Pink Bird
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Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?
It's not in my nature to reach out and bug people. I naturally will be lazy and expect a man to chase me and take my rude, non communicative ways 😄 hence why I'm single and only Geminis chase me. 😛
Lol gems are good talkers. I have a date with one on Saturday. See I’m a Leo venus. I have a serious chase in me. I want what I can’t have. And don’t want what i can have. That’s why I’m single.
My Leo Mars is the same way! 😆 The chase is fun. I love it when it becomes a challenge, that's when it starts getting good! 😄
Lol yes you understand me!click to expand
I just don't communicate well, so my Mars is pretty lazy. I chase, then sit back and do nothing and expect to reap the benefits! 😆
I want you now! Come here, where are you going? Gimmme!
Now come at me, I'll be waiting 😛
Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03Posted by saggurl88
I think I do this a lot cause dudes are always coming back after they get upset that I tell them I have sucky communication, they cut me off and then I don't reach out. They are annoying lol
Lol yea sounds super annoying. Guys are pretty lame. Well a lot are.
I wish I cared more about it. I see how it actually does work in healthy relationship to communicate 😛
Lol yea communication is important. What’s the main reason you have this problem?
It's not in my nature to reach out and bug people. I naturally will be lazy and expect a man to chase me and take my rude, non communicative ways 😄 hence why I'm single and only Geminis chase me. 😛
Lol gems are good talkers. I have a date with one on Saturday. See I’m a Leo venus. I have a serious chase in me. I want what I can’t have. And don’t want what i can have. That’s why I’m single.
My Leo Mars is the same way! 😆 The chase is fun. I love it when it becomes a challenge, that's when it starts getting good! 😄
Lol yes you understand me!
I just don't communicate well, so my Mars is pretty lazy. I chase, then sit back and do nothing and expect to reap the benefits! 😆
I want you now! Come here, where are you going? Gimmme!
Now come at me, I'll be waiting 😛click to expand
Lol you like guys to court you. I would love that, but guys aren’t old fashioned anymore
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Mariposa_
As an aqua, I can go through 1mos-6mos. Of no contact, like I said my internal ego allows my will power to be this strong but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them because I really do..
Unless idgaf, than I will be blowing up their phone regardless lol there’s a Scorpio man in my life that I’ll do 1week no contact and I’m like fck that this man better talk to me! I’m just confident about it. 😤😂
It’s an aqua I’m talking about so your perspective is interesting. Thank you.
Pink bird, I will be honest aqua men are much more different than the women. Regardless of sign, women will always be more emotional, it doesn’t matter how much space she desires. As for me, I hold a fire/water chart with the rest air. So yes, I do crave attention and I can be quite needy, I even also make it known but aqua guys are sooo much more closed off.
So patience is key! I would also suggest talking to @TrueCap because she’s married to an aqua and has experienced all this already.click to expand
If you do it, you have to mean it. If you’re doing it as a game, he will see through it. Fairness turns off an aqua faster than anything else.
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Mariposa_
As an aqua, I can go through 1mos-6mos. Of no contact, like I said my internal ego allows my will power to be this strong but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them because I really do..
Unless idgaf, than I will be blowing up their phone regardless lol there’s a Scorpio man in my life that I’ll do 1week no contact and I’m like fck that this man better talk to me! I’m just confident about it. 😤😂
It’s an aqua I’m talking about so your perspective is interesting. Thank you.
Pink bird, I will be honest aqua men are much more different than the women. Regardless of sign, women will always be more emotional, it doesn’t matter how much space she desires. As for me, I hold a fire/water chart with the rest air. So yes, I do crave attention and I can be quite needy, I even also make it known but aqua guys are sooo much more closed off.
So patience is key! I would also suggest talking to @TrueCap because she’s married to an aqua and has experienced all this already.click to expand
If you do it, you have to mean it. If you’re doing it as a game, he will see through it. Fairness turns off an aqua faster than anything else.
*fakeness not fairness
Ugh!!!
Ugh!!!
Posted by truecapPosted by Mariposa_Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Mariposa_
As an aqua, I can go through 1mos-6mos. Of no contact, like I said my internal ego allows my will power to be this strong but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them because I really do..
Unless idgaf, than I will be blowing up their phone regardless lol there’s a Scorpio man in my life that I’ll do 1week no contact and I’m like fck that this man better talk to me! I’m just confident about it. 😤😂
It’s an aqua I’m talking about so your perspective is interesting. Thank you.
Pink bird, I will be honest aqua men are much more different than the women. Regardless of sign, women will always be more emotional, it doesn’t matter how much space she desires. As for me, I hold a fire/water chart with the rest air. So yes, I do crave attention and I can be quite needy, I even also make it known but aqua guys are sooo much more closed off.
So patience is key! I would also suggest talking to @TrueCap because she’s married to an aqua and has experienced all this already.
If you do it, you have to mean it. If you’re doing it as a game, he will see through it. Fairness turns off an aqua faster than anything else.click to expand
I’m sorry Truecap. I tried. It’s not fake. I think he knows I struggle and pull away. And he knows I always come back. Just like I know he always comes back when he pulls away. I feel like we are magnets. We never stay away long. I don’t think either of us have lasted more than a week of no contact/social media avoidance in the last year. It’s definitely the strangest relationship I’ve ever dealt with.
Edit: and were always here with open arms. As if nothing happened. It goes back to our normal.
Posted by pinkbird03
Does it work?
What sign did you do it with?
Yes. Leo, Scorpio, Aries ... usually the ones with huge egos. They get butt hurt the most if you act like they’re dead or they never existed in your life.
Posted by Gobby
A two year ban was unexpectedly placed on me by a Gemini, weeks after we last saw each other. We lived in different countries as well. Never heard from her again.
I hope karma makes her pay dearly for that (amongst other things)...
How have you been? It’s been so long!
No contact rule threads about to be about covid19 going forward 😂😭
Posted by LadyNeptune
No contact rule threads about to be about covid19 going forward 😂😭
This is a year old thread 😂
thought this was a coronavirus thread...
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