In Love with a Sag Girl (Page 2)

Posted by bnr7013
Where has happygolucky been all my life!?! You have us down to a science!! I'm daydreaming of burgers & some good fat D while chillin in a field of sun flowers right about now 😉

And....take the advice above MrTrealington...do YOU & stay out of her koolaid & you'll be fine. We get bored quick so you need to have a bit of mystery your damn self. Sounds like you're on the right path so don't fret.

I've been in Alabama

Posted by DwellingOnMove
The poor Ssupes was also talking to a Sag girl and then it was abruptly done.

I refuse to be drawn by this romance. (I'm an old owl. don't listen to me.)

Ehh too many ppl gave ssupes way too much of a positive outlook. Aint nobody had the heart to warn him of the downside.

Every rose has its thorns.. some are best to just admire from afar.

Posted by Happygolucky
Dude just has to decorate the cage with some bling to make her wanna come back home. Be a rock. I wish you luck bro. As a Pisces man going after a sag woman, you're gonna need it. They are flighty and leave you hanging a lot. Just be still. Panic and she's gone.

Really appreciate the advice.. and trust me, I'm taking notes galore! hahah

Posted by bnr7013
Where has happygolucky been all my life!?! You have us down to a science!! I'm daydreaming of burgers & some good fat D while chillin in a field of sun flowers right about now 😉

And....take the advice above MrTrealington...do YOU & stay out of her koolaid & you'll be fine. We get bored quick so you need to have a bit of mystery your damn self. Sounds like you're on the right path so don't fret.

Indeed!!

"Daydreaming of burgers and good fat D, while chillin in a field of sun flowers" hahaha!! Classic! 😄

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Posted by DwellingOnMove
The poor Ssupes was also talking to a Sag girl and then it was abruptly done.

I refuse to be drawn by this romance. (I'm an old owl. don't listen to me.)

Ehh too many ppl gave ssupes way too much of a positive outlook. Aint nobody had the heart to warn him of the downside.

Every rose has its thorns.. some are best to just admire from afar.

I hate roses personally.

Sunflowers have no thorns.

Just let that sink in.

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😄

Me personally, Sags are phenomenal in bed.

I wouldn't date another one. Not a chance in hell bro. Way too much work required and then the entire relationship has to be on their terms.

Most peeps don't see it like I do but it's a HUGE control issue with them.

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Posted by DwellingOnMove
The poor Ssupes was also talking to a Sag girl and then it was abruptly done.

I refuse to be drawn by this romance. (I'm an old owl. don't listen to me.)

Ehh too many ppl gave ssupes way too much of a positive outlook. Aint nobody had the heart to warn him of the downside.

Every rose has its thorns.. some are best to just admire from afar.

I hate roses personally.

Sunflowers have no thorns.

Just let that sink in.

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Hmm hmm hmm
While sunflowers represent the bright and cheery aspects that is where the similarities would end. Lol I was going to write a whole cross reference but im not giving in to my ocd

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Posted by Happygolucky
Me personally, Sags are phenomenal in bed.

I wouldn't date another one. Not a chance in hell bro. Way too much work required and then the entire relationship has to be on their terms.

Most peeps don't see it like I do but it's a HUGE control issue with them.

Well there goes that!! At least we're pretty 😉

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I'd still fuck ya for the weekend. Won't lie about that. Beyond that, gotta show ya the door

Posted by Happygolucky
Me personally, Sags are phenomenal in bed.

I wouldn't date another one. Not a chance in hell bro. Way too much work required and then the entire relationship has to be on their terms.

Most peeps don't see it like I do but it's a HUGE control issue with them.

I have a hard time with cardinals. I see it like you do, too much has to be on your terms. We see you guys as controlling 2.

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Posted by Happygolucky
Me personally, Sags are phenomenal in bed.

I wouldn't date another one. Not a chance in hell bro. Way too much work required and then the entire relationship has to be on their terms.

Most peeps don't see it like I do but it's a HUGE control issue with them.

I have a hard time with cardinals. I see it like you do, too much has to be on your terms. We see you guys as controlling 2.

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I agree.

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Posted by Happygolucky
Me personally, Sags are phenomenal in bed.

I wouldn't date another one. Not a chance in hell bro. Way too much work required and then the entire relationship has to be on their terms.

Most peeps don't see it like I do but it's a HUGE control issue with them.

I have a hard time with cardinals. I see it like you do, too much has to be on your terms. We see you guys as controlling 2.

I agree.

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Got to agree with this too 😢

It's a power struggle as someone mentioned.

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Posted by goligold
I thought he was married?

Whose married?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I read something about Ssupes flirting with a Sag girl then disappeared....I thought he was married to a Leo? I could be wrong, but I thought I read that at some point.

M

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Neh just was feeling out a leo no marriage involved

Hope everyone had a great labor day weekend! I wanted to give you all an update.. Some of the responses have definitely helped, and given me good insight. Today seemed to be my DDAY in pursuit of my dream girl. As I mentioned to earlier, that she works with me at the same company. Though different departments, she sits a few feet away from me..

We have been working on project the past couple of days.. she wasn't in the greatest moods this morning.. a bit grumpy. We started to work.. and she's been looking for a new place to stay.. she's only been out here from Seattle a few months now. I've been trying to help her find a spot, and all of a sudden.. she slams her laptop lid, and says lets talk..

I'm thinking umm ok.. LOL Then it was the let Dan have it for for a good 5min span.. well at least finally I was able to get something from her!

Her: "Ok Dan, I know you have a crush on me"
Me: Silent
Her: "What do you expect to happen, that we'll eventually date"
Me: Silent
Her: "We work together, it will not work"
Me: "This I understand, and was truly my biggest concern"
Her: "Honestly, I still have feelings for my ex"
Me: "An Ex is an Ex for a reason"
Her "You never once even asked me my status"
Me: "Oh I have, a handful of times, and only get this response, I don't want to talk about it"
Her: "I don't want to talk about my personal life at work"
Me: "This I get, and I've asked you before outside of work"
Her: "Well I don't want things to be awkward now"
Me: "They wont"
Her: "Don't change, just be you"
Me: "Of course, that's all I know how to be is Me" (thinkin, why would she say that)
Me: "At least I know I bribe you with food, haha"
Her: "Fuck you Dan, LOL"
Me: "Let's go for a break, and get some fresh air"
Her: "Ok:

Now that I was able to get her outside.. things went a little different.

Scene two.. (we're leaning up against a wall, near the pier in SF)

Her: "Dan you just wont take No for an answer"
Me: "Well I don't think that's really the case, as I believe it's just not the right time"
Her: "Why didn't you tell me how you felt, the first time we went to dinner"
Me: "Why would I want to drop a bomb like that, when it's our first time hanging"
Her: "You just wont take NO"
Me: "Nope"
Me: "As a Pisces Man.. " then she cut me off..
Her: "A Pisces!!!! My last two boyfriends were Pisces, and I feel for them hard.. both ended badly.

To be continue

Damn

Part two:

Her: "I love Pisces, I fall hard for them"
Me: "Well that's good!" trying to make light of the topic, or get the mood changed..
Her: "It's just bad timing"
Her: "Two years with my ex, and for him to get up move, become distant, and leave me"
Me: "I'm in no rush, and really all I want is to get to know you, and build a solid foundation of trust"
Her: "We are friends Dan, I do trust you. You have been the only person that has been there for me since I've moved here".
Me: " I care about you, and that's why"
Her: "I care about you too, and you've been nothing but amazing, perfect"
Me: Silent (Thinking, I'm not sure I understand what she's saying)
Her: "I hate the fact that you do things for me, and I can't do anything in return"
Me: "Honestly, the fact that I can make you smile and make you happy, is good enough"

There was a few minutes of just silence.. and then I said, "Can I tell you a story?" sure she says..

I then tell her a story, about an explorer who has been in search for a secret treasure chest. Inside this treasure chest, there was a prized Jewel that no one has ever discovered. This explorer finally was able to get this treasure chest on his radar, and begin his journey to find the prized jewel.. I explained many times, the course would change.. and the treasure chest would be discovered by others, but only one had the ability to open the treasure chest, and find the jewel. There is only one key!

I then said, You are that prized jewel, locked in a treasure chest. At that moment.. i literally saw her eyes well up.. and instantly she caught it.. Smiled.. and that was it.

We started to walk back to the office..

Then is was just normal convo, about maybe seeing a movie this weekend.. LOL

I'm thinking WTF just happened..

I'm thrown a bit.. but more determined then ever.. I am going to switch gears, and change my strategy.. i honestly feel she's more afraid, and doesn't want to admit.. there is a lot on her plate. Having to find a new spot, possibly wanting to move back to Seattle.. she expressed she does want to plant roots here, if all works out that way.

A minor road bump..

Posted by Weeds
Damn

IKR!

I will give it more time... as I know with her, it will definitely take some time..

I did ask her about her having feelings about her Ex still.. and she said, lightweight, but i will never go back to him.

At least in my books, nothing GOOD comes easy.. with no risk there is no reward!

Posted by MrTrealington
Part two:

Her: "I love Pisces, I fall hard for them"
Me: "Well that's good!" trying to make light of the topic, or get the mood changed..
Her: "It's just bad timing"
Her: "Two years with my ex, and for him to get up move, become distant, and leave me"
Me: "I'm in no rush, and really all I want is to get to know you, and build a solid foundation of trust"
Her: "We are friends Dan, I do trust you. You have been the only person that has been there for me since I've moved here".
Me: " I care about you, and that's why"
Her: "I care about you too, and you've been nothing but amazing, perfect"
Me: Silent (Thinking, I'm not sure I understand what she's saying)
Her: "I hate the fact that you do things for me, and I can't do anything in return"
Me: "Honestly, the fact that I can make you smile and make you happy, is good enough"

There was a few minutes of just silence.. and then I said, "Can I tell you a story?" sure she says..

I then tell her a story, about an explorer who has been in search for a secret treasure chest. Inside this treasure chest, there was a prized Jewel that no one has ever discovered. This explorer finally was able to get this treasure chest on his radar, and begin his journey to find the prized jewel.. I explained many times, the course would change.. and the treasure chest would be discovered by others, but only one had the ability to open the treasure chest, and find the jewel. There is only one key!

I then said, You are that prized jewel, locked in a treasure chest. At that moment.. i literally saw her eyes well up.. and instantly she caught it.. Smiled.. and that was it.

We started to walk back to the office..

Then is was just normal convo, about maybe seeing a movie this weekend.. LOL

I'm thinking WTF just happened..

I'm thrown a bit.. but more determined then ever.. I am going to switch gears, and change my strategy.. i honestly feel she's more afraid, and doesn't want to admit.. there is a lot on her plate. Having to find a new spot, possibly wanting to move back to Seattle.. she expressed she does want to plant roots here, if all works out that way.

A minor road bump..

Nice.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Just keep doing what your doing. She likes you, but she's trying to piece her life back together too.

I have it really bad for her...this has NEVER EVER happened to me. I've never been so thrown by a woman, as I am with her. No mater how hard I try, I can't get her out of my head....

I'll even go out, hit up the black book.. and make some calls.. nope, her face and name will pop up in my head.. it fuckin sux.. honestly. lol Like a lil kid in middle school, trying to win over his crush.

It's hard because i don't want any other woman, but her..... but see here's the dilema. I don't think she feels the same way... so should I? Should I play it cold now, and start to keep her at BAY.. and keep my distance? Give her even more space.. really switch gears..

I just really hope and pray, she doesn't move back to Seattle.

Dont play games now she got the ball moving so go with it. she steps u step

She already called you out LOL
Might aswell step to the plate

Posted by dontgetmewrong
You will confuse her if you go cold, and she will think that you weren't genuine one bit all that time. Still be there for her, sag needs strong ground.

However, emotionally I'd take a small step back amd let her get to know you without the pressures of something romantic. I think she likes you, but she also doesn't want to start something emotional between you two if her plans don't end uo working out there either. That's just like what her ex did to her...just up and left.

🙂

My gut wasn't to go cold.. Tho I was entertaining the thought!

Indeed, and agree with you 100% !

Posted by Weeds
She already called you out LOL
Might aswell step to the plate

Indeed!!

I don't like being called out.. I'm very competitive by nature..

To me it was almost like a challenge, to see how I would respond and react.

Remember what I said about "stay the course" "be a rock and she will come to you"?

She's a Sag. She don't really know what the fuck she wants. She just don't wanna get hurt. She's gonna try to shove you away, be mean to you and say dumb shit to drive you away. Don't even sweat it. Just leave her be and she will say "look who's still here! Hmmmmm, he's strong and steady". Keep it fun and light. She's already pondering the thought of you. Just stay cool and let her crash her spastic ass right into you.

Posted by Happygolucky
Remember what I said about "stay the course" "be a rock and she will come to you"?

She's a Sag. She don't really know what the fuck she wants. She just don't wanna get hurt. She's gonna try to shove you away, be mean to you and say dumb shit to drive you away. Don't even sweat it. Just leave her be and she will say "look who's still here! Hmmmmm, he's strong and steady". Keep it fun and light. She's already pondering the thought of you. Just stay cool and let her crash her spastic ass right into you.

Broski!!

Always on point!!

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Posted by tiziani
Her: "We work together, it will not work"

Her: "Honestly, I still have feelings for my ex"

Her: "A Pisces!!!! My last two boyfriends were Pisces, and I feel for them hard.. both ended badly."

Her: "It's just bad timing"

Her: "I hate the fact that you do things for me, and I can't do anything in return"


These are the excuses of someone who's setting the bar lower and lower for themselves and seeing how little of themselves you will accept.

For every 100 percent you give, she might give about 30 percent.

At least she was transparent about her concerns and didn't try to mug you off.

It's best to stay open and just be an example of what a solid person looks like. Maybe she might remember what that feels like in time for herself, maybe she won't.

But certainly I doubt romance is in the air. You can't help how you feel but you can certainly keep your standards by not getting involved in something that will only shortchange you.

Now that you point them out like that, I definitely see where you're coming from!

This is why I love coming here... I like to get fresh eyes, and point of views..

Being a Pisces man, who has his target set on his dreamgirl.. you can imagine the creative romantic side wanting to kick in.. LOL

Then what really sucks... is that I'm new into reading into signs..

so when I read shit like this: http://www.astrologyzone.com/forecasts/monthly/pisces_full.php

I get excited for the things I do understand.. LOL

But then moons, eclipses, and all that other jazz.. has me well.. not even sure what to say! haha

I just know the more I read into my sign, and her sign.. I want to learn more.

I will say some of it is super DEAD on!! Scary!

I'm not really sure how to approach all of it though.. I've had some ask me about my chart, WTF is a Chart?!? I was born (March 11th, 1978, San Jose, Calif, 6:56am) Who wants to get my chart!?! Since I'm a newb, and don't even know what the Chart will do, but ya 😄

Posted by MrTrealington

Posted by tiziani
Her: "We work together, it will not work"

Her: "Honestly, I still have feelings for my ex"

Her: "A Pisces!!!! My last two boyfriends were Pisces, and I feel for them hard.. both ended badly."

Her: "It's just bad timing"

Her: "I hate the fact that you do things for me, and I can't do anything in return"


These are the excuses of someone who's setting the bar lower and lower for themselves and seeing how little of themselves you will accept.

For every 100 percent you give, she might give about 30 percent.

At least she was transparent about her concerns and didn't try to mug you off.

It's best to stay open and just be an example of what a solid person looks like. Maybe she might remember what that feels like in time for herself, maybe she won't.

But certainly I doubt romance is in the air. You can't help how you feel but you can certainly keep your standards by not getting involved in something that will only shortchange you.

Now that you point them out like that, I definitely see where you're coming from!

This is why I love coming here... I like to get fresh eyes, and point of views..

Being a Pisces man, who has his target set on his dreamgirl.. you can imagine the creative romantic side wanting to kick in.. LOL

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Don't say another word about those feelings. Tuck that shit away down deep in them guts. Like I said "fun and light". Don't be doing all that romantic shit for her, she will feel helpless and it will weaken her. Don't kiss that ass either, show her you are a strong man. Trust happy. I got you bro.

Run her chart. Get her time and dob and place of birth.

Bet she has a water Venus. Maybe even water Asc.

Probly the saddest thing here is we are all single giving this guy advice smh

20 years ago I met an amazing Sag woman. She wanted me so bad but I couldn't get over my daughters mom. If she was single and I knew where she was I would marry her right now. Wouldn't think twice about it. Vegas bound like a motherfucker.

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Posted by tiziani
Her: "We work together, it will not work"

Her: "Honestly, I still have feelings for my ex"

Her: "A Pisces!!!! My last two boyfriends were Pisces, and I feel for them hard.. both ended badly."

Her: "It's just bad timing"

Her: "I hate the fact that you do things for me, and I can't do anything in return"


These are the excuses of someone who's setting the bar lower and lower for themselves and seeing how little of themselves you will accept.

For every 100 percent you give, she might give about 30 percent.

At least she was transparent about her concerns and didn't try to mug you off.

It's best to stay open and just be an example of what a solid person looks like. Maybe she might remember what that feels like in time for herself, maybe she won't.

But certainly I doubt romance is in the air. You can't help how you feel but you can certainly keep your standards by not getting involved in something that will only shortchange you.

Now that you point them out like that, I definitely see where you're coming from!

This is why I love coming here... I like to get fresh eyes, and point of views..

Being a Pisces man, who has his target set on his dreamgirl.. you can imagine the creative romantic side wanting to kick in.. LOL

Don't say another word about those feelings. Tuck that shit away down deep in them guts. Like I said "fun and light". Don't be doing all that romantic shit for her, she will feel helpless and it will weaken her. Don't kiss that ass either, show her you are a strong man. Trust happy. I got you bro.

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Good look fam!

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Who's the Sag female here...?.. I gotchu Mr. 😄

I'm a watery Sag from what I've heard about my chart.

I think she may have a cardinal moon. Her calling you out like that seems familiar.

You don't even know your chart?

Posted by Weeds
Probly the saddest thing here is we are all single giving this guy advice smh

I can feel it..

Real talk tho.. I greatly appreciate it all!

All of it has helped me deal with this journey, in a big way..

Regardless of the outcome, GOOD or BAD, I plan to keep all of you updated.

I don't even know my chart! LOL

I have a Sag bestie and they hate when you've touched the heart, but choose to back off. They act like they don't care, but deep deep down...they care a lot. Now that she trusts you, the worse thing you can do is act like she's run you off with her "Devil may care" attitude. Really, although wild, all Sag women WANT is to be so deeply loved that it's impossible for their man to leave them. They will leave if he's boring and shows no signs of life. You sound like a guy who is a LOT of fun. My Saggie bestie and Pisces man (who I'm still good friends with as well) lasted for almost 3 years. They only broke up, because he got tired of her spiraling down into criticism land after EVERYTHING he did to make her life better. He literally set her life up and didn't just upgrade her, but took her life to a WHOLE other level. She loved it, but she is not the appreciative type. She wants what she wants and then after she gets that...she wants more, and when/if she gets that, she STILL wants more. Just make sure that she's not this type of woman before you go all in.

She almost ruined the Pisces and he spent almost 200K in the time of their relationship trying to keep her happy. Cars, trips, new furniture, gadgets...hell, he even bought her a ferret on command, because that's what she wanted. She moved less than 6 months after the break up and even that poor ferret was disposable...got sent to some effin ferret ":sanctuary" in our local area.

Fast forward a couple of years after the break up and now that the guy she dogged the Pisces for won't even speak to her...she messages the Pisces yesterday.

Her: I hate you...lol, not really. I just wanted to say it one time
Him: k

LMBO!!! She and I went to dinner a couple of weeks ago and she said she missed him...I quickly changed the subject...oh hell no. My personal belief is that no one is allowed to miss someone who they dogged out. That's just shitty.

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Posted by dontgetmewrong
Who's the Sag female here...?.. I gotchu Mr. 😄

I'm a watery Sag from what I've heard about my chart.

I think she may have a cardinal moon. Her calling you out like that seems familiar.

You don't even know your chart?

Do I know you stalker??!! Stop talking to me.

And yes I do know my chart.

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Fuck you get butthurt easy. Yup, watery for sure.

Plus, you know dick about astrology. I'm watery from what I've heard. Like WTF.

Thanks to "happygolucky" I was able to run my chart!!

Now just need to learn what it all means.. I love to learn, so thanks Happygolucky, for pointing me to the right resources!

This is boring AF.

Pluto in Scorpio. Sets the bar low and hangs on to exes. Also, sag Venus.

Had one of my close friends, give her a ride home tonight...

He was able to introduce her to his GF, and they both hit it off! The more solid, and reliable friends I can introduce her to.. the better chances she'll stay! 🙂

From what he told me, is they got into a big conversation..

Then my name came up, and she starting saying nothing but nice things about me.. not even sure how my name came up, but hey! It came up!!

He left and came back.. and she was talking to his GF about how all 4 of us, should go out soon. I like the fact that she was leading that, and wanting that to happen!

Sounds like today's talk, did something!!

I've been giving you a dose of reality about sags.

Next I'll be giving you pointers on how not to get your heart broken. You're acting like a puppy with two peters about this girl. Calm your tits. If you don't this will be over as fast as it started.

TRUST ME

Posted by Happygolucky
I've been giving you a dose of reality about sags.

Next I'll be giving you pointers on how not to get your heart broken. You're acting like a puppy with two peters about this girl. Calm your tits. If you don't this will be over as fast as it started.

TRUST ME

Man Can't help but get happy, when I got that positive INTEL..

Oh I get you bro.. Just expressing my Piscean joy! hahahah!!

Hehe SHOW LESS definitely. Just space it out!!! Or shell know too much how youre into it and take over control. lol

Oh Pisces what am I going to do with you.

I like this Pisces joy though.

Interested in seeing these two charts. Cross your fingers that she has a lot of earth or water.

I'll be linking both of our charts shortly.

Here is my chart

Here is hers, unfortunately I don't know the exact time..

What was her full birthdate?

Posted by Weeds
What was her full birthdate?

Nov 29, 1990