Do Sags Move Fast in Rel'nships?

My Sag friend is dating a Cancer and their relationship is moving at lightning speed. Within a couple of weeks she was sleeping at his place every night and she was declaring to everyone that they are both in love. Now after less than two months of dating, she's plastering their relationship all over a certain social site and the "congratulations" are pouring in.

My Cancer bf keeps telling me that my friend's relationship is destined to self-combust because it's moving forward far too fast.

Is this typical Sag behaviour? Do they usually move this fast in relationships?

Just witnessing the pace of my Sag friend is putting me out of my comfort zone, lol (and I'm a fire sign) 🙂

HECK YEA THEY DO!! I was with a sagg for a yr and the 2nd day I saw him I was eating dinner with his family, which turned into me going over there every day after church to eat with his family. The 4th day we saw each other, he asked to make it official, and things sky rocketed from there. About a month in he told me he loved me. 6 months after that we were apartment shopping o_0. It felt right then, but I have to admit in the beginning he was in deeper than I was. However I'm a Libra, so I used to tell him I love him to, because I didn't want him to feel embarrassed if I didn't say it back. But I didn't truly fall in love until about 4 months into the relationship.

Saggs tend to fall hard and quick, and yes it's a rollercoaster ride that you never want to get off of. Being in a relationship with a sagg is like being in an amusement park all day long. Their life is always moving, and fun and you just never get bored. However I feel sorry for the poor sensitive cancer, this will not last. Cancer will soon learn that the Sagg sharp blunt tongue is a razor that they will not want to endure for the long hall. Cancer is all feelings and emotions completely, and shuts down into their shell when wronged. Sagg gets impatient and thinks this type of behavior is childish and they will not baby cancer. They will say sorry, and expect to move forward with or without cancer. Saggs don't stay long, unless you can keep up. They are always looking for the next better or big thing, which keeps their partner always feeling like they are in a worldwide competition. Truth is, until sagg's mature its best you don't fall in love with them, or you will be sorry.

Posted by Ligeia
Are you in anyway a bit envious of her Paries?

My Sag friend approaches everything full on. She has a lot of passion and at times I am a little envious of that. (Except when I realize that she deals with negative experiences in a really big way as well.)

In terms of her approach to her current relationship - it's just not my style . Well not anymore - but it was when I was much younger. When my bf and I started dating, our slow pace made no sense to her. 🙂

I experienced it twice and the light was bright for long. Unlike popular believe, I like to say Sag love is quite sturdy.

I did when I was younger. But now, I move a lot slower lol. I try to find out about the person first. When I say friends first, I mean platonic. No more, limbo, fwb crap for me. I'm too old lol

ehhh i wouldnt say im gung ho in the "falling in love " dept. in the "get into bed" dept, yes i move at lighting speed. i take my sweet ol time with falling in love.

Posted by Ligeia
What does your Cancer's chart look like? And yours? Do you happend to know your friend's and her Cancer as well. Maybe there's something there that can explain her Cancer being far more comfortable at the Sag's pace. Than say your Cancer would be.

I'm just curious if you don't mind. Having dealt with enough crabs it's interesting to see how other volcano girls deal with them.

No problem. I'm curious too. I put my friend her her bf first - and then me and my bf.

Sun Sagittarius 29.46.......Sun Cancer 16.14
Moon Aries 2.00.......Moon Gemini 24.57
Mercury Capricorn 1.01.......Mercury Cancer 15.26
Venus Capricorn 10.52.......Venus Leo 29.09
Mars Sagittarius 7.51.......Mars Cancer 6.32
Jupiter Pisces 11.45.......Jupiter Sagittarius 1.41 R
Saturn Cancer 16.40R......Saturn Libra 27.46
Uranus Scorpio 1.31.......Uranus Sagittarius 5.36 R
Neptune Sagittarius 10.06.......Neptune Sagittarius 27.21 R
Pluto Libra 9.09.......Pluto Libra 26.43
Lilith Aquarius 24.58.......Lilith Aquarius 12.39
Asc node Sagittarius 10.08.......Asc node Gemini 24.56


Sun Aries 0.59.......Sun Cancer 6.37
Moon Virgo 19.06.......Moon Virgo 17.13
Mercury Pisces 29.24R......Mercury Cancer 15.38
Venus Aries 14.40.......Venus Gemini 20.19
Mars Taurus 10.39.......Mars Aquarius 21.01
Jupiter Scorpio 4.35R.......Jupiter Scorpio 27.35 R
Saturn Taurus 6.58........Saturn Gemini 1.13
Uranus Libra 7.00R.......Uranus Libra 9.29
Neptune Sagittarius 0.48R.......Neptune Sagittarius 0.48 R
Pluto Virgo 25.56R.......Pluto Virgo 27.07
Lilith Leo 11.34........Lilith Libra 3.15
Asc node Pisces 11.57........Asc node Aquarius 14.59

(Sorry it looks a little messy. Couldn't get the formatting right)

Posted by ALibra
HECK YEA THEY DO!! I was with a sagg for a yr and the 2nd day I saw him I was eating dinner with his family, which turned into me going over there every day after church to eat with his family..

Lmao.

My Sag bff falls in love really, really fast. Scares the tar out this Cap!

@Ligeia

Yeah - my guy and I are definitely not the skipping through daisies types, lol. Thanks for the chart explanations 🙂

All the ones I know get in the bed quick and love quick I thought confusing the two was a Sag thing. I've known Aries to do this to. Hmmmmmmmmmm.

Posted by ArticleL
All the ones I know get in the bed quick and love quick I thought confusing the two was a Sag thing. I've known Aries to do this to. Hmmmmmmmmmm.

I (an Aries) used to fall in "lust" easily and often when I was much younger. It never led to love though or even a real relationship. I think that's why the thought of moving fast began to scare me. I used to think my change in attitude and comfort level changed with age but seeing my Sag friend still approach dating the way we both did 20 yrs ago made me wonder what role sun signs play.

Posted by paries

Posted by ArticleL
All the ones I know get in the bed quick and love quick I thought confusing the two was a Sag thing. I've known Aries to do this to. Hmmmmmmmmmm.

I (an Aries) used to fall in "lust" easily and often when I was much younger. It never led to love though or even a real relationship. I think that's why the thought of moving fast began to scare me. I used to think my change in attitude and comfort level changed with age but seeing my Sag friend still approach dating the way we both did 20 yrs ago made me wonder what role sun signs play.

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-Nods-

I stumbled across this site a few months ago and I love it

Anyhoo I'm a Saggie who has been meeting Saggie guys of late. Recently I just met one and he seems to be a great guy however he's moving way too fast for me and knowing me the way that I do I tend to question analyze and then recoil. We haven't even met in person yet he's planning our second date and he says it so casually like we've known each other forever. Yesterday I did have to tell him that he was moving too fast and he took the hint loud and clear, for about 4 hours and then back to conversations about future State events and things of that nature. I know I'm not like this with anyone I meet so I'm just looking for feedback because this is New saggie territory for me. And I know me well enough that if he keeps pushing I'll just back away because it's too much and I'll feel like I'm being cornered.

Posted by paries
Is this typical Sag behaviour? Do they usually move this fast in relationships?

Yeah basically. Sag's are the type to have a one night stand and never leave. Their stuff just starts showing up in your apartment and then a few months later you realize they've moved in.

Posted by SaggieSteelerGyrl
I stumbled across this site a few months ago and I love it

Anyhoo I'm a Saggie who has been meeting Saggie guys of late. Recently I just met one and he seems to be a great guy however he's moving way too fast for me and knowing me the way that I do I tend to question analyze and then recoil. We haven't even met in person yet he's planning our second date and he says it so casually like we've known each other forever. Yesterday I did have to tell him that he was moving too fast and he took the hint loud and clear, for about 4 hours and then back to conversations about future State events and things of that nature. I know I'm not like this with anyone I meet so I'm just looking for feedback because this is New saggie territory for me. And I know me well enough that if he keeps pushing I'll just back away because it's too much and I'll feel like I'm being cornered.

Where was your 1st date if you haven't met in person yet?

If this is computer love, I wouldn't worry.

Once you meet IRL and you both feel the chemistry things may slow all the way down.

yeah I'll marry you after a day of talking to you... then want the shit annulled after two weeks lol

So it’s the Sag that’s balls deep already ?? Not the cancer ?? 🤔🤔🤔

its definitely the sag @brianafay lol ... in my experience cancers take a little while

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@OneKnight

LOL why you say that bro.

But the answer is yes.... its a lot going on.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by paries
Is this typical Sag behaviour? Do they usually move this fast in relationships?

Yeah basically. Sag's are the type to have a one night stand and never leave. Their stuff just starts showing up in your apartment and then a few months later you realize they've moved in.

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@LadyNeptune

BUT... the sex is so good, and they have so much fun with us that they let our stuff move in. Just don't get all clingy *shivers*

oh the Sag - and his expectations - that I could just stay at his place all the time and not have to go home ... I had dogs and cats who needed fed, a lawn that needed care, dusting and dishes to do - after reminding him he would still say - I just don't know what you could possibly have to do at home ...

he "dumped" me when his grandson asked me to take him swimming and I told him I had to go home to feed my dogs - he was so angry - said I was telling his grandson that my dog was more important than him - stupid oaf - but that was ok - that showed me what I needed to see

mofo still calls me once in a blue moon - gtfo - acts like "what" ? it's been years ...

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Posted by hellosaggy
@OneKnight

LOL why you say that bro.

But the answer is yes.... its a lot going on.

Every placement is right on the money, Sun Sag that's already action, then Moon in Aries, action on steroids, sprinkled with Venus in Scorpio and you have Loving Anger 🙂

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Yeah that actually sounds about right....

women confuse my passion and action for emotions... that's where things get messed up.

Nope at least the sags I know don't they are kind of reluctant to even enter a relationship.

I'm a cancer and I can get in a relationship pretty quickly. I'm usually a bit guarded up but if I trust my gut feeling I won't put any breaks. The sags I've met can be quick to want to know you, but I haven't met one quick to jump into a relationship. I think it depends a lot on the venus placement. Fire venus tend to be quicker imho.

Actually the quickest person I've met to jump into a relationship is my current cancer dating/girlfriend. Met her on a tuesday. Stayed at hers during the weekend after. Sunday night I go back to my place and she convinces me to go back to hers because "do you have anything better to do than to sleep with me"? A weekend after she introduces me to her friends as her future boyfriend and her mother invites me to Christmas with them. In Sweden. 😶

We tend to rush into learning people so much they THINK its a relationship... once we solve the puzzle and we realize its not what we want we move on.... Unless the person makes us feel so special that it would be stupid to leave.... the biggest key is maintaining freshness and some mystery.

Posted by Mariah
Mister saggy put the moves on me months ago. I kept him on arms length. He can have any woman he wants... They all end up n his bed. But I know he cares deeply for me. I care deeply for him. I didn't want it to burst in to nothing. Still in eachothers lives ...I will see where it goes. Do I regret it? Well..... He drives me wild.. Think he is the most gorgeous sexiest man alive..... Once we do grab eachother boy oh boy...... But I don't want just sex with him. I'm not saying I won't have sex with him outside a relationship...... Cause he is.... Damnnnnn

But I cannot just be friends or just sexbuddies with him. Both in the long haul

Or nothing.....

Time will tell

He is one who goes hard and fast too..

But if that means the relationships last ..... that's another thing

Sags go fast...... But they can fall out fast too

So.... If he dissapears now.... It's not to be and I didn't miss out

If he stays..... I know..... He would have been worth the wait... Just like I am worth the wait and effort 😄😄😄

awwww - good for you - I hope it works out well for you - keep us posted - yeah, I remember how sexy a Sag can be - daym ...

Hmm.. I think they could especially if they think you're the one. My Sag Fiance and I started dating in 2015 and we were literally spending all free time we had together. Three months later he wanted to give me a key to his place but I refused.

He told me he loved me 6 months into the relationship and 18 months in he spoke to my parents about wanting to marry me.. but didn't pop the question until our 2nd year dating anniversary.. lol

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Posted by brianafay
So it’s the Sag that’s balls deep already ?? Not the cancer ?? 🤔🤔🤔

Unlike most people think...

We may be "marriage Lets-live-happily forever"

We aren't easy. We could not be.... We can sense fishy stuff from a mile away and we tend to overthink

So jumping in head over heels is not a water sign trait

Once we know it's mutual and we trust you...

Yeah then we give all.....

But...... Also here sun isn't the important sign

It depends on the whole chart

Im both ..... im careful but.... Im impulsive....

I will give special intention yet won't put out

I will show the world your not just anybody but i won't give in to your effort that fast.

Its annoying though....

I can easily give the wrong impression

But sags are more impulsive..... Cancers overall not.

But i dont have much water in my chart. 😉 sometimes i wish i did hahaha

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tldr

How do you know when a Sagittarius woman is done with the relationship?

Ganon,

I know what you mean and yes she isn't done with me, although she might be soon.

I’m a Sag woman and we dive in head first. However, we will not hesitate to drop you