Have you had an ex try to come back into your life? How did they attempt it? Were they subtle or obvious about it? As always, what was their sign?
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Posted by nightowlWhat was his sign?
yeah..
well actually the first time I did break the contact and it worked, my ex asked for a second chance. second time he broke up with me and then he texts me sometimes and asks to see what's going in my life and trying to 'meet up'-pick up something like someone mentioned here xD.
both times it was subtle
Posted by WarAngel1
Scorps, with the simple: Hi, what you've been up to?
No truer words have been spoken ššš
I never responded to his advances that May, then a year later he hits me up on Facebook with that same āWhatāve you been up to *insert my name*?ā line ššš
Posted by WhorpioDid you respond the second time or continue to ignore it?Posted by WarAngel1
Scorps, with the simple: Hi, what you've been up to?
No truer words have been spoken ššš
I never responded to his advances that May, then a year later he hits me up on Facebook with that same āWhatāve you been up to *insert my name*?ā line šššclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornWhat were the signs of each person?
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
Posted by ChuckcemReached out via facebook lmao. They repsonded to a 5+ year old message of me wishing them the best in life. IMO obvious due to our past. ROFL
Have you had an ex try to come back into your life? How did they attempt it? Were they subtle or obvious about it? As always, what was their sign?
Cancer.
Posted by ChuckcemPosted by WhorpioPosted by WarAngel1
Scorps, with the simple: Hi, what you've been up to?
No truer words have been spoken ššš
I never responded to his advances that May, then a year later he hits me up on Facebook with that same āWhatāve you been up to *insert my name*?ā line ššš
Did you respond the second time or continue to ignore it?click to expand
When he hit me up in May this year? Yeah I responded. We fucked around for a couple months again, more times than we did in late 2015. It was š„š„
Taurus : still convinced weāre meant to be together. Still ft or call me once in a while over the last 4 years to talk butter . I ignore most of the time but sometime I take the bait for Gags
Aries : comes and talk about letās give us a try . When I donāt response as if Iām still head over heel he gets angry and disappear. After some time heāll come back and do the same thing . I act indifferent .. he gets mad , disappear .. repeat
Cancer : this is the guy Iām always with on n off . When we were doing that on n off thing . Heās break up with me and then come back promising the world . Even though I never say weāre back together in his head we are . So thatās usually how things fall back in place
Virgo n Capricorn : they come around . Talk to u to test the water in hope that thereās an opening to reconcile . If thereās not one , they disappear again n will come back later on to see if something change
Sag: afraid of being alone , likes to stay in contact with ex . Doesnāt understand boundaries
So thereās a common ground here . They come back. I act indifferent . They leave n will come back again with another attempt
Surprisingly
Pisces was an ex that never came back despite being the most clingy
Scorpio likes to remisnce but if you end on mutual or their term they donāt usually come back
Iām usually the girl they donāt realize what they had til itās gone ... thus.. a lot of ex come back to me . Something about the way I love hard
Aries : comes and talk about letās give us a try . When I donāt response as if Iām still head over heel he gets angry and disappear. After some time heāll come back and do the same thing . I act indifferent .. he gets mad , disappear .. repeat
Cancer : this is the guy Iām always with on n off . When we were doing that on n off thing . Heās break up with me and then come back promising the world . Even though I never say weāre back together in his head we are . So thatās usually how things fall back in place
Virgo n Capricorn : they come around . Talk to u to test the water in hope that thereās an opening to reconcile . If thereās not one , they disappear again n will come back later on to see if something change
Sag: afraid of being alone , likes to stay in contact with ex . Doesnāt understand boundaries
So thereās a common ground here . They come back. I act indifferent . They leave n will come back again with another attempt
Surprisingly
Pisces was an ex that never came back despite being the most clingy
Scorpio likes to remisnce but if you end on mutual or their term they donāt usually come back
Iām usually the girl they donāt realize what they had til itās gone ... thus.. a lot of ex come back to me . Something about the way I love hard
Posted by RooSagicornThat makes a lot of sense.Posted by ChuckcemVirgoPosted by RooSagicornWhat were the signs of each person?
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
Pisces
Leo
Capricorn
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Posted by xyinsaturnYou forgot boredom/lack of another option.Posted by ChuckcemThe question is why
Have you had an ex try to come back into your life? How did they attempt it? Were they subtle or obvious about it? As always, what was their sign?
Is it love or to mend the ego
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Posted by CAPSLOCK45Are you the one dumping or being dumped?
How come none of my exes ever try to to return ? šbummer
If they come back they really come full on. Putting theirs hearts out. Wanting to get really serious, like asking to marry.
Very nice if I I want to give a second chance, but heart breaking if I have moved on. š¢
Aqua
Aries
Very nice if I I want to give a second chance, but heart breaking if I have moved on. š¢
Aqua
Aries
Posted by GC02What sign?
Him: I miss you
Me: awwwww sweet
Him: we should hangout
Me: Never responded š» š»š»š»
Leo-kept trying to message me through social media...years later. It's weird when I get a random message from him. (I broke up with him.)
Taurus-sends me songs that basically mean he misses me and will continue to send me messages from different numbers. He also says it. He also tries to start with something about his family because he knows I was really close to them to try and see what I've been up to. He's really obvious with it. (I divorced him.)
Sag-sends a "how are you doing?" text, followed by a "I really want to see you." ....but pretty sure that is an "are you single yet?" text because of the sex he wants that apparently he never was able to get the same experience with other women...š (I decided he wasn't what I was looking for.)
Taurus-sends me songs that basically mean he misses me and will continue to send me messages from different numbers. He also says it. He also tries to start with something about his family because he knows I was really close to them to try and see what I've been up to. He's really obvious with it. (I divorced him.)
Sag-sends a "how are you doing?" text, followed by a "I really want to see you." ....but pretty sure that is an "are you single yet?" text because of the sex he wants that apparently he never was able to get the same experience with other women...š (I decided he wasn't what I was looking for.)
theyāre always open. my leo just broke up with me 5 days before my birthday, so.... whatever the saturday before november 9 was. iām sure heāll be back. they always come back to me. why? not sure. but i definitely wonāt be replying to him. heās in the same icebox as my virgo ex. and trust me, itās hard to make it into the icebox, but iāve done some hard thinking on this one. anyways.... onto the topic at hand.
the virgo/scorpio moon/libra venus/leo ascendant ex. super obvious. slid in the inbox with his typical cheap manipulation tactics that i was too naive to notice in my high school days. i stayed with him for 3 years though. iām angry that heās still trying to manipulate people and has no actual depth to his personality. he literally gets by...by being a liar and a manipulator. itās sickening. he tried the āwow i was so undeserving of you. if only i could have another chance. maybe we can go out sometime. i just want you to know you made me a better person. you deserve the best, not me. but you liked me anyways. i was so not worthy. what did you like about me? i just am curious. because iām a terrible personā CHEAP. MANIPULATION. he always did that though. even when we dated. heād make himself sound like a pity party. heād also ask me several times how āattractiveā i thought he was. he literally needed to be coddled. he even lied and told me his mom died when he was young when i tried breaking up with him once. turns out, sheās alive. i found out from his biological dad. i found out so many other lies. stupid lies too. the guy was human trash. still is from what i gather from his messages. doesnāt have an honest bone in his body, and itās sad.
aquarius/scorpio moon/aries venus/cancer mars... still in my life and keeps contact. heāll compliment me from time to time and heās married now and tell me how we wished we couldāve worked out but he was too shy. iām still friends with him. he was very good to me. we were young, didnāt have means of transportation and lived far. he was kind. he was honest. and he dealt with my b.s. so he hasnāt been iced out. i appreciate him.
aquarius/sag moon/pisces venus/gemini mars... weāre still friends so we talk from time to time. we tried to get together again once, but i was unsure of his intentions so i became hesitant and he called me boring. i was bummed about it for awhile, but weāre still friends. plus... i am a bit boring lol, so he wasnāt lying. iām kind of a weirdo.
aquarius cap moon/aries venus/sag mars/cap ascendant. he still messages me. weāre friends, but heās still very attracted to me sexually speaking and emotionally speaking. while i was dating the leo, heād message me that he still loved me. when i wouldnāt reply, heād tell me he hated me. then heād ask why i never reply anymore. definitely a love/hate thing with us... weāre now talking again. i think we both kind of get off on the tension. i love people with aries placements. theyāre so... aggressive and forward. heās that way. not afraid to fight/argue. i like that because i avoid arguing at all costs. he allows me to open up and express myself back, happy or mad. itās all there. however, iād like him to find someone who truly makes him happy. i donāt think thatās me... even though i wish it was.
libra capricorn moon/virgo venus/libra mars/scorpio ascendant. weāre still friends and dated a short time. it wasnāt meant to be. heās still one of my best friends, and he has told me that he wishes it wouldāve been the right time when weād met. and he could see us together, but at the time it didnāt work out. heās now dating a taurus/pisces moon/gemini venus/cancer mars/taurus ascendant girl, and i love her. sheās like my other half...but also my opposite. even our ascendant are opposite in a wide aspect. itās kind of ironic in a way.
gemini/gemini moon/taurus venus/leo mars/sag ascendant. weāre also still friends so we still talk to this day. just two distinctly different people with different viewpoints. heās a gemini so god knows the man loves to argue, because heās always right lmao. despite our differences, i love hearing his views. heās very intelligent and always backs up what he says even if i donāt believe or agree with it.
taurus/scorpio moon/gemini venus/aquarius mars/sagittarius ascendant. still convinced if the aquarius with the cap moon and ascendant wasnāt my soulmate than he was/is. we talk from time to time. i was neurotic af with him and somehow he tolerated me and still talks to me. heās a walking miracle. iām still sad it didnāt work out. like the aquarius though...we had some weird love/hate tension. but he really understood me. and we could have deep conversations...sigh.
maybe one day...someone can tolerate me for the long-term. but iām retiring from dating seriously for awhile. maybe short-term stuff for a bit. but not long-term. i just canāt do it. i feel like lady gaga when she said to chase your dreams because they wonāt wake up one day and tell you they donāt love you anymore. so relatable. plus, iām tired of liking my strange/unconventional men and it just not working out because weāre both weirdos and donāt know how to act. i always like very off-the-wall men, and they typically have some sort of issues...whether theyāre buried underneath or act emotionally unavailable. i need a break and need to focus on myself for once and grow from my experiences.
the virgo/scorpio moon/libra venus/leo ascendant ex. super obvious. slid in the inbox with his typical cheap manipulation tactics that i was too naive to notice in my high school days. i stayed with him for 3 years though. iām angry that heās still trying to manipulate people and has no actual depth to his personality. he literally gets by...by being a liar and a manipulator. itās sickening. he tried the āwow i was so undeserving of you. if only i could have another chance. maybe we can go out sometime. i just want you to know you made me a better person. you deserve the best, not me. but you liked me anyways. i was so not worthy. what did you like about me? i just am curious. because iām a terrible personā CHEAP. MANIPULATION. he always did that though. even when we dated. heād make himself sound like a pity party. heād also ask me several times how āattractiveā i thought he was. he literally needed to be coddled. he even lied and told me his mom died when he was young when i tried breaking up with him once. turns out, sheās alive. i found out from his biological dad. i found out so many other lies. stupid lies too. the guy was human trash. still is from what i gather from his messages. doesnāt have an honest bone in his body, and itās sad.
aquarius/scorpio moon/aries venus/cancer mars... still in my life and keeps contact. heāll compliment me from time to time and heās married now and tell me how we wished we couldāve worked out but he was too shy. iām still friends with him. he was very good to me. we were young, didnāt have means of transportation and lived far. he was kind. he was honest. and he dealt with my b.s. so he hasnāt been iced out. i appreciate him.
aquarius/sag moon/pisces venus/gemini mars... weāre still friends so we talk from time to time. we tried to get together again once, but i was unsure of his intentions so i became hesitant and he called me boring. i was bummed about it for awhile, but weāre still friends. plus... i am a bit boring lol, so he wasnāt lying. iām kind of a weirdo.
aquarius cap moon/aries venus/sag mars/cap ascendant. he still messages me. weāre friends, but heās still very attracted to me sexually speaking and emotionally speaking. while i was dating the leo, heād message me that he still loved me. when i wouldnāt reply, heād tell me he hated me. then heād ask why i never reply anymore. definitely a love/hate thing with us... weāre now talking again. i think we both kind of get off on the tension. i love people with aries placements. theyāre so... aggressive and forward. heās that way. not afraid to fight/argue. i like that because i avoid arguing at all costs. he allows me to open up and express myself back, happy or mad. itās all there. however, iād like him to find someone who truly makes him happy. i donāt think thatās me... even though i wish it was.
libra capricorn moon/virgo venus/libra mars/scorpio ascendant. weāre still friends and dated a short time. it wasnāt meant to be. heās still one of my best friends, and he has told me that he wishes it wouldāve been the right time when weād met. and he could see us together, but at the time it didnāt work out. heās now dating a taurus/pisces moon/gemini venus/cancer mars/taurus ascendant girl, and i love her. sheās like my other half...but also my opposite. even our ascendant are opposite in a wide aspect. itās kind of ironic in a way.
gemini/gemini moon/taurus venus/leo mars/sag ascendant. weāre also still friends so we still talk to this day. just two distinctly different people with different viewpoints. heās a gemini so god knows the man loves to argue, because heās always right lmao. despite our differences, i love hearing his views. heās very intelligent and always backs up what he says even if i donāt believe or agree with it.
taurus/scorpio moon/gemini venus/aquarius mars/sagittarius ascendant. still convinced if the aquarius with the cap moon and ascendant wasnāt my soulmate than he was/is. we talk from time to time. i was neurotic af with him and somehow he tolerated me and still talks to me. heās a walking miracle. iām still sad it didnāt work out. like the aquarius though...we had some weird love/hate tension. but he really understood me. and we could have deep conversations...sigh.
maybe one day...someone can tolerate me for the long-term. but iām retiring from dating seriously for awhile. maybe short-term stuff for a bit. but not long-term. i just canāt do it. i feel like lady gaga when she said to chase your dreams because they wonāt wake up one day and tell you they donāt love you anymore. so relatable. plus, iām tired of liking my strange/unconventional men and it just not working out because weāre both weirdos and donāt know how to act. i always like very off-the-wall men, and they typically have some sort of issues...whether theyāre buried underneath or act emotionally unavailable. i need a break and need to focus on myself for once and grow from my experiences.
most memorable...I was in a new city for work, and my ex-Cancer that I was on and off with for years from my hometown had been calling me for about a month trying to patch things up....hadn't seen her so desperate, crying and begging like this before....trying to come out and see me, talking crazy dirty over the phone, etc....she forgets to mention what I found out through a mutual friend - that she was recently impregnated by someone else....pretty sure she was going to try to pin that on me....
Yeah. He wanted to fuck.
I said no.
He disappeared.
I said no.
He disappeared.
Virgo - We kept in contact over the years and I'm guessing he had a plan because he sneaked into it more and more over the years. He still does.
Gemini - Called and came up to my house. Tried to charm me and get me into bed.
Leo - Suddenly, after years apart. Full on. He called, sent me letters, pictures, even poems. Drove 50 metric miles to see me.
Virgo nr 2 - Tried to seduce me. Not 100% clear that he wanted me back for a relationship, though, but I thiiink he did.
Scorpio - We were never in an actual relationship, but he wanted to start dating me again. He just came up to me one day and said it.
Gemini nr 2 - Called me repeatedly. Was kind of shy about it. We had kept in contact and he was getting more and more into it until he straight up asked for me back one day.
Gemini - Called and came up to my house. Tried to charm me and get me into bed.
Leo - Suddenly, after years apart. Full on. He called, sent me letters, pictures, even poems. Drove 50 metric miles to see me.
Virgo nr 2 - Tried to seduce me. Not 100% clear that he wanted me back for a relationship, though, but I thiiink he did.
Scorpio - We were never in an actual relationship, but he wanted to start dating me again. He just came up to me one day and said it.
Gemini nr 2 - Called me repeatedly. Was kind of shy about it. We had kept in contact and he was getting more and more into it until he straight up asked for me back one day.
Posted by MetatronThat's terrifying.
most memorable...I was in a new city for work, and my ex-Cancer that I was on and off with for years from my hometown had been calling me for about a month trying to patch things up....hadn't seen her so desperate, crying and begging like this before....trying to come out and see me, talking crazy dirty over the phone, etc....she forget to mention what I found out through a mutual friend - that she was recently impregnated by someone else....pretty sure she was going to try to pin that on me....
Posted by Chuckcem@hearttoftopazPosted by MetatronThat's terrifying.
most memorable...I was in a new city for work, and my ex-Cancer that I was on and off with for years from my hometown had been calling me for about a month trying to patch things up....hadn't seen her so desperate, crying and begging like this before....trying to come out and see me, talking crazy dirty over the phone, etc....she forget to mention what I found out through a mutual friend - that she was recently impregnated by someone else....pretty sure she was going to try to pin that on me....click to expand
Yes. For 6 months, after dumping me.
Constantly reminiscing with me about old times, making suggestions for attempts at getting together, asking me out to dinner.
Sorry, no.
Constantly reminiscing with me about old times, making suggestions for attempts at getting together, asking me out to dinner.
Sorry, no.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhat was his sign?
Yeah. He wanted to fuck.
I said no.
He disappeared.
Posted by Ram416The ex's sign?
Yes. For 6 months, after dumping me.
Constantly reminiscing with me about old times, making suggestions for attempts at getting together, asking me out to dinner.
Sorry, no.
Posted by ChuckcemCap sun/Virgo moon/Pisces Venus/Cap Mars lolPosted by Ram416The ex's sign?
Yes. For 6 months, after dumping me.
Constantly reminiscing with me about old times, making suggestions for attempts at getting together, asking me out to dinner.
Sorry, no.
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YES my pisces after cutting me off for a year tried to come back while i was dating Cap. the pisces is in a relationship with a sag girls 10 years younger than him. he tried to reappear a year later. Im no sidechick tho so i was mad he tried me for that position. i hooked up with him byt it wasnt the same so i let my cap call and cuss him out. he has yet to reappear from that š
now my cap is gone idk if hell come back, i kinda messed that up lolš¢
now my cap is gone idk if hell come back, i kinda messed that up lolš¢
Posted by ChuckcemPisces - subtle/obvious - didn't make much difference ... he wanted to hang out and do stuff together as friends - I couldn't so I didn't - he stopped asking ... he still tries to call me and ask me how I'm doing but I blew him off last time and said I didn't think we should be communicating
Have you had an ex try to come back into your life? How did they attempt it? Were they subtle or obvious about it? As always, what was their sign?
Posted by ChuckcemLibra. "Oh, I wanna get back in touch and hang out!" We hang out, he tried to start something, I said no. Mysteriously, he ended up suddenly "too busy" to continue hanging out like he said he wanted to do. Funny how that works.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWhat was his sign?
Yeah. He wanted to fuck.
I said no.
He disappeared.click to expand
Cap ex fwb did the same thing. I'd told him to go fuck himself with his psycho shit. We made amends down the road, but he was just looking to get laid. He was perma banned from my life at that point. Haven't heard from him since. He still tries that same shit with a mutual friend and she lolz every time he does it. It's been like 8 years too haha.
My Aqua broke up with me in August and I tried getting back with her in early September. She initially said she would talk to me on the phone but bailed out since she said we would just argue. Few weeks later I sent her pictures of me on a business trip in exotic places and just said "Hi XXX, greetings from exotic place" and she responded "I didnt expect to hear from you, if you want another chance I'll give it to you".
So in my case I wanted to get back but she got back with me. She broke up with me again few weeks later without any explanation.
So in my case I wanted to get back but she got back with me. She broke up with me again few weeks later without any explanation.
Saggy; to this day (15 Nov 17); he STILL calls my office, listens to my salutation, then hangs up. I UNBLOCKED him on FB; asked him NOT to call my office anymore. He still does.
S-T-U-B-B-O-R-N!
Me: Hi. I found out you have been calling my office. You called today, and heard my office salutation, then my verbiage informing you I knew you were the one calling my office then hanging up. You did the same today without my talking to you. I wanted to give you the closure you need so here goes: Thank you for coming into my life, we had fun, but you should not have chastised my son like you did. You have a mother that will protect you. Well, I, too am a mother that will protect my son, you need closure and I am giving it to you. I cannot meet with you face-to-face to explain yourself. Don't forget that when God closes a door he will blow one wide open for me (and for you, too!). Good luck in finding your SO. Ciao! Eva 23 Oct 17 12:20 pm
Him: Were you the one who called me twice this morning and did not answer when I said hello? I called back and it went straight to voicemail. I am getting married next yr and have no concerns about ever seeing you again. Good luck!
Me: Good for you! No, I don't have your #.
Him: I haven't been calling anyone except numbers who call me first.
Me. (.) period.
I BLOCKED him on FB yet again! Guess when I blocked his two friends they informed him I had also blocked them and the calls keep a coming!!! š”
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
S-T-U-B-B-O-R-N!
Me: Hi. I found out you have been calling my office. You called today, and heard my office salutation, then my verbiage informing you I knew you were the one calling my office then hanging up. You did the same today without my talking to you. I wanted to give you the closure you need so here goes: Thank you for coming into my life, we had fun, but you should not have chastised my son like you did. You have a mother that will protect you. Well, I, too am a mother that will protect my son, you need closure and I am giving it to you. I cannot meet with you face-to-face to explain yourself. Don't forget that when God closes a door he will blow one wide open for me (and for you, too!). Good luck in finding your SO. Ciao! Eva 23 Oct 17 12:20 pm
Him: Were you the one who called me twice this morning and did not answer when I said hello? I called back and it went straight to voicemail. I am getting married next yr and have no concerns about ever seeing you again. Good luck!
Me: Good for you! No, I don't have your #.
Him: I haven't been calling anyone except numbers who call me first.
Me. (.) period.
I BLOCKED him on FB yet again! Guess when I blocked his two friends they informed him I had also blocked them and the calls keep a coming!!! š”
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Men always come back. I'm curious to see what this cap will do now that I've given him some time. I know Capricorn men always return, or so I've heard.
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
I'm not calling Aqua. She was stupid to break up with me for no real reasons. She doesn't want a nice guy in her life that treats her well and potentially was doing things that she might interpret as rushing things. I think this is better to have than no guy or to be in a relationship with an abusive guys which she's done in the past.
Posted by Aries_LuminaryUh, if he's an EX for a reason why are you still in contact with them? And why do they still have your #. I would have changed my # (latter question and answered myself). I guess being Piscean I sever all ties to include social media AND cell #. The office is going to move to the 3rd floor in December of this year...ex Saggy will NOT know my new # since our first floor is going to have major renovations!! LOL!
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaYou donāt know what youāre talking about. Usually when ppl are confused, they ask questions.Posted by Aries_LuminaryUh, if he's an EX for a reason why are you still in contact with them? And why do they still have your #. I would have changed my # (latter question and answered myself). I guess being Piscean I sever all ties to include social media AND cell #. The office is going to move to the 3rd floor in December of this year...ex Saggy will NOT know my new # since our first floor is going to have major renovations!! LOL!
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Posted by Aries_LuminaryUh, I did. "If he's an EX for a reason why are you still in contact with them? And why do they still have your #?"Posted by EvatheDivaYou donāt know what youāre talking about. Usually when ppl are confused, they ask questions.Posted by Aries_LuminaryUh, if he's an EX for a reason why are you still in contact with them? And why do they still have your #? I would have changed my # (latter question and answered myself). I guess being Piscean I sever all ties to include social media AND cell #. The office is going to move to the 3rd floor in December of this year...ex Saggy will NOT know my new # since our first floor is going to have major renovations!! LOL!
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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š¤ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Don't get so easily OFFENDED by my LOL; it was for my ex (EX) bf who will not be able to contact me next month.
Posted by RooSagicornall of mine tried to come back - always - and I never took any of them back - until recently - the Libra - I might pay for this again if he gets too close - but at my age, I just enjoy hanging out with him when he has time lol and the incredible sex is a bonus lol
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
Posted by Aries_Luminarylol
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
so none of them were "worthy" or are you waiting as well
lol
Leo, scorpio & Gemini
Posted by tctaoThings just end. For whatever reason. I can miss you like crazy. I can not miss you at all. But Iāll never call you.Posted by Aries_Luminarylol
All my exes have tried come back at some point...
Aqua sun/Gemini moon.. Would always call me wasted late at night. In his feelings, full of guilt and regret. By this time my feelings were indifferent toward him. I would sit on the phone and be an ear while he struggled with his demons from the past.
Cap sun/Cap moon... we remained friends. It was his way of staying close to me in hopes that one day I would be ready to be with him.
Aries sun/ Cap moon.... calls every 6 months for 6 years now, wondering if maybe Iāve changed my mind about him. Heās casual at first. Then asks if we can hang out. But he has one goal in mind... a relationship.
Taurus sun/Aqua moon... calls my phone like a maniac. Pops up at my house late at night and throws rocks at my window. Begs like Keith Sweat.
An āEx is an āExā for a reason #LifeTip
so none of them were "worthy" or are you waiting as well
lol
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Posted by RooSagicornI hope so too - just take it slow and be real about things - I mean live in the presentPosted by tctaoWell the damn earth signs left me without a good reason. #1 I kept seeing him when heād show up, but we didnāt get back together. Damn we were so in love... I eventually told him to not come back. Iād met #2 and was engaged. #2 I did not let back. This was after I left him ( yes this was my first husband) and I ran back to LA and he had a bunch of my stuff lol. #3 itās complicated Iāve promised to stay friends, itās just weāve known each other forever as friends mostly. Still donāt know if thatās a good idea or not. 2nd husband is not on list go figure. But heās techically still in my life since we coparent. He was too proud to come back though #4 ahhhh Iām SO happy I took him back!!!!! š Iām hoping things continue to go well šPosted by RooSagicornall of mine tried to come back - always - and I never took any of them back - until recently - the Libra - I might pay for this again if he gets too close - but at my age, I just enjoy hanging out with him when he has time lol and the incredible sex is a bonus lol
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
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Posted by tizianilol - yeah - taxi is waiting - lolPosted by blvckphaseLol I had to ask. I guess his cab light was on, just that phase of life.Posted by tizianiHaha.. clearly not Tiz. I rejected the proposal. He and I separated over 5 years ago and it was almost a year after separating that he proposed. We are still friends though. It took him a longgg time to move on and date again.. but now he is engaged to his new girl. hahaPosted by blvckphase
The Leo ex proposed.. heh
We were still friends and hanging out as friends only when it happened.. but that was his last attempt at getting me back.
Did it work?
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Posted by RooSagicornoh yeah - the Pisces Mars definitely does that to me - jfc I hate it sometimes when it gets too strong and takes over - all that water making mud of my earth and dousing my fire ... can't focus, just dreaming ... I guess it does some good for some purpose but gheez ... good you can keep him on trackPosted by tctaoHe is so in the future! But I think itās like dreaming of a future together, talking about where we could move to together. Maybe thatās his Pisces Mars Lol. But reality is we have a ways to go before we get there. Iāve just set things up so it can happen, if it does. Taking things as they come otherwise.Posted by RooSagicornI hope so too - just take it slow and be real about things - I mean live in the presentPosted by tctaoWell the damn earth signs left me without a good reason. #1 I kept seeing him when heād show up, but we didnāt get back together. Damn we were so in love... I eventually told him to not come back. Iād met #2 and was engaged. #2 I did not let back. This was after I left him ( yes this was my first husband) and I ran back to LA and he had a bunch of my stuff lol. #3 itās complicated Iāve promised to stay friends, itās just weāve known each other forever as friends mostly. Still donāt know if thatās a good idea or not. 2nd husband is not on list go figure. But heās techically still in my life since we coparent. He was too proud to come back though #4 ahhhh Iām SO happy I took him back!!!!! š Iām hoping things continue to go well šPosted by RooSagicornall of mine tried to come back - always - and I never took any of them back - until recently - the Libra - I might pay for this again if he gets too close - but at my age, I just enjoy hanging out with him when he has time lol and the incredible sex is a bonus lol
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
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Calling from different numbers and showing up at my job.
Ugh.
Ugh.
Posted by RooSagicornyeah - the dream bag is bottomless - lol - truly - even within the text of compromise, it opens a whole new can of dreams lolololPosted by tctaoPosted by RooSagicornoh yeah - the Pisces Mars definitely does that to me - jfc I hate it sometimes when it gets too strong and takes over - all that water making mud of my earth and dousing my fire ... can't focus, just dreaming ... I guess it does some good for some purpose but gheez ... good you can keep him on trackPosted by tctaoHe is so in the future! But I think itās like dreaming of a future together, talking about where we could move to together. Maybe thatās his Pisces Mars Lol. But reality is we have a ways to go before we get there. Iāve just set things up so it can happen, if it does. Taking things as they come otherwise.Posted by RooSagicornI hope so too - just take it slow and be real about things - I mean live in the presentPosted by tctaoWell the damn earth signs left me without a good reason. #1 I kept seeing him when heād show up, but we didnāt get back together. Damn we were so in love... I eventually told him to not come back. Iād met #2 and was engaged. #2 I did not let back. This was after I left him ( yes this was my first husband) and I ran back to LA and he had a bunch of my stuff lol. #3 itās complicated Iāve promised to stay friends, itās just weāve known each other forever as friends mostly. Still donāt know if thatās a good idea or not. 2nd husband is not on list go figure. But heās techically still in my life since we coparent. He was too proud to come back though #4 ahhhh Iām SO happy I took him back!!!!! š Iām hoping things continue to go well šPosted by RooSagicornall of mine tried to come back - always - and I never took any of them back - until recently - the Libra - I might pay for this again if he gets too close - but at my age, I just enjoy hanging out with him when he has time lol and the incredible sex is a bonus lol
There were four:
1). kept showing up at my house to ātalkā cuz he missed me. This was pre-cell phones
2) Kept calling me telling I forgot something and he would conveniently bring it to me. Also pre-cell phones
3) Just keeps calling. Begs to stay friends.. complains I donāt call him.
4) Text me that he missed me. This one we actually got back together.
Lol.. it is part of what confused me before. He would dream and then be nervous lol. Now I just say yeah sure. Let him dream. Heās not nervous anymore since I set things up so itās possible. Iām right there regardless, and not putting pressure on him of how to get to that future dream lol. That makes a big difference. So now we evolve š which is my comfort zone.
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Posted by gyradosCap Moon here - and LOL - I was just telling Roo that I went back for the first time in my very long life - probably because it never really came to much of an ending - he just drifted away ...
Can I make clarification to people who have Cap ex? Okay....
WE NEVER COMEBACK! We just miss the memory, not you! It just nostalgic.
definitely, when I say I am done - you can bet on the fact !
Virgo used to call and send text every month for almost 2 years after I ended it.
Usually they were super passive aggressive. Like "it's my birthday so that's why I'm calling and leaving you this message. Wish you would pick up cause this rejection hurts, especially on today of all days."
Funny dude.
Usually they were super passive aggressive. Like "it's my birthday so that's why I'm calling and leaving you this message. Wish you would pick up cause this rejection hurts, especially on today of all days."
Funny dude.
yeah - the dream bag is bottomless - lol - truly - even within the text of compromise, it opens a whole new can of dreams lololol
š He seems to talk about them a lot lol. A lot of it seems like heās just working through how to get through certain dreams. So it works better to let him process. I think this is why the fears became so huge b4 cuz there was this big obstacle in the way & how could The dreams ever happenā? But then he was missing a key part when I wasnāt there. Oh me!! Lol.
does he have other water besides his Mars ? - oh yeah - hey - we've got lots of dreamy ideas of our perfect world - it's just not all obtainable - probably very little is - so we have to compromise and we have to crawl out of the water and stick to dry land (reality) for awhile to stay in the present -
Posted by RooSagicorndoes he have other water besides his Mars ? - oh yeah - hey - we've got lots of dreamy ideas of our perfect world - it's just not all obtainable - probably very little is - so we have to compromise and we have to crawl out of the water and stick to dry land (reality) for awhile to stay in the present -Posted by tctaoš He seems to talk about them a lot lol. A lot of it seems like heās just working through how to get through certain dreams. So it works better to let him process. I think this is why the fears became so huge b4 cuz there was this big obstacle in the way & how could The dreams ever happenā? But then he was missing a key part when I wasnāt there. Oh me!! Lol.yeah - the dream bag is bottomless - lol - truly - even within the text of compromise, it opens a whole new can of dreams lololol
Scorpio Jupiter
Scorpio Neptune
Pisces - Asc Node
Heās Cap Mercury & venus same as me & heās Virgo Moon.
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is the Asc Node the same as Ascending - so he has Pisces Rising ?
Posted by RooSagicornis the Asc Node the same as Ascending - so he has Pisces Rising ?Posted by tctaoScorpio JupiterPosted by RooSagicorndoes he have other water besides his Mars ? - oh yeah - hey - we've got lots of dreamy ideas of our perfect world - it's just not all obtainable - probably very little is - so we have to compromise and we have to crawl out of the water and stick to dry land (reality) for awhile to stay in the present -Posted by tctaoš He seems to talk about them a lot lol. A lot of it seems like heās just working through how to get through certain dreams. So it works better to let him process. I think this is why the fears became so huge b4 cuz there was this big obstacle in the way & how could The dreams ever happenā? But then he was missing a key part when I wasnāt there. Oh me!! Lol.yeah - the dream bag is bottomless - lol - truly - even within the text of compromise, it opens a whole new can of dreams lololol
Scorpio Neptune
Pisces - Asc Node
Heās Cap Mercury & venus same as me & heās Virgo Moon.
I think he is Aries Rising. I believe Asc Node means same as north Node
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oh ok - yeah, he's got more earth than me - I'm actually trying to figure out if I am Aries Rising or Taurus Rising - it's only a half hour difference - I'd rather have more earth cause I already have Venus and Mercury in Aries - lol - but no one in my family can recall if I was born at 5 or 5:30 am - I thought it was 5:30 but I am not 100%
Posted by RooSagicornoh ok - yeah, he's got more earth than me - I'm actually trying to figure out if I am Aries Rising or Taurus Rising - it's only a half hour difference - I'd rather have more earth cause I already have Venus and Mercury in Aries - lol - but no one in my family can recall if I was born at 5 or 5:30 am - I thought it was 5:30 but I am not 100%Posted by tctaoI think he is Aries Rising. I believe Asc Node means same as north NodePosted by RooSagicornis the Asc Node the same as Ascending - so he has Pisces Rising ?Posted by tctaoScorpio JupiterPosted by RooSagicorndoes he have other water besides his Mars ? - oh yeah - hey - we've got lots of dreamy ideas of our perfect world - it's just not all obtainable - probably very little is - so we have to compromise and we have to crawl out of the water and stick to dry land (reality) for awhile to stay in the present -Posted by tctaoš He seems to talk about them a lot lol. A lot of it seems like heās just working through how to get through certain dreams. So it works better to let him process. I think this is why the fears became so huge b4 cuz there was this big obstacle in the way & how could The dreams ever happenā? But then he was missing a key part when I wasnāt there. Oh me!! Lol.yeah - the dream bag is bottomless - lol - truly - even within the text of compromise, it opens a whole new can of dreams lololol
Scorpio Neptune
Pisces - Asc Node
Heās Cap Mercury & venus same as me & heās Virgo Moon.
Well Iām not sure his time of birth so could be different lol
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oh sorry - that was about me
but glad he's got some fire in him lol - that matches your Sag fire ! you both seem to have very similar percentage mixes of earth and fire with a little water thrown in there
that's me too - but it's a toss up between more fire or more earth due to ascending time
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