Stihl46
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Why would a guy spend so much money on a girl
derp derp
I don't know if its a status for him that he can spend money, I know damn well this trip wasn't his idea this one was hers. From the day they met his wallet was open its still open. Little things like she drives his car so she doesn't have to spend gas money driving hers, the 20 dollar bills never stop fleeing his wallet.
Yes I know its disrespectful for his guys saying his GF is a hooker she has feelings and no she's not a hooker.
I'm laughing a little more her hours are getting slashed where she works so she's really going to be mooching off him now.
Its call return of investment, he doesn't want to marry her, they tried living together it didn't work out. I think the biggest thing is he's scared she starts doing something that will affect his job he's screwed he makes 70-80k a year its a pretty good job for him he likes his job. Pretty sure he's realizing don't get involved with people you work with.
Yes I know its disrespectful for his guys saying his GF is a hooker she has feelings and no she's not a hooker.
I'm laughing a little more her hours are getting slashed where she works so she's really going to be mooching off him now.
Its call return of investment, he doesn't want to marry her, they tried living together it didn't work out. I think the biggest thing is he's scared she starts doing something that will affect his job he's screwed he makes 70-80k a year its a pretty good job for him he likes his job. Pretty sure he's realizing don't get involved with people you work with.
Posted by Stihl46Every rich guy is looking for a girl that is good looking and is good with money. if she works hard for her money and knows how to manage it then she is worth it, but if she is a gold digger then obviously not (can't tell from your context). If she is somewhere inbetween then he just has a lot of money and perhaps his concept of what a lot of money is different than us "regular" folk. 😛
He's rich he lives and breaths money she works hard for her money she came from a family where they are not rich.
Posted by ElleDuMondeit sounds like he admires the guy. through that jealousy.Posted by Stihl46stop being jealous of others and get your own.
I don't know if its a status for him that he can spend money, I know damn well this trip wasn't his idea this one was hers. From the day they met his wallet was open its still open. Little things like she drives his car so she doesn't have to spend gas money driving hers, the 20 dollar bills never stop fleeing his wallet.
Yes I know its disrespectful for his guys saying his GF is a hooker she has feelings and no she's not a hooker.
I'm laughing a little more her hours are getting slashed where she works so she's really going to be mooching off him now.
Its call return of investment, he doesn't want to marry her, they tried living together it didn't work out. I think the biggest thing is he's scared she starts doing something that will affect his job he's screwed he makes 70-80k a year its a pretty good job for him he likes his job. Pretty sure he's realizing don't get involved with people you work with.
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here is an awesome site for you, OP.
some folks can make 100k per year and have nothing, but with only 30k per year even with a FAMILY, you can still live and be happy.
http://www.daveramsey.com/blog/7-characteristics-of-debt-free-people
7 Characteristics of Debt-Free People
Family #1 manages to pay off $ 40,000 in debt in two years on a $ 35,000 annual income. Family #2 makes $ 100,000 a year but can’t seem to make the slightest dent in the same amount of debt.
Why is that?
Obviously, the second family has a spending problem. They make plenty of money—more than enough to pay off that debt in two years. But they have so much money going out, they can’t keep their head above water. Whether it’s in the form of an overbearing mortgage, credit cards, a hefty car payment or just making poor choices like eating out every night, their debt keeps them from making progress.
So all of their income gets sucked up by other stuff, which leaves them making minimum payments on their debts and never gathering any momentum. It’s a difficult, stressful way to live.
At some point, people who become debt-free decide that enough is enough. Their old lifestyle wasn’t working, and they’re ready to make some serious changes. It’s like they have a personality change, but that’s not what really happens. All they are doing is rediscovering aspects of their personality that have always been there.
So what are some of these traits of people who get debt-free?
some folks can make 100k per year and have nothing, but with only 30k per year even with a FAMILY, you can still live and be happy.
http://www.daveramsey.com/blog/7-characteristics-of-debt-free-people
7 Characteristics of Debt-Free People
Family #1 manages to pay off $ 40,000 in debt in two years on a $ 35,000 annual income. Family #2 makes $ 100,000 a year but can’t seem to make the slightest dent in the same amount of debt.
Why is that?
Obviously, the second family has a spending problem. They make plenty of money—more than enough to pay off that debt in two years. But they have so much money going out, they can’t keep their head above water. Whether it’s in the form of an overbearing mortgage, credit cards, a hefty car payment or just making poor choices like eating out every night, their debt keeps them from making progress.
So all of their income gets sucked up by other stuff, which leaves them making minimum payments on their debts and never gathering any momentum. It’s a difficult, stressful way to live.
At some point, people who become debt-free decide that enough is enough. Their old lifestyle wasn’t working, and they’re ready to make some serious changes. It’s like they have a personality change, but that’s not what really happens. All they are doing is rediscovering aspects of their personality that have always been there.
So what are some of these traits of people who get debt-free?
I'm not jealous I'm just curious why a guy would spend so much money on a woman that he has no plans of ever marrying or have a long lasting relationship. She said it was too mentally draining living with him she couldn't do it, he doesn't want her moving in he's been resisting from the day they met.
I wasn't born with good looks I guess its why he uses his money to compensate for it, he's got weight issues he may stand 6 feet tall he can't keep the weight off he told me he's had the problem since he was a kid.
He's a good guy he got himself into a problem he was thinking with the wrong head now he's trapped, got involved with a manipulative woman she could cause him some real troubles with his job. She's got nothing to lose but he sure does where is he going to find a job where he makes his kind of salary not a fat chance.
When I seen the pictures of his latest vacation through face book there goes a months worth of wages like I said he would have paid for the whole shot she doesn't have that kind of money. Your still spending schitt loads of money on her, he is giving her a life style she could never afford she says she feels a bit uncomfortable around his family because they are well off. She is from a working class family she was raised by her mom for most of her life she really never had a father figure in her life.
I've got my own problems one of the attracting women that are too young for me I wasn't slapped with an ugly stick, I'm healthy, I have a baby face its good in some ways when people think you are much younger than you really are. Feels really uncomfortable when a girl that is flirting with me is 20 years younger.
I wasn't born with good looks I guess its why he uses his money to compensate for it, he's got weight issues he may stand 6 feet tall he can't keep the weight off he told me he's had the problem since he was a kid.
He's a good guy he got himself into a problem he was thinking with the wrong head now he's trapped, got involved with a manipulative woman she could cause him some real troubles with his job. She's got nothing to lose but he sure does where is he going to find a job where he makes his kind of salary not a fat chance.
When I seen the pictures of his latest vacation through face book there goes a months worth of wages like I said he would have paid for the whole shot she doesn't have that kind of money. Your still spending schitt loads of money on her, he is giving her a life style she could never afford she says she feels a bit uncomfortable around his family because they are well off. She is from a working class family she was raised by her mom for most of her life she really never had a father figure in her life.
I've got my own problems one of the attracting women that are too young for me I wasn't slapped with an ugly stick, I'm healthy, I have a baby face its good in some ways when people think you are much younger than you really are. Feels really uncomfortable when a girl that is flirting with me is 20 years younger.
well it sounds like a healthy exchange.
I mean, men put a lot of money into their hobbies, so if his hobby is HER, just let him enjoy HER.
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I mean, men put a lot of money into their hobbies, so if his hobby is HER, just let him enjoy HER.
lol
She controls his life she's so phucking self centered everything revolves around her, she has peace of mind with him that no woman will steal him from her, like I said he's not the most attractive guy. Now he's suffering from the obesity issues again he's aging himself pretty quickly he gave up his healthy life style he was trying to stick too. Her friends are wondering why she's with him because she's an attractive girl and he's not the most attractive man.
When she was with me I couldn't stand her jealously issues we were just friends and I couldn't talk to other women in front of her it started many fights. She would chat up other guys in front of me but I did the same with other women I would get the glare..
She's got a lot of issues she hid a lot when she first met him he probably still doesn't know half of her issues with her health, her background she's got a lot of red flags she's still a good person thou. She's got a history of choosing the wrong men in her life she's told me about it.
When she was with me I couldn't stand her jealously issues we were just friends and I couldn't talk to other women in front of her it started many fights. She would chat up other guys in front of me but I did the same with other women I would get the glare..
She's got a lot of issues she hid a lot when she first met him he probably still doesn't know half of her issues with her health, her background she's got a lot of red flags she's still a good person thou. She's got a history of choosing the wrong men in her life she's told me about it.
It's quite simple actually. There's people in this world - for whom material wealth is the equivalent of love. Maybe they were part of a dysfunctional family - where money was portrayed as an expression of love - while the lack of financial abundance - was a subject that was treated with fear... and that got stuck with them (it's the only reality they know). Or maybe - they were part of the opposite extreme, where poverty - was a shameful/traumatizing part of their childhood - thus, they tried to compensate as adults - by striving for a life that's highly focused on material wealth. Could also be something in the middle... a dysfunctional father/mother figure (the controlling type) - that didn't knew how to show love for her child (how to nurture it - which in turn would help him/her develop a healthy sense of self-worth), instead - they probbaly showed a lot of love for money - for material wealth... Thus, as a way to make them proud - as a way to be acknowledged as being worthy in their eyes, their child - struggled with a life - where financial success was a prime focus (one that's tied to its understanding of love). Either way - both parties have something in a common.. a common void they're trying to fill - with external riches - while lacking a true understanding of true wealth. Since... there's nothing on the outside - that can fill that type of void.
Anyway, while meeting a girl whom he happens to like... well, since for him - money is the closest thing to his understanding of love - that's how he expresses himself: by spending lots of money - on the one he happen to fall in love with. ^^
Anyway, while meeting a girl whom he happens to like... well, since for him - money is the closest thing to his understanding of love - that's how he expresses himself: by spending lots of money - on the one he happen to fall in love with. ^^
This is dumb.Men and women were made to make these types of exchanges. Have been from the beginning and will be to the end.The bible set the stage for this. Get used to it.
Wasn't it you that gave that girl all that money for her dental work then cried she wasn't paying you back? Or maybe you just offered it to her?
I remember something like that
I remember something like that
Posted by ElleDuMondeGood memory. There was lots of hatred in that thread.Posted by Sssupesno, that was annoyedfish.
Wasn't it you that gave that girl all that money for her dental work then cried she wasn't paying you back? Or maybe you just offered it to her?
I remember something like that
I miss him 😭click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeYou are always coming and going!Posted by Sssupesthat thread was one of the reasons I returned (that time). I had been lurking on it since its inception.Posted by ElleDuMondeGood memory. There was lots of hatred in that thread.Posted by Sssupesno, that was annoyedfish.
Wasn't it you that gave that girl all that money for her dental work then cried she wasn't paying you back? Or maybe you just offered it to her?
I remember something like that
I miss him 😭
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Glad you are back.
Does he have a brother?
Posted by exxtasyx+100
Sorry but that's what REAL men do. They take care of their partners.
Too many nowadays going "dutch" with women on dates, making them pay half the rent, being cheap and being lame excuses for men. If you can't afford a woman then don't be in a relationship.
Posted by exxtasyxMen are going "Dutch" because (some) women can't take care of their responsibilities.
Sorry but that's what REAL men do. They take care of their partners.
Too many nowadays going "dutch" with women on dates, making them pay half the rent, being cheap and being lame excuses for men. If you can't afford a woman then don't be in a relationship.
Would you pay $ 40k a year for a bird that couldn't fly?
Posted by ElleDuMondeYeah so clear now. Just reading through the thread. Geesh
ahhh!
She is you EX girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this thread makes total sense now. lol
Posted by exxtasyxI'm in total agreement with you so don't lump me in the douchebag group just yet. I'm just relaying what I've been told.Posted by SssupesWhat responsibilities? If you're in a relationship with a woman it's not her responsibility to pay for anything. If you take a woman out on a date it's not her responsibility to go "dutch" with you. How awkward and embarrassing. And then certain guys expect to be treated like "real men" and stuff when they act more like the goofy best friend.Posted by exxtasyxMen are going "Dutch" because (some) women can't take care of their responsibilities.
Sorry but that's what REAL men do. They take care of their partners.
Too many nowadays going "dutch" with women on dates, making them pay half the rent, being cheap and being lame excuses for men. If you can't afford a woman then don't be in a relationship.
Would you pay $ 40k a year for a bird that couldn't fly?click to expand
I'm a Leo, I always pay for everything (even if I really don't have the money to). Except when I was in Canada and couldn't work. That really sucked because I was dependent upon someone else for support. Kinda messed me up and changed me (totally an ego thing)
Posted by ElleDuMondeYou're Plutonian!
I think my manual on what a 'real man' is got lost by the post.
All of you sound aliien to me.
Maybe I am on the wrong planet 😛
Posted by exxtasyxlol
Sorry but that's what REAL men do. They take care of their partners.
Too many nowadays going "dutch" with women on dates, making them pay half the rent, being cheap and being lame excuses for men. If you can't afford a woman then don't be in a relationship.
well these guys should not go out on dates if they have no money.
or find a woman who will take care of them. 😛 😆
edit - a couple of my young male relatives have gone/been through this, they just don't go out at all when they are unemployed or broke, they just don't bother. they do have friends that treat them when they are down on their luck they told me, but when they do get a job again, they take them out to eat.
but when unemployed, it's depressing.
Its been interesting reading, all I know when this relationship ends he's going to end up damaged I think he's going to pay for getting involved with a very manipulative woman. Her last BF threw her out so fast it made her head spin the last relationship lasted about 3 years her current relationship is going on about the same length.
I'm glad I don't need to flaunt money to get women's attention I never have and never will, I'm not cheap I'm not rich either if a woman is only interested in money I'm not interested.
I really don't know why he keeps spending money on a dead horse he has no intentions of getting married or going any further than dating her, he can't even live with her. I guess he's so desperate to have somebody in his life he is buying himself a girlfriend.
I'm glad I don't need to flaunt money to get women's attention I never have and never will, I'm not cheap I'm not rich either if a woman is only interested in money I'm not interested.
I really don't know why he keeps spending money on a dead horse he has no intentions of getting married or going any further than dating her, he can't even live with her. I guess he's so desperate to have somebody in his life he is buying himself a girlfriend.
Insecurity and stupidity.
Somewhere, in the moronic bro code, there are guys who think that the key to getting women is lots of money and nice cars- something to that extent. They never really stop to think about what kind of women that can attract or how that approach doesn't really work on all women.
He also may see money as a form of happiness and just throws it at women, assuming it'll continue to bring happiness.
My Libra ex was all about this mentality. I didn't realize HOW bad it was til a year or two ago when some mutual friends shared some stories about how my ex functioned around women- it was very much this mentality. I saw some of it during our relationship and I'd found it odd at the time. He was constantly trying to impress me with all the expensive things he owned or how much money he made. I think it burst his bubble when I didn't fawn over it or was in awe. I was like, okay cool. Good for you dude.
Looking back, he probably felt he couldn't impress me. ...which is whatever. Seeing all this in hindsight.. it's just sad. Guys who behave like this are just sad. They think money will buy them happiness and women. It only brings the wrong kind of women around and money doesn't necessarily buy happiness in that aspect.r
In short- society. Society is why some guys do this. Sounds dumb, but look at what most rap videos and the like revolve around- money and half naked women. There's gotta be some level of imprinting going on when you see shit like that in the media...
Somewhere, in the moronic bro code, there are guys who think that the key to getting women is lots of money and nice cars- something to that extent. They never really stop to think about what kind of women that can attract or how that approach doesn't really work on all women.
He also may see money as a form of happiness and just throws it at women, assuming it'll continue to bring happiness.
My Libra ex was all about this mentality. I didn't realize HOW bad it was til a year or two ago when some mutual friends shared some stories about how my ex functioned around women- it was very much this mentality. I saw some of it during our relationship and I'd found it odd at the time. He was constantly trying to impress me with all the expensive things he owned or how much money he made. I think it burst his bubble when I didn't fawn over it or was in awe. I was like, okay cool. Good for you dude.
Looking back, he probably felt he couldn't impress me. ...which is whatever. Seeing all this in hindsight.. it's just sad. Guys who behave like this are just sad. They think money will buy them happiness and women. It only brings the wrong kind of women around and money doesn't necessarily buy happiness in that aspect.r
In short- society. Society is why some guys do this. Sounds dumb, but look at what most rap videos and the like revolve around- money and half naked women. There's gotta be some level of imprinting going on when you see shit like that in the media...
Summing up the situation:
The girl in question is OPs ex GF.
She went and hooked up with some rich but ugly guy and OP is jealous that someone ugly is getting his cock sucked off by a pretty girl.
He cant rant to his real life friends because everyone would sniff the jealousy. He is ranting on about it here.
For more:
Please read more articles on "Why men look for beautiful girls and women look for financially stable men" for relationships.
The girl in question is OPs ex GF.
She went and hooked up with some rich but ugly guy and OP is jealous that someone ugly is getting his cock sucked off by a pretty girl.
He cant rant to his real life friends because everyone would sniff the jealousy. He is ranting on about it here.
For more:
Please read more articles on "Why men look for beautiful girls and women look for financially stable men" for relationships.
Posted by Bloopthere's a lot of articles like that I notice when I google.
Summing up the situation:
The girl in question is OPs ex GF.
She went and hooked up with some rich but ugly guy and OP is jealous that someone ugly is getting his cock sucked off by a pretty girl.
He cant rant to his real life friends because everyone would sniff the jealousy. He is ranting on about it here.
For more:
Please read more articles on "Why men look for beautiful girls and women look for financially stable men" for relationships.
but beauty fades though. so love has to be very important in the relationship no matter what.
Posted by lisabethur8There wont be no love/friendship if they dont go on that initial date.Posted by Bloopthere's a lot of articles like that I notice when I google.
Summing up the situation:
The girl in question is OPs ex GF.
She went and hooked up with some rich but ugly guy and OP is jealous that someone ugly is getting his cock sucked off by a pretty girl.
He cant rant to his real life friends because everyone would sniff the jealousy. He is ranting on about it here.
For more:
Please read more articles on "Why men look for beautiful girls and women look for financially stable men" for relationships.
but beauty fades though. so love has to be very important in the relationship no matter what.
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And sadly that firsf date happens only when
1. Guy finds her moderately attractive
2.Girl finds that he has a stable social status.
Posted by BloopI agree with you.Posted by lisabethur8There wont be no love/friendship if they dont go on that initial date.Posted by Bloopthere's a lot of articles like that I notice when I google.
Summing up the situation:
The girl in question is OPs ex GF.
She went and hooked up with some rich but ugly guy and OP is jealous that someone ugly is getting his cock sucked off by a pretty girl.
He cant rant to his real life friends because everyone would sniff the jealousy. He is ranting on about it here.
For more:
Please read more articles on "Why men look for beautiful girls and women look for financially stable men" for relationships.
but beauty fades though. so love has to be very important in the relationship no matter what.
And sadly that firsf date happens only when
1. Guy finds her moderately attractive
2.Girl finds that he has a stable social status.click to expand
You seem to know their personal details .... you even state that you know how they think and feel.
I get his style, Miss InsureTooMuch .... that comment was tongue in cheek ... try to think on that if you can.
He is very insecure like I've said he doesn't excel in the looks department he's a nice guy but he strikes out with the women. The reason why I started this thread seeing the pictures of his latest vacation the money he spends to have a girlfriend he's well into the thousands each year he spends.
When they started going out she was arm candy for him a very average looking guy with a very decent looking women then she started to let her looks slip she's not the slim and sexy woman she used to be. Every guy wanted to chat her up because she was attractive yes I fell for her looks but I also fell for her personality her true self.
I seen the changes happen in her the stress started to get too her the relationship between him and her wasn't smooth she started gaining the weight she started fighting with me more stress, she stopped eating healthy. He was going through periods where he was miserable he would barely talk she was going through the same. They would come back from a vacation and she wasn't happy WTF you were on an expensive trip.
When she was close to me she was hard to deal with pretty sure she's got deep rooted insecurity issues she felt like she wasn't good enough for me she needed constant validation. When I did something better than her she had to find a way to knock me down, dealing with the jealously, she's a control freak when we first met clingy as hell.
Being away from her for over a year is good for me its made me realize how toxic she is, been a good learning curve I haven't had much experience with dysfunctional women. All my female friends are stable they come from a normal family life so its what I'm used to.
When they started going out she was arm candy for him a very average looking guy with a very decent looking women then she started to let her looks slip she's not the slim and sexy woman she used to be. Every guy wanted to chat her up because she was attractive yes I fell for her looks but I also fell for her personality her true self.
I seen the changes happen in her the stress started to get too her the relationship between him and her wasn't smooth she started gaining the weight she started fighting with me more stress, she stopped eating healthy. He was going through periods where he was miserable he would barely talk she was going through the same. They would come back from a vacation and she wasn't happy WTF you were on an expensive trip.
When she was close to me she was hard to deal with pretty sure she's got deep rooted insecurity issues she felt like she wasn't good enough for me she needed constant validation. When I did something better than her she had to find a way to knock me down, dealing with the jealously, she's a control freak when we first met clingy as hell.
Being away from her for over a year is good for me its made me realize how toxic she is, been a good learning curve I haven't had much experience with dysfunctional women. All my female friends are stable they come from a normal family life so its what I'm used to.
Posted by Stihl46Maybe you've answered your own question? He won't marry her or live with her but he wants to keep her for himself so he buys her loyalty with material things.
I don't know if its a status for him that he can spend money, I know damn well this trip wasn't his idea this one was hers. From the day they met his wallet was open its still open. Little things like she drives his car so she doesn't have to spend gas money driving hers, the 20 dollar bills never stop fleeing his wallet.
Yes I know its disrespectful for his guys saying his GF is a hooker she has feelings and no she's not a hooker.
I'm laughing a little more her hours are getting slashed where she works so she's really going to be mooching off him now.
Its call return of investment, he doesn't want to marry her, they tried living together it didn't work out. I think the biggest thing is he's scared she starts doing something that will affect his job he's screwed he makes 70-80k a year its a pretty good job for him he likes his job. Pretty sure he's realizing don't get involved with people you work with.
He is a Gemini man his friends have said so he's got the traits of a Gemini man I'm surprised he's been with a Scorpio woman for so long in real life those two are complete opposites. As I've said he is/was the life of the party her she's a stick in the mud, he's neat and tidy you look at his appearance he's always cleanly dressed the his car is spotless seen pictures of his house its spotless. Her she isn't spot less she's messy kind of like me she dresses fine but her house its messy her car is far from spotless.
Working with the guy he was unpredictable you never knew what kind of mood he was in, it was a toss of the coin, boy could he turn nasty in a split second I'm a pretty tough guy I can deal with a lot of shit. That's what I don't get she can't handle change when I made a surprise change at work she would freak out she couldn't handle me flying by the seat of my pants. Her life is planned right down to the second she lives such a regimented life she loses her day planner she's phucked.
She always wanted the upper hand she tried it with me digging trying to find something she could have the upper hand I was very aware of it so I watched what I said. I have a good feeling that she's got something over the her BF he surprised me what he tells people really shouldn't you have kept that to yourself.
His friends at work have said to him dump her get rid of her he hasn't done it yet. I don't want her crawling back to me I've seen too much of her ugly side I don't want that crap in my life. I'm learning a lot about toxic women I was a little blinded when I spent a lot of time with her. It is refreshing interacting with women that are not toxic. I've learned look at the girls family life if its phucked up run because the girl 99% of the time will be damaged in some way or another. Is it a coincidence Scorpios come from phucked up families every Scorp woman I know hasn't really had a normal family life.
As much as I would like to have her back in my life I have to remember no its not worth it no matter how much we understood each other I don't need her turning my life upside down.
Working with the guy he was unpredictable you never knew what kind of mood he was in, it was a toss of the coin, boy could he turn nasty in a split second I'm a pretty tough guy I can deal with a lot of shit. That's what I don't get she can't handle change when I made a surprise change at work she would freak out she couldn't handle me flying by the seat of my pants. Her life is planned right down to the second she lives such a regimented life she loses her day planner she's phucked.
She always wanted the upper hand she tried it with me digging trying to find something she could have the upper hand I was very aware of it so I watched what I said. I have a good feeling that she's got something over the her BF he surprised me what he tells people really shouldn't you have kept that to yourself.
His friends at work have said to him dump her get rid of her he hasn't done it yet. I don't want her crawling back to me I've seen too much of her ugly side I don't want that crap in my life. I'm learning a lot about toxic women I was a little blinded when I spent a lot of time with her. It is refreshing interacting with women that are not toxic. I've learned look at the girls family life if its phucked up run because the girl 99% of the time will be damaged in some way or another. Is it a coincidence Scorpios come from phucked up families every Scorp woman I know hasn't really had a normal family life.
As much as I would like to have her back in my life I have to remember no its not worth it no matter how much we understood each other I don't need her turning my life upside down.
Posted by Stihl46Why would anyone date you?
I worked with this guy he works in a different division anyhow from the day he started dating the girl the works in the division I used to supervise he spends nothing but money on her. His whole life revolves around money before he started dating he used to brag how much money he makes everything is about money to him its all he has in life. His family is supposedly got lots of money too.
I seen pictures of his latest vacation to Europe he's got to be pushing 6 grand Canadian she can't afford that so I doubt she's paying much of it if any. In the last 3.5 years of dating her he's probably spent close to 20 grand on vacations alone.
When she's running short of money he's buying her groceries they live in separate towns, I know he's paid for her car repairs. His buddies have even told him he's got one expensive hooker they've asked him why does he spend so much money on her. A rough estimate on what he's spent on her is probably pushing close to 30 grand maybe a little more its a lot of phucking money. He's tried impressing other women with his money they were not impressed. It does make me laugh how much he spends on her this latest vacation has to be the most expensive one.
He's rich he lives and breaths money she works hard for her money she came from a family where they are not rich.
Posted by GennieI don't have any problems attracting women I do have to watch that I don't hurt their feelings been there done that enough times.Posted by Stihl46Why would anyone date you?
I worked with this guy he works in a different division anyhow from the day he started dating the girl the works in the division I used to supervise he spends nothing but money on her. His whole life revolves around money before he started dating he used to brag how much money he makes everything is about money to him its all he has in life. His family is supposedly got lots of money too.
I seen pictures of his latest vacation to Europe he's got to be pushing 6 grand Canadian she can't afford that so I doubt she's paying much of it if any. In the last 3.5 years of dating her he's probably spent close to 20 grand on vacations alone.
When she's running short of money he's buying her groceries they live in separate towns, I know he's paid for her car repairs. His buddies have even told him he's got one expensive hooker they've asked him why does he spend so much money on her. A rough estimate on what he's spent on her is probably pushing close to 30 grand maybe a little more its a lot of phucking money. He's tried impressing other women with his money they were not impressed. It does make me laugh how much he spends on her this latest vacation has to be the most expensive one.
He's rich he lives and breaths money she works hard for her money she came from a family where they are not rich.click to expand
To make other women envious of her. And to render any other male attention void.
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I think and this is to stihl in particular...
Where love and money are concerned in the workplace you should really just mind your own beeswax coz dwelling on this can't be good for your state of being, surely.
I have a rough idea of what my coworkers earn and people have met and married, dated and been heartbroken there too, but shit, it's got nothing to do with mehhh...
This equates to peace of mind 🙂 in the long run anyways.
Where love and money are concerned in the workplace you should really just mind your own beeswax coz dwelling on this can't be good for your state of being, surely.
I have a rough idea of what my coworkers earn and people have met and married, dated and been heartbroken there too, but shit, it's got nothing to do with mehhh...
This equates to peace of mind 🙂 in the long run anyways.
Posted by wagtailI've returned to working in the trades I gave up the corporate world it was becoming too stressful plus the fact I was bored I'm still friends with the people I worked with most of them are trapped at that company/job for the rest of their lives they don't have any other skills to fall back on. The Gemini guy he's in that position he loses his job he's phucked he doesn't have the skills or experience to go anywhere else he's so out of shape he can't do a physically active job he's a bit on the clumsy side he trips and falls. He's got to be close to 300 pounds again its all fat he can't control is unhealthy eating.
I think and this is to stihl in particular...
Where love and money are concerned in the workplace you should really just mind your own beeswax coz dwelling on this can't be good for your state of being, surely.
I have a rough idea of what my coworkers earn and people have met and married, dated and been heartbroken there too, but shit, it's got nothing to do with mehhh...
This equates to peace of mind 🙂 in the long run anyways.
I know the Scorp girl thought I would be screwed I told her I have lots of skills I don't need to be here I went back to the trades industry with no issues. Sorry I'm not like your BF I have options in my life I always have I never could ever pigeon hole myself into one career. Her BF will be at that job he's in till he retires doing the same thing day in day out for the next 20 something years he loves it because he doesn't have to work hard. He took the right training that the corporation requires and he's got a high paid position he can have that schit its too damn boring doing the same thing day in day out. I used to do sh*t at work he would say you can do that ah ya I never followed the rules if something needed doing I did it even if it wasn't in my job description or I wasn't "approved" by the company to do that scope of work.
My life is good I have a bright future I have no worries I know she isn't happy in her life that makes me 🙂 she's realizing how much sh*t I had to deal with it and the reason why I was so miserable. When I was supervisor I shielded the others from the crap because I handled most of the big decisions and organizing.
Nobody is stuck on anything. They choose what works at the time. I'm in the corporate world but I also work in the agricultural field on the side. Eventually I'll play in the dirt full time but now it's best to have a vested 401k etc. I just have a few years then I can resign.
I totally hear you though on how stressful corporate world can be. Especially now. I have moved across 2 states to keep a job. Now I'm whatever happens it will work out. Just got to use that brain.
I totally hear you though on how stressful corporate world can be. Especially now. I have moved across 2 states to keep a job. Now I'm whatever happens it will work out. Just got to use that brain.
Posted by kissmygritsWhere I worked you could either do the bare minimum and be lazy or the person that shows initiative I wasn't the lazy ones I couldn't stand not doing something so I ended up taking charge management took advantage of it then I started fighting with management they phuck up so much. Turned frustrating it didn't help I had the Scorpio on my plate she had hurt feelings so she was angry with me.
Nobody is stuck on anything. They choose what works at the time. I'm in the corporate world but I also work in the agricultural field on the side. Eventually I'll play in the dirt full time but now it's best to have a vested 401k etc. I just have a few years then I can resign.
I totally hear you though on how stressful corporate world can be. Especially now. I have moved across 2 states to keep a job. Now I'm whatever happens it will work out. Just got to use that brain.
That mess is all gone now and I'm happy 🙂
Posted by thinktoomuchI thought you blocked me? you still have the hots for a Cancer man so you can't resist commenting?
Wauw, how interesting! Again, Stihl is totally blowing everybodys mind with his new ideas and thoughts on the scorpio and her boyfriend. I cannot wait untill he makes his next topic about the very same thing!
Posted by dominoesFor him I think he's scared he will never get another girl friend again if he loses her even thou she's the most toxic thing that's walked into his life. No chance of him ever getting another woman to look at him all the stress in his life has taken the toll he's not healthy looking anymore pretty sad for a guy that's only in his early 30s. Its from her because he didn't look like hell before he starting dating her. You know its bad when his friends tell him he doesn't look well.
To impress.
To show love.
To make things fun.
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The list is endless, but he has feelings of some sort for her. Some of us have no boundaries on how far we will go.
Her ex boyfriend looks like he was run through the wringer he's not healthy looking either so its her she's toxic or its just air signs can't handle a Scorpio woman her last ex is a libra and her current is a gem.
Posted by Stihl46maybe it's because the men are getting sucked out of their sexual chi everyday....sapping them of their life's blood. so they look like the living dead.Posted by dominoesFor him I think he's scared he will never get another girl friend again if he loses her even thou she's the most toxic thing that's walked into his life. No chance of him ever getting another woman to look at him all the stress in his life has taken the toll he's not healthy looking anymore pretty sad for a guy that's only in his early 30s. Its from her because he didn't look like hell before he starting dating her. You know its bad when his friends tell him he doesn't look well.
To impress.
To show love.
To make things fun.
...
The list is endless, but he has feelings of some sort for her. Some of us have no boundaries on how far we will go.
Her ex boyfriend looks like he was run through the wringer he's not healthy looking either so its her she's toxic or its just air signs can't handle a Scorpio woman her last ex is a libra and her current is a gem.click to expand
heehee. ^__^
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I seen pictures of his latest vacation to Europe he's got to be pushing 6 grand Canadian she can't afford that so I doubt she's paying much of it if any. In the last 3.5 years of dating her he's probably spent close to 20 grand on vacations alone.
When she's running short of money he's buying her groceries they live in separate towns, I know he's paid for her car repairs. His buddies have even told him he's got one expensive hooker they've asked him why does he spend so much money on her. A rough estimate on what he's spent on her is probably pushing close to 30 grand maybe a little more its a lot of phucking money. He's tried impressing other women with his money they were not impressed. It does make me laugh how much he spends on her this latest vacation has to be the most expensive one.
He's rich he lives and breaths money she works hard for her money she came from a family where they are not rich.