
librawomen7
@librawomen7
9 Years500+ Posts
Comments: 1 · Posts: 523 · Topics: 14









Posted by Redoctober2000
I've been ranting on about the above statements ever since I have been on dxp and the majority of women dont seem to have good values other than a few on here and they just continue to make the same mistakes time and time again...
Good post but the majority of women on here won't take a blind but of notice.... In fact Sagiluv could do with reading the above..

Posted by Arielle83So hard to control the emotions for some of us.
The controlling emotions is good in all areas of life.
Reactionary ppl are draining.
Other than that the rest is kinda funny.

Posted by CancerOnTheCuspOkay thanks for the feedback.
The title of the book should be: "How to Manipulate Men for Fun and Profit by Kara King".
For some men, it will always work.
For other men it will work some of the time.
For other men (what I call good men), he'll figure out the game pretty quickly and the woman in question will be posting on DXP.
I'll give the author some points about woman needing to have self-respect, but that is about it.


Posted by enfant_terribleGood advice.
Learn to cook. That way you can manipulate your man into marriage and still look yourself in the mirror


Posted by MrFirebirdI didn't write it - Kara King wrote this top selling book from amazon.
OP,
You got that wrong.
Men are "physical" creatures.
Women are "emotional" creatures.
Women use their "physical" attributes to obtain some form of
emotional gratification.
Not ALL men are "sexually" motivated.
The moment a woman tries to play with a man's mind, that's the moment
she will find out how receptive he is to her.
Some men possess an intense amount of self-control and some men possess
an intense amount of "lack of self-control".
If you think that playing games to get a man's attention is a smart thing to do,
by all means do so. However, there is a darkside that you must also be prepared
for. The side which can lead to your mutilation.
Play the harlot and you pay the penalties of the harlot.
A wise woman builds up her house. A foolish woman tears it down.

Posted by Libra82I feel you.
Being flirtatious and playful is one thing as long as we are ourself. But changing yourself completely just so you could make a man like you..no. In the end don't we want someone who loves us for who we are?

Posted by librawomen7No wonder.Posted by MrFirebirdI didn't write it - Kara King wrote this top selling book from amazon.
OP,
You got that wrong.
Men are "physical" creatures.
Women are "emotional" creatures.
Women use their "physical" attributes to obtain some form of
emotional gratification.
Not ALL men are "sexually" motivated.
The moment a woman tries to play with a man's mind, that's the moment
she will find out how receptive he is to her.
Some men possess an intense amount of self-control and some men possess
an intense amount of "lack of self-control".
If you think that playing games to get a man's attention is a smart thing to do,
by all means do so. However, there is a darkside that you must also be prepared
for. The side which can lead to your mutilation.
Play the harlot and you pay the penalties of the harlot.
A wise woman builds up her house. A foolish woman tears it down.
click to expand

Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI haven't read the entire thing yet, but I disagree that it's manipulation. The bit about waiting until you find the good man you want is something I have done in my own life. Not because I read an article, however, but because of how I was raised and how the men (my father and brothers) treated me in my life. I subconsciously had an expectation of how a good man behaves and I was never attracted to men who didn't meet that expectation. I never made excuses for men, either, when they didn't meet my expectations. I simply chalked it up to them not being for me, and my not being for them.
The title of the book should be: "How to Manipulate Men for Fun and Profit by Kara King".
For some men, it will always work.
For other men it will work some of the time.
For other men (what I call good men), he'll figure out the game pretty quickly and the woman in question will be posting on DXP.
I'll give the author some points about woman needing to have self-respect, but that is about it.






Posted by SensitiveBluesI agree with this. If you are truly friends, rules, game play and manipulation becomes totally unnecessary.
People don't focus on experiences and Friendship enough.
My favorite friends were men until they got married. The women of my culture lock them away and throw away the key and I get it
But still
Anyways friendship between a man and woman can be great! The best actually.
So if you have one marry your best friend

Posted by AndalusiaLearning how to share, now that's an advice book we could all use, also the power of vulnerability, we need that one too.....
The author (and others in this genre) keep referring to "men" and "women", as if it's a given we are all emotionally healthy, mature adults who know exactly who we are, what we want, what makes us tick, and blessed with the extraordinary ability to look outside ourselves and see the larger picture.
No.
I think that's the first mistake.
They need to write a dating and relating book geared towards "boys" and "girls" ages 8-12. Cause that's the kind of shit most people need. Me included.
Forget The Power of the Pussy. It should be called Start with Saying Hi and Learning How to Share

Posted by tizianiI've said this before,and I will say it again - I don't easily crush, I am not easily attracted. It's not something I consciously set myself up to be; I've always just been that way. I can objectively look at a man and think: "He's attractive," but I will feel nothing about it. I have only been attracted three times: Once in sixth grade (he started mid semester and became the top of our class), once during my first job (he was a Virgo and the brother of my best friend's fiancé), and now (the cap I met at college.) other than the three of them, never have I felt attracted and wanted to do something about it. It's just how I'm wired. I've felt ostracized growing up because I could never relate when the girls gathered together and talk led about the boys they all agreed were attractive, even now in college.Posted by LillyPetalYou're seriously saying you've never been attracted to men who've fallen below your expectations?Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI haven't read the entire thing yet, but I disagree that it's manipulation. The bit about waiting until you find the good man you want is something I have done in my own life. Not because I read an article, however, but because of how I was raised and how the men (my father and brothers) treated me in my life. I subconsciously had an expectation of how a good man behaves and I was never attracted to men who didn't meet that expectation. I never made excuses for men, either, when they didn't meet my expectations. I simply chalked it up to them not being for me, and my not being for them.
The title of the book should be: "How to Manipulate Men for Fun and Profit by Kara King".
For some men, it will always work.
For other men it will work some of the time.
For other men (what I call good men), he'll figure out the game pretty quickly and the woman in question will be posting on DXP.
I'll give the author some points about woman needing to have self-respect, but that is about it.
There is nothing wrong with empowering women. Good men shouldn't be intimidated, threatened, or bothered by it. Upstanding men would add to the dialogue and aid in empowering women.
First impressions, Now I'm off to reading some more...
click to expand

Posted by kissmygrits
Today's menu is cuban sandwiches, chips, fried pickles... byob! Hooray football!
That's me no longer giving a shit on what I did wrong with men. I'm an Adderall idiot magnet so I'll just not bother.

Posted by LillyPetalRight...Posted by CancerOnTheCuspI haven't read the entire thing yet, but I disagree that it's manipulation. The bit about waiting until you find the good man you want is something I have done in my own life. Not because I read an article, however, but because of how I was raised and how the men (my father and brothers) treated me in my life. I subconsciously had an expectation of how a good man behaves and I was never attracted to men who didn't meet that expectation. I never made excuses for men, either, when they didn't meet my expectations. I simply chalked it up to them not being for me, and my not being for them.
The title of the book should be: "How to Manipulate Men for Fun and Profit by Kara King".
For some men, it will always work.
For other men it will work some of the time.
For other men (what I call good men), he'll figure out the game pretty quickly and the woman in question will be posting on DXP.
I'll give the author some points about woman needing to have self-respect, but that is about it.
There is nothing wrong with empowering women. Good men shouldn't be intimidated, threatened, or bothered by it. Upstanding men would add to the dialogue and aid in empowering women.
First impressions, Now I'm off to reading some more...click to expand

Posted by virgowithasoulI have never dated a man who left because I withheld sex; in fact they stayed longer. But point well taken.
using sex as a hostage all the time is just dirty. Sometimes the man may not wait because his drive overrides any virtue he has, because its a limbic instinct. He may just move on because his needs are not met. Mr Firebird got it right. If you actually want the man but insist on using sex as leverage for the potential relationship, you'll just dig a deeper grave. There are ways to bond with the man besides obviously withholding sex.

Posted by rabidtalkerI see your point.
This stuff gets rehashed every 10-15 years with new titles and it's available in some form or another from different authors for men and women. I think it's good in the short term if your self esteem is low but you will realize that you wont have a very good or quality relationship (or it may fall apart) when you do get one through these tactics. If you are in your early 20s and still figuring things out maybe it's ok, I dont know but if everyone does this nothing good happens. My advice would be Once you get your self esteem intact look to change out of this and use the raw energy of your self-esteem for bigger self-improvement.

Posted by GemitatiMen play games however - they call it the battle of the sexes.
I don't playa games. Who needs this 'let him wonder if I like him'?
Hunting for men is good, however he got you in a sack and dissapeared. Good job girl!
I had always brutally honest with man I like.
Gets them every time! If he hears 'I love you'
don't run away - THIS is an abdication of
possible future together. You can catch more
with honey than vinegar!

Posted by AriesLoveDamn!Posted by enfant_terribleLearn how to make some 'real money'. As you long as you are making minimum wage you get Hot Pockets and Pizza Rolls
Learn to cook. That way you can manipulate your man into marriage and still look yourself in the mirror
click to expand

Posted by librawomen7Well you can't count the ones with no self respect.Posted by virgowithasoulI have never dated a man who left because I withheld sex; in fact they stayed longer. But point well taken.
using sex as a hostage all the time is just dirty. Sometimes the man may not wait because his drive overrides any virtue he has, because its a limbic instinct. He may just move on because his needs are not met. Mr Firebird got it right. If you actually want the man but insist on using sex as leverage for the potential relationship, you'll just dig a deeper grave. There are ways to bond with the man besides obviously withholding sex.
click to expand

Posted by librawomen7Posted by GemitatiMen play games however - they call it the battle of the sexes.
I don't playa games. Who needs this 'let him wonder if I like him'?
Hunting for men is good, however he got you in a sack and dissapeared. Good job girl!
I had always brutally honest with man I like.
Gets them every time! If he hears 'I love you'
don't run away - THIS is an abdication of
possible future together. You can catch more
with honey than vinegar!
Posted by librawomen7They are only doing it if the battle is going on.Posted by GemitatiMen play games however - they call it the battle of the sexes.
I don't playa games. Who needs this 'let him wonder if I like him'?
Hunting for men is good, however he got you in a sack and dissapeared. Good job girl!
I had always brutally honest with man I like.
Gets them every time! If he hears 'I love you'
don't run away - THIS is an abdication of
possible future together. You can catch more
with honey than vinegar!
click to expand

Posted by starwarsJust you, weirdo.
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?

Posted by starwarsIt's not lasers but maybe you'll find this almost as good
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
I want that to be my superhero power.

Posted by starwarsPosted by rabidtalkerLOL wtf!!! I need to watch it!Posted by starwarsIt's not lasers but maybe you'll find this almost as good
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
I want that to be my superhero power.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0780622/
click to expand

Posted by starwarsNo, that laser-beaming vagina is all Virgo.Posted by sultrykittycome on moon\asc twinnie, I know you didPosted by starwarsJust you, weirdo.
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
click to expand


Posted by starwars
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
I want that to be my superhero power.

Posted by librawomen7Posted by MrFirebirdI didn't write it - Kara King wrote this top selling book from amazon.
OP,
You got that wrong.
Men are "physical" creatures.
Women are "emotional" creatures.
Women use their "physical" attributes to obtain some form of
emotional gratification.
Not ALL men are "sexually" motivated.
The moment a woman tries to play with a man's mind, that's the moment
she will find out how receptive he is to her.
Some men possess an intense amount of self-control and some men possess
an intense amount of "lack of self-control".
If you think that playing games to get a man's attention is a smart thing to do,
by all means do so. However, there is a darkside that you must also be prepared
for. The side which can lead to your mutilation.
Play the harlot and you pay the penalties of the harlot.
A wise woman builds up her house. A foolish woman tears it down.
click to expand


Posted by starwarsI just love you! ?
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
I want that to be my superhero power.

Posted by MrFirebirdAre you some kind of joker?
I'd suggest someone write a book entitled "Stupidity for Dummies".
Pretty sure it wouldn't make the NYT best seller list.


Posted by GemitatiPossibly why I respect gems often.
They are only doing it if the battle is going on.
Don't let them fight. Put all cards in front of them
and they are caught in 'no game here' scene.
Playing is a waste of time. Both sees know it.
You play an untouchable Princess - time lost.
He is playing Knight who MUST kiss the Princess...
at the end both are sexually incompatible! Ooops!
Whats then? TIME LOST!
If both are compatible - guess what? So he is with
other Princesses!

Posted by AriesLoveLOL, see men love women like Arieslove.Posted by tizianiBut if you were a real man you could take your hard earned money and go buy some enchiladas take out instead of waiting on a woman to fill your pot belly.
Turning down sex is easy. Turning down enchiladas is not.
And that's a true story.
click to expand

Posted by starwarsWhen I like someone I want us to get it going, sitting and waiting is terrible.
anyone else having thoughts of laser coming out of the vagina reading the title or is it just me?
I want that to be my superhero power.

Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by librawomen7Posted by MrFirebirdI didn't write it - Kara King wrote this top selling book from amazon.
OP,
You got that wrong.
Men are "physical" creatures.
Women are "emotional" creatures.
Women use their "physical" attributes to obtain some form of
emotional gratification.
Not ALL men are "sexually" motivated.
The moment a woman tries to play with a man's mind, that's the moment
she will find out how receptive he is to her.
Some men possess an intense amount of self-control and some men possess
an intense amount of "lack of self-control".
If you think that playing games to get a man's attention is a smart thing to do,
by all means do so. However, there is a darkside that you must also be prepared
for. The side which can lead to your mutilation.
Play the harlot and you pay the penalties of the harlot.
A wise woman builds up her house. A foolish woman tears it down.
Kara King is wrong.
Women cannot get a thing out of a man who is strong in his morals, convictions, intellect
and self-control.
What King is promoting is basically how to become a worthless tramp and attract scumbags.
No need to read the book. It's full of it. I can tell, already.
Same holds true for the dumb ass daffydill from dopeyville musings peddled by these
catladies online to weak minded lonely women who can't think for themselves!
It's like reading a book "How to get into a woman's panties, her checkbook, bank account, credit cards
eras, CDs etc. and make off like an untouchable bandit, leaving her high and dry for all her
friends and family to see."
Chapter 1
How to find a truly dumb ass woman.
Chapter 5
How to set up a foreign bank account
Chapter 10
How to sit back and relax and enjoy the good life
Get my point
Weren't you quoting scriptures?
I can really see the God in you - so much class and compassion.
You are an amazing example of why we should read the bible.
Ladies don't read the book that teaches you to value yourself and understand the complexities of men, instead listen to this guy who quotes scriptures then turn around and like Satan.
click to expand

Posted by TauroMale22Yeah it teaches women not to give their vagina away instead have self-respect and wait for a guy to prove himself or demonstrate sincere interests so the lady won't feel used and get hurt.
Dumb empowerment Bs.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Controlling your emotions is also important when you meet or like a new guy. You know, like when you want to call him, text him, or leave comments on his Facebook page. Or when you’re waiting for him to call, like he said he would and so you decide to call him.
You know you should just wait it out and let him come to you, but you’re dying to reach out to him. Don’t do it! Be patient. Control yourself. Always wait it out and always make them come to you. If he doesn’t, that’s a SURE SIGN he doesn’t like you.
It’s okay to flirt. Just don’t pursue. If he likes you, he’ll call. If he likes you, he’ll text. If he likes you, he’ll find ways to be around you. If he doesn’t, take it as his way of letting you know that he isn’t interested.
Women should never have to put a lot effort into getting a man’s attention. If you’re not getting the responses, calls, texts, or attention you were hoping for, then forget about him. He most likely doesn’t like you, or he’d show it and you would know it.
Reason #1: Men hate it when they can’t see into your head. If you control your emotions for a new guy, you’re making him wonder if you like him or not. When he can’t figure it out, he’ll work harder. Suddenly, he’ll be the one calling and texting. He’ll be the one pursuing you, instead of the other way around.
Reason #2: Men only want you when you don’t want them. It’s all about the thrill of the hunt for a man. I know you’ve heard this before and probably think it’s just stupid bullshit games. To us, it’s stupid because we’re women, our brains are different. We think, “hey, if you like me, then be with me.”Read more at location 539
Men aren’t like that. Men want to hunt. The thrill of the hunt gets a man interested much faster than calling him and leaving cute comments on his Facebook page. That’s just the way it is. The sooner you accept this, the better for you. Flirt with him, but control your urge to go after him and if he likes you, he’ll definitely come after you.
Reason #3: Only fools rush in. As women, we get swept off our feet too easily. Don’t be so quick to like a new guy, especially one you just met or just started dating. Control those happy emotions that come so easily in the beginning of relationships. Don’t go on one or two dates with some guy and immediately start getting feelings for him or start thinking he’s the one. Slow down. Control yourself and play hard to get.