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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...
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I have always hated the months of Jan, Feb, March they were awful and I had that accident where I almost died and my car was totaled. My relationship was really up and down too. But currently things are looking way up. School is going well and my schedule is freeing up again and I will have time for things that are important to me and space. Me and the pisces are doing good but I also feel protected by the universe if that doesn't work out dating wise. I'm finally good again as we get rid of the last awful months of winter and head into spring and summer.
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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂
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This is exactly my situation. Do I move away from where my sons live, and give up the highest paying job I've ever had to live more healthy and peacefully? With a man I love but have only been dating for 15 months? Tough decisions, but if it doesn't work we can always come back @RooSagicorn. The thought of living somewhere besides NY is very appealing...I'm burnt out.
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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂
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Sorry about all the stress - sounds like you just keep throwing this back and forth in your head. But your job is pretty much done as far as daily mothering so go do you. As long as you have the means to visit and of course you will keep in touch for advise and love. They are strong because you raised them well. Be a role model and step back out there - it will be the experience of a lifetime and I don't think anyone would ever regret it. In 5 or so years you are not happy, you at least will have the means to return.
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Posted by RooSagicorn

I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂


Sorry about all the stress - sounds like you just keep throwing this back and forth in your head. But your job is pretty much done as far as daily mothering so go do you. As long as you have the means to visit and of course you will keep in touch for advise and love. They are strong because you raised them well. Be a role model and step back out there - it will be the experience of a lifetime and I don't think anyone would ever regret it. In 5 or so years you are not happy, you at least will have the means to return.


I know but it’s hard!! Lol I own a townhouse here. I’m thinking about keeping & renting it out. Maybe to my son or daughter. And make decision later about coming back or not. Might make me set for retirement if I don’t fall in love with someone & things change..
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Yes it's hard. You're getting there - the older and wiser we get the better planning we can accomplish - yes, a fall back plan and who knows if your children will not always stay in that area anyway. they have their own paths to travel now. If you fall in love then it's still being rented and paid for until you decide to change that. Sometimes when you just move the gears into forward you start rolling along slowly and eventually you get there.
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I'm not doing too bad actually. Moved into my new home late last year and started a new job which has been going well.

Old situations have come back but my approach has been different and I'm finally defeating negative situations with grace.

Definately a spiritual process...It's tough but obviously I'm being given the opportunity to deal with old hurts.

Relationship with the Pisces has been much better and just a moment ago the ex Libra has tried to weedle his way back in. Managed to gain strength in what I know about him to tell him there's no way back without being led by my feelings.

All in all a positive time.
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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂


Sorry about all the stress - sounds like you just keep throwing this back and forth in your head. But your job is pretty much done as far as daily mothering so go do you. As long as you have the means to visit and of course you will keep in touch for advise and love. They are strong because you raised them well. Be a role model and step back out there - it will be the experience of a lifetime and I don't think anyone would ever regret it. In 5 or so years you are not happy, you at least will have the means to return.


I know but it’s hard!! Lol I own a townhouse here. I’m thinking about keeping & renting it out. Maybe to my son or daughter. And make decision later about coming back or not. Might make me set for retirement if I don’t fall in love with someone & things change..


Yes it's hard. You're getting there - the older and wiser we get the better planning we can accomplish - yes, a fall back plan and who knows if your children will not always stay in that area anyway. they have their own paths to travel now. If you fall in love then it's still being rented and paid for until you decide to change that. Sometimes when you just move the gears into forward you start rolling along slowly and eventually you get there.


Yes that is what seems to be happening in my planning. I jumped at a chance last year to work on my cpa license. But no I remember why I didn’t think it was worth it. More about having a life than more of a career. Oh my brother & his husband live there too. They just moved back a couple of years ago. But opposite side of LA from where I want to go.
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sounds good - yes, keep that balance - because we are not going to be dying and saying gee, I wish I'd spent more time at work
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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂


Sorry about all the stress - sounds like you just keep throwing this back and forth in your head. But your job is pretty much done as far as daily mothering so go do you. As long as you have the means to visit and of course you will keep in touch for advise and love. They are strong because you raised them well. Be a role model and step back out there - it will be the experience of a lifetime and I don't think anyone would ever regret it. In 5 or so years you are not happy, you at least will have the means to return.


I know but it’s hard!! Lol I own a townhouse here. I’m thinking about keeping & renting it out. Maybe to my son or daughter. And make decision later about coming back or not. Might make me set for retirement if I don’t fall in love with someone & things change..


Yes it's hard. You're getting there - the older and wiser we get the better planning we can accomplish - yes, a fall back plan and who knows if your children will not always stay in that area anyway. they have their own paths to travel now. If you fall in love then it's still being rented and paid for until you decide to change that. Sometimes when you just move the gears into forward you start rolling along slowly and eventually you get there.


Yes that is what seems to be happening in my planning. I jumped at a chance last year to work on my cpa license. But no I remember why I didn’t think it was worth it. More about having a life than more of a career. Oh my brother & his husband live there too. They just moved back a couple of years ago. But opposite side of LA from where I want to go.


sounds good - yes, keep that balance - because we are not going to be dying and saying gee, I wish I'd spent more time at work


Yes that is exactly where my process is taking me. It’s expensive there.. I just need to be able to afford it. So don’t know how this will turn out & why I want to keep my townhouse. Time for an adventure?
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you could get a real tiny place until you get a better feel for the area and what's available maybe outside that expensive area but still close enough to commute - remember you will need to have rental income that will pay for the townhouse
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I’m in transition. Big changes are coming and big decisions to make. I feel it..

Empty nest coming and the next phase.. just depends on how fast the change is depending on if I leap and take a risk or stay and take the safe route.. i’m thinking about risking it.


why not, you could always have a back up plan in case the risky way doesn't pan out the way you hoped ...


Two issues. It would mean moving away from the area my kids are at. This the biggest problem for my heart. Second I have opportunity here that would help for the future. But then again maybe it’s not worth it. It’s just money.

I’m so stressed out and my daughter is trying to push me away so I’ll go.. but is it really to prepare? kills me either way. If you always live for the kids, do you just end up settling for whatever life gives you or do you go out & get it because you have raised them & now it’s time for you. Damn Cap placements are so maternal & the sag sun wants to go explore what life has to offer.. not just work hard & make money. Omg my placements are in battle 😂😂

This is exactly my situation. Do I move away from where my sons live, and give up the highest paying job I've ever had to live more healthy and peacefully? With a man I love but have only been dating for 15 months? Tough decisions, but if it doesn't work we can always come back @RooSagicorn. The thought of living somewhere besides NY is very appealing...I'm burnt out.


Same & opposite lol

This me going home to LA. We moved to the “peace & quiet “ 12+ years ago for better place to raise kids. Divorce, and I got stuck here with no support system. Only thing I have is the kids really and I had the Cap but that didn’t work. I want to go home.... I have support there and lots more options.

Well except I have an option here to get my cpa license.. which would help but I’m not sure it’s worth it now. What I found out is peace & tranquility is within not the busyness of the outside world. I miss it, the city, the beach and people. I am much more at peace with myself within and the cpa job creates stress. And I’d rather do what I used to do in LA. Need to find a decent job though & just do it 😳 best friend there really wants me to move & well a certain person has been trying to get me to for 4 years. Lots more people & family too. Just not my kids 😥
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It's a lot to consider, but I've been doing the Long Island rat race for a long, long time. I'm ready for something more tranquil where I can be active outdoors most of the year, like my hometown. And with beaches that you don't have to wait until July to go in. And I'm tired of fighting the traffic that 2.8+million people create, spending 2 hours a day traveling to/from work. What's the worst that can happen, we don't like it and move back? I'm ready for a change...the scorp is ready for a change too. Good luck to you with your decision, it's your time to shine! 🙂