Would you go Back to an Ex Who treated you Poorly?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Polyannanana on Sunday, April 27, 2025 and has 47 replies.

Should You Reconnect with an Ex Who Treated You Poorly

Deciding to go back to an ex depends on whether they have genuinely changed and how your Sun and Moon signs influence your emotional needs. Astrology can reveal compatibility and emotional patterns that impact your decision. Consider if their current intentions align with your well-being and if your signs suggest a healthy reunion.

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

IF they were to treat you well this time ?

And What is your Sun and Moon signs?

A supernatural being guarantees you they won't abuse you in any way and they will be the best version of themselves.

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

Oh no are these stuff your exes did or just imaginary things ?

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by IDKLOL
Yo my friends was scrolling on that escort website

He send me a profile to laugh I didn’t know why,

And after realizing it was my first gf when I was 17 years old,

And I’m so confuse should I go ?

depends on how she feels about you and about being an escort really

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MidAtBest

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Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon

Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon

Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon

Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned

Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned

Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon

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Wow that’s a lot of very disrespectful behaviour

The Pisces that slept with your sister ~ just bloody awful 😞

Has it put you off men?

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MidAtBest

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Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
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Wow that’s a lot of very disrespectful behaviour
The Pisces that slept with your sister ~ just bloody awful 😞
Has it put you off men?
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Nah I love men, it's insane how misogynistic I can't help but be in the face of what I've endured at the hands of men. A lot of it being due to most of my socialization being at work, and men are far less cruel to work with than (older) women. In the past few years I've been lucky to meet wonderful men.

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That’s good

So you’ve had some positive experiences/relationships since the abusive ones?

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon

Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon

Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon

Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned

Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned

Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon

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I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick 😢

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by IDKLOL

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Posted by IDKLOL
Yo my friends was scrolling on that escort website

He send me a profile to laugh I didn’t know why,
And after realizing it was my first gf when I was 17 years old,

And I’m so confuse should I go ?

depends on how she feels about you and about being an escort really
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It’s been 18 years, lol I’m actually lazy to spend Virgo women are a scam

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What sign is your favourite then?

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@berries
1 Year

i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants

ew now i would never go back thinking about

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@berries
1 Year

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by berries
i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy

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like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest

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Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

Wow that’s a lot of very disrespectful behaviour
The Pisces that slept with your sister ~ just bloody awful 😞
Has it put you off men?
click to expand

Nah I love men, it's insane how misogynistic I can't help but be in the face of what I've endured at the hands of men. A lot of it being due to most of my socialization being at work, and men are far less cruel to work with than (older) women. In the past few years I've been lucky to meet wonderful men.
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That’s good
So you’ve had some positive experiences/relationships since the abusive ones?
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Oh yeah, I haven't really been in an abusive one since 2019 (corresponds w when I stopped cheating)

The Pisces sun/Aries moon had a physically abusive moment in '21 but there was tons of love and empathy between us so I forgive

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And have you dated since?

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@HappyCapper
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
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Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.
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What is small size asking for an enemy

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For me 17cm is ok, 19 cm is perfect , my boyfriends were usually around that size

One guy was like bigger than 20 and too thick we weren't even able to do it, too big for me

So it depends on the girl really but like 5cm can be small for a lot of girls who need deep penetration. Especially taller bigger girls. But some girls don't care a lot for penetration. Every one needs to just find their match lol

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
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Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.

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I'm glad that at least the sex was good with them lol

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by HappyCapper
Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
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Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.
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What is small size asking for an enemy
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For me 17cm is ok, 19 cm is perfect , my boyfriends were usually around that size

One guy was like bigger than 20 and too thick we weren't even able to do it, too big for me

So it depends on the girl really but like 5cm can be small for a lot of girls who need deep penetration. Especially taller bigger girls. But some girls don't care a lot for penetration. Every one needs to just find their match lol
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idk girl, if you look at the stat 17/19 cm are rare, so maybe they lied

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Well they were really tall guys with long limbs?

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by berries

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by berries
i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy
click to expand

like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used

click to expand

What was his sign?

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@HappyCapper
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by HappyCapper
Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol

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So, you would take them back to exact vengence on them? Or one because that's the only one who would be acceptable?😄

Sun: Cap, Moon: Gem, btw.

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
click to expand

Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.
click to expand

What is small size asking for an enemy
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For me 17cm is ok, 19 cm is perfect , my boyfriends were usually around that size

One guy was like bigger than 20 and too thick we weren't even able to do it, too big for me

So it depends on the girl really but like 5cm can be small for a lot of girls who need deep penetration. Especially taller bigger girls. But some girls don't care a lot for penetration. Every one needs to just find their match lol
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idk girl, if you look at the stat 17/19 cm are rare, so maybe they lied
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Well they were really tall guys with long limbs?
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but tall guys are rare too

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Do you think I should call them and go measure their dicks with a ruler lol

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@berries
1 Year

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by berries

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by berries
i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy
click to expand

like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used
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What was his sign?

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he's a gem and im a cancer ( but i have gem venus )

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
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Wow that’s a lot of very disrespectful behaviour
The Pisces that slept with your sister ~ just bloody awful 😞
Has it put you off men?
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Nah I love men, it's insane how misogynistic I can't help but be in the face of what I've endured at the hands of men. A lot of it being due to most of my socialization being at work, and men are far less cruel to work with than (older) women. In the past few years I've been lucky to meet wonderful men.
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That’s good
So you’ve had some positive experiences/relationships since the abusive ones?
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Oh yeah, I haven't really been in an abusive one since 2019 (corresponds w when I stopped cheating)

The Pisces sun/Aries moon had a physically abusive moment in '21 but there was tons of love and empathy between us so I forgive
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And have you dated since?
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Yeah I dated pisces sun-aries moon, cap sun-scorpio moon, & Libra sun-cancer moon

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Which do you feel most suited to?

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@berries
1 Year

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by IDKLOL

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by Polyannanana

Posted by MidAtBest

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by MidAtBest
Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
click to expand

The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
click to expand

I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
click to expand

Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.
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What is small size asking for an enemy
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For me 17cm is ok, 19 cm is perfect , my boyfriends were usually around that size

One guy was like bigger than 20 and too thick we weren't even able to do it, too big for me

So it depends on the girl really but like 5cm can be small for a lot of girls who need deep penetration. Especially taller bigger girls. But some girls don't care a lot for penetration. Every one needs to just find their match lol
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idk girl, if you look at the stat 17/19 cm are rare, so maybe they lied
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Well they were really tall guys with long limbs?
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but tall guys are rare too
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Do you think I should call them and go measure their dicks with a ruler lol

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no i believe you but i mean xd, im lazy to explain but there isnt so many big zick

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isnt the standard size about 5inches or smthing

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Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
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I have had similar experience with a Taurus guy who asked for money from me and other girls they dated. Ask for money and call girls ugly both of those things lol. It must be their thing. And they talk about money and material things a lot even when they are poor

I've also briefly dated a Scorpio man who was a womanizer and a Pisces man who told me he missed her ex who left him and was marrying another man because she had giant boobs lol. I was really young and naive so I was shocked and couldn't even say anything back. The sad truth was she probably left him because he had a really small dick

Did these happen to us because we were so naive ? Or do you think it's just that there are too many horrible men lol

But I wouldn't even call these men exes.
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Absolutely has to do with youth & lack of experience. Thankfully my Pisces exes were well-endowed, the smallest I had were a Libra and the Virgo lmao.
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What is small size asking for an enemy
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For me 17cm is ok, 19 cm is perfect , my boyfriends were usually around that size

One guy was like bigger than 20 and too thick we weren't even able to do it, too big for me

So it depends on the girl really but like 5cm can be small for a lot of girls who need deep penetration. Especially taller bigger girls. But some girls don't care a lot for penetration. Every one needs to just find their match lol
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idk girl, if you look at the stat 17/19 cm are rare, so maybe they lied
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Well they were really tall guys with long limbs?
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but tall guys are rare too
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Do you think I should call them and go measure their dicks with a ruler lol

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no i believe you but i mean xd, im lazy to explain but there isnt so many big zick

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That's true

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Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol
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So, you would take them back to exact vengence on them? Or one because that's the only one who would be acceptable?

Sun: Cap, Moon: Gem, btw.

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1 that would be acceptable lol

You caps are definitely more forgiving than us scorpios 🙂

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2 Years

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I wouldn't go back even to an ex who treated me like a princess 😂 an ex is an ex - and it's for a reason. In past I used to linger around some exes after break up cause I wasn't over them yet. Once I was over - I never look back. Believe it or not, I don't even say hello on the street. I'm the type of person who prefers to burn the bridges they never plan on crossing again - Sag Sun Aries Moon

My sister has the same sun moon as you and she is just like this as well 🙂

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i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy
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like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used
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What was his sign?
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he's a gem and im a cancer ( but i have gem venus )

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How are Gemini men able to seduce water sign women ? I see this pairing but don't get it

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Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol
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So, you would take them back to exact vengence on them? Or one because that's the only one who would be acceptable?

Sun: Cap, Moon: Gem, btw.
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1 that would be acceptable lol

You caps are definitely more forgiving than us scorpios
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Cope you forgive but you want the guy to chase you

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You mean Scorpios want the man to chase them?

I guess so. I usually chase them first tho so they then need to chase me lol

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Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol
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So, you would take them back to exact vengence on them? Or one because that's the only one who would be acceptable?

Sun: Cap, Moon: Gem, btw.
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1 that would be acceptable lol

You caps are definitely more forgiving than us scorpios

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Not so sure about that, tbh. I also have one that would be acceptable, like you, but I blame my sag venus for that...or maybe my gem moon...? Hmm, not sure which.😄

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

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i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy
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like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used
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he's a gem and im a cancer ( but i have gem venus )

How are Gemini men able to seduce water sign women ? I see this pairing but don't get it

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All a Gemini man has to do is just be himself and there you have it. Water signs is instantly turned on.

Berries can thank me later.

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol

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Depends on how bad it was. If there would have been physical abuse or namecalling or shaming, then never ever.

If he wasn't aware of how some things he said affected me, because I didn't tell him (even though he probably should have understood it all by himself) and had really thought about it and shown me on multiple occasions and in multiple ways that he had implemented this new way of thinking in his life, then maybe.

I guess I only have like 1 ex that I would take back being the vengeful Scorpio sun that I am lol
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So, you would take them back to exact vengence on them? Or one because that's the only one who would be acceptable?

Sun: Cap, Moon: Gem, btw.
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1 that would be acceptable lol

You caps are definitely more forgiving than us scorpios
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Not so sure about that, tbh. I also have one that would be acceptable, like you, but I blame my sag venus for that...or maybe my gem moon...? Hmm, not sure which.

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And I blame my libra venus lol

But how do people without any air or fire go through this life anyway?

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i went back many times (going through many breaks), even tho it was my first and worst relationship. he cheated but was controlling (bc he thought i would also cheat like him), always asked me to buy him things, said his ideal type of girl is girls with long straight hair and big boobs but they have to be super skinny also. consistently said i should just get a breast implants
ew now i would never go back thinking about

What did he want you to buy
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like borrow money he said he was in debt (although dont kno what he actually spends it on) and mostly just video games or uber eats his food- he would just ask me. i was happy to get it for him but seeing as he cheated/being an asshole i feel used
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What was his sign?
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he's a gem and im a cancer ( but i have gem venus )
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How are Gemini men able to seduce water sign women ? I see this pairing but don't get it

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the woman must have alot of air or mutable energies in her chart or else there no attraction

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Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

The Pisces and if so, what’s his moon?
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The Pisces who wanted to live together didn't do any of those things, I would take him back. He has Aries moon

Took thousands from me- a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon & Taurus sun/Gemini moon
Said he hates me behind my back/regular physical brutality- Cancer sun/Leo moon
Told me I'm mid- Scorpio sun/Taurus moon
Said I'm less attractive than the cousin he simped for- that Taurus I mentioned
Said he doesn't gaf about me behind my back- the Virgo I mentioned
Slept w my sister in my face- a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon
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Wow that’s a lot of very disrespectful behaviour
The Pisces that slept with your sister ~ just bloody awful 😞
Has it put you off men?
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Nah I love men, it's insane how misogynistic I can't help but be in the face of what I've endured at the hands of men. A lot of it being due to most of my socialization being at work, and men are far less cruel to work with than (older) women. In the past few years I've been lucky to meet wonderful men.
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That’s good
So you’ve had some positive experiences/relationships since the abusive ones?
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Oh yeah, I haven't really been in an abusive one since 2019 (corresponds w when I stopped cheating)

The Pisces sun/Aries moon had a physically abusive moment in '21 but there was tons of love and empathy between us so I forgive
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And have you dated since?
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Yeah I dated pisces sun-aries moon, cap sun-scorpio moon, & Libra sun-cancer moon
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Which do you feel most suited to?
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the Pisces

I liked the libra a lot but he was too intellectually driven and ambitious for me. not to mention he liked to do corny shit like collect acorns as a date

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Acorns 😃

What about conkers? 😅

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol

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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.

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2 Years

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.

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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people

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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.

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2 Years

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.

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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.

This could be a new thread idea lol

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IF they were to treat you well this time ?

And What is your Sun and Moon signs?

A supernatural being guarantees you they won't abuse you in any way and they will be the best version of themselves.

No, because I’m the same person I was when they left.

Something about me made them feel comfortable enough to disrespect then.

If any man who disrespected me wants to come back, they can talk to my Dad first.

Explain the situation to him first and see what he says.

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.
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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.

This could be a new thread idea lol

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I'm just ignorant. It's easy to describe the end of the relationship, but the reality is I went for a woman who was already in a relationship, and was messing around with me while still with him. If she would do that to him, it's not really a surprise she'd do the same to me. It's somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy tbh. If I dated a good woman with good morals, I'd likely never be suspicious whatsoever. I don't believe all people are shady. Though if you date someone shady, the fact they did people dirty will forever live rent free in my mind.

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2 Years

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Hell no. I'll be honest sometimes I can be a real POS and lead them on a bit right before I completely ghost them. I know it's messed up, but sometimes I can't help myself. I like the attention, but there is a 0% chance I'd actually get back with them.

Leo sun Scorpio moon.

That's very scorpio moon of you lol
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I want to clarify this only towards people who wronged me in some way. I don't go out and do this to random people. As much potential as I have to be a real POS, I actually have a moderate amount of control over it.
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I have seen some scorpio moons sabotage good relationships because they just got paranoid. But they also had scorpio mars so I'm not sure.

I hope you don't do this and can trust people
more
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I trust people until I can't anymore. My last relationship I knew she was talking to people she said she wouldn't talk to anymore. She thought I was stupid, because I'd pretend like I couldn't remember how to unlock her phone every time, even though I already tracked her pattern while messing around with her phone while she was sleeping. Finger prints on a phone screen are easy to figure out imo. She was sending messages to an ex that were a bit too suggestive imo. So I looked her in the eyes one day during a random conversation about trust, and said "That is why I love you so much. Because I know I can trust you, and know you would never lie to me." She frantically looked me in the eyes and agreed, though I already knew she was lying to me. I seen the texts, and knew she was betraying me right to my face. So then a deep and meaningful relationship simply turned into a game in my eyes. Tbh the world should be thankful I can smother my anger and rage as well as I can. I didn't hurt her in the end. She hurt me. God knows I'll mess with her every single time she tries to contact me though. There is a 0% chance ill go out of my way to contact her though. If she wants to go out of her way to play with me some more however, that's another story.
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Do you think if you just let go of your suspicions and didn't even check her phone, she would definitely cheat on you physically? Or maybe remember how shitty her ex was and understand your worth more ? I feel like relationships are being tested all the time even when we are not aware of it. And it's hard to know when to draw the line when it comes to jealousy or loyalty.

This could be a new thread idea lol
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I'm just ignorant. It's easy to describe the end of the relationship, but the reality is I went for a woman who was already in a relationship, and was messing around with me while still with him. If she would do that to him, it's not really a surprise she'd do the same to me. It's somewhat of a self fulfilling prophecy tbh. If I dated a good woman with good morals, I'd likely never be suspicious whatsoever. I don't believe all people are shady. Though if you date someone shady, the fact they did people dirty will forever live rent free in my mind.

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Now that I think about it I know of 2 girls who started seeing someone new while they were already in a relationship and they ended up marrying the new guy and have been happily married for more than 10 years both.

I know one of the girls sent nudes to the ex after she left him. Probably for attention and also she felt sorry for him. I would never do that lol. Anyway the new guy found out and he was mad but they got over it and got married.

I'm not implying that you should have stayed with her. I just thought that this was a different perspective to such things.

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Gem sun/ Sag moon

I wouldn't take him back if he asked me for several hundred+ dollars to never be repaid, if physical brutality was a regular thing I had to suffer, if he told someone behind my back that he hates me or doesn't gaf about me, if he tells me I'm mid/less attractive than his cousin he simps for (lmao), or if he got intimate with my sister while im in the other room after the breakup

anything else I'll forgive

Wtf woman!

You lived a nasty lifetime movie! Go find yourself a masculine gay male friend or another healthy relationship with a stable nurturing masculine male. Consider it rehab. Like rehab, the relationship and treatment will feel foreign to you and afraid of it. Expect feelings of not being good enough(tho you are and more) and thoughts of " they deserve better". Because being treated well will trigger you. Jesus Christ, that dude needs to go on Dexter's to do list.

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@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes. Assuming the things about them I loved are still there. Also the problems that caused the breakup are not a issue anymore. I've had very few serious long term relationships. Every single one was lifetime level connection. Nothing less holds my attention in the first place.

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
7 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Polyannanana
IF they were to treat you well this time ?

And What is your Sun and Moon signs?

A supernatural being guarantees you they won't abuse you in any way and they will be the best version of themselves.

But what if you wanna be abused by a woman in the bedroom though? I find that hot as long as they don't go berserk and kill me. That would keep me in a relationship with that one woman for life cus any others might want me to be the dominator. That's all I ever want is to be the submissive one to a hot beautiful but ruff kind of woman who don't take no bs from a man.