Is he obsessed with me?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by justmex3 on Tuesday, December 6, 2016 and has 17 replies.

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9 Years

This guy in high school would always stare at me everyday and then he would always bring me up randomly to people and talk bad about me. One time I was eating my lunch and he is kitchen aid and I was wondering where my friend went and I asked my other friend where he went and she told me he was in the lunch line. And the guy that I feel is obsessed with me, I looked up and the guy is in the kitchen window staring at me and I didn't even know how long he had been there. He was standing there and smiling. Then he looked down and smiled and walked away.

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@justmex3
9 Years

I'm not sure because he like would tell people he wants nothing to do with me but he would also say he likes me and thinks im pretty cute. And he also blocked me on Instagram but i saw him recently out somewhere and he kept looking out of the corner of his eye at me and looked down smiling and he kept fiddling with objects on the side So eh idk

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@justmex3
9 Years

Me and him have already graduated and we live in a small town so sometimes we see each other out places and he just acts nervous.

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@justmex3
9 Years

Sometimes when out he will glare at me. In school he would glare. But then like later on in the day he'd be giving me this dreamy eyed look with his head tilted a bit a little half smile with his hands in his pockets. So idk.

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Posted by justmex3
This guy in high school would always stare at me everyday and then he would always bring me up randomly to people and talk bad about me. One time I was eating my lunch and he is kitchen aid and I was wondering where my friend went and I asked my other friend where he went and she told me he was in the lunch line. And the guy that I feel is obsessed with me, I looked up and the guy is in the kitchen window staring at me and I didn't even know how long he had been there. He was standing there and smiling. Then he looked down and smiled and walked away.

There's a fine line with obsess or possessiveness.

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@justmex3
9 Years

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He's 18 and I'm 19. This birthday is February 9th 1998 and mine is September 20th 1997.

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9 Years

@P-Angel First of all you haven't been in this situation and you don't know the whole story because I didn't say the whole thing. It was more than just staring. This guy stared at me EVERDAY for three years. And he talked about me badly and brought me up to people every chance he got. Plus he did some things I'd rather not mention because it was gross. (Hint: he was in the bathroom when he did it)