Onimusha01
@Onimusha01
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Question To my fellows Sagittarius
This is my problem with Aquas
Relentless in winning you over only to decide they changed their minds and just want to be friends after you give in
Please just let the man be😒
Relentless in winning you over only to decide they changed their minds and just want to be friends after you give in
Please just let the man be😒
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Posted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
Super creepy. Like change my locks install a security cam creepy.
I cut you off for a reason. Go away.
I cut you off for a reason. Go away.
Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !click to expand
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Super creepy. Like change my locks install a security cam creepy.
I cut you off for a reason. Go away.
The reason why he cut me off has nothing to do w me trying to be creepy.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Posted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
Are you male or female?
Posted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Posted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirstyclick to expand
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.click to expand
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spirit
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spiritclick to expand
Right, in your later post you indicated that you want to do it because you feel guilty.
That's not the signal it sends at all.
Just let it be. He'll get over it.
As an Aqua woman, it makes me cringe to see this post.
Get out ya feelings. Ain't no money in there. Jk
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?click to expand
It would annoy me
I had a friend who did this...I never acknowledged her either. I felt a bit embarrassed for her
Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.click to expand
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.
Also fwiw I don’t think it’s going to make you feel any better by doing this
Best case scenario he won’t acknowledge the gesture at all
Best case scenario he won’t acknowledge the gesture at all
Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?
It would annoy me
I had a friend who did this...I never acknowledged her either. I felt a bit embarrassed for herclick to expand
@brianafay
That's the thing, im not even looking for him to acknowledge me. Not to even contact me to thank me, Actually I wasn't even planning to put my name on it...
I have never been with someone with depression and after I realized how bad someone w depression can feel, I always tried to help him w the less knowledge I had. He is not very open to new ways to treat depression, like meditation, relaxing, he just believe in pills. and doctors. And there is something I found that can help him relax that im pretty sure he has no idea can help him ease his stress ( cuz he really doesnt look into other alternatives) and I want to get that for him.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.click to expand
Yeah I get it.
He most likely is going to take it the wrong way.
Apologizing is a enough.
Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spirit
Right, in your later post you indicated that you want to do it because you feel guilty.
That's not the signal it sends at all.
Just let it be. He'll get over it.
As an Aqua woman, it makes me cringe to see this post.
Get out ya feelings. Ain't no money in there. Jkclick to expand
hahaha... we wouldnt be aquas if we think like normal people... haha
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?
It would annoy me
I had a friend who did this...I never acknowledged her either. I felt a bit embarrassed for her
@brianafay
That's the thing, im not even looking for him to acknowledge me. Not to even contact me to thank me, Actually I wasn't even planning to put my name on it...
I have never been with someone with depression and after I realized how bad someone w depression can feel, I always tried to help him w the less knowledge I had. He is not very open to new ways to treat depression, like meditation, relaxing, he just believe in pills. and doctors. And there is something I found that can help him relax that im pretty sure he has no idea can help him ease his stress ( cuz he really doesnt look into other alternatives) and I want to get that for him.
click to expand
Sigh
Do what you must then
But I really don’t feel it’s your place 🤷🏼♀️
Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.
Yeah I get it.
He most likely is going to take it the wrong way.
Apologizing is a enough.click to expand
Yeah, now that you say it that way... I guess you right!
Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?
It would annoy me
I had a friend who did this...I never acknowledged her either. I felt a bit embarrassed for her
@brianafay
That's the thing, im not even looking for him to acknowledge me. Not to even contact me to thank me, Actually I wasn't even planning to put my name on it...
I have never been with someone with depression and after I realized how bad someone w depression can feel, I always tried to help him w the less knowledge I had. He is not very open to new ways to treat depression, like meditation, relaxing, he just believe in pills. and doctors. And there is something I found that can help him relax that im pretty sure he has no idea can help him ease his stress ( cuz he really doesnt look into other alternatives) and I want to get that for him.
Sigh
Do what you must then
But I really don’t feel it’s your place 🤷🏼♀️click to expand
Yeah, you got me on this one.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spirit
Right, in your later post you indicated that you want to do it because you feel guilty.
That's not the signal it sends at all.
Just let it be. He'll get over it.
As an Aqua woman, it makes me cringe to see this post.
Get out ya feelings. Ain't no money in there. Jk
hahaha... we wouldnt be aquas if we think like normal people... hahaclick to expand
Exactly. People apply their thought process to us and read us totally wrong. That's why we don't do well in relationships.
In this case, looks like you were about to make the same mistake (applying your thought process to someone else). If someone did this for you, you'd probably think they were attempting to right their wrong, nothing more.
Good thing you decided to post.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by LadyNeptune
Super creepy. Like change my locks install a security cam creepy.
I cut you off for a reason. Go away.
The reason why he cut me off has nothing to do w me trying to be creepy.
🤣🤣🤣🤣click to expand
The reason is a non factor. Point is he cut you off. You springing up at his house = creepy
If he’s as depressed as you say and you are as concerned as you say then you would respect his wishes and leave him alone.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.click to expand
Nothing says “I don’t want to be friends” like a valentines gift.
Slow down and think things through.
Posted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
its not only your Aqua sun grand gestures talking, but the cancer moon nurturing and romantic and dont let it be.....
I used to think like this when younger, this "leaving some gift on the doorstep" kind of romantics, never did it fortunately....
only after someone did this to me I felt how very inappropriate and stalkerish it is
dont do it
and, dont forget, this situation is not your fault. You told him the sex was bla, because it was, and because he didnt want to do anything sexual or not even cuddling or kissing prior to that
just for now, let it be
so far you have good memories.... if you start the overcompensating and overnurturing, this would turn into "fatal attraction"
as hard as it is, you cant do anything now.... just let him be
PS. my brother is an Aqua sun with cancer moon as well, and he is a king of these kind of gestures.... filling his girlfriends room in the night with flowers for her birthday, telling a girl they are going to some market and took her to Venice, etc...... it was in existing relationships, so it wasnt so creepy, but it wasnt as well received how he thought it would...... and, he did it really for himself, its in our nature
so, try to tame the urge and dont do it, imho
PS. english is not my native language, so I was just wondering, if you say: my fellow Sags, I would think you are a Sag as well?
Posted by Ganon
Girl, reach into your inner Aqua and detach!
u cant imagine how it pisses me off that when im into the relationship Im 100% aqua. My moon kicks in when things get dificult.. and it then gets me on my feelings lmao!
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Ganon
Girl, reach into your inner Aqua and detach!
@ganon
u cant imagine how it pisses me off that when im into the relationship Im 100% aqua. My moon kicks in when things get dificult.. and it then gets me on my feelings lmao!click to expand
Posted by Sagicorn
I'd think that person is pathetic and desperate. Either let it go and forget about it or simply apologize and be done with it. That idea is just to get a man pissed at you even more. Like, "why the f she doesn't leave me alone already..."
true
Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spirit
Right, in your later post you indicated that you want to do it because you feel guilty.
That's not the signal it sends at all.
Just let it be. He'll get over it.
As an Aqua woman, it makes me cringe to see this post.
Get out ya feelings. Ain't no money in there. Jk
hahaha... we wouldnt be aquas if we think like normal people... haha
Exactly. People apply their thought process to us and read us totally wrong. That's why we don't do well in relationships.
In this case, looks like you were about to make the same mistake (applying your thought process to someone else). If someone did this for you, you'd probably think they were attempting to right their wrong, nothing more.
Good thing you decided to post.
click to expand
Now that you mention this, Yeah, Most of the times I do or say something .... people usually take it the wrong way.... And a lot of times I have to end up explaining them what I really meant ....
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.click to expand
In the words of my fellow Sag... the great Brianafay..."this is what bothers me about Aquas."
That's very arrogant and selfish of you. You know you were wrong but yet it's up to him to rekindle the friendship. Dont worry...he wont try. The reason? You haven't taken ownership of what you've done. Second, as Still illustrated, this is about you alleviating your sense of guilt and not at all about actually caring about him...which adds insult to I jury...all of which he seen and hence his evasiveness.
It would depend on the reason I cut the person off. If it was really nasty and I didn't care anymore, I'd probably be confused and maybe a bit annoyed. And I'd likely drop off the gift at their place with a no thank you note lol
If it was a situation where I cared about the individual but cut them off to protect myself or a possible toxic relationship, I'd probably still be confused and hurt.
I think it would be better just to get in touch with him over phone or text, if he's willing. Just check up on him, that's probably the kindest thing you could do.
If it was a situation where I cared about the individual but cut them off to protect myself or a possible toxic relationship, I'd probably still be confused and hurt.
I think it would be better just to get in touch with him over phone or text, if he's willing. Just check up on him, that's probably the kindest thing you could do.
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by Onimusha01Posted by STILLPosted by dilettantePosted by STILLPosted by Onimusha01
How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
+ 1
smells thirsty
And all she wants is to relieve her conscious of guilt.
If that's the case, she needs to just let it be or apologize.
Someone who finally Gets it. Thank you ! I did apologize. But I think I caused him to get into a Bad Depression Mode. And thats whats till haunts me. tho.
But I not looking to rekindle the friendship, not unless he reach out to me if he ever does.
In the words of my fellow Sag... the great Brianafay..."this is what bothers me about Aquas."
That's very arrogant and selfish of you. You know you were wrong but yet it's up to him to rekindle the friendship. Dont worry...he wont try. The reason? You haven't taken ownership of what you've done. Second, as Still illustrated, this is about you alleviating your sense of guilt and not at all about actually caring about him...which adds insult to I jury...all of which he seen and hence his evasiveness.click to expand
I guess you missed what's really happening here. I did take ownership of what i did to him and I apologized to him in person. face to face. But I feel he wasnt 100% honest about how I made him feel. If I didnt care about him, I wouldnt feel guilty, I wouldnt even been worrying.. this post wouldnt even exist. Dont you think?
Posted by FireStarter
It would depend on the reason I cut the person off. If it was really nasty and I didn't care anymore, I'd probably be confused and maybe a bit annoyed. And I'd likely drop off the gift at their place with a no thank you note lol
If it was a situation where I cared about the individual but cut them off to protect myself or a possible toxic relationship, I'd probably still be confused and hurt.
I think it would be better just to get in touch with him over phone or text, if he's willing. Just check up on him, that's probably the kindest thing you could do.
I got a little bit concern about some intimacy matters... and I brought it out to him. but while I was just being brutally honest... He was taking it at heart. Next day he cut me off. And based on some things I saw him doing after that day I believe i triggered his depression. I did apologized in person.
I know if I text him, he will probably answer me at his own pace, but as he was the one who stop contacting me, I dont want to bother him.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Antiochus
I think you are looking at this from the wrong angle.
The real question is what would dropping that gift achieve?
His depression won't go away due a to gift and most likely make things worse for him due to confusion or potential anger.
Let's say you dropped the gift, what would that change for you? Probably next to nothing and maybe even the opposite since you pretty much opened another emotional battlefiled for yourself that most likely won't get resolved without his involvment.
Bottom line is that you don't finish something by opening more pathways as that is the very opposite of closing a case.
The gift will probalby made him ease hits depression. which is what im most concern about... ... Its a device used for relaxation when you have depression. So contrary to what some people in here are thinking. Yes, I do feel guilty of probably causing his depression. And if I didnt care about him I wouldnt be even posting this in here. I would of just let it be and walk out like he dont matter. But yeah I guess whatever I try to do know will just make things worst....I will just relax myself and let things be.click to expand
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Antiochus
I think you are looking at this from the wrong angle.
The real question is what would dropping that gift achieve?
His depression won't go away due a to gift and most likely make things worse for him due to confusion or potential anger.
Let's say you dropped the gift, what would that change for you? Probably next to nothing and maybe even the opposite since you pretty much opened another emotional battlefiled for yourself that most likely won't get resolved without his involvment.
Bottom line is that you don't finish something by opening more pathways as that is the very opposite of closing a case.
The gift will help him ease his depression, which is what really worries me now.... Its a device used for relaxation when you have depression. So contrary to what some people in here are thinking. Yes, I do feel guilty of probably causing his depression. And if I didnt care about him I wouldnt be even posting this in here. I would of just let it be and walk out like he dont matter. But yeah I guess whatever I try to do know will just make things worst....I will just relax myself and let things be.click to expand
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by Antiochus
I think you are looking at this from the wrong angle.
The real question is what would dropping that gift achieve?
His depression won't go away due a to gift and most likely make things worse for him due to confusion or potential anger.
Let's say you dropped the gift, what would that change for you? Probably next to nothing and maybe even the opposite since you pretty much opened another emotional battlefiled for yourself that most likely won't get resolved without his involvment.
Bottom line is that you don't finish something by opening more pathways as that is the very opposite of closing a case.click to expand
Why would you send a gift on VD? Do it on another day if you have to
Posted by brianafayPosted by Onimusha01
@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !click to expand
No! She must drop the present! Don’t you get it? She wants nothing to do with him...just drop the present!
...even if it’ll screw up his VD...and he doesn’t want to talk to him because she doesn’t force people talking to her if they don’t want to! Just making them feel like shot because he didn’t drop her present...you know...that shit...
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by FireStarter
It would depend on the reason I cut the person off. If it was really nasty and I didn't care anymore, I'd probably be confused and maybe a bit annoyed. And I'd likely drop off the gift at their place with a no thank you note lol
If it was a situation where I cared about the individual but cut them off to protect myself or a possible toxic relationship, I'd probably still be confused and hurt.
I think it would be better just to get in touch with him over phone or text, if he's willing. Just check up on him, that's probably the kindest thing you could do.
I got a little bit concern about some intimacy matters... and I brought it out to him. but while I was just being brutally honest... He was taking it at heart. Next day he cut me off. And based on some things I saw him doing after that day I believe i triggered his depression. I did apologized in person.
I know if I text him, he will probably answer me at his own pace, but as he was the one who stop contacting me, I dont want to bother him.click to expand
Not that I don't think it was kind of you to apologize but don't be guilty for triggering his depression. If he's truly depressed it has nothing to do with you. And unfortunately anything can set it off, especially if he's not seeking help. And if it's something that was hurting both of you, ending the relationship was probably for the best, again since he refused help.
But sending him a gift especially on Valentine's day, and cause he's an ex, will send weird mixed signals. I still think checking in would be better. You have to realize with Sags and people with depression, often times they will not reach out to you, even if they want that. By "bothering him" you could very well be making his day. Give it a shot, if you try and you get an explicit "leave me alone" response, then hey at least you tried.
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@brianafay
I did not mention I want to be friends. I do not force people to talk to me, if they dont want to.
Right, so just let him be !
I dont know if you get it... and i might sound a little bit selfish here... I dont want to do it for him... I want to do it for me... I have a guilt feeling.
So going back to the main question : how would you feel if someone does that ?
It would annoy me
I had a friend who did this...I never acknowledged her either. I felt a bit embarrassed for her
@brianafay
That's the thing, im not even looking for him to acknowledge me. Not to even contact me to thank me, Actually I wasn't even planning to put my name on it...
I have never been with someone with depression and after I realized how bad someone w depression can feel, I always tried to help him w the less knowledge I had. He is not very open to new ways to treat depression, like meditation, relaxing, he just believe in pills. and doctors. And there is something I found that can help him relax that im pretty sure he has no idea can help him ease his stress ( cuz he really doesnt look into other alternatives) and I want to get that for him.
Sigh
Do what you must then
But I really don’t feel it’s your place 🤷🏼♀️click to expand
Are you stupid or you just playing one? Woman said she is dropping nameless present in hope to rekindle friendship...nameless present...so he will have no idea...whom is he rekindling...and what they are rekindling. And man is half crazy to begin with. Don’t you get it? 🤦♀️
Lmao
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How would you feel if someone you cut off drops you a present for Valentine's Day at your door even tho we dont talk anymore.? will you think its creepy or you take it in a nice way?
Here's why I want to do this : My ex Sagittarius suffers from Depression, He might of have other reasons to cut me off, But I feel it was bc of something really ugly that I told him. And I cant stop feeling guilty for it.
Aquarius overthinking mode 🤔
It sends two messages. You want him back and you're desperate.
Well, thats why I want to see others opinions, its none of the Above tho. I Just have a Kindred Spirit
Right, in your later post you indicated that you want to do it because you feel guilty.
That's not the signal it sends at all.
Just let it be. He'll get over it.
As an Aqua woman, it makes me cringe to see this post.
Get out ya feelings. Ain't no money in there. Jk
hahaha... we wouldnt be aquas if we think like normal people... haha
Exactly. People apply their thought process to us and read us totally wrong. That's why we don't do well in relationships.
In this case, looks like you were about to make the same mistake (applying your thought process to someone else). If someone did this for you, you'd probably think they were attempting to right their wrong, nothing more.
Good thing you decided to post.
Now that you mention this, Yeah, Most of the times I do or say something .... people usually take it the wrong way.... And a lot of times I have to end up explaining them what I really meant ....click to expand
So you HAVE to talk at all?
Just listen...it won’t kill you...you not a Gemini not Aries...you’ll be fine...just don’t forget to breathe...lol
I would probably cry cause no ones ever been that nice to me
Not sure what u ended up doing or if u decided what to do yet but I would let it go if I were u... also strange to leave something at someone’s door like that
Not a Sag, I’m an Aries
Not a Sag, I’m an Aries
This is sweet. What happened with you and your boo? You reach out yet? Just cause he can wait a while to contact you, doesn't mean you should.
Or just ship it to me. I love surprises! 😛
He will know who the gift is from anyways, it won't be creepy, just sweet and caring.
Or just ship it to me. I love surprises! 😛
He will know who the gift is from anyways, it won't be creepy, just sweet and caring.
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This is sweet. What happened with you and your boo? You reach out yet? Just cause he can wait a while to contact you, doesn't mean you should.
Or just ship it to me. I love surprises! 😛
He will know who the gift is from anyways, it won't be creepy, just sweet and caring.
@saggurl88
Lets go private. inbox me.
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