
flings get boring as hell. you need more.


Posted by GreyWizGood for them.Posted by DMVconservative women are happily married and enjoy their lives.
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
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Posted by KittenLaRougeNope. Fuck that shitPosted by DMVflings get boring as hell. you need more.Posted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
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Posted by KittenLaRougeLol. Its this flavor of koolaid that gots me all in my feelings to begin with.Posted by DMVflings get boring as hell. you need more.Posted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.Posted by DMVPosted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
And this courting song n dance does not make me happy
you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?click to expand

Posted by DMVha! i feel you. i just don't want a community dick, you know that dicks that are for errybody lol 😆Posted by KittenLaRougeNope. Fuck that shitPosted by DMVflings get boring as hell. you need more.Posted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
Imma fling till i cant suck dick no moreclick to expand

Posted by starloverIts sok. 🙂Posted by DMVAaaahh no girlPosted by starloverI got friend zoned!!!
😢
What happened to Mr Ram?
Im still in disbelief
So sorry to hear that
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Posted by GreyWizI remember the first time i prayed for a boyfriend. 15 years old full moon raining.Posted by DMVi think you should try to pray to god and see if something improves. are you a atheist?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
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Posted by DMVI think they meant do you give up on people/things quick? Not sexPosted by dewiklaessen1991Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.Posted by DMVPosted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
And this courting song n dance does not make me happy
you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?click to expand
Posted by DMVI say do you as long as you're happy.Posted by GreyWizI remember the first time i prayed for a boyfriend. 15 years old full moon raining.Posted by DMVi think you should try to pray to god and see if something improves. are you a atheist?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
Been praying ever since then...15+ years.
Im going to go in a different direction. You guys can have the relationships. I will enjoy the tip toeing out of the guys bedroom at 9am.click to expand

Posted by bkbella86Lol.Posted by DMVI think they meant do you give up on people/things quick? Not sexPosted by dewiklaessen1991Lol. I have sex when i want. Time is super subjective. Tried that other route you guys preach but nope no different result.Posted by DMVPosted by dewiklaessen1991Thats what they say. Comes when u least expect it.
Just think like this try and see how it goes when you think like that often good things happen I had it too when you don't expect anything things will come your way
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
And this courting song n dance does not make me happy
you can be happy and in a relationship just take someone who's as free as you are have a relationship where you see eachother every now and then what's too complicated? Life and love is never a 100% sure so better make the best of it and just go with the flow.
I think your struggle is you want to be with someone but you feel like when you're alone you can do way more and achieve way more or have fun way more then when you're together. That means maybe your partners you had were too demanding or nagged too much.
Do you give up fast?click to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo25Lol hey there Phv! Good to see you too 🙂
BKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK 😄
Nice to see you.

Posted by PV&JellayCheck that off the list. Done it all.Posted by DMVIt's you. You are attracting the same non-commital men over and over because you haven't learned the lesson you need to learn from it. Or subconsciously, you don't believe you deserve more. Do some self reflection and really look at what type of standards you are setting for the men you date. Are they husband material or fuck buddy material?
My personal life sucks balls and always has.
Its a fact, i cant get a man to save my life.
Im attractive, intelligent, funny, kind but no man wants to have a relationship with me. I know theres nothing wrong with me. So what gives.
I think im cursed.
I tell people that im single and they dont believe it. Tell them ive had only one boyfriend and they believe me.
I want to be in love. The. I cant live without you love. The telepathic sensual love. Earth shattering love.
It took me getting my heart broken one final time for me to figure out my douchy male pattern. Now I'm looking for quality. I realized too late that if I want more, I gotta expect more. And if my needs are getting shitted on from the beginning, I'm not gonna hold out and expect its gonna change down the line. I don't have time for it any more, I'm too grown to be putting up with someone else's bull and indecision. Not sure I'm the one? Goodbye. Like Common said, "It don't take a whole day to recognize sunshine." I don't want to be with anyone too stupid to realize I'm a good catch. Not being arrogant, being real. The ones who wouldn't commit did you a favor.click to expand



Posted by CruellaWhiteAwesome
Im' blessed all these awesome people keep turning up randomly in my very neighbourhood. Don't even have to figure out where the are gonna be ..
Sorry it sounds like I am boasting. They are just so cool!

Posted by DMV
...I was much happier then.
It wasnt until i started drinking that damn dxp koolaid Preaching relationship this and settle down that. Stop screwing this stop sucking that. Ever since that shit infested my mind ive been unhappy.
Posted by DMVJesus. So what's with all the "I think I'm cursed" bs? I need to learn how to figure out when y'all are using the forum as your personal diary....
I was just never this unhappy with my love life before.
Before when it was a fling every weekend. I was excited and in a good head space. I could pursue alli wanted.
With relationships theyre are all these games, rules, its all tooo complicated, boring.
I just want to be. I want to be free to be excited and gung ho to call and pursue when i want. Im aggressive lol.
Im going to go back to my jovial ways. Do what made me happy. Fuck what dont
And this courting song n dance does not make me happy
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Posted by canminimy homie from college is a cancer girl but we dont live close to each other.
if you have any Cancer female friends now will be a good time to start hanging out with them

Posted by bnr7013I feel the same way. I dont need anyone, but id want to spend time with someone here and there.
I only read through the first few pages but I kinda understand where you're coming from. We are intimidating...I've had friends tell me to tone down my beauty/brains...half way jokingly...but we're the total package let's be honest 😉
One thing I've learned is I don't exactly know how to "need" anyone ... & men need to be "needed." So, it's a known fact we aren't the best at feelings or speaking from the heart... but I'm working on that... maybe it's something to think about & work on too? IJS I know mushy crap isn't our thing but taking it back to the old school days when men took the lead, we let them & we just sat around batting our eyelashes... is probably where it's at.

Posted by DMVThat's the problem...you're the FUN girl. You have to be serious about what you want, and project that. Only then people will take you more seriously.Posted by arose32I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationshipclick to expand

Posted by Greenteai am the FUN girl. omg. lets just play all day long. pay bills, then go playPosted by DMVThat's the problem...you're the FUN girl. You have to be serious about what you want, and project that. Only then people will take you more seriously.Posted by arose32I have to be cursed. Theres no other explanation.
DMV.. I was about to post this today..
I for real don't get it. I'm hardworking, studying in Architecture, literally building my first company from the ground up.. Caring.. And I KNOW FOR A FACT... My sex is amazing... I'm so selfless... And I have to be great looking because I get the women everyone wants!!! BUT THEY BE CRAZY!!!! Like my friends laugh and say I get the crazy ones...
I have about five girls right now to this day... When they see me, they act like we talk and stuff... But they won't step up to the plate... Omg
I hang out in a totally different crowd. Ive changed alot and still no one wants to date me.
I can only be me.
It has to be all this 5th house energy. I dont come across as committal maybe. Im just loads of fun to people.
Dont get me wrong. Men and women clamor to hang out with me. Im a good time. But no relationshipclick to expand


Posted by P-Angelmanaging expectation is something ive worked on.
Go back and read your threads .. especially the ones where you're pouting over stupid shit ... like your birthday thread, for example.
Maybe bells will ring for you .. I know they did for everyone reading that thread.
to sum it up for you: you have excessive expectations on other people, and since they cannot measure up to this since it's so unrealistic, there's no place to go from there except down.
Or, you could just take the unrealistic view that some mysterious energy zoomed down and cursed the fuck out of you. to keep that view, means you don't actually have to do a self check


Posted by Gemitatinothing to be sorry about. I hate reading shit
Just want to know if at the end OP live had changed.
Can't read 14 pages, sorry.

Posted by Koniuchadone y done
Maybe just take a break from looking for relationships. Heaven knows I stopped looking.

Posted by P-AngelGod bless astrology
Or, you could just take the unrealistic view that some mysterious energy zoomed down and cursed the fuck out of you. to keep that view, means you don't actually have to do a self check

Posted by DMVYou know when they stop trying to get pregnant they get pregnant with triplets! 🙂Posted by Koniuchadone y done
Maybe just take a break from looking for relationships. Heaven knows I stopped looking.click to expand

Posted by febyThat's my Sag friend too for sure.
I hear the same thing from a sag I work with. As she's sitting there juggling numerous men through dating sites right in front of my eyes. She keeps getting the 1 date and then the next day "it's not going to work" thing. I think it's more of a be honest with yourself kind of thing, usually is.
Plus she has a tendency to give too much / share too much right away. I tried to tell her to keep her hand closer to her chest but I don't think she'll change....maybe doesn't want to even.

Posted by Gemitatioh my!!!Posted by DMVYou know when they stop trying to get pregnant they get pregnant with triplets! 🙂Posted by Koniuchadone y done
Maybe just take a break from looking for relationships. Heaven knows I stopped looking.click to expand

Posted by DMVYep! Stop trying and you will get it! 🙂Posted by Gemitatioh my!!!Posted by DMVYou know when they stop trying to get pregnant they get pregnant with triplets! 🙂Posted by Koniuchadone y done
Maybe just take a break from looking for relationships. Heaven knows I stopped looking.click to expand




Posted by sparkle111.) no. im pretty excited with alot coming at me at one time.
Do you get overwhelmed with too much at once?
That will push them away or keep you at a distance.
Do you fully trust the guys you are with with whom you get involved with physically?



Posted by HouseCleaningthat it is. lol.
ego is too big

Posted by DMV😕Posted by HouseCleaningthat it is. lol.
ego is too big
however unlike most, i can back every lil bit of it up.click to expand

r moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.
It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.
OnPosted by DMVPosted by DMVNo i dontPosted by HarukaaI wish i had a different moon.
It's your scorpio moon I guess
I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.
Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol
Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .
do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.
My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol
Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.
Good luck
I love meclick to expand

Posted by HouseCleaningnope. clean cut
what were the last 2 like? the bad boy types?

Posted by sparkle11alas, i dont see that happening...so im going to stick to be a +1 and love it
It's not your moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.
It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.
OnPosted by DMVPosted by DMVNo i dontPosted by HarukaaI wish i had a different moon.
It's your scorpio moon I guess
I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.
Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol
Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .
do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.
My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol
Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.
Good luck
I love meclick to expand
Posted by DMVWell, there it is. Youve solved your riddle 😉.Posted by sparkle11alas, i dont see that happening...so im going to stick to be a +1 and love it
It's not your moon. I have the same moon and I've had relationships.
It's probably your moon & venus.
Both stubborn.
It's probably hard for you to lower yourself and see your faults and act like the vulnerable one, ego too large and too stubborn to change.
You have to do this sometimes to make a relationship work.
OnPosted by DMVPosted by DMVNo i dontPosted by HarukaaI wish i had a different moon.
It's your scorpio moon I guess
I don't know DMV .. but maybe you're always show them that u r care so much about them .. maybe more than you are really did.
Maybe you don't play mind games ? I know it's funny but I always do it when I really want a man I really just want one in all my life but I play games for a long time that make him crazy lol
Don't be open with them, be a mysterious to make them fall for u... cuz love is about mysterious and games .
do not go with them when they ask DMV €ðŸ‘
Keep saying no in a Innocent way.
I mean be hard and don't let them in when they ask.
Just let them that you are want them but don't want them in the same time.
My sis have moon in scorpio .. and she is always ask me for a new game to play with her lover .. but sometimes she get mad at me without reason lol
Maybe you're looking for something serious, but don't tell them .. keep them chase you ..they will ask you in the end about what you really want.
Good luck
I love meclick to expand


Posted by HouseCleaningthe psychics i saw are really starting to blow my mind right now. Personal and professional life.
did these psychics help at all

Posted by DMVare they blowing your wallet too?Posted by HouseCleaningthe psychics i saw are really starting to blow my mind right now. Personal and professional life.
did these psychics help at all
the help as much as they can but i still have to rely on my what i see infront of me.click to expand

Posted by SensitiveBlues
I hope my ex goes through this he has a Scorpio moon=wack
Super selfish unloving moon
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