
LetltB
@LetltB
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Posted by size zero superheroPosted by LetltB
Nope..you missed the boat on my point. You're a Libra..no time for you.
No hard feelings, potna'click to expand

Posted by Undine
Aren't you a Scorpio?! WHAT"S WRONG WITH YOU—??


Posted by size zero superheroPosted by LetltB
Nope..you missed the boat on my point. You're a Libra..no time for you.
No hard feelings, potna'click to expand

MY MOUTH AND MY OPINION!
SKANKS!!1



Posted by MrFirebird
undine, sag89, size zero superhero and rocky road,
From your comments, it's very apparent that each of you really don't understand squat about what sex, friendships, marital relationships and commitment and........ mutual respect and self respect are truly all about.
You have scorned people who value higher standards of morals, ethics and integrity, who strive for perfection and who have a much higher self-respect, and self-control, themselves. Mind you, that these people "can" include your own parents, grandparents and ancestors who are the source of
your existence.
Instead, forsaking wisdom and embracing foolishness, you have glamorized a life style that, you "think", is best and right for you, but a choice which is totally ignorant of what severe consequences may come.
Lest you stop and consider the wisdom being offered time and again, concerning this matter, you will surely learn what these consequences are when your calamities come upon you suddenly and without warning, the nature of which, as diverse as the stars and unforgiving.
In that day, you cannot say that no one warned you.

Posted by size zero superhero
*Something tells me you & those of a similar mindset, aren't itching to pack up & assimilate into those cultures(certainly not if you're female).




Posted by LetltB
@sag..I don't know where you were going with one of your deleted threads, didn't get a chance to read but reminded me of something I saw the other day..
Better To Be Treated Like butter Than Alone!!
This topic has been removed by Sag89(topic creator).


Posted by Sag89
It was a funny video about how if people said they were in a relationship, people like you would automatically praise them even if their boyfriend treated them like shit.
Cause if you have a relationship you must respect yourself! No one can disrespect themselves in a relationship! Only when they are sleeping around!

Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89
It was a funny video about how if people said they were in a relationship, people like you would automatically praise them even if their boyfriend treated them like shit.
Cause if you have a relationship you must respect yourself! No one can disrespect themselves in a relationship! Only when they are sleeping around!
Your grasping. 99% of my posts are directed to women in dxp asking "what the hell are you doing—"
when they remain with assholes who treat them like shit. I don't need a relationship to respect my self. That's the difference between women like me and women like you. Needy is not in my vocabulary.
I respect myself at all times as well as those who treat me with respect. Anything short of that..fuck off. Yep..black and white. No gray area allowed in that department.click to expand




Posted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebird
undine, sag89, size zero superhero and rocky road,
From your comments, it's very apparent that each of you really don't understand squat about what sex, friendships, marital relationships and commitment and........ mutual respect and self respect are truly all about.
You have scorned people who value higher standards of morals, ethics and integrity, who strive for perfection and who have a much higher self-respect, and self-control, themselves. Mind you, that these people "can" include your own parents, grandparents and ancestors who are the source of
your existence.
Instead, forsaking wisdom and embracing foolishness, you have glamorized a life style that, you "think", is best and right for you, but a choice which is totally ignorant of what severe consequences may come.
Lest you stop and consider the wisdom being offered time and again, concerning this matter, you will surely learn what these consequences are when your calamities come upon you suddenly and without warning, the nature of which, as diverse as the stars and unforgiving.
In that day, you cannot say that no one warned you.
I've been through good or bad experience that could come out of casual sex or fwbs. I don't need you're "warnings " miss cleo.
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Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebird
undine, sag89, size zero superhero and rocky road,
From your comments, it's very apparent that each of you really don't understand squat about what sex, friendships, marital relationships and commitment and........ mutual respect and self respect are truly all about.
You have scorned people who value higher standards of morals, ethics and integrity, who strive for perfection and who have a much higher self-respect, and self-control, themselves. Mind you, that these people "can" include your own parents, grandparents and ancestors who are the source of
your existence.
Instead, forsaking wisdom and embracing foolishness, you have glamorized a life style that, you "think", is best and right for you, but a choice which is totally ignorant of what severe consequences may come.
Lest you stop and consider the wisdom being offered time and again, concerning this matter, you will surely learn what these consequences are when your calamities come upon you suddenly and without warning, the nature of which, as diverse as the stars and unforgiving.
In that day, you cannot say that no one warned you.
I've been through good or bad experience that could come out of casual sex or fwbs. I don't need you're "warnings " miss cleo.
You ain't seen nothin', yet, child.
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Posted by Sag89Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89
It was a funny video about how if people said they were in a relationship, people like you would automatically praise them even if their boyfriend treated them like shit.
Cause if you have a relationship you must respect yourself! No one can disrespect themselves in a relationship! Only when they are sleeping around!
Your grasping. 99% of my posts are directed to women in dxp asking "what the hell are you doing—"
when they remain with assholes who treat them like shit. I don't need a relationship to respect my self. That's the difference between women like me and women like you. Needy is not in my vocabulary.
I respect myself at all times as well as those who treat me with respect. Anything short of that..fuck off. Yep..black and white. No gray area allowed in that department.
I don't even have a boyfriend. I've been single for like a year and a half now. I'm 24 years old. Sometimes I get horny and I go out and have sex. BFD. You are needy. You need a mans approval so bad that you lower yourself to thinking that your sexuality defines you and your self esteem. While I simply don't. If a guy doesn't want to be with me because I've had casual sex or fwb in the course of my life HIS problem. Anyone who wants to define me by that, shallow fucker that I won't be taking seriously.
That is just how I feel about it.
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Posted by starlover
I was talking to a group of young guys the other night who told me they went for older women, as the younger ones were too easy and also quite clueless in the way they behaved.
Men will always look for women who think highly of themselves and dont put it about
It was always the case and always will be
Guys know they can do the fwb thing or have casual sex anytime but it rarely means much and they probably on some level lose utter respect for those girls that partake in it

Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89Posted by LetltBPosted by Sag89
It was a funny video about how if people said they were in a relationship, people like you would automatically praise them even if their boyfriend treated them like shit.
Cause if you have a relationship you must respect yourself! No one can disrespect themselves in a relationship! Only when they are sleeping around!
Your grasping. 99% of my posts are directed to women in dxp asking "what the hell are you doing—"
when they remain with assholes who treat them like shit. I don't need a relationship to respect my self. That's the difference between women like me and women like you. Needy is not in my vocabulary.
I respect myself at all times as well as those who treat me with respect. Anything short of that..fuck off. Yep..black and white. No gray area allowed in that department.
I don't even have a boyfriend. I've been single for like a year and a half now. I'm 24 years old. Sometimes I get horny and I go out and have sex. BFD. You are needy. You need a mans approval so bad that you lower yourself to thinking that your sexuality defines you and your self esteem. While I simply don't. If a guy doesn't want to be with me because I've had casual sex or fwb in the course of my life HIS problem. Anyone who wants to define me by that, shallow fucker that I won't be taking seriously.
That is just how I feel about it.
"I'm 24 years old." (I know all things)
"I don't even have a boyfriend."
"Sometimes I get horny and I go out and have sex."
"You need a mans approval so bad that you lower yourself to thinking that your sexuality defines you and your self esteem. While I simply don't."
"If a guy doesn't want to be with me because I've had casual sex or fwb in the course of my life HIS problem."
hmmmm new topic titles!
When you don't know what to call your thread, just recycle these for the topic title.
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Posted by Undine
What people fail to acknowledge is that what we call boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is actually a glorified FWB.
Especially when "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" are not sharing their life by living together. Meaning they are not yet committed (to a life together).
If you read dxpnet, you'll discover that many FWB lasted far longer than so-called boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Did any of you wonder why? Because FWB are more honest about their desire to make (or not) that particular relationship a long term one, so there are no false expectations to begin with.
FWB is an often exclusive, yet not committed relationship, expected to last a certain period of time. For example, till one moves town or state.
In a busy, over-populated world in which both men and women are taking pride in their life style , independence and career choices, FWB (or however the term may change) IS THE FUTURE!

Posted by size zero superheroPosted by starlover
I was talking to a group of young guys the other night who told me they went for older women, as the younger ones were too easy and also quite clueless in the way they behaved.
Men will always look for women who think highly of themselves and dont put it about
It was always the case and always will be
Guys know they can do the fwb thing or have casual sex anytime but it rarely means much and they probably on some level lose utter respect for those girls that partake in it
And you were sold on such transparent pandering? LMAO that's extra-rich.
Posted by size zero superhero
You're explicitly justifying this behavior in males, yet the claws come out when rogue women are off doing *man things* and you feel the need to voice disapproval?
And I can't help but point out the irony of "on some level lose utter respect" versus the mention of youngins characteristically clueless nature.
Whatever's clever, I guess.click to expand

Posted by Sag89
You are needy. You need a mans approval so bad that you lower yourself to thinking that your sexuality defines you and your self esteem. While I simply don't. If a guy doesn't want to be with me because I've had casual sex or fwb in the course of my life HIS problem. Anyone who wants to define me by that, shallow fucker that I won't be taking seriously.
That is just how I feel about it.

Posted by starlover
I was talking to a group of young guys the other night who told me they went for older women, as the younger ones were too easy and also quite clueless in the way they behaved.
Men will always look for women who think highly of themselves and dont put it about
It was always the case and always will be
Guys know they can do the fwb thing or have casual sex anytime but it rarely means much and they probably on some level lose utter respect for those girls that partake in it

Posted by xcake
Somebody's bound to get hurt from a FWB arrangement, it's not always the female but the male as well. I think it's easier for females to be able to verbally express themselves than males who wished it was more than just a FWB. It would be seen as "weak" if a male discusses his feelings out in the open.


Posted by LetltBPosted by xcake
Somebody's bound to get hurt from a FWB arrangement, it's not always the female but the male as well. I think it's easier for females to be able to verbally express themselves than males who wished it was more than just a FWB. It would be seen as "weak" if a male discusses his feelings out in the open.
This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^is extremely rare and if we look at it a little more closely, it's the bad boys that fwb women want to compete with for the control game. Bad boys will play along every time and win in the end every time.click to expand

Posted by UndineThis thread is about what women want.
I grew up in a culture in which women are proud of their achievements and do not measure their value according to the reaction they trigger in the opposite sex. Is this not the case on your side of the ocean?

Posted by Undine
For every women disappointed by a FWB relationship, there will be 100000000 more women heartbroken during a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

Posted by Undine
Women who attract men for the purpose of financial security following marriage and potential lifelong alimony following divorce value themselves LESS than women who enter a FWB for their own sexual satisfaction when they are not interested in settling down and starting a family.


Posted by Undine
"But if it isn't true, then we assume that men want women who don't value themselves."
Who cares what men want? This thread is about what women want.
Women who attract men for the purpose of financial security following marriage and potential lifelong alimony following divorce value themselves LESS than women who enter a FWB for their own sexual satisfaction when they are not interested in settling down and starting a family.
I grew up in a culture in which women are proud of their achievements and do not measure their value according to the reaction they trigger in the opposite sex. Is this not the case on your side of the ocean?

Posted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89Posted by MrFirebird
undine, sag89, size zero superhero and rocky road,
From your comments, it's very apparent that each of you really don't understand squat about what sex, friendships, marital relationships and commitment and........ mutual respect and self respect are truly all about.
You have scorned people who value higher standards of morals, ethics and integrity, who strive for perfection and who have a much higher self-respect, and self-control, themselves. Mind you, that these people "can" include your own parents, grandparents and ancestors who are the source of
your existence.
Instead, forsaking wisdom and embracing foolishness, you have glamorized a life style that, you "think", is best and right for you, but a choice which is totally ignorant of what severe consequences may come.
Lest you stop and consider the wisdom being offered time and again, concerning this matter, you will surely learn what these consequences are when your calamities come upon you suddenly and without warning, the nature of which, as diverse as the stars and unforgiving.
In that day, you cannot say that no one warned you.
I've been through good or bad experience that could come out of casual sex or fwbs. I don't need you're "warnings " miss cleo.
You ain't seen nothin', yet, child.
You have no idea what i've been through or what I've seen it's way too much for my age as it is. stfu.click to expand


Posted by Sag89
I have a mars in scorpio. I'm so glad I didn't turn out like you guys when it comes to sex.



Posted by Sag89
I have a mars in scorpio. I'm so glad I didn't turn out like you guys when it comes to sex.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
At this point, this thread is nothing but archaic views on women vs modern views.


Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Undine
"But if it isn't true, then we assume that men want women who don't value themselves."
Who cares what men want? This thread is about what women want.
Women who attract men for the purpose of financial security following marriage and potential lifelong alimony following divorce value themselves LESS than women who enter a FWB for their own sexual satisfaction when they are not interested in settling down and starting a family.
I grew up in a culture in which women are proud of their achievements and do not measure their value according to the reaction they trigger in the opposite sex. Is this not the case on your side of the ocean?
So?
lol
Two things:
1. Are you afraid to quote me, properly, including my handle? Because you never do.
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Posted by starloverPosted by LetltBPosted by starlover
I was talking to a group of young guys the other night who told me they went for older women, as the younger ones were too easy and also quite clueless in the way they behaved.
Men will always look for women who think highly of themselves and dont put it about
It was always the case and always will be
Guys know they can do the fwb thing or have casual sex anytime but it rarely means much and they probably on some level lose utter respect for those girls that partake in it
+1 we must live on the same planet. Between my brothers and male friends, they say exactly what you just shared.
Yes indeed because it is true 🙂. Any woman who knows men, knows this 😉click to expand

Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Sag89
I have a mars in scorpio. I'm so glad I didn't turn out like you guys when it comes to sex.
Ahhhh, but tell us what makes you so special.click to expand
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