He still comes to my house uninvited and pays my bills. Why would he do this if he wanted to break up??
Why does my ex still pay my bills?
Why not just ask him? 🤔
Posted by sweetpea2977
Why not just ask him? 🤔
I have him blocked and I don’t want him in my life. I feel like he’s doing it so I will reach out to him
Posted by Dreamy007Posted by sweetpea2977
Why not just ask him? 🤔
I have him blocked and I don’t want him in my life. I feel like he’s doing it so I will reach out to himclick to expand
You have him blocked but he still shows up uninvited AND you don't want him in your life, but you allow him to still pay your bills?
My take is, he's still showing up uninvited and paying your bills because you simply allow it. You can stop both if you really want to but I don't really think that you do. Unless you've omitted some details? 🤔
Yes, what sign is he? I need to know what my future ex is going to be.
Posted by Reciprocity8
Yes, what sign is he? I need to know what my future ex is going to be.
My bet is on Virgo or Taurus..
You can send him my way so he can pay my bills.... kthanks.
How is he paying your bills? Does he come steal your mail? Does he have the info to all your online accts? Does he call them in? Or is he handing you money?
How is he paying your bills? Does he come steal your mail? Does he have the info to all your online accts? Does he call them in? Or is he handing you money?
Can he pay mines too ?... he can come uninvited, If he pays my rent I can also give him a copy of my keys 🙂
Posted by GC07Posted by Onimusha01
Can he pay mines too ?... he can come uninvited, If he pays my rent I can also give him a copy of my keys 🙂
I’m guessing this 👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼 is why he’s doing it.click to expand
Yeah, like I wouldnt even ask this type of questions, he is paying her bills bc it is good to have someone to save you money and you dont have to pay them yourself. duh! lol.
I dont want him in my life but i open the doors to him, even tho he comes uninvited.... Really??!!! So, he knows the amount of her every month bills without her telling him?
Im sorry but this is kind of a dumb question to ask.
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
Yes he’s hot in a weird Ryan gosling way. He has cap rising. Some ppl think he’s goofy looking but he’s hot to me. But he has a really bad temper and snaps and very critical and obsessive.
Posted by GC07
I think he’s doing it to have access to your home and or keep tabs on you. 🔑
Yea he’s very controlling. So I’m thinking it’s a control issue. He had full control over me until I forced him to go away. Yea it’s cool to have my bills paid but the feeling behind it doesn’t feel like it’s coming from a good place.
Because you allow it.
What's your sign?
What's your sign?
Posted by STILL
Because you allow it.
What's your sign?
Scorpio
Posted by generation_xyPosted by Black-MambaPosted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
So hard to believe with those placements 😶
Not really
Pisces moon and aqua mars
He acts like a Scorpio. His Mars is square Pluto.click to expand
Posted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007Posted by generation_xyPosted by Black-MambaPosted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
So hard to believe with those placements 😶
Not really
Pisces moon and aqua mars
He acts like a Scorpio. His Mars is square Pluto.
What do you tell him?
click to expand
I haven’t talked to him at all since this started. I feel like he’s paying my bills so that will force me to reach out to say thank you. It’s controlling to me
Change the locks if you don't want him to come over. He will still come over but he wont be able to come in unless you let him.
Posted by Dreamy007
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
Change the lock. I bet you are trolling or lying. He has the keys and you don’t open the door because you know he has keys and he will get in and pay the bills.
Another question. How ugly is he?
Posted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007Posted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007Posted by generation_xyPosted by Black-MambaPosted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
So hard to believe with those placements 😶
Not really
Pisces moon and aqua mars
He acts like a Scorpio. His Mars is square Pluto.
What do you tell him?
I haven’t talked to him at all since this started. I feel like he’s paying my bills so that will force me to reach out to say thank you. It’s controlling to me
Your thoughts are in control more than your reality.
In this situation anyway
Do you think he’s playing mind games?click to expand
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Why question it? LOL!
How else will she brag about it?
Just stating the fact?
My ex paying my bills.
No drama. So she added some.
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by Black-MambaPosted by generation_xyPosted by Dreamy007
We lived in this house together before he moved out so he knows how to pay the bills here. And I don’t answer the door when comes. He still pays my bills and I haven’t talked to him since November. He’s a libra with a Pisces moon mars in aquaris and Venus and Pluto in Scorpio
So hard to believe with those placements 😶
Not really
Pisces moon and aqua mars
Nah this is all Libra sun. Cardinal controlling. It's not done until he says so.click to expand
The libra sun is his personality to the tee.
Sounds like a nice gig if you can get it
Uh is his name on the house?
I would be paying the bills if i didn’t want bad credit and think you can’t afford the bills. He might just be saving himself...
I would be paying the bills if i didn’t want bad credit and think you can’t afford the bills. He might just be saving himself...
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by LostinmyMind11
You can send him my way so he can pay my bills.... kthanks.
How is he paying your bills? Does he come steal your mail? Does he have the info to all your online accts? Does he call them in? Or is he handing you money?
I have these same questions. How is he getting access to pay these bills against her will.click to expand
Right??! Lol
Posted by Dreamy007
He still comes to my house uninvited and pays my bills. Why would he do this if he wanted to break up??
Why do you let him?
Posted by Notmyrealname
If you lived together and he moved out suddenly he might feel bad leaving you with half the rent still? Maybe once you get a lodger or something it’ll stop?
Or maybe he just doesn’t think it’s totally over yet?
Would have thought you’d have talked about it?
He won’t talk about it really ending but will yell we are broke up so he could do whatever he wanted. He thought he could just come back.
Posted by Dreamyboy
Low key humble brag?
So what does he do when he pays your rent? Does he come inside and chill a bit? Or often? Any other boyfriend things he do?
Edit saw more details
He’s keeping tabs on you definitely. Stop him and take care of yourself
Yes one time I pulled up at home and he pulled in right behind me like he had been following me from somwhere. I’m not bragging. It’s so confusing because one day he hates me verbally cuts me down but Trent will turn around and follow me and do nice things like pay my bills. I’m just really confused and can’t tell if it’s because he cares or is doing it to control me
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Dreamy007
He still comes to my house uninvited and pays my bills. Why would he do this if he wanted to break up??
Brag thread?
Why do you let him?
click to expand
If I were her I'd be embarassed about having my ex pay my bills so I didn't really figure it for a brag thread lol
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Control.
Wants you to see you "need" him.
I think that too. He would tell me when we arguing about breaking up that I would always need him and he can’t stand that I don’t really need him. He treated me like a child and in a way he’s trying to reinforce I can’t do anything on my own.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by ImpulsvPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Dreamy007
He still comes to my house uninvited and pays my bills. Why would he do this if he wanted to break up??
Brag thread?
Why do you let him?
If I were her I'd be embarassed about having my ex pay my bills so I didn't really figure it for a brag thread lolclick to expand
It feels demeaning.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by ImpulsvPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Dreamy007
He still comes to my house uninvited and pays my bills. Why would he do this if he wanted to break up??
Brag thread?
Why do you let him?
If I were her I'd be embarassed about having my ex pay my bills so I didn't really figure it
I can pay my own bills. I don’t need it. Idk it just feels weird when I go to pay my bill and there’s money already applied. Lolclick to expand
Damn this reminds me of a Cancer man
I wonder if this is a cardinal thing 🧐
I wonder if this is a cardinal thing 🧐
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by Dreamy007Posted by GC07
I think he’s doing it to have access to your home and or keep tabs on you. 🔑
Yea he’s very controlling. So I’m thinking it’s a control issue. He had full control over me until I forced him to go away. Yea it’s cool to have my bills paid but the feeling behind it doesn’t feel like it’s coming from a good place.
Do you think he might be dangerous?click to expand
Yes and no. It’s like a weird in between feeling of is this normal or no? Lol he gets really angry and forceful if he wants something and gives orders like he is the captain of any social situation he’s in. It’s really agressive, but can turn around and me be really sensitive and quite
Posted by LethalFantasia
I don't know but that's hot.
How do you not seduce him after exuding such sexy behavior tho?
Hey
Are you being serious?
Last night his best friend sent a message asking me how I’m doing and I’ve only met him once in person. So random
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