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Do women overestimate?
Do Women Overestimate Men's Attractiveness?
Women may sometimes overestimate men's confidence or desirability based on social cues or behavior. However, perceptions vary widely and are influenced by individual experiences. It is important to communicate clearly rather than assume intentions or abilities in relationships.
Single = nobody wants you.
In a relationship = everyone wants you.
So you think women are valid in accusing you?
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
Just tell him he’s not all that, Leo 😂🤣
Sorry I’m not a man 😬
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
Just tell him he’s not all that, Leo 😂🤣
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It's not about anyone. Just something I thought about from a meme.
No.
You're all that?
Reminds me of this meme: 
Reminds me of this meme:
Exactly. That and another meme like that got me thinking about this 😂
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
Just tell him he’s not all that, Leo 😂🤣
It's not about anyone. Just something I thought about from a meme.
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Ooops sorry
From my experience, a lot of it has to do with female insecurity (as well as being fully aware of female competitiveness).
At least half of my exes have given me grief for women paying too much attention to me (and most of the time I was oblivious to it).
Once, my Aqua ex and I attended a comedy night at a pub. A few months later, she brought up that night and blurted out how other women in the pub were looking at me. I didn’t notice a thing and made that clear to her. But she repeatedly kept on going on about it. Now, seeing as I was oblivious to that episode and had all my attention on her, what the hell did she expect me to say?
You should have said “I can’t help
being so gorgeous”
😂😆
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
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She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
I'm not a man, but this sounds like an insecurity to me. But some men like it and take it as a sign you care about them.
I'm not a man, but this sounds like an insecurity to me. But some men like it and take it as a sign you care about them.
Some perhaps...it annoys the piss outta me tho especially if it's done without humor.
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I never do this because I'm too trusting of whoever I'm with, and they take it as the opposite, that I don't care for them at all. THAT is annoying. My personality never gets these things right 😢
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
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This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
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I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
THANK YOU!!!!! EXACTLY!!!
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
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Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
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He said "that isn't related to me"
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
Lmao.
Random shorty to me"Omg! I love your _________"
Her in private with a mean screw face: "OmG YoUrE TEW mUcH, bih acting like she has never heard a joke 🙄😒"
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😂🤣😂🤣
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
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OH! I misread then, yes I agree with you 😆
Women are slick with it and do the long caress on an arm, while giggling. NOPE, not happening sweetheart.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
OH! I misread then, yes I agree with you 😆
Women are slick with it and do the long caress on an arm, while giggling. NOPE, not happening sweetheart.
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Yep. And its that fake annoying giggle too
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
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I worked with my ex in my late 20's and a coworker came up to him and asked him if he got tired of screwing the same kitty every night, and he came and told me about it.
So I went up to her and told her to let me know if she had any more sex questions about my marriage, that I could help with. She never said anything to him again in a sexual way 😆
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
Lmao.
Random shorty to me"Omg! I love your _________"
GF in private with a mean screw face: "OmG YoUrE TEW mUcH, bih acting like she has never heard a joke 🙄😒"
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I invoke my right to remain silent. lol
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
I worked with my ex in my late 20's and a coworker came up to him and asked him if he got tired of screwing the same kitty every night, and he came and told me about it.
So I went up to her and told her to let me know if she had any more sex questions about my marriage, that I could help with. She never said anything to him again in a sexual way 😆
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Omfg. Wow.
I worked with a couple once. And I genuinely liked the guy as a friend....I like her too....but I think she thought I was flirting with him all the time cause someone else said something to me about it. I had my own boyfriend. I just liked talking to him. I was so confused about the situation cause I was friendly with her too and I was NEVER inappropriate with him. Guess it's part of that Leo curse where people always think we are flirting.
I don't think they overestimate as much as believe that other women are sneaky and competitive. I've never cheated and only have eyes for the one I'm with so I'm oblivious to all the subtle undercurrents.
Do women overestimate...??
Why not ask the women...they know better than men what they are thinking about that situation, right?
And it may be not what men think 😉
I personally loved it when women looked admiringly at my Libra husband and tried to talk to him...it validated my choice and made me feel proud of myself, like I won a prize or something. I didn't have to point out the obvious to him, unless he was on another planet mentally.
If I were with a much more insecure or a sociable inept man though, then I would have pointed it out just to make him feel better about himself, or encourage him to be more sociable.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
I worked with my ex in my late 20's and a coworker came up to him and asked him if he got tired of screwing the same kitty every night, and he came and told me about it.
So I went up to her and told her to let me know if she had any more sex questions about my marriage, that I could help with. She never said anything to him again in a sexual way 😆
Omfg. Wow.
I worked with a couple once. And I genuinely liked the guy as a friend....I like her too....but I think she thought I was flirting with him all the time cause someone else said something to me about it. I had my own boyfriend. I just liked talking to him. I was so confused about the situation cause I was friendly with her too and I was NEVER inappropriate with him. Guess it's part of that Leo curse where people always think we are flirting.
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Her answer was "Wow he told you I said that!" and I politely told her, "Yeah he can tell me anything" and gave her a smile.
Women are weird when they come on to taken men. So many single guys out here. Go find one.
I don't think they overestimate as much as believe that other women are sneaky and competitive. I've never cheated and only have eyes for the one I'm with so I'm oblivious to all the subtle undercurrents.
I find this super common with Aries Moons. It's a great quality to have, to be so loyal. I'm jealous that my moon squares it.
Do women overestimate...??
Why not ask the women...they know better than men what they are thinking about that situation, right?
And it may be not what men think 😉
I personally loved it when women looked admiringly at my Libra husband and tried to talk to him...it validated my choice and made me feel proud of myself, like I won a prize or something. I didn't have to point out the obvious to him, unless he was on another planet mentally.
If I were with a much more insecure or a sociable inept man though, then I would have pointed it out just to make him feel better about himself, or encourage him to be more sociable.
I don't know why but I like this approach. So balanced, taking into consideration human nature.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
I worked with my ex in my late 20's and a coworker came up to him and asked him if he got tired of screwing the same kitty every night, and he came and told me about it.
So I went up to her and told her to let me know if she had any more sex questions about my marriage, that I could help with. She never said anything to him again in a sexual way 😆
Omfg. Wow.
I worked with a couple once. And I genuinely liked the guy as a friend....I like her too....but I think she thought I was flirting with him all the time cause someone else said something to me about it. I had my own boyfriend. I just liked talking to him. I was so confused about the situation cause I was friendly with her too and I was NEVER inappropriate with him. Guess it's part of that Leo curse where people always think we are flirting.
Her answer was "Wow he told you I said that!" and I politely told her, "Yeah he can tell me anything" and gave her a smile.
Women are weird when they come on to taken men. So many single guys out here. Go find one.
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Sad women👎🏻
What happened to loyalty and the sisterhood?
On the other hand, I was raised by a Taurus woman who was raging jealous on a daily basis.
If no woman talked to or looked at my dad recently, then it was about a woman from 10 days ago, or even ten years ago, or even from the time before I was born...it didn't matter.
Was she overestimating my father? Not at all.
Do women overestimate...??
Why not ask the women...they know better than men what they are thinking about that situation, right?
And it may be not what men think 😉
I personally loved it when women looked admiringly at my Libra husband and tried to talk to him...it validated my choice and made me feel proud of myself, like I won a prize or something. I didn't have to point out the obvious to him, unless he was on another planet mentally.
If I were with a much more insecure or a sociable inept man though, then I would have pointed it out just to make him feel better about himself, or encourage him to be more sociable.
I don't know why but I like this approach. So balanced, taking into consideration human nature.
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I dont mind when women admire....I agree it's a validation for me too. And I will point it out too if he is oblivious. I even enjoy the dirty looks I get from other women. But I don't like if they blatantly flirt with him in front of me. It's disrespectful.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
Depends if when they kiss me they can taste another girl's squirt.
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🤢🤢🤢🤮
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
She shouldn't be touching your arm tbh...
Lol and the Leo cries out in dramatic injustice "Hey! That's my move!!!😤"
I'm just saying. You don't touch another woman's man....especially in front of her.
Even a family member? Seriously? lol I wish a girl would come up to me and say something about my own damn family. She'd get her feelings hurt.
He said "that isn't related to me"
I worked with my ex in my late 20's and a coworker came up to him and asked him if he got tired of screwing the same kitty every night, and he came and told me about it.
So I went up to her and told her to let me know if she had any more sex questions about my marriage, that I could help with. She never said anything to him again in a sexual way 😆
Omfg. Wow.
I worked with a couple once. And I genuinely liked the guy as a friend....I like her too....but I think she thought I was flirting with him all the time cause someone else said something to me about it. I had my own boyfriend. I just liked talking to him. I was so confused about the situation cause I was friendly with her too and I was NEVER inappropriate with him. Guess it's part of that Leo curse where people always think we are flirting.
Her answer was "Wow he told you I said that!" and I politely told her, "Yeah he can tell me anything" and gave her a smile.
Women are weird when they come on to taken men. So many single guys out here. Go find one.
Sad women👎🏻
What happened to loyalty and the sisterhood?
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Me and my ex used to go to strip clubs together lol
I knew and trusted HIM, so I never was worried about a girl. He used to think those types were sluts because they didn't respect me.
We just had a conversation about finding loyalty like that. I had no clue it was such a cheating culture nowadays. He was saying the same thing. Women claim to want relationship but they cheat, with other women or men.
Being single right now is wild.
Everyone is greedy for what's just beyond the fence.
Shit naw Im underestimated lol
It happens, but I found these women to be disloyal. It’s like when someone accuses a person of cheating they are most likely the one cheating first.
I don't want to say that I think women accuse me of talking to other women. This is a matter of "I know" that they do. I had one accusing me of talking to other women. Yeah I was talking to other women so what. Like what's suppose to be wrong with a man talking to women. Usually when I talk to other women it's either business related or just out of friendly vibes. And it's always the usual sign women that accuses me. Yep you guessed it...Cancer women.
I don't want to say that I think women accuse me of talking to other women. This is a matter of "I know" that they do. I had one accusing me of talking to other women. Yeah I was talking to other women so what. Like what's suppose to be wrong with a man talking to women. Usually when I talk to other women it's either business related or just out of friendly vibes. And it's always the usual sign women that accuses me. Yep you guessed it...Cancer women.
I had something similar, when I was about 21. I was in a takeaway waiting for a pizza with my then girlfriend and her female friend. I was bored, the order was taking ages and I started talking to some girls in the queue. There was a music festival on which I didn't go to and I was a big clubbing guy then. After I left walking home: "Those girls were a bit young" - they were clearly 18+. I said "they've been on a night out" She said "all they have to do is flirt with the bouncers to get in". I said "I was talking to them, not fucking them".
It wasn't even flirty conversation. I was just asking them which DJs they had seen and who was the best. (The answer was Annie Mac).
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I usually attract those watery, clingy, tearful and insecure type women that see me as their keeper or something. Except this Capricorn woman who's basically all earth. Word is she really wants to get something jointly for the both of us. The Capricorn really like me and want me but thing is I had my own crib for so long I'm not sure I wanna leave. But I'm not sure if she setting me up to take charge or what I don't know. You never know with earthy people. Though I really want her to stay put right here. She may have fiery energy and can run circles all around me but at least she's not the clingy watery and insecure type.
One of the cancers did caught me talking to a woman that I know. We was just chatting it up in a friendly kind of way and she was all up in my business asking me who that was I was talking to. Soon after she started wrongfully accusing me and immediately became insecure of herself telling me and I quote "you don't find me attractive, do you". That been going on profusely. I came to the realization and came to my senses that this won't work. I couldn't take it anymore.
This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!
It's a common theme really. Shorty gets too friendly...it's a problem. I get too friendly, it's a problem. She feels I was too charming...it's a problem.
God forbid a woman of any age that isn't related to me laughs AND places her hand on my arm, WWIII yo.
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👏👏👏
This right here^^^
Any man who doesn't respect or value that power move isn't worth your time.
A passing touch flirt or anything to assert your ownership in a another classy way.
Hell personally this would be a turn on for me.
Yes. It's probably more or less the type of women I've dated, but I've noticed a running theme where they think I can obtain anyone I want, get really insecure. Then the drama starts. They never believe I had been single for years likely before we started dating. I'm literally 2 years single now, and was 3 or 4 years single before my last ex. She thought I was a magical being that could do whatever I wanted or something. Like I was a professional at dating. She couldnt understand that if she never made it obvious she was into me, I'd still be single. That kind of ruined it for me. Also I think I treat manipulative women too well, and they think I'm going to be their servant or something. Its like I don't mind being nice because I deeply want to trust and respect them, but the second I feel like I'm being used in any way I end up disliking them. So it's like yea I'll be loyal, giving, and amazing, but expect to not be judged or misunderstood, or ever feel like the best of me is being used.
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This is for the men:
Do you think the women you date overestimate your ability to get other women?
For example: accusing of you of talking to other women or thinking you have like all these women throwing themselves at your feet? When in reality you were probably lucky to be able to get her?!