeability and with a self belief that I already have the job?
What, like do the dishes more?
LOL
Just an example 😉click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Hmm you're right, some chicks just are naturally funny, and yeah there are a lot of men who don't think chicks can be funny, or who think only men should be funny, and I feel like they are the kinds of guys who think men should get all that kind of attention, sounds like insecurity to me, and sexist. Not someone you want to date anyway.Posted by GuardianAnuhow do women do that?Posted by LibraLovesHimBe hilarious.Posted by GuardianAnuNo, so for example. I am also looking to get hired-is it encouraged to humbly enter the interview showing my knowledgeability and with a self belief that I already have the job?
What, like do the dishes more?
LOL
Just an example 😉
not everyone is Ellen DeGeneres, Sarah silverman, Margaret Cho or Rosanne Barr.
and only certain men like those types. Unless they are lesbian like that of Ellen, there's no chance.click to expand
Posted by GuardianAnueverything you wrote, I can't find any fault in it. so I agree. lolPosted by lisabethur8Hmm you're right, some chicks just are naturally funny, and yeah there are a lot of men who don't think chicks can be funny, or who think only men should be funny, and I feel like they are the kinds of guys who think men should get all that kind of attention, sounds like insecurity to me, and sexist. Not someone you want to date anyway.Posted by GuardianAnuhow do women do that?Posted by LibraLovesHimBe hilarious.Posted by GuardianAnuNo, so for example. I am also looking to get hired-is it encouraged to humbly enter the interview showing my knowledgeability and with a self belief that I already have the job?
What, like do the dishes more?
LOL
Just an example 😉
not everyone is Ellen DeGeneres, Sarah silverman, Margaret Cho or Rosanne Barr.
and only certain men like those types. Unless they are lesbian like that of Ellen, there's no chance.
In the end be yourself, I guess I have always been a bit of a class clown and I am also an ESFP so I am always "performing" and love to make people laugh or brighten their day, it comes natural to me but you are right there are a lot of people who aren't, for whatever reasons.
I guess what you do is just be you, always, be the best version of YOU as much as you can. Because you want to attract someone who likes your qualities, not what you are pretending to be, because once you relax and drop those qualities several months into the relationship they will be like hey, who the hell are you?click to expand
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What did you do? Did you make any changes in the hopes of changing your status when you were ready to be wifey material or did you have the attitude let him wife me first then i'll change to suit my new status?