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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont

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flings get boring as hell. you need more.
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My personal life sucks balls and always has.

Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.

Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.

I think im cursed.

I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.

I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

conservative women are happily married and enjoy their lives.
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Good for them.

I aint never been conservative
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
flings get boring as hell. you need more.
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Nope. Fuck that shit

Imma fling till i cant suck dick no more
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
flings get boring as hell. you need more.
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Lol. Its this flavor of koolaid that gots me all in my feelings to begin with.
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Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont

And this courting song n dance does not make me happy



you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?
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Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
flings get boring as hell. you need more.
Nope. Fuck that shit

Imma fling till i cant suck dick no more
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ha! i feel you. i just don't want a community dick, you know that dicks that are for errybody lol 😆
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My personal life sucks balls and always has.

Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.

Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.

I think im cursed.

I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.

I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

i think you should try to pray to god and see if something improves. are you a atheist?
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I remember the first time i prayed for a boyfriend. 15 years old full moon raining.

Been praying ever since then...15+ years.

Im going to go in a different direction. You guys can have the relationships. I will enjoy the tip toeing out of the guys bedroom at 9am.
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
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Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont

And this courting song n dance does not make me happy



you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?
Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.
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I think they meant do you give up on people/things quick? Not sex
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My personal life sucks balls and always has.

Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.

Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.

I think im cursed.

I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.

I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

i think you should try to pray to god and see if something improves. are you a atheist?
I remember the first time i prayed for a boyfriend. 15 years old full moon raining.

Been praying ever since then...15+ years.

Im going to go in a different direction. You guys can have the relationships. I will enjoy the tip toeing out of the guys bedroom at 9am.
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I say do you as long as you're happy.
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.

I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont

And this courting song n dance does not make me happy



you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?
Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.
I think they meant do you give up on people/things quick? Not sex
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Lol.

My venus in cap would make me stick around for a long time. I just figured that i didnt want to start over.

Then something changed and i dont tolerate shit.
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My personal life sucks balls and always has.

Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.

Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.

I think im cursed.

I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.

I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.

It's you. You are attracting the same non-commital men over and over because you haven't learned the lesson you need to learn from it. Or subconsciously, you don't believe you deserve more. Do some self reflection and really look at what type of standards you are setting for the men you date. Are they husband material or fuck buddy material?

It took me getting my heart broken one final time for me to figure out my douchy male pattern. Now I'm looking for quality. I realized too late that if I want more, I gotta expect more. And if my needs are getting shitted on from the beginning, I'm not gonna hold out and expect its gonna change down the line. I don't have time for it any more, I'm too grown to be putting up with someone else's bull and indecision. Not sure I'm the one? Goodbye. Like Common said, "It don't take a whole day to recognize sunshine." I don't want to be with anyone too stupid to realize I'm a good catch. Not being arrogant, being real. The ones who wouldn't commit did you a favor.
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Check that off the list. Done it all.
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...I was much happier then.

It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
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I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.

Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.

With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.

I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.

Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont

And this courting song n dance does not make me happy



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Jesus. So what's with all the "I think I'm cursed" bs? I need to learn how to figure out when y'all are using the forum as your personal diary....

You're clearly not cursed. Sounds like you were trying on a pair of shoes that simply don't fit. Now you know. Most take years to figure it out, so you're ahead of the game. Just do your thing with no apologies.
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I only read through the first few pages but I kinda understand where you're coming from. We are intimidating...I've had friends tell me to tone down my beauty/brains...half way jokingly...but we're the total package let's be honest 😉

One thing I've learned is I don't exactly know how to "need" anyone ... & men need to be "needed." So, it's a known fact we aren't the best at feelings or speaking from the heart... but I'm working on that... maybe it's something to think about & work on too? IJS I know mushy crap isn't our thing but taking it back to the old school days when men took the lead, we let them & we just sat around batting our eyelashes... is probably where it's at.
I feel the same way. I dont need anyone, but id want to spend time with someone here and there.

we're a masculine sign, but i dont have too much of a problem being feminine and submissive. However, the majority of the time you will be dating a tomboy.
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DMV.. I was about to post this today..


I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...



I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.

I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.

I can only be me.

It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.

Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
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That's the problem...you're the FUN girl. You have to be serious about what you want, and project that. Only then people will take you more seriously.
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DMV.. I was about to post this today..


I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...



I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.

I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.

I can only be me.

It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.

Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationship
That's the problem...you're the FUN girl. You have to be serious about what you want, and project that. Only then people will take you more seriously.
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i am the FUN girl. omg. lets just play all day long. pay bills, then go play
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Go back and read your threads .. especially the ones where you're pouting over stupid shit ... like your birthday thread, for example.


Maybe bells will ring for you .. I know they did for everyone reading that thread.


to sum it up for you: you have excessive expectations on other people, and since they cannot measure up to this since it's so unrealistic, there's no place to go from there except down.


Or, you could just take the unrealistic view that some mysterious energy zoomed down and cursed the fuck out of you. to keep that view, means you don't actually have to do a self check
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Go back and read your threads .. especially the ones where you're pouting over stupid shit ... like your birthday thread, for example.


Maybe bells will ring for you .. I know they did for everyone reading that thread.


to sum it up for you: you have excessive expectations on other people, and since they cannot measure up to this since it's so unrealistic, there's no place to go from there except down.


Or, you could just take the unrealistic view that some mysterious energy zoomed down and cursed the fuck out of you. to keep that view, means you don't actually have to do a self check
managing expectation is something ive worked on.

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I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.

Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.
That's my Sag friend too for sure.
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No offence, but you come across as a blatant slut on DXP. I hope that vibe is limited to DXP and not real life. Men that are looking for relationship don't want that. This is not about fear of confident and intelligent women because there are still confident men out there that like that. There's also idiots out there that love intelligent women. The ying to the yang. It's the vibe you give in the way you speak and carry yourself. This is just going off your DXP vibe though.

I don't mean to offend you, but that was your typical cut throat Aqua honesty 😉
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Posted by sparkle11
Do you get overwhelmed with too much at once?
That will push them away or keep you at a distance.
Do you fully trust the guys you are with with whom you get involved with physically?
1.) no. im pretty excited with alot coming at me at one time.
2.) my excitement does intimidate alot of men. its hard to pull myself back or slow myself down when im excited.
3.) trust no bitch
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r moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.

It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.

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It's your scorpio moon I guess

I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.


Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol

Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .

do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.

My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol


Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.

Good luck
I wish i had a different moon.
No i dont
I love me
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It's not your moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.

It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.

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It's your scorpio moon I guess

I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.


Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol

Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .

do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.

My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol


Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.

Good luck
I wish i had a different moon.
No i dont
I love me

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alas, i dont see that happening...so im going to stick to be a +1 and love it
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It's not your moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.

It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.

On
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Posted by Harukaa
It's your scorpio moon I guess

I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.


Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol

Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .

do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.

My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol


Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.

Good luck
I wish i had a different moon.
No i dont
I love me
alas, i dont see that happening...so im going to stick to be a +1 and love it
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Well, there it is. Youve solved your riddle 😉.