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Depart from your s.o. if you work say opposite schedules and they are sleeping soundly. Do you wake them? Give them a little kiss? Not do anything? Leave a note?

Curious what other people do. My bf works odd shifts...it's never the same from one day to the next. Sometimes he's up at the ass crack of dawn, other times we spend the morning together and at times I leave before him.

We try to "snuggle" for 5 minutes after the alarm goes off. But like this morning he hardly even responded ro me when i left. He worked until 1am. Im not mad, or hurt just curious how other people say their goodbyes in the AM.
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They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂
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They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂

That doesn't sound sustainable... :/
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They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂

That doesn't sound sustainable... :/

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Have you tried it?
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They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂

That doesn't sound sustainable... :/




Have you tried it?
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Yeah, but i cant trace my finger on his chest and stare at him every morning without feeling like a psychopath
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Well we work together, so see each other a lot. He starts earlier than me usually. Sometimes he wakes me up to say goodbye or I just wake up. But lately he just goes because I am about to give birth so he rather I stay asleep


Awww!!! Congratulations, Koni!!! 💑👼💙💙💙💓


Thank you! We are due Monday, so the next few days will be spent getting things going ❤️
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I'm happy for you 😘
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They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂

That doesn't sound sustainable... :/




Have you tried it?

Yeah, but i cant trace my finger on his chest and stare at him every morning without feeling like a psychopath
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Lol, try shading me better. I know what I did and the effects already.

Peace out ✌
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Posted by AneemA11

They are sleeping soundly... :/

Who are they?



Anyways, if i find my bf snores besides me, I would simply kiss him gently.

If he doesn't snore, i would trace his chest gently and stare at his peaceful sleeping face..

If I want him to remember me by the time he gets ready to work (assuming I'm still asleep), then prior to my sleeping time, I would arrange something special at his favourite place at home.. Or, change positionings of items at home and feel giddy to find out if he is aware of that 🙂

That doesn't sound sustainable... :/




Have you tried it?

Yeah, but i cant trace my finger on his chest and stare at him every morning without feeling like a psychopath


Lol, try shading me better. I know what I did and the effects already.

Peace out ✌
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Sorry not throwing shade. Just seems cringy to me. To each their own. If it works for you, thats awesome!
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Posted by Koni

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Well we work together, so see each other a lot. He starts earlier than me usually. Sometimes he wakes me up to say goodbye or I just wake up. But lately he just goes because I am about to give birth so he rather I stay asleep


Awww!!! Congratulations, Koni!!! 💑👼💙💙💙💓


Thank you! We are due Monday, so the next few days will be spent getting things going ❤️
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My sister is due closer to the 15th.

Congrats on your cap baby!
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He works at 6am and tries to leave by 5:20. So I'm usually dozing as he's getting ready.

He gives me a kiss before he heads out. RIP my morning breath lol

Leo mars is a big cuddler so he usually spoons me all night.

I find it really cute that he will still text me a good morning text, even on the mornings I see him.


My guy does the same. He'll send me a heart emoji on his way to work. Even if we spent the whole morning together. He sent me a barrage of texts this morning apologizing for not waking up when i left. I tols him nbd...you were tired.

You guys sound cute and like a really good balance
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Kiss on the forehead or cheek and I leave. I don’t wake them up. If I’m feeling rushed, I’ll just leave.

I guess maybe im ocd. Id feel weird and id turn my car around d and kiss them bye. My world feels out of whack if i don't show affection upon leaving.

Im one of those people who feels like, god forbid something happends to me or them. i want them to know they knew they were loved and i gave them the "last kiss"...super mobid 😂
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I leave the man alone and let him sleep. Maybe kiss him like 1x a month... he is sleeping anyway and will not wake up if someone blew a trumpet in his face.

If he is already awake, he probably will receive a task or a chore I would like him to do while I am working 😆

Lmao...its a learned behavior to sleep then lmao.




LOL no he's never safe. If the task or chore is dire enough, he will be woken to hear it and it best be done by the time I get home too 😂😂😂
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Wanna teach me a thing or two? I have a stubborn bull who hasnt done his dishes in a month

He know if he doesnt do the dishes i dont cook...he just starves or sneaks food.
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He works at 6am and tries to leave by 5:20. So I'm usually dozing as he's getting ready.

He gives me a kiss before he heads out. RIP my morning breath lol

Leo mars is a big cuddler so he usually spoons me all night.

I find it really cute that he will still text me a good morning text, even on the mornings I see him.


My guy does the same. He'll send me a heart emoji on his way to work. Even if we spent the whole morning together. He sent me a barrage of texts this morning apologizing for not waking up when i left. I tols him nbd...you were tired.

You guys sound cute and like a really good balance
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We are far from perfect. But I ain't bored yet which has been the kiss of death in my other relationships. Fingers crossed...

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He works at 6am and tries to leave by 5:20. So I'm usually dozing as he's getting ready.

He gives me a kiss before he heads out. RIP my morning breath lol

Leo mars is a big cuddler so he usually spoons me all night.

I find it really cute that he will still text me a good morning text, even on the mornings I see him.


My guy does the same. He'll send me a heart emoji on his way to work. Even if we spent the whole morning together. He sent me a barrage of texts this morning apologizing for not waking up when i left. I tols him nbd...you were tired.

You guys sound cute and like a really good balance


We are far from perfect. But I ain't bored yet which has been the kiss of death in my other relationships. Fingers crossed...

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You dont live together right? Im starting to relaize its nice not seeing eachother too much. I think that's why boredom has always set in for me, in the past.
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I never did anything with my husband. Im not that type of person and it would piss me off to get woken up for a cuddle

You sound just like my libra friend. He hates to be touched wheb she sleeps. She actually prefers her own room.


Yup! I dont want cuddles to sleep or any of that.

Like once its bedtime, leave me alone
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😂😂😂 i dont understand it, but i love the sass!!
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He works at 6am and tries to leave by 5:20. So I'm usually dozing as he's getting ready.

He gives me a kiss before he heads out. RIP my morning breath lol

Leo mars is a big cuddler so he usually spoons me all night.

I find it really cute that he will still text me a good morning text, even on the mornings I see him.


My guy does the same. He'll send me a heart emoji on his way to work. Even if we spent the whole morning together. He sent me a barrage of texts this morning apologizing for not waking up when i left. I tols him nbd...you were tired.

You guys sound cute and like a really good balance


We are far from perfect. But I ain't bored yet which has been the kiss of death in my other relationships. Fingers crossed...



You dont live together right? Im starting to relaize its nice not seeing eachother too much. I think that's why boredom has always set in for me, in the past.
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We actually tried to move in. We looked at places and made a plan. But timing isn't right until he's done with school just based off of the commute.

Its nice in a way cause you get psyched to see each other and have something to look forward to each week.