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I've never met a woman yet who couldn't use a ball-gag every now and then.. take that for what its worth.
That heifer needed submitted into hamburger meat..
Look at you, being so dominant. lol
Are we going to need a ball gag? Which way are we going lmao!
If you want me to punch you in the vagina, sure, you can threaten me with a ball gag. lmao
Ball gag it is!
That's how you get her to receive the ball gag.. smart man..
Disclaimer: I am joking... no woman should be struck in their vagina unless proper written consent is agreed upon regardless of how much a ball gag could improve their current living conditions.
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LOL @ that disclaimer. And even more LULZ that you would have to add it because you will be likely called a woman beater if you don't later. hahahahah
Did you know that taking old cows, grinding them up, and feeding them back into the population of other cattle is what most likely cause mad cow disease? Unfortunately there's a reason why it's not allowed anymore anywhere.
At least now we know how Hannibel Lecter dies. Mad human disease
I've never met a woman yet who couldn't use a ball-gag every now and then.. take that for what its worth.
That heifer needed submitted into hamburger meat..
Look at you, being so dominant. lol
Are we going to need a ball gag? Which way are we going lmao!
If you want me to punch you in the vagina, sure, you can threaten me with a ball gag. lmao
Ball gag it is!
That's how you get her to receive the ball gag.. smart man..
Disclaimer: I am joking... no woman should be struck in their vagina unless proper written consent is agreed upon regardless of how much a ball gag could improve their current living conditions.
LOL @ that disclaimer. And even more LULZ that you would have to add it because you will be likely called a woman beater if you don't later. hahahahah
You understand!
And that takes us back to my original post: BALL MOTHERFU*!ING........ GAG!
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Time to start some rumors about how you use CapNCrunch to lure unsuspecting grandmamamamamaams into being ball gagged.
I've never met a woman yet who couldn't use a ball-gag every now and then.. take that for what its worth.
That heifer needed submitted into hamburger meat..
Old cows taste terrible. I wouldn't do it! 🤢
Donate it to charity or something... old cow is still better than a brand new Twinkie. Hell, grind it up and feed it to the other cows as a warning.
Did you know that taking old cows, grinding them up, and feeding them back into the population of other cattle is what most likely cause mad cow disease? Unfortunately there's a reason why it's not allowed anymore anywhere.
Is that true? Cow cannibalism caused mad cow disease?
Without going into total nerd mode, your very short answer is yes.
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So, what you are saying to me is that zombies CAN actually happen if humans eat each other enough.
TOLD YOU MOTHERFUCKERS THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE CAN HAPPEN!
I've never met a woman yet who couldn't use a ball-gag every now and then.. take that for what its worth.
That heifer needed submitted into hamburger meat..
Look at you, being so dominant. lol
Are we going to need a ball gag? Which way are we going lmao!
If you want me to punch you in the vagina, sure, you can threaten me with a ball gag. lmao
Ball gag it is!
That's how you get her to receive the ball gag.. smart man..
Disclaimer: I am joking... no woman should be struck in their vagina unless proper written consent is agreed upon regardless of how much a ball gag could improve their current living conditions.
LOL @ that disclaimer. And even more LULZ that you would have to add it because you will be likely called a woman beater if you don't later. hahahahah
You understand!
And that takes us back to my original post: BALL MOTHERFU*!ING........ GAG!
Time to start some rumors about how you use CapNCrunch to lure unsuspecting grandmamamamamaams into being ball gagged.
FUK! Front page tyrade in 3.....2......1.......
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Go eat a cow, Ferdinand. LOL
Y'all need Jesus
But In the end she wanted me to be the manly figure and take charge. That's all. And that's really not me unless I force it to play the part. As I said in the beginning I go in a relationship with someone to respect them and treat them as equal.
You can be manly and take charge while still showing respect and treating her as an equal. Those things aren't mutually exclusive.
Seems like this is an incompatibility issue. Not an issue of dominance vs submissive. Not an issue of 'all woman wanting to be handled'.
Own up to your part in the relationship dissolving.
Only I can dominate. #sorrynotsorry
I've yet to meet a totally submissive Scorpio female.
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Pluto is a man💪🏼
Only I can dominate. #sorrynotsorry
I've yet to meet a totally submissive Scorpio female.
Pluto is a man💪🏼
So is Ed Sheeran and he looks like he couldn't even put the cat out. 🐈
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What about the dog 🐶 or🐭 maybe whilst singing 🎤 i don't care....could he manage that?
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I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
You aren't being inconsiderate by taking charge so take that poor excuse away. Don't call yourself decent just because you like to be more passive. That makes the rest of us indecent? Pft.
She would let you know if what you want was an issue for her. You didn't show her what you wanted. You didn't show her you were capable of it.
You'll learn for the next one.
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Why are you taking this so personally? I never said "decent" as opposed to women being indecent. I meant it as not cheating, respectful, affectionate, willing to put in the work to make a relationship work, putting her first (That's another debate).
Passive isn't on my agenda when I'm in a relationship.
But other than that you have a point and I'll learn for the next one.
Most women be like
"I want a dominant man" "i want the man to be in charge/make decisions/lead the relationship"
In English: "I'm lazy af and something of a starfish."
Of course you want a "dominant" man. 🙄
obviously! I am fine with being lazy.
Thank you
The point is women like to be cared for, even if they can care for themselves. They need to know a man can hold his own
nobody wants to be with a child/baby, codependent partner
Nope that's not really what's discussed here.
But yeah I think I want a dominant woman.. so I can be physically/mentally lazy in my relationship and let her pull all the strings. Life of a starfish sounds sweet .
Also submissive = lack of imagination IME.
What kind of relationship do you have? What's your woman's moon sign anyways?
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I wasn't talking about my relationship.
But she's a Scorpio moon. We're def both dominant in nature. We've ceetainly heard 'How can you two get along' once or twice..
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
First of all, why are you referring to yourself as "decent"? Why are you talking about yourself in such a derogatory sense?
Your ex and you were not compatible. That is all. That doesn't mean you failed as a man. I hate when women emasculate men in this fashion, just because they lack whatever trait they think their male counterpart is suppose to have in order to be "dominant". This happens with women as well. It annoys me, that instead of the other party just admitting that what they need from the partner is lacking for themselves, they would rather make their partner feel less than worthy.
Just because you lacked whatever trait she requires from a partner, doesn't mean you are less than a man. You are man enough for many other women, that will appreciate that you want their input when it comes to relationships decision making. Quite honestly, I would hate a partner that forced his "will" on me when it comes to that. That is not strength to me. That is misogyny to me.
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Calling myself "decent" is derogatory?
I don't know. Men have such a bad image in so many women's minds that I consider myself a decent man, and a decent human being in general. But that's in regards to how I treat women and people in general.
But I appreciate the pep talk, it was an incompatibility issue all along but one can't call it quits and not try to learn something from a life experience so important. Hence this topic. There are definitely women that suit me better (maybe on dxp haha).
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
Women are so complicated huh? Lol
I think it would be pretty inconsiderate to not take your partner in consideration when making big life decisions. What you listed is
pretty normal and called being respectful. I have difficulties understanding women who want no say in these type of decisions. What's her moon sign?
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Her.moon sign is virgo
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
First of all, why are you referring to yourself as "decent"? Why are you talking about yourself in such a derogatory sense?
Your ex and you were not compatible. That is all. That doesn't mean you failed as a man. I hate when women emasculate men in this fashion, just because they lack whatever trait they think their male counterpart is suppose to have in order to be "dominant". This happens with women as well. It annoys me, that instead of the other party just admitting that what they need from the partner is lacking for themselves, they would rather make their partner feel less than worthy.
Just because you lacked whatever trait she requires from a partner, doesn't mean you are less than a man. You are man enough for many other women, that will appreciate that you want their input when it comes to relationships decision making. Quite honestly, I would hate a partner that forced his "will" on me when it comes to that. That is not strength to me. That is misogyny to me.
Calling myself "decent" is derogatory?
I don't know. Men have such a bad image in so many women's minds that I consider myself a decent man, and a decent human being in general. But that's in regards to how I treat women and people in general.
But I appreciate the pep talk, it was an incompatibility issue all along but one can't call it quits and not try to learn something from a life experience so important. Hence this topic. There are definitely women that suit me better (maybe on dxp haha).
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Decent is another adjective for mediocre.
Every person has greatness in them. Just as they have flaws. Being attentive to a partner's needs is not decent by any stretch of the imagination. There are a good amount of women that find your traits far from decent, but great.
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
First of all, why are you referring to yourself as "decent"? Why are you talking about yourself in such a derogatory sense?
Your ex and you were not compatible. That is all. That doesn't mean you failed as a man. I hate when women emasculate men in this fashion, just because they lack whatever trait they think their male counterpart is suppose to have in order to be "dominant". This happens with women as well. It annoys me, that instead of the other party just admitting that what they need from the partner is lacking for themselves, they would rather make their partner feel less than worthy.
Just because you lacked whatever trait she requires from a partner, doesn't mean you are less than a man. You are man enough for many other women, that will appreciate that you want their input when it comes to relationships decision making. Quite honestly, I would hate a partner that forced his "will" on me when it comes to that. That is not strength to me. That is misogyny to me.
Calling myself "decent" is derogatory?
I don't know. Men have such a bad image in so many women's minds that I consider myself a decent man, and a decent human being in general. But that's in regards to how I treat women and people in general.
But I appreciate the pep talk, it was an incompatibility issue all along but one can't call it quits and not try to learn something from a life experience so important. Hence this topic. There are definitely women that suit me better (maybe on dxp haha).
Decent is another adjective for mediocre.
Every person has greatness in them. Just as they have flaws. Being attentive to a partner's needs is not decent by any stretch of the imagination. There are a good amount of women that find your traits far from decent, but great.
I missed the memo about decent being an insult?
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Decent equates to be satisfactory. In other words ho hum. It's okay. It's alright. It'll do.
That adjective is so mundane when describing oneself.
"Ya he/she is decent looking." It is not an adjective people typically use in a positive sense.
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
First of all, why are you referring to yourself as "decent"? Why are you talking about yourself in such a derogatory sense?
Your ex and you were not compatible. That is all. That doesn't mean you failed as a man. I hate when women emasculate men in this fashion, just because they lack whatever trait they think their male counterpart is suppose to have in order to be "dominant". This happens with women as well. It annoys me, that instead of the other party just admitting that what they need from the partner is lacking for themselves, they would rather make their partner feel less than worthy.
Just because you lacked whatever trait she requires from a partner, doesn't mean you are less than a man. You are man enough for many other women, that will appreciate that you want their input when it comes to relationships decision making. Quite honestly, I would hate a partner that forced his "will" on me when it comes to that. That is not strength to me. That is misogyny to me.
Calling myself "decent" is derogatory?
I don't know. Men have such a bad image in so many women's minds that I consider myself a decent man, and a decent human being in general. But that's in regards to how I treat women and people in general.
But I appreciate the pep talk, it was an incompatibility issue all along but one can't call it quits and not try to learn something from a life experience so important. Hence this topic. There are definitely women that suit me better (maybe on dxp haha).
Decent is another adjective for mediocre.
Every person has greatness in them. Just as they have flaws. Being attentive to a partner's needs is not decent by any stretch of the imagination. There are a good amount of women that find your traits far from decent, but great.
I missed the memo about decent being an insult?
Decent equates to be satisfactory. In other words ho hum. It's okay. It's alright. It'll do.
That adjective is so mundane when describing oneself.
"Ya he/she is decent looking." It is not an adjective people typically use in a positive sense.
Thank you. People want to be “amazing, spectacular, great”
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Most people have some trait that is "amazing" in my opinion.
Even the people I detest have something I view as good and amazing. They just have more shittiness. Lol
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
First of all, why are you referring to yourself as "decent"? Why are you talking about yourself in such a derogatory sense?
Your ex and you were not compatible. That is all. That doesn't mean you failed as a man. I hate when women emasculate men in this fashion, just because they lack whatever trait they think their male counterpart is suppose to have in order to be "dominant". This happens with women as well. It annoys me, that instead of the other party just admitting that what they need from the partner is lacking for themselves, they would rather make their partner feel less than worthy.
Just because you lacked whatever trait she requires from a partner, doesn't mean you are less than a man. You are man enough for many other women, that will appreciate that you want their input when it comes to relationships decision making. Quite honestly, I would hate a partner that forced his "will" on me when it comes to that. That is not strength to me. That is misogyny to me.
Calling myself "decent" is derogatory?
I don't know. Men have such a bad image in so many women's minds that I consider myself a decent man, and a decent human being in general. But that's in regards to how I treat women and people in general.
But I appreciate the pep talk, it was an incompatibility issue all along but one can't call it quits and not try to learn something from a life experience so important. Hence this topic. There are definitely women that suit me better (maybe on dxp haha).
Decent is another adjective for mediocre.
Every person has greatness in them. Just as they have flaws. Being attentive to a partner's needs is not decent by any stretch of the imagination. There are a good amount of women that find your traits far from decent, but great.
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Okay I see it now!
It's not what I had in mind but i see what you mean. And it's kind of true.
But if you attach it to a sense of decency towards others. Different story. which is how I meant it.
But yeah otherwise I am amazing haha
I haven't read all the posts in the thread so maybe you already answered but I'm confused of what she wanted. Did she want you to make all decisions?
You can treat someone as an equal and still be dominant and manly. One thing doesn't rule out the other.
Not every decision but she did want me to take charge of some big picture life goals that were too complex for me to move quickly with or go forward with without taking her into account. And maybe I took her too much into consideration and should have gone forward more.
But I guess she did want a better balance between being the manly figure and keeping a balance in the relationship. I think for us decent men it's tough to strike a balance between the 2. You don't want to be an inconsiderate douchebag and don't want to be too soft either.
And Women want attention and care too!
You aren't being inconsiderate by taking charge so take that poor excuse away. Don't call yourself decent just because you like to be more passive. That makes the rest of us indecent? Pft.
She would let you know if what you want was an issue for her. You didn't show her what you wanted. You didn't show her you were capable of it.
You'll learn for the next one.
Why are you taking this so personally? I never said "decent" as opposed to women being indecent. I meant it as not cheating, respectful, affectionate, willing to put in the work to make a relationship work, putting her first (That's another debate).
Passive isn't on my agenda when I'm in a relationship.
But other than that you have a point and I'll learn for the next one.
I didn't say women were indecent.
How did you get to that? 🤔
All those things you listed are possible to do whilst being the one in charge.
You sound inexperienced.
Go date more.
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Hahaha I thought you were a woman and meant decent men vs indecent women.
Well did I say "I, only decent man on this planet"? No I just said I'm part of the ones who try to be good.
Thanks for the advice, dating guru. I will now go and date more
Tell em to wash the dishes to see how "traditional" are they 😂
I like doing the dishes 😄 does that make me submissive? 😜
You're a fair woman then 😄😄😄
But I know you are submissive 😄😄😄😜💕
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Haha 😜 you know me best 💕
I like the relationship to be pretty igual with lots of love and respect for each other, but I like my man to lead the relationship, be very confident in what he wants and to be dominant in the bedroom.
I am submissive, but I am equally strong and I will put my foot down in lots of things.
Tell em to wash the dishes to see how "traditional" are they 😂
I like doing the dishes 😄 does that make me submissive? 😜
You're a fair woman then 😄😄😄
But I know you are submissive 😄😄😄😜💕
Haha 😜 you know me best 💕
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😘💕😍
A man being manly and a women being feminine..equal give and take respect love and trust. Make each other laugh. Be friends as much as lovers. Perfect lol x
I only read the first page. I think a lot of the answers are good. It sucks that it took that long to realize you can't make it work. So I'm sorry. Men and women are good at different things and of course can cross over tasks - we were meant to work together; not to necessarily dominate each other. However, I do like a man who is more confident (dominant) because he knows his stuff. I know a lot of stuff too so he should take my point of view / wishes into consideration as well.
I only read the first page. I think a lot of the answers are good. It sucks that it took that long to realize you can't make it work. So I'm sorry. Men and women are good at different things and of course can cross over tasks - we were meant to work together; not to necessarily dominate each other. However, I do like a man who is more confident (dominant) because he knows his stuff. I know a lot of stuff too so he should take my point of view / wishes into consideration as well.
One of the best answers.
I only read the first page. I think a lot of the answers are good. It sucks that it took that long to realize you can't make it work. So I'm sorry. Men and women are good at different things and of course can cross over tasks - we were meant to work together; not to necessarily dominate each other. However, I do like a man who is more confident (dominant) because he knows his stuff. I know a lot of stuff too so he should take my point of view / wishes into consideration as well.
One of the best answers.
I only read the first page. I think a lot of the answers are good. It sucks that it took that long to realize you can't make it work. So I'm sorry. Men and women are good at different things and of course can cross over tasks - we were meant to work together; not to necessarily dominate each other. However, I do like a man who is more confident (dominant) because he knows his stuff. I know a lot of stuff too so he should take my point of view / wishes into consideration as well.
One of the best answers.
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it's about respect no matter what or it just won't happen
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