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Posted by P-Angel
It's because of these types of women (with no morals) that men continue to believe it's ok to treat a woman like his personal whore.
Let's merge P'Angels threads. We get:
"It's because of these types of women (with high morals) that men do not have to suffer rejection on a constant basis."
Helping someone is a moral act, indeed!
That was from the delightful thread Scorpios and Casual sex: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpios-and-casual-sex-1113115/
I haven't read it in its entire splendor, yet it probably concluded that Scorpios can't do casual sex. No surprises there or here.
As for P- A, Pisces are always good for a surprise 🙂!
Mutable water versus fixed water.
I haven't read it in its entire splendor, yet it probably concluded that Scorpios can't do casual sex. No surprises there or here.
As for P- A, Pisces are always good for a surprise 🙂!
Mutable water versus fixed water.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
At this point, this thread is nothing but archaic views on women vs modern views.
Or Scorpios against the world.
Posted by starloverPosted by UndinePosted by rockyroadicecream
At this point, this thread is nothing but archaic views on women vs modern views.
Or Scorpios against the world.
eff all to do with archaic v modernism, it is to do with connection to oneself and respect...that is timeless ladies
also who wants to risk getting herpes and worse (now well known those diseases are contagious even with the use of a condom.....nice)!
🙂click to expand
...... and don't cross the street because you may get be run over too!
Psssssssst (whispering voice).............Having a good long term FWB saves you from kissing all those frogs from a dating site!
Posted by starlover
I also have 5 planets in Scorp 😛 and mars and moon in taurus ... aries risng
my sexual appetite is voracious .... only met one guy that could satisfy me and i knackered him up 😄
...dont mean i am gonna engage in casual sex though
i have a deep emotional connection to myself and realise that my *treasure* is sacred and not for the taking
am leaving that kinda sex to the skanks
🙂
That's why I love you 😉.
Did you mean...the sharks?
Posted by starlover
sorry...it may be a british word...you can use it now 😄
No, I can't! I live in the UK 🙂.
Posted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89
I have a mars in scorpio. I'm so glad I didn't turn out like you guys when it comes to sex.
Ahhhh, but tell us what makes you so special.
Nothing. I'm just glad I see people outside of their choices. If anything I'm sure you're " special " so dark and deep ^_^ us shallow people can't compete 😄click to expand
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89
I have a mars in scorpio. I'm so glad I didn't turn out like you guys when it comes to sex.
Ahhhh, but tell us what makes you so special.
Nothing. I'm just glad I see people outside of their choices. If anything I'm sure you're " special " so dark and deep ^_^ us shallow people can't compete 😄
So deep!!!
Posted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Been there, done that. Enjoy it as it lasts.
FWB is not about random men. It's about something very special when you don't want the engagement (or what follows-attention, spoilers alert!)
Posted by UndinePosted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Been there, done that. Enjoy it as it lasts.
FWB is not about random men. It's about something very special when you don't want the engagement (or what follows-attention, spoilers alert!)click to expand
While it lasts? Seriously?
Idk about your approach or your mindset, but I'm planning on "till death do us apart" with him. Otherwise, why would we marry?
Posted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Congratulations on your engagement, munchkin.
You have the right attitude. No doubt that you are aware that there will always be challenges
hurled at the both of you, like it does all marriages. Sometimes, those challenges can be
extreme, in the extreme. You or him will have to be strong. Sometimes, those challenges can
be so severe you just want to give up.
Remember this, always: Such challenging times as hardships, be they financial, physical, mental, emotional or spiritual, are times of testing, trials and tribulation - Purification as it were. Like the finest pure gold, tried in the fire, it's worth does not come until it has been proven. - that is what a STRONG... TRUE LOVE marriage, is like.
Both of you must fully grasp that concept. If and when you do, you will discover the mindboggling
spiritual side of marriage, the likes of which, these women who promote FWB, cannot begin to understand
and therefore attack those that do hold themselves up higher standards of honor and self-respect.
Sincere best wishes.
I am at peace. 🙂
Posted by munchkinPosted by UndinePosted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Been there, done that. Enjoy it as it lasts.
FWB is not about random men. It's about something very special when you don't want the engagement (or what follows-attention, spoilers alert!)
While it lasts? Seriously?
Idk about your approach or your mindset, but I'm planning on "till death do us apart" with him. Otherwise, why would we marry?click to expand
It's really all the same. It's all about a connection to a human. When you say "marriage " "fwbs " it's just a box and label for it. But in the end it's all about trying to connect in some way.
Like do you understand your husband will not only find you attractive?
^^^ Stupid. Ya can't fix it.
That's like someone who doesn't know how to wire a lamp and does it wrong and plugs it in.
ZAP!
And they wonder why that happened.
That's like someone who doesn't know how to wire a lamp and does it wrong and plugs it in.
ZAP!
And they wonder why that happened.
I don't mean that in a mean way, you just sound like alot of people that has that identity attachment thing going on. I'd encourage to still be able to see past it. Nothing is wrong w marriage though.
Posted by MrFirebird
^^^ Stupid. Ya can't fix it.
That's like someone who doesn't know how to wire a lamp and does it wrong and plugs it in.
ZAP!
And they wonder why that happened.
Lol you are one of those people firebird. Nothing is wrong with it. I'm just saying.
Posted by Sag89
I don't mean that in a mean way, you just sound like alot of people that has that identity attachment thing going on. I'd encourage to still be able to see past it. Nothing is wrong w marriage though.
ROTFLOL "identity attachment"
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89
I don't mean that in a mean way, you just sound like alot of people that has that identity attachment thing going on. I'd encourage to still be able to see past it. Nothing is wrong w marriage though.
ROTFLOL "identity attachment"click to expand
Yea look it up.
Posted by size zero superheroPosted by munchkinPosted by UndinePosted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Been there, done that. Enjoy it as it lasts.
FWB is not about random men. It's about something very special when you don't want the engagement (or what follows-attention, spoilers alert!)
While it lasts? Seriously?
Idk about your approach or your mindset, but I'm planning on "till death do us apart" with him. Otherwise, why would we marry?
The growing several hundred millions of divorcees out there today initially married with these very intentions in mind, for the most part.
$ h.t happens, which I don't need to remind anyone, and clearly mortality isn't the only feasible force capable of dividing spouses--despite that "death do us part" is emphasized in most weddings.
Granted, I'm reciting general truths rather than applying them to you, or any individual entity. For all I know(and hopefully so)you & your fiance WILL be among the decreasing # of couples that remain wedded for good. Skyrocketing divorce rates shouldn't be enough to singlehandedly discourage future marriages; that definitely isn't my mission statement.
All I'm trying to say here is when marriages flop, this often happens due to unforeseen factors--dissolution of love/compatibility, betrayal, major conflict of interest etc--and not because those who become ex-husbands&wives were inadequately determined to succeed in marriage in the first place.
click to expand
It ties into that ^^
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Congratulations on your engagement, munchkin.
You have the right attitude. No doubt that you are aware that there will always be challenges
hurled at the both of you, like it does all marriages. Sometimes, those challenges can be
extreme, in the extreme. You or him will have to be strong. Sometimes, those challenges can
be so severe you just want to give up.
Remember this, always: Such challenging times as hardships, be they financial, physical, mental, emotional or spiritual, are times of testing, trials and tribulation - Purification as it were. Like the finest pure gold, tried in the fire, it's worth does not come until it has been proven. - that is what a STRONG... TRUE LOVE marriage, is like.
Both of you must fully grasp that concept. If and when you do, you will discover the mindboggling
spiritual side of marriage, the likes of which, these women who promote FWB, cannot begin to understand
and therefore attack those that do hold themselves up higher standards of honor and self-respect.
Sincere best wishes.
I am at peace. 🙂click to expand
Thank you. 🙂 Those are definitely wise words, and my fianc? and I have vowed exactly those things. We even wrote it down, as well as our go-to brainstorming list for when challenges arise, and also what we love about each other (and we keep adding to it).
He actually suggested it, and I thought it was brilliant! That way, when challenges come up, we have our "Bible" to guide us to solutions, rather than drowning in the heat of the moment.
Some people might think it's overkill, but maybe if more people were willing to invest beforehand, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high.
lol..
Posted by LetltBPosted by rockyroadicecream
At this point, this thread is nothing but archaic views on women vs modern views.
That's what men who LOOOOVVVVE FWB are brainwashing some women with. Looks like you fell hook line and sinker.click to expand
If you dislike the idea yourself, fine.
But you sound like an absolute dipshit when you shove your idealogies onto others as THE authority on the matter.
And while I don't owe YOUR judgemental ass any explanation, my situation is incredibly vice versa. He has no idea I was only keeping HIM around for sex.
But go ahead with your narrow mindedness in pegging your entire gender for being so brainwashed easily. You should be ashamed of yourself. The rest of your posts encourage women not to get sucked into the usual bs of dating, but in an area where there ARE women who know wtf they're doing and how to handle these things, you slut shame and assume all women who take part in this cannot think for themselves and continue to victimize them.
It's not your vag, so simmer down already. Kthx.
Given your absolute vehement outrage one could assume you had an incredibly bad experience with this shit, or at least someone you know did. If not, wtf ever. Regardless, you need to get the hell over yourself and judging what others do with THEIR bodies. It's not your vag, it's not your life. Just worry about yours.
Posted by munchkinPosted by UndinePosted by munchkin
Gotta agree with the OP.
I don't see how women can just make light of random men going inside their bodies.
Call me a prude, archaic or whatever, but to me, that's the 9th circle of trust and intimacy.
I'm engaged to a man I love, who loves me, and sex to us is something special, treasured, and never taken for granted.
And when in a loving relationship, both partners continuously learn about each other and make the experience better and better.
Maybe these women promoting FWB consider me boring, but I definitely am fulfilled. What more could I want? 🙂
Been there, done that. Enjoy it as it lasts.
FWB is not about random men. It's about something very special when you don't want the engagement (or what follows-attention, spoilers alert!)
While it lasts? Seriously?
Idk about your approach or your mindset, but I'm planning on "till death do us apart" with him. Otherwise, why would we marry?click to expand
You still don't get it. What you plan now could be irrelevant in a few years down the line (or down the drain 🙂).
Did you girls notice what's going on this thread?
A handful of women who had a FWB and liked it, versus a handful of people who never tried FWB. People who know what they are talking about versus people who don't have a clue.
It's like me saying I've been to Philippines and it's a fascinating country and someone else disagreeing with me. A few minutes into the debate, you realize that the other person not only has no idea what Philippines is like, but they thought you were talking about Philadelphia 🙂🙂🙂!
A handful of women who had a FWB and liked it, versus a handful of people who never tried FWB. People who know what they are talking about versus people who don't have a clue.
It's like me saying I've been to Philippines and it's a fascinating country and someone else disagreeing with me. A few minutes into the debate, you realize that the other person not only has no idea what Philippines is like, but they thought you were talking about Philadelphia 🙂🙂🙂!
I dunno why but If I new someone was just going to leave me after they had sex with me I wouldn't be very motivated...
I know not being down with FWB is not very Aqua of me ^.^
That movie "Friends With Benefits" is so Aqua though! Hell its played by Justin Timberlake an Aqua with a Leo girl forget her name. Can't get more genuine aqua love then that there. Ladies want to learn some Aqua should watch that movie no matter how shallow or conceded you may or may not think Justin Timberlake is.
For me .... I really don't think I would do it... But maybe for the right girl as ass backwards as that sounds.
I know not being down with FWB is not very Aqua of me ^.^
That movie "Friends With Benefits" is so Aqua though! Hell its played by Justin Timberlake an Aqua with a Leo girl forget her name. Can't get more genuine aqua love then that there. Ladies want to learn some Aqua should watch that movie no matter how shallow or conceded you may or may not think Justin Timberlake is.
For me .... I really don't think I would do it... But maybe for the right girl as ass backwards as that sounds.
FWB
Explained for dummies 🙂:
It's a mutually satisfying relationship between two single adults. Sex is only a part of it. The adults often behave like boyfriends/girlfriends, the main difference being that FWB is time limited. Unlike marriage or prostitution, there is no money exchange following separation.
Unlike marriage and its high adultery risk, FWB is almost always an exclusive relationship, because of its rarity. The rarity is due to the fact that when it comes to sex, most women prefer the deal with money exchange at the end, aka marriage or prostitution. FWB is almost always exclusive also because the sex is fresh, and therefore honey moon-like.
FWB IS NOT CASUAL SEX, IT IS AN AGREEMENT BETWEEN TWO INDIVIDUALS TO HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER OVER A CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME.
There is less danger of contacting an STD in a FWB than in a marriage. This is because women in FWB insist upon using protection (and get what they want, otherwise there is no FWB). In contrast, women in marriageS don't know when their man is going to have a "spontaneous" fling and bring home an STD.
Explained for dummies 🙂:
It's a mutually satisfying relationship between two single adults. Sex is only a part of it. The adults often behave like boyfriends/girlfriends, the main difference being that FWB is time limited. Unlike marriage or prostitution, there is no money exchange following separation.
Unlike marriage and its high adultery risk, FWB is almost always an exclusive relationship, because of its rarity. The rarity is due to the fact that when it comes to sex, most women prefer the deal with money exchange at the end, aka marriage or prostitution. FWB is almost always exclusive also because the sex is fresh, and therefore honey moon-like.
FWB IS NOT CASUAL SEX, IT IS AN AGREEMENT BETWEEN TWO INDIVIDUALS TO HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER OVER A CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME.
There is less danger of contacting an STD in a FWB than in a marriage. This is because women in FWB insist upon using protection (and get what they want, otherwise there is no FWB). In contrast, women in marriageS don't know when their man is going to have a "spontaneous" fling and bring home an STD.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I dunno why but If I new someone was just going to leave me after they had sex with me I wouldn't be very motivated...
I know not being down with FWB is not very Aqua of me ^.^
That movie "Friends With Benefits" is so Aqua though! Hell its played by Justin Timberlake an Aqua with a Leo girl forget her name. Can't get more genuine aqua love then that there. Ladies want to learn some Aqua should watch that movie no matter how shallow or conceded you may or may not think Justin Timberlake is.
For me .... I really don't think I would do it... But maybe for the right girl as ass backwards as that sounds.
LOL!! I should have watched that movie before entering what I thought it was a committed relationship with an Aqua last spring. It turned out that the commitment part was only in my head.
It lasted only 6-7 months, twice less than my FWB. Also, my ex-FWB is till texting me everyday, while my ex-"love" Aqua apparently vanished from the earth face 🙂.
Posted by tizianiPosted by Undine
FWB
Explained for dummies 🙂:
It's a mutually satisfying relationship between two single adults. Sex is only a part of it. The adults often behave like boyfriends/girlfriends, the main difference being that FWB is time limited. Unlike marriage or prostitution, there is no money exchange following separation.
Unlike marriage and its high adultery risk, FWB is almost always an exclusive relationship, because of its rarity. The rarity is due to the fact that when it comes to sex, most women prefer the deal with money exchange at the end, aka marriage or prostitution. FWB is almost always exclusive also because the sex is fresh, and therefore honey moon-like.
FWB IS NOT CASUAL SEX, IT IS AN AGREEMENT BETWEEN TWO INDIVIDUALS TO HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER OVER A CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME.
There is less danger of contacting an STD in a FWB than in a marriage. This is because women in FWB insist upon using protection (and get what they want, otherwise there is no FWB). In contrast, women in marriageS don't know when their man is going to have a "spontaneous" fling and bring home an STD.
Aha you're using The Fear to get to people. A practitioner in the dark arts.click to expand
* no time to google "the Fear". You'd better explain it, Tiz 🙂*
One always have to compare the new with the old, to explain the "new" better. Besides, it's good to have healthy doubts about everything. Just don't let those doubts rule your life, once you decide your way forward, Tiz.
*one always has*
Posted by tizianiPosted by Undine
One always have to compare the new with the old, to explain the "new" better. Besides, it's good to have healthy doubts about everything. Just don't let those doubts rule your life, once you decide your way forward, Tiz.
Yeah you know, funny you should say this after the week I've had. Been personally working through that very issue myself.click to expand
I could sense that in you, as a double Pisces 🙂.
I like this topic a lot .... we can now clearly see who people really are (from both genders, apparently).
How could one benefit, if they were broken up ?
Again, promiscuity, ignorance and lack of protection is what facilitates the spread of STDs. None of these is characteristic of FWB.
Again, promiscuity, ignorance and lack of protection is what facilitates the spread of STDs. None of these is characteristic of FWB.
Posted by UndinePosted by P-Angel
It's because of these types of women (with no morals) that men continue to believe it's ok to treat a woman like his personal whore.
Let's merge P'Angels threads. We get:
"It's because of these types of women (with high morals) that men do not have to suffer rejection on a constant basis."
Helping someone is a moral act, indeed!click to expand
Of course we can see who the real people are, P 🙂! Example above.
*how people really are*
Posted by starlover
Friends with benefits
*********************
Two friends who have a sexual realtionship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogomous relationship or any kind of commitment
casual sex, no monogamy, no emotional involvement ~~ great if you are a robot i guess?
would rather keep my legs (and heart) closed than live this way
uughh
You are making progress in understanding, though 🙂!
Forgot to translate it:
The life of a woman in 3 photos.
The life of a man in 3 photos.
The life of a woman in 3 photos.
The life of a man in 3 photos.
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