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Posted by MyStarsShineor yourself
Any guy or woman with a track record for cheating would be mad to get married
Why bother? The chances are, after the initial novelty of fidelity.....they will be off again to feed their habit, leaving behind their loved(?) one broken hearted
CheatIng on someone means you don't love them
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by MyStarsShineif anything she'll cheat on himPosted by Arielle83So she is the blokePosted by MagicMonaYeah so DJ never proposed.
i wish some people stop braying like asses because they dont know what they are talking about.
divorce doesnt mean i love you less. it means we can no longer be together, despite how i feel about you. it means i love you, but there are certain things i'm tired of and no longer want to tolerate. you dont care enough to stop them and respect my wishes. so what am i to do? be a doormat because i'm the woman and you're the man? adultery and you skipping out was not part of our marriage vows. we had an understanding before we even took that step that we would be exclusive.
if you know you aren't or can't be monogamous, don't even play those games. be real with yourself and me. go get what you want from the get go; don't make vows with me and then act like they meant nothing.
if that was too much for you, you did not have to propose. men propose -they initiate marriage. but why even bother when you know you can't keep it in your pants? call us crazy, but we dont want partners who put us at risk for STDS. we dont want to have to deal with your outside chicks and outside children. only a goddamn idiot would expect a person to stay and put up with that without tiring of it. unless we had an open marriage arrangement, that shit isn't flying.
little boys here dont understand that.
She did.
He bragged about it.
He's a queen.
Lol
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Of course she will.....she is an Aqua....spread the love baby
Posted by tctaPosted by MyStarsShineor yourself
Any guy or woman with a track record for cheating would be mad to get married
Why bother? The chances are, after the initial novelty of fidelity.....they will be off again to feed their habit, leaving behind their loved(?) one broken hearted
CheatIng on someone means you don't love them
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True
Posted by Arielle83And you know Arielle how that can feck things up...Posted by MyStarsShineTotally.Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by P-Angelwhat utter nonsensePosted by ImpulsvPosted by Arielle83I think you should tell ur future wife your views
Either way DJ good luck with the vows.
" hey when I step out, we work on it . 90 percent chance I will based on history of man kind "
she can make an adult informed decision. hey you're in agreement it's cool
His sarcasm in where he meant the complete opposite of that was obvious .... but, people in here apparently have to pry their panties out of their butts to recognize it.
Apparently people don't actually get tongue-in-cheek .... and it has to be spelled out for them.
cats and dogs aren't actually falling from the sky when it's raining cats and dogs
His sardonic idioms flew over just about everyone's head. For the fact that she didn't leave him, nor divorce him due to his cheating, then the implication was made sarcastically that she belongs with the cheater.
Yeah bullshit
That is what smoking too much shite does to people.....completely skewers perception.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by MyStarsShineexactly, so i wonder how Donjohn is going to handle that. i see a broken man in the near future. a very broken manPosted by DivaCanLeoPosted by MyStarsShineif anything she'll cheat on himPosted by Arielle83So she is the blokePosted by MagicMonaYeah so DJ never proposed.
i wish some people stop braying like asses because they dont know what they are talking about.
divorce doesnt mean i love you less. it means we can no longer be together, despite how i feel about you. it means i love you, but there are certain things i'm tired of and no longer want to tolerate. you dont care enough to stop them and respect my wishes. so what am i to do? be a doormat because i'm the woman and you're the man? adultery and you skipping out was not part of our marriage vows. we had an understanding before we even took that step that we would be exclusive.
if you know you aren't or can't be monogamous, don't even play those games. be real with yourself and me. go get what you want from the get go; don't make vows with me and then act like they meant nothing.
if that was too much for you, you did not have to propose. men propose -they initiate marriage. but why even bother when you know you can't keep it in your pants? call us crazy, but we dont want partners who put us at risk for STDS. we dont want to have to deal with your outside chicks and outside children. only a goddamn idiot would expect a person to stay and put up with that without tiring of it. unless we had an open marriage arrangement, that shit isn't flying.
little boys here dont understand that.
She did.
He bragged about it.
He's a queen.
Lol
Of course she will.....she is an Aqua....spread the love baby
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He knows that ... But we all have to learn our lessons
Posted by DonJohn^^Posted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnPosted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnSo should she have just waited til he finished busting his nuts in the other woman and pretended that everything was okay?Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohnI don't know if you've been following my posts. I was actually willing to work it out. You're right, I pulled the plug because HE didn't care. It wasn't a knee jerk reaction, him moving out when he was caught was the knee jerk reaction. It took me some time to even finally come to the conclusion that this wasn't what he really wanted. I mean, it shows. See—Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohn
lmao just lmao @ the female being the one to initiate divorce.
it will always be in the man's favor. he can still mack. you are going to be a cum dumpster for years to come, possibly rest of your life.
your overlords programmed you. You listened to the devil and now you must lay in the bed YOU made.
I'm at fault because I filed some papers when he was staying with her at her mother's house? The only devil was his actions. It was over.
Oh. I see how that goes. Gotcha. I'm not the type to dick jump. I'm no one's cum dumpster. Got the wrong one suga.
just because he cheated, doesn't mean you have to file divorce papers. this is a programmed reaction.
you are still at fault for this kneejerk reaction. you are the one that ended the marriage. it's over the top and completely unnecessary.
too much history and examples around the world to back me on this. you can hold back your tears and say you are happy you made the right choice and .... let me stop you right there. This choice was made for you by someone that doesn't even care about you.
men lie. women lie. facts don't lie. the only fact here is you filed the papers. you can make up lies to support your side as much as you like.
i judge by action and action only.
You are the one that pulled the plug. I care not anything else. You are trying to say you are the righteous one blah blah. it's only natural.
at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road, you are the one that ended the marriage by filing those papers.
you loved him less than he loved you. regardless of what you say, he wasn't the one that snuffed out the heartbeat of your marriage. you did.
You sound like you would avoid anything to be alone.
nope. the double standards does not apply in a marriage between a man and a female. the standards are different because we are different.
the old wise words always ring true like "never make a ho a house wife."
So she has to be unhappy because of someone else's choice?
marriage is a compromise over a longggggggggggggg term.
so if someone is being a dickhead...... then maybe get mad....... but in the end, you should always try to work it out. there are very few exceptions in which I agree with divorce.
but not for infidelity from the man.
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My thoughts!!!!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/your-perspective-on-a-cheating-mate--7716258/
i'm not sure why many feel like it's better to say that they still love the partner they decided to let go. how do you love someone u despise or disrespect? so what if u loved other sides of him when the time was good but not what he has become today. once you loved you love forever, unconditionally? what do you love about his ugly heart and inferior mind? what bullshit. falling out of love or have a change of heart is not something to feel guilty about. that's being true to yourself
not relevant to the op. just a thought
not relevant to the op. just a thought
Posted by Arielle83People that need it every day are addicts and it becomes their lover and they start to talk shite....incoherent and senseless...Posted by MyStarsShineI was seeing a marriage counsellor for a year on my own.Posted by Arielle83And you know Arielle how that can feck things up...Posted by MyStarsShineTotally.Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by P-Angelwhat utter nonsensePosted by ImpulsvPosted by Arielle83I think you should tell ur future wife your views
Either way DJ good luck with the vows.
" hey when I step out, we work on it . 90 percent chance I will based on history of man kind "
she can make an adult informed decision. hey you're in agreement it's cool
His sarcasm in where he meant the complete opposite of that was obvious .... but, people in here apparently have to pry their panties out of their butts to recognize it.
Apparently people don't actually get tongue-in-cheek .... and it has to be spelled out for them.
cats and dogs aren't actually falling from the sky when it's raining cats and dogs
His sardonic idioms flew over just about everyone's head. For the fact that she didn't leave him, nor divorce him due to his cheating, then the implication was made sarcastically that she belongs with the cheater.
Yeah bullshit
That is what smoking too much shite does to people.....completely skewers perception.
It makes them complacent when it comes to all day use.
When we'd go on a end trip, the first night he'd go off about nothing cuz his mood was dealing with reality cuz he didbt have a cone.
Every trip started getting shit over the last year so I started travelling with mates.
I'm a traveller. He doesn't want to now.
Counsellor says that you can't help someone that can't help themselves.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnA lot lot easier yeah. I've seen it happening multiple times. More than a year ago I got lot of flak on dxp when I said I can forgive a cheating mate. All from women. It was a disguised concern for me. But it wasn't any concern at all. I know I can take that much n can handle it. I didn't get what was the drama about. I don't see it as a deal breaker . That will never be a reason for me to divorce my husband if at all.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohn^^Posted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnPosted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnSo should she have just waited til he finished busting his nuts in the other woman and pretended that everything was okay?Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohnI don't know if you've been following my posts. I was actually willing to work it out. You're right, I pulled the plug because HE didn't care. It wasn't a knee jerk reaction, him moving out when he was caught was the knee jerk reaction. It took me some time to even finally come to the conclusion that this wasn't what he really wanted. I mean, it shows. See—Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohn
lmao just lmao @ the female being the one to initiate divorce.
it will always be in the man's favor. he can still mack. you are going to be a cum dumpster for years to come, possibly rest of your life.
your overlords programmed you. You listened to the devil and now you must lay in the bed YOU made.
I'm at fault because I filed some papers when he was staying with her at her mother's house? The only devil was his actions. It was over.
Oh. I see how that goes. Gotcha. I'm not the type to dick jump. I'm no one's cum dumpster. Got the wrong one suga.
just because he cheated, doesn't mean you have to file divorce papers. this is a programmed reaction.
you are still at fault for this kneejerk reaction. you are the one that ended the marriage. it's over the top and completely unnecessary.
too much history and examples around the world to back me on this. you can hold back your tears and say you are happy you made the right choice and .... let me stop you right there. This choice was made for you by someone that doesn't even care about you.
men lie. women lie. facts don't lie. the only fact here is you filed the papers. you can make up lies to support your side as much as you like.
i judge by action and action only.
You are the one that pulled the plug. I care not anything else. You are trying to say you are the righteous one blah blah. it's only natural.
at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road, you are the one that ended the marriage by filing those papers.
you loved him less than he loved you. regardless of what you say, he wasn't the one that snuffed out the heartbeat of your marriage. you did.
You sound like you would avoid anything to be alone.
nope. the double standards does not apply in a marriage between a man and a female. the standards are different because we are different.
the old wise words always ring true like "never make a ho a house wife."
So she has to be unhappy because of someone else's choice?
marriage is a compromise over a longggggggggggggg term.
so if someone is being a dickhead...... then maybe get mad....... but in the end, you should always try to work it out. there are very few exceptions in which I agree with divorce.
but not for infidelity from the man.
My thoughts!!!!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/your-perspective-on-a-cheating-mate--7716258/
you're single handedly changing my opinion on scorpio women.
life is easier when you can find it in your heart to forgive and move on =)
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Posted by Arielle83No you cannot.....they like to protect their lover very wellPosted by MyStarsShineOh but you can't ever tell them that!!!Posted by Arielle83People that need it every day are addicts and it becomes their lover and they start to talk shite....incoherent and senseless...Posted by MyStarsShineI was seeing a marriage counsellor for a year on my own.Posted by Arielle83And you know Arielle how that can feck things up...Posted by MyStarsShineTotally.Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by P-Angelwhat utter nonsensePosted by ImpulsvPosted by Arielle83I think you should tell ur future wife your views
Either way DJ good luck with the vows.
" hey when I step out, we work on it . 90 percent chance I will based on history of man kind "
she can make an adult informed decision. hey you're in agreement it's cool
His sarcasm in where he meant the complete opposite of that was obvious .... but, people in here apparently have to pry their panties out of their butts to recognize it.
Apparently people don't actually get tongue-in-cheek .... and it has to be spelled out for them.
cats and dogs aren't actually falling from the sky when it's raining cats and dogs
His sardonic idioms flew over just about everyone's head. For the fact that she didn't leave him, nor divorce him due to his cheating, then the implication was made sarcastically that she belongs with the cheater.
Yeah bullshit
That is what smoking too much shite does to people.....completely skewers perception.
It makes them complacent when it comes to all day use.
When we'd go on a end trip, the first night he'd go off about nothing cuz his mood was dealing with reality cuz he didbt have a cone.
Every trip started getting shit over the last year so I started travelling with mates.
I'm a traveller. He doesn't want to now.
Counsellor says that you can't help someone that can't help themselves.
HAHAAclick to expand
It must be bad enough having to compete with anonther woman, but with a drug...it just takes things to a whole new level
Lol
Posted by MagicMonaSome times people also learn from their mistakes. I dont know about cheating but a wise person learns from mistakes .
i'd rather handle my shit honestly and not fuck people over. be real and say that this is not working, we've reached the end. not go out, cheat, and disrespect my wife. this is not a woman i was just fucking and living with. this woman was once upon a time my friend. my sister. all in all she was MINE, and i loved her. vice versa. we may have to let each other go, and feelings may change, but respect never should. that's bullshit to not be able to handle shit honestly.
Posted by DonJohnLol! I don't know about my grandparents..but my parents have never cheated on eachother. It's not them or the society which made me think it's normal. I have only one point here. I don't think my love would be so petty that I'd leave someone for something like that. N if my love is that weak, I don't think I'd get into a relationship with that person.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnA lot lot easier yeah. I've seen it happening to me multiple times. More than a year ago I got lot of flak on dxp when I said I can forgive a cheating mate. All from women. It was a disguised concern for me. But it wasn't any concern at all. I know I can take that much n can handle it. I didn't get what was the drama about. I don't see it as a deal breaker . That will never be a reason for me to divorce my husband if at all.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohn^^Posted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnPosted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnSo should she have just waited til he finished busting his nuts in the other woman and pretended that everything was okay?Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohnI don't know if you've been following my posts. I was actually willing to work it out. You're right, I pulled the plug because HE didn't care. It wasn't a knee jerk reaction, him moving out when he was caught was the knee jerk reaction. It took me some time to even finally come to the conclusion that this wasn't what he really wanted. I mean, it shows. See—Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohn
lmao just lmao @ the female being the one to initiate divorce.
it will always be in the man's favor. he can still mack. you are going to be a cum dumpster for years to come, possibly rest of your life.
your overlords programmed you. You listened to the devil and now you must lay in the bed YOU made.
I'm at fault because I filed some papers when he was staying with her at her mother's house? The only devil was his actions. It was over.
Oh. I see how that goes. Gotcha. I'm not the type to dick jump. I'm no one's cum dumpster. Got the wrong one suga.
just because he cheated, doesn't mean you have to file divorce papers. this is a programmed reaction.
you are still at fault for this kneejerk reaction. you are the one that ended the marriage. it's over the top and completely unnecessary.
too much history and examples around the world to back me on this. you can hold back your tears and say you are happy you made the right choice and .... let me stop you right there. This choice was made for you by someone that doesn't even care about you.
men lie. women lie. facts don't lie. the only fact here is you filed the papers. you can make up lies to support your side as much as you like.
i judge by action and action only.
You are the one that pulled the plug. I care not anything else. You are trying to say you are the righteous one blah blah. it's only natural.
at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road, you are the one that ended the marriage by filing those papers.
you loved him less than he loved you. regardless of what you say, he wasn't the one that snuffed out the heartbeat of your marriage. you did.
You sound like you would avoid anything to be alone.
nope. the double standards does not apply in a marriage between a man and a female. the standards are different because we are different.
the old wise words always ring true like "never make a ho a house wife."
So she has to be unhappy because of someone else's choice?
marriage is a compromise over a longggggggggggggg term.
so if someone is being a dickhead...... then maybe get mad....... but in the end, you should always try to work it out. there are very few exceptions in which I agree with divorce.
but not for infidelity from the man.
My thoughts!!!!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/your-perspective-on-a-cheating-mate--7716258/
you're single handedly changing my opinion on scorpio women.
life is easier when you can find it in your heart to forgive and move on =)
correct. don't let these pain merchants get to you. they are confused about themselves wallowing in their own butthurt and confusion.
the fact is, at the end of the day your mothers, your grandmothers, your great grandmothers to the beginning of civilzation of your family tree have all endured infidelity. it really is NO BIG dEAL.
it only became a big deal in today's special snowflake society where women are programmed with constant butthurt and triggers. to make sure you make the man's lives miserable and make their own lives miserable.
forget all that.
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Posted by DonJohnHaha!! Yeah I get what you mean. Not my concern anyway. They're doing good..26 years of marriage n stuff. If they can make it work, I can make it work..May not be easy ofcourse..But I want to.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnLol! I don't know about my grandparents..but my parents have never cheated on eachother. It's not them or the society which made me think it's normal. I have only one point here. I don't think my love would be so petty that I'd leave someone for something like that. N if my love is that weak, I don't think I'd get into a relationship with that person.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnA lot lot easier yeah. I've seen it happening to me multiple times. More than a year ago I got lot of flak on dxp when I said I can forgive a cheating mate. All from women. It was a disguised concern for me. But it wasn't any concern at all. I know I can take that much n can handle it. I didn't get what was the drama about. I don't see it as a deal breaker . That will never be a reason for me to divorce my husband if at all.Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohn^^Posted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnPosted by Arielle83Posted by DonJohnSo should she have just waited til he finished busting his nuts in the other woman and pretended that everything was okay?Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohnI don't know if you've been following my posts. I was actually willing to work it out. You're right, I pulled the plug because HE didn't care. It wasn't a knee jerk reaction, him moving out when he was caught was the knee jerk reaction. It took me some time to even finally come to the conclusion that this wasn't what he really wanted. I mean, it shows. See—Posted by mzmeePosted by DonJohn
lmao just lmao @ the female being the one to initiate divorce.
it will always be in the man's favor. he can still mack. you are going to be a cum dumpster for years to come, possibly rest of your life.
your overlords programmed you. You listened to the devil and now you must lay in the bed YOU made.
I'm at fault because I filed some papers when he was staying with her at her mother's house? The only devil was his actions. It was over.
Oh. I see how that goes. Gotcha. I'm not the type to dick jump. I'm no one's cum dumpster. Got the wrong one suga.
just because he cheated, doesn't mean you have to file divorce papers. this is a programmed reaction.
you are still at fault for this kneejerk reaction. you are the one that ended the marriage. it's over the top and completely unnecessary.
too much history and examples around the world to back me on this. you can hold back your tears and say you are happy you made the right choice and .... let me stop you right there. This choice was made for you by someone that doesn't even care about you.
men lie. women lie. facts don't lie. the only fact here is you filed the papers. you can make up lies to support your side as much as you like.
i judge by action and action only.
You are the one that pulled the plug. I care not anything else. You are trying to say you are the righteous one blah blah. it's only natural.
at the end of the day, when rubber meets the road, you are the one that ended the marriage by filing those papers.
you loved him less than he loved you. regardless of what you say, he wasn't the one that snuffed out the heartbeat of your marriage. you did.
You sound like you would avoid anything to be alone.
nope. the double standards does not apply in a marriage between a man and a female. the standards are different because we are different.
the old wise words always ring true like "never make a ho a house wife."
So she has to be unhappy because of someone else's choice?
marriage is a compromise over a longggggggggggggg term.
so if someone is being a dickhead...... then maybe get mad....... but in the end, you should always try to work it out. there are very few exceptions in which I agree with divorce.
but not for infidelity from the man.
My thoughts!!!!
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/your-perspective-on-a-cheating-mate--7716258/
you're single handedly changing my opinion on scorpio women.
life is easier when you can find it in your heart to forgive and move on =)
correct. don't let these pain merchants get to you. they are confused about themselves wallowing in their own butthurt and confusion.
the fact is, at the end of the day your mothers, your grandmothers, your great grandmothers to the beginning of civilzation of your family tree have all endured infidelity. it really is NO BIG dEAL.
it only became a big deal in today's special snowflake society where women are programmed with constant butthurt and triggers. to make sure you make the man's lives miserable and make their own lives miserable.
forget all that.
even if that happened, they wouldn't tell you.
even if ur dad dropped into bang a hooker here and there. he wouldn't tell ur mom either.
i'm not saying it with 100% certainty. but more likely than not.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnRight!! That's what matters!
it's best to not even think about it.
is he still there? does he still love your mom? okay then.
let's move on
Posted by DonJohnSo basically a woman is suppose to stay with a cheating partner and in an affection less toxic marriage just because it is "only" her responsibility to raise ideal citizens . Adjust with the emotional trauma for the sake of children ? Why not put in same effort in raising a good child rather than continuing in a fake marriage ?Posted by PootyButtPosted by DonJohnOkay, maybe you're not butthurt. You're definitely invested in the topic, though. Like more than normal. I'm genuinely curious why.Posted by PootyButt
@DonJohn why are other people's divorces of such importance to you? Every time a woman posts a thread saying she's divorcing a man, you act all butt-hurt like she's leaving you personally. What gives, man?
i'm not butthurt at all.
i am the voice of unapologetic masculinity. it's a voice never heard before in most people's lives and in the media.
because i believe lack of nuclear family is the west's #1 problem.
children raised by single mothers are overwhelmingly criminals and buffoons.
lack of procreation. loss of national idenity.
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Posted by MagicMonaPosted by marshmallowtrue. but i never see cheating as a 'mistake'. how do you get naked and sex by 'mistake'? that's a lot of effort to be considered a mistake.Posted by MagicMonaSome times people also learn from their mistakes. I dont know about cheating but a wise person learns from mistakes .
i'd rather handle my shit honestly and not fuck people over. be real and say that this is not working, we've reached the end. not go out, cheat, and disrespect my wife. this is not a woman i was just fucking and living with. this woman was once upon a time my friend. my sister. all in all she was MINE, and i loved her. vice versa. we may have to let each other go, and feelings may change, but respect never should. that's bullshit to not be able to handle shit honestly.click to expand
Exactly
And what about the guys that say "it didn't mean anything....I love my wife". What the hell are they on? Weirdos.
Posted by MagicMonaI kind of agree. I am not a forgiving person and i cant forgive a cheating partner. I am not exactly talking about cheating here but that if a person who had cheated before deserves to be trusted again or not for a marriage or relationship ?Posted by marshmallowtrue. but i never see cheating as a 'mistake'. how do you get naked and sex by 'mistake'? that's a lot of effort to be considered a mistake.Posted by MagicMonaSome times people also learn from their mistakes. I dont know about cheating but a wise person learns from mistakes .
i'd rather handle my shit honestly and not fuck people over. be real and say that this is not working, we've reached the end. not go out, cheat, and disrespect my wife. this is not a woman i was just fucking and living with. this woman was once upon a time my friend. my sister. all in all she was MINE, and i loved her. vice versa. we may have to let each other go, and feelings may change, but respect never should. that's bullshit to not be able to handle shit honestly.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnPosted by marshmallowPosted by DonJohnSo basically a woman is suppose to stay with a cheating partner and in an affection less toxic marriage just because it is "only" her responsibility to raise ideal citizens . Adjust with the emotional trauma for the sake of children ? Why not put in same effort in raising a good child rather than continuing in a fake marriage ?Posted by PootyButtPosted by DonJohnOkay, maybe you're not butthurt. You're definitely invested in the topic, though. Like more than normal. I'm genuinely curious why.Posted by PootyButt
@DonJohn why are other people's divorces of such importance to you? Every time a woman posts a thread saying she's divorcing a man, you act all butt-hurt like she's leaving you personally. What gives, man?
i'm not butthurt at all.
i am the voice of unapologetic masculinity. it's a voice never heard before in most people's lives and in the media.
because i believe lack of nuclear family is the west's #1 problem.
children raised by single mothers are overwhelmingly criminals and buffoons.
lack of procreation. loss of national idenity.
"the female is the backbone of civilization. when she goes, so goes the civilization."
it's better to raise the children even with arguing in the household than to raise your child by yourself without the father figure.
the female can't raise children on her own in general. this is a failed experiment with the results in year after year. go look on crime stats on children from single mom families. it is mindblowing.
whereas every single nuclear family has emotional trauma and screaming and arguing.... yeah we all been through it. the jewish family has seen it all. the asian family has seen it all.
guess what, best offsprings. no criminal inclination. tax payers. and responsible offspring that will continue to be the pillars of society.
it is what it is.
you can't sensationlize facts.click to expand
"the female is the backbone of civilization. when she goes, so goes the civilization."
We dont want to be god. We are human and if a man has his needs, so do we. For a lot of us its honestly and transparency . If men are made a certain way ..so are we. We dont want to take all the pressure of world peace .
"it's better to raise the children even with arguing in the household than to raise your child by yourself without the father figure."
Why does divorce always have to be raising a child with out father figure ? I know it wont be same as before separation but things can be decently managed .
" go look on crime stats on children from single mom families. it is mindblowing."
I will agree with you on that but it is not just a woman's responsibility to think of consequences . Not every child from a broken family becomes a criminal .
"the female can't raise children on her own in general."
And men cant even try .
Posted by MagicMonaIt is very difficult to forgive someone who cheats on you but some body else can have a fresh start with him or her. But then there is yes always a risk .Posted by marshmallowi'm far from a saint; forgiveness would be impossible. at least for quite a long time. i personally feel like if you cheat once, you'll do it again. that would always be in the back of my mind. trust was broken, and you have no right to expect me to give it again. not until i'm ready, if i ever do reach that point.Posted by MagicMonaI kind of agree. I am not a forgiving person and i cant forgive a cheating partner. I am not exactly talking about cheating here but that if a person who had cheated before deserves to be trusted again or not for a marriage or relationship ?Posted by marshmallowtrue. but i never see cheating as a 'mistake'. how do you get naked and sex by 'mistake'? that's a lot of effort to be considered a mistake.Posted by MagicMonaSome times people also learn from their mistakes. I dont know about cheating but a wise person learns from mistakes .
i'd rather handle my shit honestly and not fuck people over. be real and say that this is not working, we've reached the end. not go out, cheat, and disrespect my wife. this is not a woman i was just fucking and living with. this woman was once upon a time my friend. my sister. all in all she was MINE, and i loved her. vice versa. we may have to let each other go, and feelings may change, but respect never should. that's bullshit to not be able to handle shit honestly.
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Unfortunately a good number of people cheat ...not all get caught.
Posted by DonJohn—
this is the feminist, liberal logic.
He chose to cheat. so he chose to end the marriage.
Let me stop you right there. No. When you serve the divorce papers, that's when your stupid ass ended the marriage.
no need to go any further.
removing yourself from accountability. that's what a female does best.
I can use that stupidass female logic for anything. I can serve divorce papers when the bish doesn't have my food ready when I come home. Your stupidass can't be responsible enough to have my food ready and because of your carelessness to me and my children. I'm divorcing your ass. i'm not responsible for ending the marriage. YOUR LAZY ASS IS!
am i doing it right?
that's dumb as fuq and only women can buy that logic because the female's mind is very easily manipulated. just look at consumerism. all predicated on the malleable female mind.
Omfg!!! This cracks me up so much!!
Posted by MagicMonapreach
i wish some people stop braying like asses because they dont know what they are talking about.
divorce doesnt mean i love you less. it means we can no longer be together, despite how i feel about you. it means i love you, but there are certain things i'm tired of and no longer want to tolerate. you dont care enough to stop them and respect my wishes. so what am i to do? be a doormat because i'm the woman and you're the man? adultery and you skipping out was not part of our marriage vows. we had an understanding before we even took that step that we would be exclusive.
if you know you aren't or can't be monogamous, don't even play those games. be real with yourself and me. go get what you want from the get go; don't make vows with me and then act like they meant nothing.
if that was too much for you, you did not have to propose. men propose -they initiate marriage. but why even bother when you know you can't keep it in your pants? call us crazy, but we dont want partners who put us at risk for STDS. we dont want to have to deal with your outside chicks and outside children. only a goddamn idiot would expect a person to stay and put up with that without tiring of it. unless we had an open marriage arrangement, that shit isn't flying.
little boys here dont understand that.
Posted by MyStarsShinebitches just can't handle their smokePosted by Arielle83People that need it every day are addicts and it becomes their lover and they start to talk shite....incoherent and senseless...Posted by MyStarsShineI was seeing a marriage counsellor for a year on my own.Posted by Arielle83And you know Arielle how that can feck things up...Posted by MyStarsShineTotally.Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by P-Angelwhat utter nonsensePosted by ImpulsvPosted by Arielle83I think you should tell ur future wife your views
Either way DJ good luck with the vows.
" hey when I step out, we work on it . 90 percent chance I will based on history of man kind "
she can make an adult informed decision. hey you're in agreement it's cool
His sarcasm in where he meant the complete opposite of that was obvious .... but, people in here apparently have to pry their panties out of their butts to recognize it.
Apparently people don't actually get tongue-in-cheek .... and it has to be spelled out for them.
cats and dogs aren't actually falling from the sky when it's raining cats and dogs
His sardonic idioms flew over just about everyone's head. For the fact that she didn't leave him, nor divorce him due to his cheating, then the implication was made sarcastically that she belongs with the cheater.
Yeah bullshit
That is what smoking too much shite does to people.....completely skewers perception.
It makes them complacent when it comes to all day use.
When we'd go on a end trip, the first night he'd go off about nothing cuz his mood was dealing with reality cuz he didbt have a cone.
Every trip started getting shit over the last year so I started travelling with mates.
I'm a traveller. He doesn't want to now.
Counsellor says that you can't help someone that can't help themselves.
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Posted by DonJohn
"" go look on crime stats on children from single mom families. it is mindblowing."
I will agree with you on that but it is not just a woman's responsibility to think of consequences . Not every child from a broken family becomes a criminal . "
I will say my final piece on this.
when a man cheats it's for a temporary release. whatever it might be.... it's not permanent.
when the female files the divorce papers, it's permanent. she's potentially destroying the child/children's life and her husband's life(court will rule in favor of her 90% of the time).
The female can not be justified for the skyrocketing divorce rates.
it's selfish.
and in the end karma will come back for you in old age just like this thread. when the OP cries in the corner as her husband marries someone new.
the man can get younger women to settle down with them and start a new family with.
the aging female has a very different fate. lol
I don't believe in karma but I do believe you reap
what you sow... and the *temporary release*
has permanent consequences.
Even biblically speaking-- infidelity is the *only*
legitimate and acceptable reason for divorce.
That ish is Eternal.
Posted by DonJohnI said
More female lies
Quote the verse that cites divorce the man if he strays.
'Even biblically speaking-- infidelity is the *only* legitimate and
acceptable reason for divorce.'
There is no '... and divorceth thou, him, if he strayeth.'
It was not encouraged, and you were still an adulterer if you remarried.
And there is more than one verse.
But this will suffice (note: 'whoredom' is fornication/adultery)--
From the literal version
`Did ye not read that... they shall be -- the two -- for one flesh?'
And I say to you, that, whoever may put away his wife,
if not for whoredom, and may marry another, doth commit
adultery; and he who did marry her that hath been put away,
doth commit adultery.' -Matt. 19:4,5,9
From the Aramaic 'plain English' v.
But I say to you,
“Whoever divorces his wife apart from adultery and will take
another, commits adultery, and whoever will take her who is
divorced commits adultery.”
@juliette
Haha
Well men wrote it, & women weren't exactly
liberated then.
However (and the reason I included the verse),
once married, they were considered one flesh--
or one person.
So as it applies to HE, it would also apply to
SHE.
As for the other... gay or straight, men act as
though they are entitled-- women are a little
more discreet.
Maybe?
As it applies here though infidelity is still
infidelity no matter what sex you're sleeping
with. :/
Wouldn't you think?
Haha
Well men wrote it, & women weren't exactly
liberated then.
However (and the reason I included the verse),
once married, they were considered one flesh--
or one person.
So as it applies to HE, it would also apply to
SHE.
As for the other... gay or straight, men act as
though they are entitled-- women are a little
more discreet.
Maybe?
As it applies here though infidelity is still
infidelity no matter what sex you're sleeping
with. :/
Wouldn't you think?
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is it even possible anymore?
Like beating so hard it's obvious and he's looking shy
Ps tell me it's cuz in pretty
what utter nonsense
Yeah bullshit
That is what smoking too much shite does to people.....completely skewers perception.
for sure - Rule #1 - do not attempt to enter an in-depth conversation when high - stick to the yes or no answers only