💔MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE STORY💔 (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sirius on Saturday, July 7, 2018 and has 62 replies.

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by SassyKiwi

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i'm so sorry.. what a terrible man... i hope he'd stay far away from you and that you're around loved ones

Yes I had to leave my place and move in with family until I get a new place, he has no idea where I am now. I’m hiding until my court date.

yeah it's best that he doesn't know where you live.. did he show any signs of being violent or abusive in the past? how long have you known each other?

He was never physically abusive

He did argue but I didn’t pay attention to it

He was pocessive and jealous even more towards the end.

2yrs in a half exactly

We lived together half a year.

Did your children live with him also?

I was never ready to let my kids meet him. They never met him. They only knew that I dated someone but never knew him personally

This is really good. The amount of children who also get abused in the process by such partners of their parents' is alarmingly high.

My thoughts and prayers are with you for fast recovery.

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Thank you

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by AneemA04

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you are trying your best to regain your overall well-being dealing with the trauma. Please keep yourself and children safe, and I hope you have reported this to the police.

We had a preliminary hearing this past Monday. He’s currently behind bars. With the option to bail out. Everyone is hoping that he stays in there until we begin trial. And until he is sentenced.

I'm happy to hear that. Hope no one is going to bail him out though..

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Same here

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@dadjokes
8 Years

Holy fucking shit. Thank god you're out of there. Please do be kind to yourself and perhaps even seek trauma/abuse survivor counselling, because what you went through would be terrifying for anybody. I've been in an abusive relationship before that didn't get to anywhere near this point (I didn't move in with him), and even then I found therapy very healing. Please take care. xo

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by tiziani

Thanks for sharing your story. The person who did that and threatened you in that way must have been full of cowardice themselves. So well done for not joining them in fear, and just being open about what happened. You've survived and I hope you can go on to close the trauma from all of this in good time.

Thank you

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by dadjokes

Holy fucking shit. Thank god you're out of there. Please do be kind to yourself and perhaps even seek trauma/abuse survivor counselling, because what you went through would be terrifying for anybody. I've been in an abusive relationship before that didn't get to anywhere near this point (I didn't move in with him), and even then I found therapy very healing. Please take care. xo

ThAnks I’ll definitely look into therapy I hope you are well

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by ScorpioTruth

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This breaks my heart. Both of my sisters were victims of domestic abuse. I am glad you are strong enough to fight against him and to see to it that he is charged. Please be very careful with social media as far as never posting your whereabouts or photos that might indicate where you are hiding. Also disable any type of location tracking from your cell phone if you have not already. I am praying for you and your children’s safety. I pray that justice is served swiftly so that you can get back to living your life without fear. Praying for a speedy recovery as well, both physically as well as emotionally/psychologically. ❤️

Thank you for sharing I pray for your sisters too. How are they now?

They are much better, their relationships with the psychos ended a long time ago and both got out safely. One was a close call.. I used to have nightmares about him killing her. She divorced him in 2011 I believe, they have a son together. He basically disowned their son and has a new girlfriend and beats the shit out of her.

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Poor ladies

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@Parkourler
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I only read your first post.Do you have some sort of counseling? Did you press charges? You ll need advice and support from a government body, like the police or social services. Youve got shelter, you need protection and support as well. Nothing is more important right now.

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@Sirius
8 Years

Posted by Parkourler

I only read your first post.Do you have some sort of counseling? Did you press charges? You ll need advice and support from a government body, like the police or social services. Youve got shelter, you need protection and support as well. Nothing is more important right now.

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Thank you yes he’s in custody

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Posted by Sirius

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Sorry, my mom was also abused by my dad many times and some of it we had to watch .That man must go to jail.

I’m sorry to hear hope she’s better now

Unfortunately she passed away in 2013

I’m sorry

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It's okay, I have learned to live with the fact that I will never see her again.I have made peace,plus she speaks to us through dreams,I feel her love and presence sometimes which is very comforting.