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Posted by ImperfectStorm
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Why do women think both parties have such a strong "connection" and it's someone who they don't know and ends up leaving them on read?? 🤔 🧐

Anyways. That's how a Virgo is- they are always busy and actually like a women to show interest.

If they like you enough, they will chase. But if they are on the fence about you, you need to do the pursuing.

They have others on stand by who are fwb, so their sexual needs are usually fulfilled- especially if he's handsome and charming, like a popular Virgo.

Also, is he's like this it will take a while to get close to him. I find earth signs in general slow to get into relationships, until they've explored all their open legs- oops! I mean options 😄

Virgo is the known bachelor of the zodiac. They are known to be the "get in line and wait, cause I'm busy" types

So you basically need to "get in where you fit in" until they like you more. Once they like you, they make time for you.

yes i agree i am one tiny drop in a sea of options. But why stop. This is what intrigued me. Maybe it is the mutable nature. Wouldn't know because i am very much cardinal

What is your sign?

I’m not a Virgo but I have Virgo Venus. I am polite to everyone even if I’m not interested in that way, and sometimes that gets me in trouble because then the men assume that the attraction is mutual when really, I am just being friendly.

My guess is that his lack of effort and response to your earlier messages were the first hint that he wasn’t reciprocating. Some people can be passive and would prefer to gently let someone down rather than outright reject them. And since you continued to send messages even though he was not matching your efforts, it’s a possibility that he decided to just stop reading. I agree that it would be nice if he would just be up front with you and tell you to stop messaging him if that’s what he wants.
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it was more than being polite. It was a big fancy dinner with 30 people, they seated me two places next to him, we casually started talking and ended up switching places so we could sit next to each other, and talked and drunk all evening. Even the desert melted in front of us. I introduced him to a woman sitting next to me, they started talking so I offered to switch and he put his hand on my knee and said to stay. I can't write about details and wouldn't want to compromise him or myself...yeah anyway I can't do anything about it. He knows that he is welcome to my country and that I have no intentions or expectation from him. I just like the man very much and I can't be mad about that. It is what it is, but I really liked him as a being and energy. Nothing has to happen and I would still be happy just spending time with him. 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by peachy06
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He is a Virgo.

She said it all. Virgos are well known to be cold, so...

I don't know how precise the natal chart is without time of birth but according to it he has Libra Moon and Venus, Virgo Sun and Mercury

Libra moon people are well known to be kind and charming, but with his Virgo sun and MERCURY he might be very very cold.
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I am a weird person I know this, but I am honestly myself always. I rarely like someone, and I liked this man very much. I know that it is stupid and that people here a right to judge. I have no options but to stop writing. Something will or will not happen. Thank you for your replies 🙏
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Posted by Wizardz_
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Posted by cake

He is a Virgo.

She said it all. Virgos are well known to be cold, so...

I don't know how precise the natal chart is without time of birth but according to it he has Libra Moon and Venus, Virgo Sun and Mercury

Libra moon people are well known to be kind and charming, but with his Virgo sun and MERCURY he might be very very cold.

I am a weird person I know this, but I am honestly myself always. I rarely like someone, and I liked this man very much. I know that it is stupid and that people here a right to judge. I have no options but to stop writing. Something will or will not happen. Thank you for your replies 🙏

Why is contacting him with actual intention not an option, rather than sending him pictures of wardrobes? Be (semi) honest with him and say you are still thinking of him (maybe say occasionally) . What do you have to lose?
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he knows.
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You saw him 4 years ago and haven't seen him since and you've been writing to him constantly since then but he doesn't respond..

Mmm I think he's just playing hard to get. I would send more messages, like ten a day, to show him how much you care

You’re such an a $ $ hole 😂😂😂

Funny one though!

I’m too prideful to even double text, if my message is ignored. I can’t even imagine sending multiple text to someone that occasionally replies, but to each his own 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lol well what hope is there for someone who has to pre-empt their thread by saying "I'm not interested in your comments about my lack of sanity"

Bc she looked into her 🔮 and could foresee/foretell the future 😂🤭

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looking into a crystal ball is not that strange comparing to an astrology themed forum. Unfortunately I don't possess that skill, but would love to 🌸💜 I've been wanting to buy tarot cards for a while now
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You saw him 4 years ago and haven't seen him since and you've been writing to him constantly since then but he doesn't respond..

Mmm I think he's just playing hard to get. I would send more messages, like ten a day, to show him how much you care

You’re such an a $ $ hole 😂😂😂

Funny one though!

I’m too prideful to even double text, if my message is ignored. I can’t even imagine sending multiple text to someone that occasionally replies, but to each his own 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lol well what hope is there for someone who has to pre-empt their thread by saying "I'm not interested in your comments about my lack of sanity"

Bc she looked into her 🔮 and could foresee/foretell the future 😂🤭

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looking into a crystal ball is not that strange comparing to an astrology themed forum. Unfortunately I don't possess that skill, but would love to 🌸💜 I've been wanting to buy tarot cards for a while now
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You and me both 😂! If you get your hands on one let me know, bc there’s a lot of things that I could use some insight into.

Don’t mind me, just engaging in a little playful 😈 banter 🤭

I wasn’t trying to be offensive.

You should get some tarot’s cards, it might be fun. 👀
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Posted by Wizardz_
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You saw him 4 years ago and haven't seen him since and you've been writing to him constantly since then but he doesn't respond..

Mmm I think he's just playing hard to get. I would send more messages, like ten a day, to show him how much you care

You’re such an a $ $ hole 😂😂😂

Funny one though!

I’m too prideful to even double text, if my message is ignored. I can’t even imagine sending multiple text to someone that occasionally replies, but to each his own 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lol well what hope is there for someone who has to pre-empt their thread by saying "I'm not interested in your comments about my lack of sanity"
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Does that ever actually work..? 😂
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Your star sign or I won't provide you a few tips to help you get to the next stage.

Aries ♈

Finally!

I'm afraid I duped you - I only made that false promise because you were so reluctant to publicly reveal you star sign. 😅

Still, being an Aries, sometimes, you have to realise that it's best to quit. Perseverance will only get you so far.
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yeah it sounded like it but I went along. This is very true, but a lifelong quest for our sign.
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Posted by saggurl88

Why do women think both parties have such a strong "connection" and it's someone who they don't know and ends up leaving them on read?? 🤔 🧐

To protect their fragile egos.



Virgo is the known bachelor of the zodiac. They are known to be the "get in line and wait, cause I'm busy" types

So you basically need to "get in where you fit in" until they like you more. Once they like you, they make time for you.


Yeah and if you don't get in that line and wait they like you better.