I need some advice

I've been in a very very amazing relationship for almost a year, I'm a July Leo and she's a November Sagittarius. We've never had any problems, I mean no fights, no issues of trust, nothing toxic what so ever. We were extremely serious, talked about moving in together, planning our futures together, even marriage. One day we were supposed to go on a camping trip, my car broke down, so we decided we were going to go up the following day and just spend the current day together. We had a lovely time as we always do, and when it came time for her to go home we said our goodnights and I love yous and everything was perfect. Then she gets home and says thank you for treating me so well and making me feel so loved and appreciated. And the next text after that was her saying "I think that I need to take some time to myself, and relax and just be care free. I'm just about to start college, and life is just now starting for me, and I think I just need to grow and prosper on my own for a little while." What do I do?

What did you do? It sounds like she is trying to let you go easily.......Friend zoned...... But on. a serious note, You may have turned her off by something that you did. We get turned off fast by the simplest things.

She swears that I didn't do anything wrong and that she still loves me. And this break up was completely unexpected. Now I'm blocked on all social media and she won't talk to me. I don't understand how this happened

she says I didn't and that she just needs to be on her own right now which I still don't get

im blocked from all her social media and the last time I talked to her I couldn't get any response from her either. She's acting as though she hates me and I'm completely lost as to why

Posted by DraketheLion
im blocked from all her social media and the last time I talked to her I couldn't get any response from her either. She's acting as though she hates me and I'm completely lost as to why

I hate to say this, but she does not want to be bothered with you anymore..From the past days that you guys spent together, she noticed something about you, and decided that it was her deal breaker..Trust me, when a Sag is in love, and or into you, we will be running towards you, and not away from you...Sorry😢

that sounds awfully confusing - and I am sorry - it must be tough not having any type of warning and getting along so well and all

there's not much you can do at this point but don't get down on yourself thinking it was something you did - gheez, after a year together if someone had a problem you'd think you could talk about it

do you think her parents were talking to her or her friends ...

Yep, she was looking forward to that romantic getaway that never happened. Sorry bud, just move on. Sags are like squirrels anyway

I'm VERY surprised to hear/read this. Saggy women, when cupid hits their heart will NOT leave you alone; sorry, I just answered your question. She's not in love with you; she may love you, but she is not in love with you. Sorry 😢

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I'm not controlling. Granted I'm not perfect, no one is, but I tried my absolute hardest to be mr. perfect for her. I have always been an absolute gentleman and her parents and friends all loved me. We constantly went out to nice dinners in town and concerts and adventures. And she never paid a penny. The first day I met her she didn't have a place to stay so I drove her around all night and we talked and listened to music and went stargazing. Literally all night. From 10 pm to 8 am. She was in love with me. I no longer know if she still is or not. But I know she was, she wanted to spend every day with me, and couldn't wait for the day we had our own place and got to spend the night together. She told me that I'm the only reason she's still here on this earth. Because when we first started dating she was in a very bad place. She told me that she would die without me and wants to spend forever with me. So I'm just trying to understand what happened? Because she said she wants to be her own person so I'm trying to respect that and not bother her but what do I do?

If what your saying is true-

Either two things happened-

Some people just like to be treated like whores. Fact. If there was ONE engery i would say that gets their jollys off on that- It would be Sag. IMO.

Maybe you were to nice.

Or- Maybe she just really wanted to focus on school. You guys sound young. Maybe she wanted that full college experience, and realized she wouldn't be able to achieve it with you.

If she wants to be left alone- you gotta dip. Don't bother her.

Keep your social media unblocked, don't change your number- If she changes her mind she will hit you back up.

She sounds cold and not very good at communicating

Posted by DraketheLion
im blocked from all her social media and the last time I talked to her I couldn't get any response from her either. She's acting as though she hates me and I'm completely lost as to why

She's just trying to ghost you so you will go away and she wont have to explain anything and be confrontational.

She could've waited until after the trip because she wanted to go and thought it would be fun- Selfishness but I would've done the same thing. I love camping and the outdoors.

She probably doesn't hate you- It's just indifference.

Regardless of astrological signs this is incredible immature from her. It seems that you were very nice to her, maybe she thinks that she doesn't deserve you? Maybe she met someone else?

Posted by carrazeda
Regardless of astrological signs this is incredible immature from her. It seems that you were very nice to her, maybe she thinks that she doesn't deserve you? Maybe she met someone else?

She's a Sag, She doesn't think she doesn't deserve him. lol

The fanatical dream you've woven to present your relationship to your viewing audience sounds wonderful and romantically fulfilling.

What woman wouldn't want to protect anyone from popping that bubble? Of course, she played along ... look at all she gained from you not acknowledging that humans are imperfect. Why would she want to wake from a guy who would neglect reality so that she could continue in the fantasy that life is nothing short of amazing and she doesn't really have to do any work for it?

That is ...... until life got serious, and you're expendable, due to being so pretentious.

Any guy who would talk like you do about a relationship isn't really present .... your ego was present so that you could look at how awesome you are for creating a false world for you, to try and impress her.



The other side of the coin is (if you truly believe everything you said) ...... then you were so into yourself that you never saw reality coming to smack you in the face.

Because she couldn't fake not liking you any longer. If she would severe you off in an instant without further thought, then this was a long time coming ..... but, you were off somewhere, not paying attention.



either way ..... you make for a lousy boyfriend.



She is making something of herself, so be a man and step aside without further complaint ... that is if you think you can pull your head out of your ass.

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Posted by carrazeda
Regardless of astrological signs this is incredible immature from her. It seems that you were very nice to her, maybe she thinks that she doesn't deserve you? Maybe she met someone else?

She's a Sag, She doesn't think she doesn't deserve him. lol

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Posted by P-Angel
The fanatical dream you've woven to present your relationship to your viewing audience sounds wonderful and romantically fulfilling.

What woman wouldn't want to protect anyone from popping that bubble? Of course, she played along ... look at all she gained from you not acknowledging that humans are imperfect. Why would she want to wake from a guy who would neglect reality so that she could continue in the fantasy that life is nothing short of amazing and she doesn't really have to do any work for it?

That is ...... until life got serious, and you're expendable, due to being so pretentious.

Any guy who would talk like you do about a relationship isn't really present .... your ego was present so that you could look at how awesome you are for creating a false world for you, to try and impress her.



The other side of the coin is (if you truly believe everything you said) ...... then you were so into yourself that you never saw reality coming to smack you in the face.

Because she couldn't fake not liking you any longer. If she would severe you off in an instant without further thought, then this was a long time coming ..... but, you were off somewhere, not paying attention.



either way ..... you make for a lousy boyfriend.



She is making something of herself, so be a man and step aside without further complaint ... that is if you think you can pull your head out of your ass.

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Wow!!! Just Wow!

sounds like me.

I think she is just really focused on other things and doesn't think she can make you a priority.

she might not be as invested in the commitment as you are and she doesn't want to risk hurting you because at any point in time that a Sagittarius feels trapped they flee, I know I do. but I don't ever want to risk hurting someone that is good for me so its best she let you know the proper way. and you should respect that.

the fact that she let you know what she thinks and wants is a lot.

I have had many many relaitonships with great people and had to do what she is doing.

it just all comes down to timing, and if I don't think I commit and be faithful then I break it off.

and with some guys I just ghosted because I never saw a future for us and some I let them know where I was at with respect hoping that we can remain friends, with a history, from afar and always allowed that opportunity for reconnection if the timing saw fit.

you might have to accept this as exactly what it is.

its a break up, a respectful one at that.

because if you try to control her or force your way back in she will run and you will probably never get her back.

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Posted by DraketheLion
im blocked from all her social media and the last time I talked to her I couldn't get any response from her either. She's acting as though she hates me and I'm completely lost as to why

I hate to say this, but she does not want to be bothered with you anymore..From the past days that you guys spent together, she noticed something about you, and decided that it was her deal breaker..Trust me, when a Sag is in love, and or into you, we will be running towards you, and not away from you...Sorry😢

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this could be true as well.

she either doesn't want to be serious and wont be able to commit to faithfulness or she noticed something about you that doesn't work for her.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by P-Angel
The fanatical dream you've woven to present your relationship to your viewing audience sounds wonderful and romantically fulfilling.

What woman wouldn't want to protect anyone from popping that bubble? Of course, she played along ... look at all she gained from you not acknowledging that humans are imperfect. Why would she want to wake from a guy who would neglect reality so that she could continue in the fantasy that life is nothing short of amazing and she doesn't really have to do any work for it?

That is ...... until life got serious, and you're expendable, due to being so pretentious.

Any guy who would talk like you do about a relationship isn't really present .... your ego was present so that you could look at how awesome you are for creating a false world for you, to try and impress her.



The other side of the coin is (if you truly believe everything you said) ...... then you were so into yourself that you never saw reality coming to smack you in the face.

Because she couldn't fake not liking you any longer. If she would severe you off in an instant without further thought, then this was a long time coming ..... but, you were off somewhere, not paying attention.



either way ..... you make for a lousy boyfriend.



She is making something of herself, so be a man and step aside without further complaint ... that is if you think you can pull your head out of your ass.

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welcome to the darkside indeed.



just give her the space she is forcing upon you and she will pop back.

we all wonder how that guy is doing....

and the least you can do is go live your life and remain friendly.

lots of sag girls waiting for Leos like you.

is your last name Drake? just wondering.

Marriage Lol you don't say the m word anywhere close to a year in with a sag

Posted by blackphase
Her loss... I love Leo's.. i'll take ya 😄

haha, j/k

I really don't understand why she would do that either.. and go as far as to block you too 😢

I am sorry that you are going through this, I know it's not easy.

Her gain!

Leos are too controlling for saggis

Is she a Venus in Capricorn.?

If so, this has been planned for quite some time.

Posted by DraketheLion
I'm not controlling. Granted I'm not perfect, no one is, but I tried my absolute hardest to be mr. perfect for her. I have always been an absolute gentleman and her parents and friends all loved me. We constantly went out to nice dinners in town and concerts and adventures. And she never paid a penny. The first day I met her she didn't have a place to stay so I drove her around all night and we talked and listened to music and went stargazing. Literally all night. From 10 pm to 8 am. She was in love with me. I no longer know if she still is or not. But I know she was, she wanted to spend every day with me, and couldn't wait for the day we had our own place and got to spend the night together. She told me that I'm the only reason she's still here on this earth. Because when we first started dating she was in a very bad place. She told me that she would die without me and wants to spend forever with me. So I'm just trying to understand what happened? Because she said she wants to be her own person so I'm trying to respect that and not bother her but what do I do?

Hmm. Controlling people don't know they are being controlling.

They think they're being helpful

Or like P Angel said, they're so self absorbed, they can't see their affect on people