Intercourse

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by facepalming on Monday, November 7, 2016 and has 21 replies.

Is Pain During Intercourse and Ejaculation Normal or a Sign of Allergy

Pain during intercourse and increased discomfort with ejaculation could indicate a semen allergy or other underlying issues. It is relatively uncommon but possible. Consulting a healthcare provider is recommended to determine the cause and explore treatment options for relief and safety.

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9 YearsTaurus

Yo

Not sure if I can post a doubt like this in this forum.

During intercourse I usually have a bit of pain, but if my boyfriend ejaculates inside I will have much more pain than if he doesn't come inside.

Might this be semen allergy? Is it common ?

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9 Years500+ Posts

Is he packing? The reason I ask is if he is rough without enough foreplay he can cause abrasions you would bleed lightly every so often. It's possible it's just irritation from that unless he scrubs his dickhole with dial soap.

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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani
Do you experience the same pain with protected sex/wearing a condom?

Not being funny, just eliminating the variables

Didn't remember that variable, but no I don't! Just when the semen stays inside 😢

Damn. So can't actually rule out a semen allergy then (which I didn't even know was a thing) but here's an initial link.

I know nothing about this and don't claim to be knowledgeable on it.

http://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-is-sperm-allergy

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Thanks, I did research too, and by reading this symptoms seem scary, i dont swell or have troubles breathing!

Thanks for help anyway 🙂

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Posted by MIIeFisk
When was the last time you saw your GYN?

Good point, im on a 3 year relationship i think last time i went was 2 years ago.. I fcking hate going to doctors.

Since i always had pain, and with other bf's doc said i had something caused by my mind "vaginism" , I kinda got used with the pain. But now it isn't that Im sure.

Gonna listen to ur advice !

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Posted by NobleSag
Is he packing? The reason I ask is if he is rough without enough foreplay he can cause abrasions you would bleed lightly every so often. It's possible it's just irritation from that unless he scrubs his dickhole with dial soap.

What is packing?

Main language ain't english!

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Posted by facepalming

Posted by NobleSag
Is he packing? The reason I ask is if he is rough without enough foreplay he can cause abrasions you would bleed lightly every so often. It's possible it's just irritation from that unless he scrubs his dickhole with dial soap.

What is packing?

Main language ain't english!

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Ok, basic english. Does he have a big dick?

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Posted by NobleSag

Posted by facepalming

Posted by NobleSag
Is he packing? The reason I ask is if he is rough without enough foreplay he can cause abrasions you would bleed lightly every so often. It's possible it's just irritation from that unless he scrubs his dickhole with dial soap.

What is packing?

Main language ain't english!

Ok, basic english. Does he have a big dick?

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lol!!! not african big, good big. but no. The meat thing is inserted when it is lubricated only. Those abrasions are a pain!

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Posted by MIIeFisk

Posted by facepalming

Posted by MIIeFisk
When was the last time you saw your GYN?

Good point, im on a 3 year relationship i think last time i went was 2 years ago.. I fcking hate going to doctors.

Since i always had pain, and with other bf's doc said i had something caused by my mind "vaginism" , I kinda got used with the pain. But now it isn't that Im sure.

Gonna listen to ur advice !

Darling, unless you're a virgin, pain during interourse is never good and shouldnt really be taken lightly. Depending what kind of pain and where exactly, people here are going to be completely useless. Go get a pelvic exam. If insurance is an issue, Planned Parenthood isnt just for pregnancies and pervention. They also help with sexual health. They'll be a little less expensive if they know you dont have insurance.

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You're right shouldn't be taken lightly because its the few pleasures we can have in life. My country doesn't have a health system like in america, we don't have insurances. We have public health , cheap or free but can take some time or private practices where things are faster and sometimes with more quality than public doctors.

But I will have this checked!

thanks MIIeFisk

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Posted by facepalming

Posted by NobleSag

Posted by facepalming

Posted by NobleSag
Is he packing? The reason I ask is if he is rough without enough foreplay he can cause abrasions you would bleed lightly every so often. It's possible it's just irritation from that unless he scrubs his dickhole with dial soap.

What is packing?

Main language ain't english!

Ok, basic english. Does he have a big dick?

lol!!! not african big, good big. but no. The meat thing is inserted when it is lubricated only. Those abrasions are a pain!

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See a doctor. May not be anything serious. Dial down the frequency of your sex and beef up the foreplay in the meantime.

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Yes, get thee to a medical professional as soon as you can. It's probably nothing but better not to leave these things are the worst possible problem could have life long consequences.

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Posted by facepalming

Posted by MIIeFisk

Posted by facepalming

Posted by MIIeFisk
When was the last time you saw your GYN?

Good point, im on a 3 year relationship i think last time i went was 2 years ago.. I fcking hate going to doctors.

Since i always had pain, and with other bf's doc said i had something caused by my mind "vaginism" , I kinda got used with the pain. But now it isn't that Im sure.

Gonna listen to ur advice !

Darling, unless you're a virgin, pain during interourse is never good and shouldnt really be taken lightly. Depending what kind of pain and where exactly, people here are going to be completely useless. Go get a pelvic exam. If insurance is an issue, Planned Parenthood isnt just for pregnancies and pervention. They also help with sexual health. They'll be a little less expensive if they know you dont have insurance.

You're right shouldn't be taken lightly because its the few pleasures we can have in life. My country doesn't have a health system like in america, we don't have insurances. We have public health , cheap or free but can take some time or private practices where things are faster and sometimes with more quality than public doctors.

But I will have this checked!

thanks MIIeFisk

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If you don't mind saying, which country are you in?

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Hey there, hope I can help a little. So that happened to me with my ex. Like, curl up in a ball, burned staying still, burned peeing, etc. - but only if the semen was inside of me. Hard to explain, a little. I used to have to put a warm wet washcloth down there and that would help the most, but yeah, it was concerning to both of us.

But yes. My gyno said that my Ph balance and the Ph balance of his semen weren't compatible. He said the easiest solution was to use condoms every time we had sex, for at least six weeks and up to three months. Even through the latex, something would happen that would eventually allow my body to readjust and accept his semen.

It worked.

Never happened with anyone else.

Good luck, hope this helps!

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Posted by fugu2

Posted by facepalming

Posted by MIIeFisk

Posted by facepalming

Posted by MIIeFisk
When was the last time you saw your GYN?

Good point, im on a 3 year relationship i think last time i went was 2 years ago.. I fcking hate going to doctors.

Since i always had pain, and with other bf's doc said i had something caused by my mind "vaginism" , I kinda got used with the pain. But now it isn't that Im sure.

Gonna listen to ur advice !

Darling, unless you're a virgin, pain during interourse is never good and shouldnt really be taken lightly. Depending what kind of pain and where exactly, people here are going to be completely useless. Go get a pelvic exam. If insurance is an issue, Planned Parenthood isnt just for pregnancies and pervention. They also help with sexual health. They'll be a little less expensive if they know you dont have insurance.

You're right shouldn't be taken lightly because its the few pleasures we can have in life. My country doesn't have a health system like in america, we don't have insurances. We have public health , cheap or free but can take some time or private practices where things are faster and sometimes with more quality than public doctors.

But I will have this checked!

thanks MIIeFisk

If you don't mind saying, which country are you in?

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Portugal

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Posted by Ssuperman

Posted by irreconcilabledifferences

Posted by facepalming
Yo

Not sure if I can post a doubt like this in this forum.

During intercourse I usually have a bit of pain, but if my boyfriend ejaculates inside I will have much more pain than if he doesn't come inside.

Might this be semen allergy? Is it common ?

if you had sex with superman wouldn't you die from the cum blast?

legit question

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Could have kryptonite fanny

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10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by facepalming

Posted by Ssuperman

Posted by irreconcilabledifferences

Posted by facepalming
Yo

Not sure if I can post a doubt like this in this forum.

During intercourse I usually have a bit of pain, but if my boyfriend ejaculates inside I will have much more pain than if he doesn't come inside.

Might this be semen allergy? Is it common ?

if you had sex with superman wouldn't you die from the cum blast?

legit question

Could have kryptonite fanny

click to expand

A prolapsed vag wouldn't be a good thing

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@facepalming
9 YearsTaurus

Posted by GalOnTheCusp
Hey there, hope I can help a little. So that happened to me with my ex. Like, curl up in a ball, burned staying still, burned peeing, etc. - but only if the semen was inside of me. Hard to explain, a little. I used to have to put a warm wet washcloth down there and that would help the most, but yeah, it was concerning to both of us.

But yes. My gyno said that my Ph balance and the Ph balance of his semen weren't compatible. He said the easiest solution was to use condoms every time we had sex, for at least six weeks and up to three months. Even through the latex, something would happen that would eventually allow my body to readjust and accept his semen.

It worked.

Never happened with anyone else.

Good luck, hope this helps!

Yes! It's exactly how I feel ! I usually try cold running water instead.

Thanks sweetie

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12 YearsLibra

I had this with my first boyfriend. When he would cum inside me I had bad, dull cramps. Very unpleasant. I haven't had it since, but you're probably ok, though you might have to tell him to get off outside of you. Good luck!

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Posted by Ssuperman

Posted by facepalming

Posted by Ssuperman

Posted by irreconcilabledifferences

Posted by facepalming
Yo

Not sure if I can post a doubt like this in this forum.

During intercourse I usually have a bit of pain, but if my boyfriend ejaculates inside I will have much more pain than if he doesn't come inside.

Might this be semen allergy? Is it common ?

if you had sex with superman wouldn't you die from the cum blast?

legit question

Could have kryptonite fanny

A prolapsed vag wouldn't be a good thing

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That was the inspiration to make "Fleshlights" so maybe a good thang!