Ladies...would you be mad if your man....

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Gemitati
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Transferred $ 25,000 to your account, for say example you mentioned school fees you were currently paying off...

Long term relationship.
And he got your bank account how?
Yeah I'd be pissed purely for this reason...that he invaded my privacy. But I'd for sure take the money. Thanks boo!
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She said LTR right? Hmmm
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Posted by wagtail
he'd be gettin his gobby sucked every goddam mornin for the rest of our lives

No complaints from meh.
This plus a coochie credit card with no limit.
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agreed

It's all love babeh

If it's a long term relationship he's investing in OUR future when he spend dat cash.

If i had the resources I'd reciprocate the same way.

Money isn't everything but supporting your partners education is a priority whether it's being the guy who parents the kids full time while mama studies,

or works two jobs while mama studies,

or both partners work two jobs share parenting duties,

or what have you,

both sacrificing travel plans to save while studying etc it's all comin out in the wash to benefit both of you.

A lump sum payment is something to be grateful for-
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Posted by Montgomery
Very easy to see the optimists vs the um... realistics.







Cynics 😄



Realist here LOL

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I hear you (and I put realistics... I know it's not

a word, but realist isnt appropriate here)-- but...

I can't imagine you, for instance, being in a

long-term relationship with someone and being

completely unaware of his financial situation.

Our realistics are assuming this man, or any

man you may date, wouldn't have the bank

account to do this.

Why... ?







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If he can afford it and our relationship is good, I'd be very grateful. If I hadn't given him my bank account info, I'd be curious about that, but other than that, I have no problem with it. There are definitely ways a person could get that info w/o being creepy - cheques, for example. You can't take money out of someone's account with the info on cheques, unless the cheque is made out to you, you can only put it in.
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The question is, what does he do for a living? If he's already well off, then why would you question it? If he works a normal job though, that may be cause for a few questions. Maybe he has a lot of savings. If his profession is....sketchy...then ask a LOT of questions.
This matters a lot. Is this a lot of money for him or isn't it? It's a shitload of money for most people. If he sells drugs, definitely don't take it. 😆
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If you're dating a drug dealer... :/

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@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?
No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!


Oh right

I can't decide which would piss me off the most....taking the money or watching that movie. 😛



Fifty Shades of Hype

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Hahaha believe me I got through it with a bottle of Prosecco! That helped.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by MyStarsShine
@LibraLovesHim, did this happen to you?
No no it was a part in the new shades of grey movie-this chick complains about everything right enough lol!


Oh right

I can't decide which would piss me off the most....taking the money or watching that movie. 😛



Fifty Shades of Hype

🙂


Hahaha believe me I got through it with a bottle of Prosecco! That helped.

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Haha, brave woman

I keep seeing the books in charity shops for a euro or two each......says it all really