Anti-poly and proud

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by SassyKiwi on Tuesday, September 13, 2022 and has 20 replies.

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@SassyKiwi
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Screw any people who practices it with the excuse of their “religion”. They’re usually the most controversial anyway. They don’t care about the wives’ consents. They also ironically happen to be some of the ugliest dudes ever. For the nonreligious who partake in this, I applaud you for the immense free time you have to willingly put up with more than 1 person emotionally, mentally and physically. You’re most likely also a masochist. 1 person is handful enough for me. I need the rest of my time preserved for me time (excluding the 10 hours of sleep I need) and other family and friends. Spoiler alert. The grass is never greener on the other side.

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I’m anti pedophilia, anti rape, anti racism, anti violence but compared to all those things, poly doesn’t seem to be problematic at all....consenting adults so what’s the problem? I’m

not into it, but if others are that’s their choice...

My mother only slept with my Dad all her life and as she got older she said she wondered how it would have been

with someone else? Some would think that’s a life half lived?

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Posted by ImperfectStorm

Poly is not really my thing either but i don’t feel as strongly against it as you do. Lol I don’t really care what other people are doing if they’re not my partner.

I don’t care what others are doing too but unfortunately I know too much personal details of many poly relationships to be disturbed by it to create a rant in case anyone was into glorifying it

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Posted by MyStarsShine

I’m anti pedophilia, anti rape, anti racism, anti violence but compared to all those things, poly doesn’t seem to be problematic at all....consenting adults so what’s the problem? I’m

not into it, but if others are that’s their choice...

My mother only slept with my Dad all her life and as she got older she said she wondered how it would have been

with someone else? Some would think that’s a life half lived?

I’ve pointed out not all are consenting but yeah I just felt like posting a random rant

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Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO

i just want one girl but i dont trust any of them

Just find one who can’t really gain anything more from the relationship than you

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Reincarnation5

Hope you got your Gardasil.

What does that have to do with me being anti-poly?

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I think he misread the title?

TMW

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Reincarnation5

Hope you got your Gardasil.

What does that have to do with me being anti-poly?

I think he misread the title?

TMW

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He’s probably just high again

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Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by Reincarnation5

Hope you got your Gardasil.

What does that have to do with me being anti-poly?

I think he misread the title?

TMW

He’s probably just high again

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Yes TMW maybe?

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Can the Muslim custom of having multiple wives be considered as polygamy? I can't say I am against it because who am I to judge, but I do find it tacky.

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Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO

i just want one girl but i dont trust any of them

I don't trust myself, especially after a few glasses of wine. Don't know if it's a gender or personality flaw.

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Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO

Posted by GenericUsername

Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO

i just want one girl but i dont trust any of them

I don't trust myself, especially after a few glasses of wine. Don't know if it's a gender or personality flaw.

idk, but stay away from me

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nom nom nom 😘

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Posted by GenericUsername

Can the Muslim custom of having multiple wives be considered as polygamy? I can't say I am against it because who am I to judge, but I do find it tacky.

That is polygamy. An Arab friend of mine told me about how common it is in Yemen culture this day and age to marry off young college aged boys to 4 wives from the start. Some of the wives being minors too as there’s no age restrictions there…

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Posted by MareInfame

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Poly is not really my thing either but i don’t feel as strongly against it as you do. Lol I don’t really care what other people are doing if they’re not my partner.

Same 💯👏🏻 I’m super cool beans about the subject and talking about it as long as it’s not about my partner.

Not sure how you can learn about the matter if you come off so judgmental in the first place.

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Yup I’m very judgmental on it due to the fact how it’s used to oppress and control women (including minors) in other parts of the world. I just don’t look at the first world countries.

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Posted by Bumboklaat

I get it, it's too much work. I'm lazy and fixed, unless I can be like Jabba the Hut and just chill there

The bane of my existence

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Posted by MareInfame

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by MareInfame

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Poly is not really my thing either but i don’t feel as strongly against it as you do. Lol I don’t really care what other people are doing if they’re not my partner.

Same 💯👏🏻 I’m super cool beans about the subject and talking about it as long as it’s not about my partner.

Not sure how you can learn about the matter if you come off so judgmental in the first place.

Yup I’m very judgmental on it due to the fact how it’s used to oppress and control women (including minors) in other parts of the world. I just don’t look at the first world countries.

Your title is very general and excludes so many others that practice it in ways that contradict what you described.

Maybe if you just focused on the specific cases you speak of, you would make more sense. But adding a huge population to this narrow idea you expressed just sounds a bit ignorant and fool-hardy.

But, I see what you mean - human corruption is found in all ideologies.

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It’s not supposed to be an organized rant. It’s just some random stuff I put together on how I feel with the overall tone of me simply being anti-poly and proud. I’m open to any and all kinds of reactions to it. You’re more than welcome to elaborate on these other practices that contradict to the ones I’ve mentioned.

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Not into it. Never will. I think I'm too possessive to be in one. It will drive me mad 😂

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