Seriously how do I make this work (Page 9)

Posted by Electricboogaloo

Posted by PhoenixRising

2) you find someone that works better for your personality, Crabs seem to work well from what I've read of late

Not this one. I would have blocked him half way through that stupid text argument lol.

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Lol. It was a joke based on another thread where a Crab can't quite let go despite the very obvious signs (and statements, and potential restraining orders...)

Posted by Centaur12

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Geeze, that's like the equivalent of "don't let the door hit you on the way out".



As for the rest, you already have your answer:

Posted by Centaur12

...I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

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So, just go with that^^^. You have a whole month of comments that you can read over again if you forgot anything.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Centaur12

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Geeze, that's like the equivalent of "don't let the door hit you on the way out".



As for the rest, you already have your answer:

Posted by Centaur12

...I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

So, just go with that^^^. You have a whole month of comments that you can read over again if you forgot anything.

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Yeah I didn't walk out in anger or in an argument with her we walk talking normally and I got up because she said she needs space and I said okay and I walked out saying lock the door behind me because it will be unlocked all night. Sorry I should of explained better.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Electricboogaloo

Posted by PhoenixRising

2) you find someone that works better for your personality, Crabs seem to work well from what I've read of late

Not this one. I would have blocked him half way through that stupid text argument lol.

Lol. It was a joke based on another thread where a Crab can't quite let go despite the very obvious signs (and statements, and potential restraining orders...)

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Lol .

My partner told me she feels suffocated and that there's one rule for one and one rule for another she said shs doesn't want the kids involved like I suggested until we are sorted out and I have agreed and told her that I will back off.

Posted by Centaur12

I don't want to post on this topic again and I hate to say it but I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

We was all happy until the other night when we fell out it was my fault this time and I held my hands up had a drink and should of dropped something stupid anyway.

We have been on and off with eachother disagreements and not understanding eachother.

So I went to see her last night and again she told me then she's not sure she wants to sort us out and is weighing up how we will work but can't see it and when asked bluntly do you want to sort us properly her response was it breaks my heart but I am unsure if I want to.

Is she serious here because in the next breath she said I need space away from you to miss you.

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Yet I had a text off her saying please let me know when your home.

I text her back an hour later saying I'm home she didn't read or reply and then I text trying to tell her I'm sorry about the way things have been lately I want to work it and that I love her etc she didn't reply so I took it she went asleep.

Anyway I woke up in the night to see she had read it but not replied at all.

Also, early on in the evening when we was texting I tried to ring her and the phone was ingauged so she was on the phone and I said I tried to ring you and she was a little hesitent and said oh I was on the phone I said oh okay who to usually she asks me when it's the other way around and she said why do I ask to tell you the ins and outs of my day like you said to me I said hang on I was just asking you as you would ask me.

Then she said it was her friend and told me who.

I duno what she is doing does anyone think this is strange or is it just me working about fuck all.

Now I am about to be mean...Sucker Centaur12...She knows that every time that you pull away, she could easily reel you back in. Hence the crying on the phone, and the fake "I miss you's". Had you ignored her completely, and took the ex Sag on a date, she would have taken you more seriously... She sees you as an easy marker, therefore, she is bored with you again, and needing space. Once she is bored with her space, she will call you back with the dangled carrot in front of your face, that you would stupidly follow around like the love struck simpleton that you are.. That Gemini knows how to play the game, and she can bring you in or out with a click of her finger, that she has you wrapped around..

Posted by Easha23000us

Posted by Centaur12

I don't want to post on this topic again and I hate to say it but I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

We was all happy until the other night when we fell out it was my fault this time and I held my hands up had a drink and should of dropped something stupid anyway.

We have been on and off with eachother disagreements and not understanding eachother.

So I went to see her last night and again she told me then she's not sure she wants to sort us out and is weighing up how we will work but can't see it and when asked bluntly do you want to sort us properly her response was it breaks my heart but I am unsure if I want to.

Is she serious here because in the next breath she said I need space away from you to miss you.

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Yet I had a text off her saying please let me know when your home.

I text her back an hour later saying I'm home she didn't read or reply and then I text trying to tell her I'm sorry about the way things have been lately I want to work it and that I love her etc she didn't reply so I took it she went asleep.

Anyway I woke up in the night to see she had read it but not replied at all.

Also, early on in the evening when we was texting I tried to ring her and the phone was ingauged so she was on the phone and I said I tried to ring you and she was a little hesitent and said oh I was on the phone I said oh okay who to usually she asks me when it's the other way around and she said why do I ask to tell you the ins and outs of my day like you said to me I said hang on I was just asking you as you would ask me.

Then she said it was her friend and told me who.

I duno what she is doing does anyone think this is strange or is it just me working about fuck all.

Now I am about to be mean...Sucker Centaur12...She knows that every time that you pull away, she could easily reel you back in. Hence the crying on the phone, and the fake "I miss you's". Had you ignored her completely, and took the ex Sag on a date, she would have taken you more seriously... She sees you as an easy marker, therefore, she is bored with you again, and needing space. Once she is bored with her space, she will call you back with the dangled carrot in front of your face, that you would stupidly follow around like the love struck simpleton that you are.. That Gemini knows how to play the game, and she can bring you in or out with a click of her finger, that she has you wrapped around..

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I get that however I was in the wrong this time so I only deserve this treatment we actually was getting on really well after we sat down and spoke it out together until I had a few drinks with her the other night and said a few stupid things.

Posted by Centaur12

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Centaur12

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Geeze, that's like the equivalent of "don't let the door hit you on the way out".



As for the rest, you already have your answer:

Posted by Centaur12

...I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

So, just go with that^^^. You have a whole month of comments that you can read over again if you forgot anything.

Yeah I didn't walk out in anger or in an argument with her we walk talking normally and I got up because she said she needs space and I said okay and I walked out saying lock the door behind me because it will be unlocked all night. Sorry I should of explained better.

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Yeah, I read this incorrectly, sorry. Either way the second statement stands.

Posted by Centaur12

Posted by Easha23000us

Posted by Centaur12

I don't want to post on this topic again and I hate to say it but I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

We was all happy until the other night when we fell out it was my fault this time and I held my hands up had a drink and should of dropped something stupid anyway.

We have been on and off with eachother disagreements and not understanding eachother.

So I went to see her last night and again she told me then she's not sure she wants to sort us out and is weighing up how we will work but can't see it and when asked bluntly do you want to sort us properly her response was it breaks my heart but I am unsure if I want to.

Is she serious here because in the next breath she said I need space away from you to miss you.

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Yet I had a text off her saying please let me know when your home.

I text her back an hour later saying I'm home she didn't read or reply and then I text trying to tell her I'm sorry about the way things have been lately I want to work it and that I love her etc she didn't reply so I took it she went asleep.

Anyway I woke up in the night to see she had read it but not replied at all.

Also, early on in the evening when we was texting I tried to ring her and the phone was ingauged so she was on the phone and I said I tried to ring you and she was a little hesitent and said oh I was on the phone I said oh okay who to usually she asks me when it's the other way around and she said why do I ask to tell you the ins and outs of my day like you said to me I said hang on I was just asking you as you would ask me.

Then she said it was her friend and told me who.

I duno what she is doing does anyone think this is strange or is it just me working about fuck all.

Now I am about to be mean...Sucker Centaur12...She knows that every time that you pull away, she could easily reel you back in. Hence the crying on the phone, and the fake "I miss you's". Had you ignored her completely, and took the ex Sag on a date, she would have taken you more seriously... She sees you as an easy marker, therefore, she is bored with you again, and needing space. Once she is bored with her space, she will call you back with the dangled carrot in front of your face, that you would stupidly follow around like the love struck simpleton that you are.. That Gemini knows how to play the game, and she can bring you in or out with a click of her finger, that she has you wrapped around..

I get that however I was in the wrong this time so I only deserve this treatment we actually was getting on really well after we sat down and spoke it out together until I had a few drinks with her the other night and said a few stupid things.

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I'm curious, what did you say and why (aside from being tipsy)?

You're petty and manipulative to get your way when she plays with your emotions, that you have no control over. This is gonna be a never ending cycle because of her not accepting your kids fully and you being needy and conniving to keep her.

Posted by Electricboogaloo

I read that thread lol. She is just unevolved and she still believes what men tell her even when it's ridiculous. I said nothing because Cancers are stubborn and learn on their own timeline.

*like* You should have posted this on the first page. It would have saved a lot of people a lot of well intended advice.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Centaur12

Posted by Easha23000us

Posted by Centaur12

I don't want to post on this topic again and I hate to say it but I think alot of you are correct in what you have said I wish I listened to you guys.

We was all happy until the other night when we fell out it was my fault this time and I held my hands up had a drink and should of dropped something stupid anyway.

We have been on and off with eachother disagreements and not understanding eachother.

So I went to see her last night and again she told me then she's not sure she wants to sort us out and is weighing up how we will work but can't see it and when asked bluntly do you want to sort us properly her response was it breaks my heart but I am unsure if I want to.

Is she serious here because in the next breath she said I need space away from you to miss you.

And the I walked out of hers upset and said you better lock the door behind me.

Yet I had a text off her saying please let me know when your home.

I text her back an hour later saying I'm home she didn't read or reply and then I text trying to tell her I'm sorry about the way things have been lately I want to work it and that I love her etc she didn't reply so I took it she went asleep.

Anyway I woke up in the night to see she had read it but not replied at all.

Also, early on in the evening when we was texting I tried to ring her and the phone was ingauged so she was on the phone and I said I tried to ring you and she was a little hesitent and said oh I was on the phone I said oh okay who to usually she asks me when it's the other way around and she said why do I ask to tell you the ins and outs of my day like you said to me I said hang on I was just asking you as you would ask me.

Then she said it was her friend and told me who.

I duno what she is doing does anyone think this is strange or is it just me working about fuck all.

Now I am about to be mean...Sucker Centaur12...She knows that every time that you pull away, she could easily reel you back in. Hence the crying on the phone, and the fake "I miss you's". Had you ignored her completely, and took the ex Sag on a date, she would have taken you more seriously... She sees you as an easy marker, therefore, she is bored with you again, and needing space. Once she is bored with her space, she will call you back with the dangled carrot in front of your face, that you would stupidly follow around like the love struck simpleton that you are.. That Gemini knows how to play the game, and she can bring you in or out with a click of her finger, that she has you wrapped around..

I get that however I was in the wrong this time so I only deserve this treatment we actually was getting on really well after we sat down and spoke it out together until I had a few drinks with her the other night and said a few stupid things.

I'm curious, what did you say and why (aside from being tipsy)?

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So for some reason we was talking about the past let's just say.

I do not know how it came up and that was one thing we agreed not to do was talk about the past and when we did we fell out and it was all erelevant I should of shut up and stopped the convo I am learning alot how to adapt into a better person and how to handle things correctly with her lately.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Electricboogaloo

I read that thread lol. She is just unevolved and she still believes what men tell her even when it's ridiculous. I said nothing because Cancers are stubborn and learn on their own timeline.

*like* You should have posted this on the first page. It would have saved a lot of people a lot of well intended advice.

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She's now ignoring my texts this evening and phone calls I asked last night if there is someone else and she told me no on her girls lifes there isn't anyone else the reason I ask her was because shes been acting wired and Yet she's playing stupid games like this with me why? She asks me if there's anyone else usually when I haven't seen her why she doing this now. I just don't get it she's been off with her commimcation and now this.

Or is it just me over thinking if it is someone tell me to pipe down would anyone else think this is strange though.